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Rules of Engagement (Rules of Engagement #1)

3.87  ·  Rating Details  ·  2,141 Ratings  ·  190 Reviews
Dustin Walker has no idea that avoiding the search for Mrs. Right could send him into the arms and bed of Mr. Right Now. According to Dustin's mother, he should be out looking for his next wife so he won't be the divorced black sheep of the family. Instead, he passes his free time at a local bar and pool hall, where he meets someone who's everything his ex-wife wasn't: fun ...more
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Published November 30th 2009 by Dreamspinner Press (first published November 28th 2009)
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J *I did it all for the nookie.The book nookie*
3.5--Terrible Ending--Stars!!

The first 80% of the book was a solid 4/5 star read for me. I'm a sucker for the whole GFY trope. And yeah, the majority of the first 80% were a lot of this...

And a lot of this...

But I really liked Dustin and Brandon. Brandon is bi and Dustin thought he was straight. He's recently divorced and his ex and mom are super controlling. So imagine his surprise when Dustin finds himself attracted to Brandon.

Brandon and Dustin were off the charts hot together. And I was act
Re-read Oct 2015 I said I wouldn't read this again because I was afraid it wouldn't hold up to my old enjoyment, but screw it. I'm re-reading for the lover's quarrel angst. And, wow, there is a LOT of sex in this one! Gay virgin sex! Absolutely loved it and the HFN ending. Book two wraps it all up!

Original review

This is a book I ABSOLUTELY loved when I read it many years ago. I have a nagging feeling it won't stand up to my current scrutiny so I have decided to let my 5 stars stand and not re-re
Nichole (Dirrty H)
May 28, 2010 Nichole (Dirrty H) rated it really liked it
Shelves: m-m, 2010
I struggled to rate this because on one hand, I really enjoyed this book, but on the other hand I hated the ending. I hated the end so much I almost gave the book 3 stars, but I don't want to punish 280 pages of "had me completely hooked" just because of 5 pages of "What? Really?!" So there you go. But this probably would have been 4.5, maybe even 5 stars if not for the ending. So I guess it did get punished a little...

This book was pretty hit-or-miss with my Goodreads friends. I noticed a lot o
Wendy Ciliacus
3,5 frustrating stars !

I really enjoyed this one. A nice gfy...very hot and sexy. I figured I had hit the jackpot...then came the 75 % mark.

So Dustin and Brandon meet over a game of pool in a bar. Dustin is going through a divorce..he has been seperated from his wife of ten years, for 6 months.
There is instant chemistry between these two...which confuses the hell out of Dustun because he is supposed to be straight. Brandon is out and bi.

This one was heavy on the insta-lust..but damn they were h
Heather K (dentist in my spare time)
Thanks so much mystery Secret Santa for the gift!
Jul 27, 2013 Isabel rated it really liked it
Shelves: erotica, m-m
This is a very interesting book... Not only the characters, Dustin and Brandon, are amazing, sexy, hot and have lots and lots steamy sex, but the story is surprisingly captivating by the reality that transmits. Dustin is suffering from a difficult divorce with a controller and evil woman, and he rediscovers his sexuality on Brandon's side. He struggles but it's hard for him to realize that he actually loves a man.

This was just an ok read. I can only give it two stars because there were quite a few things that annoyed me in this and detracted from the storytelling. First of all, lord knows I don't mind sex scenes but there were way too many and not enough character or plot development until way too far into the story. Also this story contain one of my biggest pet peeves- no prep before the guys got it on with no mention of pain or discomfort, in fact quite the opposite. And lastly, small details here and ...more
BWT (Belen)
Belens Audio Book Review

Nick J. Russo has a smooth voice, a cool style, and the ability to make panties burst afire when he starts on L.A. Witt's steamy sex scenes - all of which lends itself to a wildly entertaining listening experience.

Dustin Walker just got out of a ten year marriage to a manipulative, habitually chronic cheating harridan who was basically hand picked by his true harpy of a mother. When he goes to the local bar and pool hall he ends up meeting Brandon Stewart, who's proudly bisexual.

Dustin and Brand
This is a wonderful smexy read with the added dimension of seeing Dustin grow into his skin after years of subjugating himself to controlling women.

It is a story of coming out, sweet fetishes, teasing, loving and having the balls to be honest about yourself and your desires. The angst is well balanced and isn't pushes the story forward...this is a well crafted book with realistic, easy to like characters.
I did love the 25% of the book, all those tiny islands of actual plot in the sea of sex.
The plot bits - 5 stars. The sheer amount of sex ...I can't even rate it adequately :(
2.5 stars and rounding down.
Feb 19, 2016 Trio rated it it was amazing
Wow, what great surprise, I totally loved this book. Haven't read a book in the first person for such a long time and it was really well done - great characters, perfect pacing, and an interesting plot.
aksana  -  4 - 8 - 15 - 16 - 23 - 42 -
Nov 12, 2014 aksana - 4 - 8 - 15 - 16 - 23 - 42 - rated it really liked it
Shelves: mm
3.5 Stars
Kaje Harper
Jun 10, 2014 Kaje Harper rated it really liked it
Shelves: m-m
This is a definite Gay-for-you romance, with Dustin, a guy who has no past attraction to men, falling hot and heavy for Brandon, who is out and bi. There is a somewhat refreshing lack of dithering about the sex - Dustin's attraction is immediate, hot and enthusiastic. There is a lot of sex in this one, and it's pretty well written. I did wish the guys spent more time doing other things. I completely bought their attraction, but the personal and emotional side of the relationship got a bit of a s ...more
This book could've been 4 or more stars, but the ending just knocked the stars right out of me.

Dustin Walker is about 6 months out of a nasty divorce. He has had some one-night stands to ease his memories, but it's too soon to start anything serious. Until he meets Brandon Stewart playing pool. Dustin has never been interested in, or even attracted to men. But being near Brandon definitely lights his fuse. I really enjoyed their initial interactions. Dustin did not seem to have any angst and ju
Apr 30, 2010 Kassa rated it liked it
Rules of Engagement is likely to appeal to those fans who love a lot of angst to their men and don’t mind the weak ending, which is barely a happy ending at all. The book starts off with Dustin out for a night in a bar and happens to find something incredibly intriguing at the pool table. Although the source of his newfound desire is a man, Dustin is overwhelmed by his attraction to the other man and can’t help acting on it. Thus begins a rather passionate affair which hits a bump when Dustin re ...more
Rissa (an M/M kinda Girl!!)
I really liked the playing pool and how they met but I woulda LOVED to see these guys become friends first. Maybe become some pool sharks or something. lol
But they fell into bed and that's mostly where they stayed. (not that it wasn't hott or anything!) I coulda done without all the girl stuff..I get that he was Bi but it pulled me out..oh well, at least I didn't have to hear wet/drippy/creamy etc...
The ending KILLED me!! Seriously that's how you want the last 11% of the book to go..and then n
Jan 30, 2010 thelastaerie rated it liked it
3.5 star.
The story has a good start and definitely lots of chemistry between the two protags. But there are just so many things not right in the story. From the characterisation to the plot and it just kind of falls apart from the latter part of the story and then has a very rushed ending. Kind of WTF when I finished it...

Apart from Brandon, who is lovely and witty, all the other characters in the story are quite "extreme" and stereotypical... I'd call them: daytime soap characters. Not convin
Definitely moving to my top favorites! I don't know if there is enough to say about this book. Dustin had a hell of a marriage and is finally 6 mo this past filling for divorce when he meets Brandon at a bar. Brandon is kicking everyone's ass at pool (like always it seems) when Dustin takes him on. Brandon's cocky smile and little subtle hints make Dustin squirm but he does end up beating him. Brandon follows him out to the parking lot and so begins the wonderful relationship.
Dustin handled be
Aug 20, 2010 Ely rated it liked it
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Emma Sea
I completely adored the beginning of the book, and the chemistry between Dustin and Brandon was absolutely smoking hot, but I thought the author failed to explore Dustin's self-discovery, and his relationship with his family.

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Nov 04, 2013 Xing rated it it was ok
Shelves: lendable-kindle
Rating: 2.5 stars

So gay-for-you type of stories are one of my favorites. It reaches for my inner romantic and makes me think that real life doesn't truly suck.

Unfortunately, Rules of Engagement didn't make my inner romantic sing for joy. It kind of made me cringe. I think the biggest issue I had was Dustin. While I understand he had a painful ten year relationship with a psycho-bitch of an ex-wife, it felt like some of the problems were due to the fact that he was a pushover. A pushover for both
Dec 16, 2013 Luisa rated it liked it
Shelves: mm, mm-gfy-ofy

First of all, I liked the story and I loved Dustin and Brandon. It was entertaining, enjoyable and I'd say go ahead and read it. That is why I feel I have to explain why I gave this book 3 stars. It's very simple:

if a character makes me mad because he has behaved like an asshole, I can be convinced to forgive him if he has to WORK for it. So what? You say " I'm sorry" and that makes it all ok? No, I don't think so, mister.

But what about Brandon? He understands where Dustin is coming from and h
Apr 15, 2011 Chris rated it really liked it
Shelves: romance, gay, done, 2010, owned, 2011, ebook
4.5 stars. Very good m/m romance (that I had a hard time putting down, even rereading it) about a recently divorced guy who finds himself powerfully drawn to a guy he meets playing pool in a bar. Yes, I got sniffly, so you know there was some angst. I think my only complaint was the abruptness of the ending. I really liked this quote from one of the other characters: “If I knew how a lot of my relationships would have turned out, I never would have gotten involved in them…. And I would have miss ...more
Valerie ❈M/M Romance Junkie❈
Read 8/8/2013
Re-read 3/7/2014 still one of my favorite books. I've read this multiple times, and I still love it.
Re-read 8/8/2015 I won't change my original rating, but my tastes have definitely changed. I was pissed at his family's drama. I was pissed at his ex. (view spoiler)
ThatEzi  (Oh My Shelves)
I enjoyed this story. I liked the friendship between Dustin Walker and Brandon Stewart which allowed both characters to grow as men.

Dustin had been married but it was to please his mother. So when Dustin walked in on his wife and one of her lovers, Dustin had to admit that this marriage wasn't working at all. When Dustin goes to hustle pool, he meets another pool shark Brandon. A tentative friendship begins and soon they have a sexual encounter.
This new relationship is everything Dustin's marria
4.75 Stars

I really liked this one. You got to see Dustin's process of discovering he has feelings for another guy. He has a family that is split on his choice. Dustin does not always make the right decision and the ending is more a happy for now (HFN), but a good one. I would love a follow up book maybe even with other characters but just so we can see where Dustin and Brandon end up.
Jan 09, 2012 Mandi rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: romance-mm
Great writing that kept me (electronically) turning the pages, but the ending sort of ruined it for me. Loved the characters, but the ending felt so rushed. And as a personal niggle, I hate when the MC's have sex with other characters...even when the two heros aren't officially 'together' at the time.

Jul 21, 2012 Candice rated it liked it
Shelves: gfy, erotica, hot
3.5 stars

This was a really good story throughout most of the book, with two characters that just had a great connection and chemistry with each other. But I really hate how the last part of the book was handled, that for me took a lot away from the book.
Oct 02, 2012 Camille rated it really liked it
With a few points of aggravation, like wishing a bit more got said (particularly in the end), this is a good read that builds, adding layers of interest and substance as it progresses.
Aug 23, 2015 Janeylou rated it liked it
Sex, sex and more sex , no story ..I can see a pattern here !!!
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“If I knew how a lot of my relationships would have turned out, I never would have gotten involved in them... And I would have missed out on some of the best times in my life.” 33 likes
“So, anyway, what I was saying about society putting us into little categories,” he said. “Everyone wants to label everyone else. Straight. Gay. Bisexual.” He rolled his eyes. “Whatever. I fuck who I want to fuck, I love who I want to love, and the rest of society can suck my left nut if they don’t like it.” 0 likes
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