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Life Before Man

3.4 of 5 stars 3.40  ·  rating details  ·  3,680 ratings  ·  203 reviews
"Margaret Atwood has always been an adventurous writer."
Elizabeth and Nate's marriage is deteriorating slowly. They each take lovers, but the man Elizabeth is seeing commits an irrevocable act....Lesje and William live together, but are ambivalent about it. Nate is becoming obsessed with Lesje, who works with Elizabeth, and as the lives of the two couples...more
Paperback, 361 pages
Published April 13th 1998 by Anchor Books (first published 1979)
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Apr 21, 2010 Tatiana rated it 2 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: dedicated Atwood fans
Shelves: 2010, contemporary
The point of this novel is lost on me. Am I not sophisticated enough to understand it? Or is it just pretentiously pointless? I don't know...

At the center of "Life Before Man" is a married couple. Elizabeth is an administrative worker at a historical museum, Nate is an ex-lawyer turned wood toy maker. The two have been together for over 10 years, they have 2 children, but their marriage is a sham. Elizabeth has been through a string of lovers and encourages her husband to do the same - find love...more
Life Before Man by Margaret Atwood is a thoroughly disturbing read. It is beautifully written and imaginatively constructed. The prose is a delight, as are insights into character and comments on contemporary life which, in Life Before Man, happens around mid-1970s Toronto. What is disturbing about this tale of the eternal triangle, the love triangle, of course, is that these people seem to be imprisoned by the inevitable. Theirs, by the way, is less of a triangle than a dodecagon. They all seem...more

I can see myself reading it at the first time. Confused and rather belligerent it was such a relief to read how other people (albeit imaginary) could make such a hash of their lifes. My rather manic older review made me want to pat my old self on the head and tell her everything will turn out fine.

Reading it in a much calm frame of mind and with more self confidence, I still love Atwood's writing. Only now I can see and think more of the horrible tangled mess and nuances of its destructi...more
Aug 07, 2007 Rachel rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: fans of DINOSAURS
Shelves: for-a-class
This was one of the first Atwood books I read in a major author seminar on her and I was just bowled over by how sharp it was. In this book, Atwood has immense reverence, I think, for human resilience...but none for human relationships. A very interesting naturalist bent going on, too.
There's a number of thing i Just couldn't get over, which is why I ultimately gave this book a two:

1. I'm puzzled by the need for Parts... 5 of them? There wasn't really any change in theme or anything.

2. So this was the thought of a "Modern Marriage" from the mid-late 1970's? Blug! Just an open relationship in which we (the reader) grow to (kinda) sympathize with the Home-Wrecker.

3. Speaking of the Home-Wrecker, non of the character were very likable. (I even grew to dislike Lesje... the least...more
Much recommended 1979 novel. Atwood has outdone herself is the consensus.
If there are such things as "poet's novels," Margaret Atwood writes them. Each of hers has a controlling, spooking metaphor; here the central idea is that today's men and women live in an era that is without the consolations of history, in which old forms are dying out, not to reappear. So it's no accident that the women here work with remnants of the pa...more
This novel, set in Toronto from late 1976 to the summer of 1978, is centered around 3 people: Elizabeth & Nate Schoenhof, a married couple with 2 young daughters; and Lesje, a paleontologist more at home with dinosaurs and fossils than with most people. The Schoenhofs have been married for 10 years and find that they are not well-matched.

Elizabeth, a rather self-assured woman and museum administrator who likes to feel she can control almost any situation and exert her influence on almost an...more
It wasn't my favorite, but as the novel progressed I was able to see some of the traits and themes that Atwood develops in her later novels.

It was hard to feel sympathetic for any of the characters, but I think she accurately brings to life those characteristics within all of us that are awful. You are frustrated by Elizabeth's desire to make everyone miserable because you've probably thought to do that. You are angered that Lesje is unable to stand up for herself because you've experienced the...more
Mrs. Miska
Life Before Man is the story of Elizabeth, Nate, and Lesje (pronounced Lashia). Nate and Elizabeth are married, but unhappily so, and have agreed to basically live in the same house for the benefit of their two daughters and keep lovers on the side. Lesje is Nate's lover, but no fling; she is the one worth breaking up his home for. Conflict, hurt feelings, and manipulative behaviors ensue.

I admired plenty of things while reading this book. Told from the third person-omniscient point of view, the...more
Kristen Coppess
Sex-starved Canadian Palentologists sleeping with each other's spouses, commiting suicide, building models of pre-historic mammals...sound vaguely interesting. Strangely not. Atwood explores the effect each employees maternal figures played in their life choices. The characters and reactions are flawlessly believable but as the reader, I frankly didn't care. They made their beds (literally) so I don't feel for them when they face disillusionment for lying in it. I just feel bad for the parents t...more
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Rachael Eyre
I approached Life Before Man with some trepidation. I hadn't read or even heard of it before (unusual for a hardcore Atwood fan) and when I glimpsed the reviews, they weren't altogether promising.

What I found was both more and frustratingly less than expected. The story of a triangle (I hesitate to call it 'love' since the arguable lead, Elizabeth, has long since discarded that quality), it follows Elizabeth, her all but ex husband Nate and his new flame Lesje (pronounced Lashia). It ticks off a...more
Andrea Ika
Imprisoned by walls of their own construction, here are three people, each in midlife, in midcrisis, forced to make choices--after the rules have changed. Elizabeth, with her controlled sensuality, her suppressed rage, is married to the wrong man. She has just lost her latest lover to suicide. Nate, her gentle, indecisive husband, is planning to leave her for Lesje, a perennial innocent who prefers dinosaurs to men. Hanging over them all is the ghost of Elizabeth's dead lover...and the dizzying...more
Though the characters are vivid and their situation is well constructed to be interesting, I just didn't find this to be one my more favorite Atwoods. It seemed mired much of the time and seemed to peter out as opposed to end. Maybe it was supposed to, but I didn't end up caring for it as much.
I love Atwood, but I am never sure what to recommend to people as an introduction. I think this book solved that issue. It is wonderful, and the most Atwood book I have read so far.

The inner dialogues are great. The rotation of reading things from Elizabeth, Nate and Lesje’s perspective is insightful. Knowing what they are all thinking and feeling adds depth to their interactions. They are all damaged, all flawed, but all sympathetic……even Elizabeth.

Elizabeth is the least likeable of the three...more
Here's the thing. It's Margaret Atwood. The writing? It's beautiful. It's like a dream. No one can weave language like she can. It's the only reason I kept going with the book.

But, unfortunately, Atwood told my least favorite story. Life Before Man is about self-involved suburbanites, suffering a midlife crisis and re-evaluating their choices (mainly their marriages). The stakes aren't terribly high. No one has anything to lose by making the choices they agonize over. There's not even a pay off...more
Frances Sawaya
There were times when reading this book that I felt almost as if I were reading case histories, sort of floating above each character, watching and summarizing. Quite a different use of Atwood language from "Surfacing" with its poetic flow of fiction. There were few times when Atwood flipped words/phrases as part of stories. "She flips through the racks, looking for something hat might become her, something she might become." Wish there had been more of those.
Terrific metaphors throughout! Poor...more
Randi-lee Robyn
Just a quick review to explain the low rating... I found this book frustrating in that it was ALMOST tragically beautiful. The characters and the story had moments where I really felt the beauty of Atwood's writing, but more often than that I found the plot and characters irritating in their abandonment of life. I got a feeling they were all seeking love while afraid of it at the same time; this is what I found tragically beautiful. That said, no one every really did much about it, except maybe...more
After reading three of Atwood's works, I have finally realized what it is that irritates me about her style. I once thought it was the lack of quotation marks, as if everything is an internal narration and nobody really interacted with anyone else - and that is irritating - but I find her work to be thoroughly *gray.* I find no passion in her characters. They are all perennially muddled and bland and sad, and that is depressing. What is life without passion, and how can one portray life without...more
I hated it.
Jul 29, 2014 Monique rated it 2 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Dedicated Atwood fans
This book would have gotten a 1 star but since I did manage to finish it (albeit painfully) it gets two as my one star ratings are for books too horrendous to finish.

After reading this book I am still not entirely sure what it is about. There was no real point to the novel, it just felt like Atwood was writing a very long and drawn out autobiography of three people (with a few minor characters mentioned). The people would be Elizabeth, Nate and Lesja. Elizabeth is manipulative, selfish and gree...more
I listened to this on my commute and it ended today.

I found myself really disliking many of these characters for not standing up for themselves. I had a hard time relating to the late 70's attitudes towards marriage and life. It starts with the violent suicide of the wife's ex-lover and that in and of itself was hard to firmly grasp. The couple had apparently had an open, sexless marriage for a while and were staying together "for the kids" and the wife's place in society. Though everyone seemed...more
Jun 29, 2009 Kari rated it 2 of 5 stars
Shelves: drama
I'm not a fan of this Margaret Atwood novel. Overall, I love her work, but I was disappointed. At the end the book redeemed itself, but still it wasn't very good.
Life Before Man examines the difficulties people face in their relationships: cheating, divorce, beginning a relationship when one person has kids. In respect to these situations, the novel does well to show how people fall in and out of love. However, the novel also demonstrates how selfish these characters are; they have little conce...more
This is my first Atwood book so I've probably missed alot of what the author intended. Nonetheless, I found the book very complex and multi-layered. The three primary characters are weak, pitiful humans who seem caught in the quagmire of life. There's nothing to endear these people to the reader. In fact, there isn't really a typical plot. There are chapters - and these chapters, written by one of the three character's voice, takes the reader into a subhole of the person's life, be it work, rela...more
Life Before Man was tough for me to get through. The book itself is character-driven, so nothing really happens, which isn't necessarily a bad thing, but I failed to connect with any of the characters.

Elizabeth and Lesje, the female protagonists, are victimized by men repeatedly, even Nate, Elizabeth's husband and Lesje's lover. While Elizabeth seems to be the stronger of the two females, she still manages to get violated in a car by a panties salesman. These women just allow themselves to be c...more
Angela Nicole
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Going by previous reviews, I should be proud I even got through this book. It wasn't a chore to read, exactly, but it definitely misses a lot of what I like about other Atwood books.

The book follows the perspectives of three people. Nate and Elizabeth are married, but neither of them are happy about it, and they have an agreement to sleep with other people. Nate wants to have an affair with Lesje. Elizabeth is deep in depression because her last affair ended with the guy shooting himself in the...more
Roderick Hart
Life Before Man is a bleak book. It is hard to imagine a positive outcome for any of the main characters, all of whom swap partners in the course of it, though it is hard to see why they bother since the change doesn’t bring improvement with it. . It’s a bit like reading a book by John Updike mercifully lacking the excessive sexual detail – except that the motivations of the characters and the dynamic between them is better realised.

They are all dysfunctional one way or another and the reason f...more
Kate Bradley
I was a little disappointed with this Atwood novel, having enjoyed most of the others I've read by her - it had a lot of potential as an idea, as it made use of an unusual perspective-shifting narrative which allows readers to get inside the heads of several different characters, an absorbing style. As ever, Atwood skilfully depicts the idiosyncrasies and traits of her characters - those things that make us all slightly different, but perhaps more importantly, the ways in which people are simila...more
I am a huge Margaret Atwood fan. After reading her newer books, however, it was interesting to revisit one of her earlier books. My problem with this book is that it was about the relationship between three people who I found to be fairly unlikeable and unsympathetic. The book is written from three different points of views. Presumably, the three are all vying for the reader’s sympathy. In reality, I found all three to be unsympathetic. Elizabeth was mean and selfish, Nate was selfish and immatu...more
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Margaret Atwood was born in 1939 in Ottawa and grew up in northern Ontario, Quebec, and Toronto. She received her undergraduate degree from Victoria College at the University of Toronto and her master's degree from Radcliffe College.

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