Everyday Zen: Love and Work
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Everyday Zen: Love and Work

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Charlotte Joko Beck offers a warm, engaging, uniquely American approach to using Zen to deal with the problems of daily living—love, relationships, work, fear, ambition, and suffering. Everyday Zen shows us how to live each moment to the fullest. This Plus edition includes an interview with the author.
Paperback, 240 pages
Published September 4th 2007 by HarperOne (first published 1989)
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Jennifer
I learned more about Zen from this book than from any other I've read so far.
Andre
I'll be honest here. The reason I got these books on Zen and meditation in the first place was to help me clarify what I was supposed to be doing in karate.

Damn this book is sobering. I don't even know where to start...

This book is a series of lectures that were transcribed by some of Joko's students. I guess the biggest thing that I got out of this book is the idea that yesterday is gone and tomorrow's not here yet so just live out today. Now I know that the point isn't that *tomorrow* isn't he...more
Heather
Sep 03, 2007 Heather rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: anyone who practices meditation/zen or has a genuine interest and open mind
It has helped me to be more accepting of myself and everything else, just the way it is. It has helped me to see (or reminded me) that I don't have to change myself or my life, to try to get rid of my "problems" (an endless and frustrating goose chase). Actually, I can accept them, and in that acceptance, they lessen. It has given me faith and clarity in my meditation practice, and inspiration and motivation to keep practicing. The first time I tried to read it (4 or 5 years ago), I didn't get a...more
Joyce Lagow
My manual for Zen meditation and understanding. [return][return]The format of Everyday Zen is a series of transcripts of talks that Joko has given to students during intensive meditation retreats or during regular Saturday morning programs at the Zen Center of San Diego, which she heads.[return][return]Joko is a rarity in American Zen--American, not Asian; female; mother of 3 children; she had an independent career from which she retired. She started Zen when a mature adult. As a result, she bri...more
Heather
This is my favorite Zen/Buddhism book to date. I read it in the middle of a crisis in my life, and it might have saved my marriage, because it spoke straight to me. About how life doesn't "work for you," about how people resist their lives and live in their dreams and fantasies, about how we expect things from other people and our lives and suffer when we are disappointed.

Joko speaks with such a feeling for the problems of real life that she could be any age, at any stage of practice (except th...more
Jacopo
Una lettura davvero intensa che riesce a far sentire il lettore sempre più leggero, pagina dopo pagina; il problema è che, chiuso il libro, la mente analizza ciò con cui si è confrontata e il peso gravoso ritorna tutto in una sola volta. Per questo è bene sottolineare che, nonostante possa essere una lettura interessante per chiunque, è una raccolta di discorsi elaborati dall'autrice durante le sesshin da lei tenute, quindi le sue parole sono rivolte a chi pratica meditazione (zazen, nel caso sp...more
Jake
One of the challenges of maintaining any kind of spiritual practice is bringing it into your daily routine. This modern world we live in is just full of distractions, some important, others less so- and I've found it's easy to run through an entire day without having spent even five seconds in the right mindset. For Buddhists and Buddhist fellow travelers like me, this tends to manifest most obviously as a neglect of sitting meditation, but it's really part of a whole lifestyle of neglect- readi...more
Eric
May 12, 2009 Eric added it  ·  review of another edition
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I thought I'd note down (hah) some quotes I liked in this book:
[T:]o substitute one conditioning for another is to miss the point of practice. The point is not that a positive emotion is better than a negative one, but that all thoughts and emotions are impermanent, changing, or (in Buddhist terms) empty

Joko Beck is not the first person I've heard say (in effect) impermanence == emptiness, but I think reading it here is the first time it's stuck.

Another thing I liked in this book is the "New Jer...more
Rebecca
"It was ok" is about all I can say about this book. Some of her points were well-taken, and she does a good job of hitting all the main zen and meditation points, but the delivery just didn't endear the book to me. Part of it might be that it was a transcription of actual talks that the author has given, so it's not really laid out like a usual book. Also, it irked me how her main point came down to "meditate, know yourself, and you will Just Know what to do". It seemed a bit of a cop-out to avo...more
Christian Northe
If you ever feel reading about selfeducation and mindfulness you should give Charlotte Beck a chance. This book has accompanied me on my search for understanding on meditation, awareness and orientation in life for well over 15 years by now. I have always been fascinated by Jokos Becks words but had and still have a hard time to accept all the implications and deeper meanings. She is a very, very strict person and yet ever so understanding and caring. By and by I manage to accept what she says i...more
Brendan1968gmail.com
A very concise and earthy explanation of meditation and Zen Buddhism. As someone who has been studying meditation in a different tradition I found her practical guide to meditating spot on, illuminating things I'd been struggling with for years.

I'm not sure this would be a great introductory book. I think there are basic concepts not explained as exhaustively as someone new to Buddhism and meditation would want. But if you've been around a bit (in any spiritual or contemplative path) I think thi...more
John
Don't let the possibly pop-psyche, self-helpy title fool you! Joko is the real deal. The path is nothing but practice, thorough-going effort to accept this moment as it is, with no reservations. On giving up hope - "We have to give up this idea in our heads that somehow, if we could only figure it out, there's some way to have this perfect life that is just right for us. Life is the way it is. And only when we begin to give up those maneuvers does life begin to be more satisfactory."
Kelly
I keep this book on my bedside, along with the other Beck book. These are, to me, the best books I have on insight meditation. They are practical, no-nonsense pieces taken from her work with students and include questions from students. I find both books grounding and helpful without all of the difficult to penetrate mumbo jumbo (my phrase) that books like this sometimes offer. I highly recommend this book and "Nothing Special." Mine are so worn, it's time for new copies.
Harley
My first Zen book, when there were only a couple available on bookstore shelves. What a refreshing view of life.
Leslie
great book, wish I owned it.
Andrew Frueh
Just an incredible book. I practiced for several years with Charlotte Joko Beck's dharma heir, Elihu Genmyo Smith, at the Prairie Zen Center. So I had heard about her, but was never completely aware of her work. I have to thank GoodReads for leading me to this book. It was ranked highly on the listopia "Buddhist Reading List" so I decided to make it part of my practice. After sitting, I would read a section of the book, much like I did previously with Thich Nhat Hanh's Peace Is Every Step: The P...more
Raven
When I started this book I really like how the author related Zen practice to modern everyday life. Chop wood, carry water became more like wash dishes, drop the kids off at school. And then I got stuck. I suppose it was difficult for me to fully enter into the idea of exercising presence in mundane everyday tasks as a path to something like enlightenment, even if I already accepted the idea in theory. Concepts of living in the now and non-attachment while cultivating compassion are also difficu...more
Arne Krueger
Absolut grossartiges Buch, ich brauchte vier Wochen und vier Tage, weil ich richtig damit gearbeitet habe. Immer nur ein Kapitel auf einmal, dann sacken lassen. Habe viel mitgeschrieben, es sind bestimmt vier meiner Blogposts in der Zeit davon dominiert worden. Das richtige Buch zur richtigen Zeit für mich. Danke Tony! Danke Julia! Für dieses wunderbare Geburtstagsgeschenk.

Ich weiss nicht, wie das Buch auf Meditationsanfänger wirkt, aber wenn man etwas Vorkenntnisse in Zen oder Buddhismus hat, w...more
Geoff
I'm overdue for writing a review for this book since I finished it a little while ago. First I'll say, I loved it, and get that out of the way. This book will quickly be added to my favorites list. I've read this book twice, and while I did like it after the first read, I don't think that I really understood what I was reading. The first time that I read it was over ten years ago. Now that I'm further along in my practice, this book really hits home in a number of areas. While the first few chap...more
AJ
Several aspects of this book were very helpful on a practical level for me. Concepts surrounding non-attachment, enlightenment, duration of practice, and Buddha were made lucid. Using paradoxes to understand is a form of knowing largely outside my tradition; it was fun and enjoyable to stretch my mind when she incorporated them. One aspect which I did not find helpful were the occasional dialogues between Student and Joko – the ebb and flow of each chapter felt interrupted with their addition. T...more
Mika. Mika.
This is nice book by Charlotte Joko Beck on Zen and I picked up a few tips from this book like:

• Zen is down to earth and very practical: it is our daily life;
• Zen is about an active/involved life, life of action not passivly doing nothing, but our actions should be based on reality not on our dreams;
• Zen is a life-long study, it is not sitting on the cusion for 30 minutes a day, our whole life becomes a practice for 24 hours 7 days;
• It takes courage to sit well: Zen is not a discipline for...more
SteveR
This book discusses the "practice" and "sitting" of Zen - which always seemed fascinating and so peaceful to me. However, much of the book seemed like useless dribble. Is it tougher to master the art of Zen or to read about it? But the author does make some interesting and enlightening points. Here's a few.

* We never grow by dreaming about a future wonderful state or remembering past feats. We grow by being where we are and experiencing what life is right now ... When we escape from what is give...more
Ethan
I first became interested in Buddhism (and Zen in particular) more than ten years ago, but I could never quite settle down enough to actually bother reading about it, even though I tried. This is one of the first Zen books I've actually been able to read from front to back. I'm not sure if the book itself is the cause (although I will say that there is a lot of good stuff here), or it's just the fact that I had to be mentally "ready" for the subject matter.

The book is clear and mostly straightfo...more
Benny
Absolutely terrible. It can be summed up with, "Don't get mad. Be aware. The present is what is really important." But instead of just saying that, she has to wrap it up in all kinds of devotional nonsense. Horrible stories like one about this jerk who is waiting for the karma train or dharma train or something... so here he is sitting around like a jackass and people start dumping their kids on him and he ends up having a lot of work to do. So he works the rest of his life babysitting and when...more
David Chess
This is a good book; mostly very practical and down-to-Earth words that point toward Zen. I think she goes a bit astray when she gets more abstract, and talks about The Master and "Thy Will Be Done"; this felt to me more like some Christian intrusion into her narrative. She says that The Master is not some external thing whose will is superior, but then she talks as though it (He?) was exactly that. Maybe these were some words aimed at getting through to some students coming from a theistic back...more
Dennis
"Suzuki Roshi said, 'Renunciation is not giving up the things of this world, but accepting that they go away.'" (p. 110)

"The immense cunning of the human mind can operate very well when not challenged...We are only assaulted by our thoughts, our needs, our attachments, all born from our identification with our false thinking which in turn creates a closed-in, separate, miserable life. In daily sitting...as we patiently practe (experiencing our breath, being aware of the process) realization is b...more
Kathryn
It's hard to describe this book well, but it resonated with me—it was exactly what I wanted it to be. An excellent introduction to the concepts and practices of Zen, broken down into easy to read and understand (but difficult to do!) pieces of thought.

I actually read this book to explore ways of deepening or expanding my experience as a Christian (an idea that Beck would probably dislike), and probably the biggest gift in the book is the recognition of how our lives our run by our "wants" and ho...more
Brian
The thing I liked about this book is that it seemed more accessible than other Zen books out there. Beck seems to address issues and questions that I had that other books just weren't answering. In many ways Zen can be difficult to understand because in attempting to define it you kind of miss the point. As a result this can make descriptions and examples seem obscure or esoteric, but I thought Beck did a really good job at making it apply to everyday life.
Derek Baad
Nov 21, 2007 Derek Baad rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: people interested in zen, buddhism, meditation
A very helpful book on practicing Zen in all dimensions of life. Beck does not attempt to soften the hardships of life and reminds us that life is what it is: it is only our attitudes toward what happens to us that cause us sorrow, grief, frustration, joy, etc.

The section entitled Relationships is excellent, where Beck writes that our relationships with others -- and ourselves -- are always doomed to be troubled because we are constantly looking to fulfill ourselves our own needs and fantasies...more
Clara
Beck takes a pretty no-nonsense approach to spiritual practice. If I had to characterize it in three words, these might be "Just do it." You get the sense that she was both a pretty smart and pretty tough cookie. The more I read, the more captivated I was by her straightforward, common sense style. There's no magic in Zen, she tells us. It's about being willing to sit, day in and day out, when you feel like it and when you don't. Slowly but surely, she tells us, you begin to understand that What...more
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Charlotte Joko Beck was an American Zen teacher. Born in New Jersey, she studied music at the Oberlin Conservatory of Music and worked for some time as a pianist and piano teacher. She married and raised a family of four children, then separated from her husband and worked as a teacher, secretary, and assistant in a university department. She began Zen practice in her 40s with Hakuyu Taizan Maezum...more
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“We have a fictional “I” that we try to love and protect. We spend most of our life playing this futile game. “What will happen? How will it go? Will I get something out of it?” I, I, I—it’s a mind game of illusion, and we are lost in it.” 3 likes
“To sit a long sesshin is a major blow to our hopes and dreams, the barriers to enlightenment. And to say that there is no hope is not at all pessimistic. There can be no hope because there is nothing but this very moment. When we hope, we are anxious because we get lost between where we are and where we hope to be. No hope (nonattachment, the enlightened state) is a life of settledness, of equanimity, of genuine thought and emotion. It is the fruit of true practice, always beneficial to oneself and to others, and worth the endless devotion and practice it entails.” 1 likes
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