Rules of Engagement

Rules of Engagement (Rules of Engagement #1)

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Dustin Walker has no idea that avoiding the search for Mrs. Right could send him into the arms and bed of Mr. Right Now. According to Dustin's mother, he should be out looking for his next wife so he won't be the divorced black sheep of the family. Instead, he passes his free time at a local bar and pool hall, where he meets someone who's everything his ex-wife wasn't: fun...more
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Published November 30th 2009 by Dreamspinner Press (first published November 28th 2009)
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Beck
This is a wonderful smexy read with the added dimension of seeing Dustin grow into his skin after years of subjugating himself to controlling women.

It is a story of coming out, sweet fetishes, teasing, loving and having the balls to be honest about yourself and your desires. The angst is well balanced and isn't gratuitous...it pushes the story forward...this is a well crafted book with realistic, easy to like characters.
Jen
Jan 28, 2010 Jen rated it 4 of 5 stars
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4.5 Stars ~ So good. Exactly what I needed this week. It's not a perfect book by any means (though I loved most of the things other readers have complained about), but this author writes wonderful chemistry. A very well-done GFY romance.
Nichole (Dirty H)
I struggled to rate this because on one hand, I really enjoyed this book, but on the other hand I hated the ending. I hated the end so much I almost gave the book 3 stars, but I don't want to punish 280 pages of "had me completely hooked" just because of 5 pages of "What? Really?!" So there you go. But this probably would have been 4.5, maybe even 5 stars if not for the ending. So I guess it did get punished a little...

This book was pretty hit-or-miss with my Goodreads friends. I noticed a lot o...more
Camille
With a few points of aggravation, like wishing a bit more got said (particularly in the end), this is a good read that builds, adding layers of interest and substance as it progresses.
Chris
4.5 stars. Very good m/m romance (that I had a hard time putting down, even rereading it) about a recently divorced guy who finds himself powerfully drawn to a guy he meets playing pool in a bar. Yes, I got sniffly, so you know there was some angst. I think my only complaint was the abruptness of the ending. I really liked this quote from one of the other characters: “If I knew how a lot of my relationships would have turned out, I never would have gotten involved in them…. And I would have miss...more
Melissa
When Dustin goes out one night to get his mind off his nasty divorce he ends up walking right into the arms of someone he least expects... the person he ended up beating in a game of pool, Brandon Stewart.

What I loved about that was the Dustin hardly stopped to question it even though he'd never been attracted to a man before, he just KNEW he what he wanted in that moment and went for it. The chemistry between Brandon and Dustin is explosive.

There was a wonderfully unrushed build up of the relat...more
Emma
I completely adored the beginning of the book, and the chemistry between Dustin and Brandon was absolutely smoking hot, but I thought the author failed to explore Dustin's self-discovery, and his relationship with his family.

(view spoiler)[The emotional effect of Dustin's relationship was limited to the last 20% of the book, and I thought it should have started much earlier, plus reached some kind of conclusion; either positive or negative (although I think negative would have fitted in well)....more
Dawnlxix
This was just an ok read. I can only give it two stars because there were quite a few things that annoyed me in this and detracted from the storytelling. First of all, lord knows I don't mind sex scenes but there were way too many and not enough character or plot development until way too far into the story. Also this story contain one of my biggest pet peeves- no prep before the guys got it on with no mention of pain or discomfort, in fact quite the opposite. And lastly, small details here and...more
Barb
I absolutely fell in love with ROE and Brandon and Dustin. They pushed that emotional button and I really felt the attraction between them and the deep feelings....even if Dustin lost his way a bit. A bit of angst is needed to make the reward that much better. There were times I wanted to smack Dustin for his hurtful words, even though he was confused and thrown into being outed unexpectedly, and even though he didn't realize just how hurtful they were, however I loved the way he came around and...more
L-D
This book could've been 4 or more stars, but the ending just knocked the stars right out of me.

Dustin Walker is about 6 months out of a nasty divorce. He has had some one-night stands to ease his memories, but it's too soon to start anything serious. Until he meets Brandon Stewart playing pool. Dustin has never been interested in, or even attracted to men. But being near Brandon definitely lights his fuse. I really enjoyed their initial interactions. Dustin did not seem to have any angst and ju...more
Bee
Dustin just got divorced six months ago from a wife that he lived quite unhappily with for ten years. His entire family is pressuring him to start dating again and his mother resents him for the divorce. Every woman he has dated since his divorce has been his ex-wife's complete opposite and neither of them have stuck around for longer than a few nights. One night at a bar he has a strange reaction to a man he's never met before. The air between them seems electric and every slight touch, purpose...more
Ely
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thelastaerie
3.5 star.
The story has a good start and definitely lots of chemistry between the two protags. But there are just so many things not right in the story. From the characterisation to the plot and it just kind of falls apart from the latter part of the story and then has a very rushed ending. Kind of WTF when I finished it...

Apart from Brandon, who is lovely and witty, all the other characters in the story are quite "extreme" and stereotypical... I'd call them: daytime soap characters. Not convin...more
M
So, I have this thing where I'm not allowed to play pool. Like, literally my friends start getting a panicky look on their faces when I near a pool cue. And this is surprising because I've only ever played twice. The first time (and I swear I don't even know how this happened) I chipped a tooth, and the second time I smashed a clock face with a pool ball (not on purpose). So, I was understandably put off by the pool-related shenanigans in the first part of this book. But that soon took a backsea...more
Saritza
This book gutted me... in a good way! To find the person that completes you as well as Brandon and Dustin do for each other is not just rare, it's beautifully, blissfully, perfect!

Summary: Dustin Walker has no idea that avoiding the search for Mrs. Right could send him into the arms and bed of Mr. Right Now. According to Dustin's mother, he should be out looking for his next wife so he won't be the divorced black sheep of the family. Instead, he passes his free time at a local bar and pool hall
...more
Jacqueline
The chemistry was good. The plot was a little bland, offering only minor whiplash.
The ending was another wham bam thank you Ma'am or Sir if you must.
In short the ending was rather abrupt.
 chele
It was a 4 star book right up until the abrupt ending. Dustin doesn't reveal to Brandon that he loves him. I had to check to make sure that I hadn't skipped some pages at the end. The author doesn't indicate a sequel was in the making. So for that I have to rate it 3.5 stars. Other than the ending, I was engrossed with this story. It is a first person story all from Dustin's POV. I am glad I looked up the author's page to see that there is a second book Rain. This time it is from Brandon's POV....more
Lutawolf
Emotional but funny as well so the emotional doesn't become too overwelming. There is a lot of sex in the book but it's so well done. It's so well detailed but in a romantic way. She goes into detail about the shape of the shoulder, the color of the eyes as they fill with passion. You fell apart of the characters in that moment rather than your just reading about it. You feel as if your falling in love with them instead of watching them fall in love. While she could probably tone down the sex, I...more
Kristen
4 stars, simply because it just ended. The book felt unfinished. After all of the conversations Brandon and Dustin had throughout the book, the most important conversation was completely left out.

I loved this book though. I loved the characters. I really felt for Dustin and Brandon. It was a very, very hot book full of great love scenes. I know many readers felt the sex was gratuitous, but I didn't. This story was about Dustin discovering who he was sexually. I wish there was an Epilogue or some...more
Kavisha
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Andrea
I absolutely loved this book. My only issue, and it's not really an issue just a nice to have, is that I would have loved to get both Dustin and Brandon's perspectives in this book esp. after Brandon dumped Dustin, and Dustin slept with other people. Would have just been nice to know what was going through Brandon's head, and whether he felt guilty for pushing Dustin. It sounded like he did at the end, but I don't think he was wrong for doing it. I wouldn't consider what he did pushing Dustin be...more
Cecilia Rodriguez
Well I loved it up to 90% in and then I just wanted to smack Dustin up side his head so it lost 2 stars. I was totally disappointed and didn't think it was necessary for Dustin to sleep with both a woman and a man to help him to work out his feelings. And I hated the way he hurt Brandon by telling him about his sleeping around trying to figure his shit out, just not cool and so unnecessary. If I had been Brandon I would have just told him to fu*k off.
I felt that there was hardly any resolution a...more
Jane (PS)
This is a great book. I loved the evolving relationship and the family issues. I really bought how hard it was for Dustin to face his feelings and sexuality in light of his prior experiences. And I loved that Brandon wasn't a doormat! I loved the ending (view spoiler)[and Dustin's need to explore his sexuality (hide spoiler)].

My only issue was at the beginning of the book - I found Dustin's willingness to just jump straight in to their relationship (despite a couple of mind-searching moments) ju...more
Denise
This book was soo close to getting 5 stars, but the ending ruined it. I was left wandering around my house saying, "What?! That's it?? She's really going to end it like that??" It was not a strong HEA in my book. I really hoped for more.

Otherwise, the book and the characters were incredible. I loved how Dustin was drawn to Brandon and how Brandon stood by him and did everything he could when Dustin's family found out he was gay. The sex scenes were incredibly hot, and I found myself angry for t...more
FlibBityFLooB
Man, I ran the gamut of emotions reading this one for some reason, though it didn't make me cry/laugh like the typical books that move me do. I picked this one out because I thought I would love it based on the description. Then, after I started reading, I was convinced I was going to hate it. It seemed like it was going to be over-sexed with little plot.

In the end, however, there was a ton of sex in the book, but I wasn't bothered by it in the least. The author did a good job of making the sex...more
Èmina
If I had to describe this book with less then 5 words then Deja-vu is all I would need.

Before I read this book I read another one by this same author, the book called The Best Man...and ohh boy are they similar.
90 % of the book was not really about anything then boy meets boy and they have sex. The same M.O as the other book.
They meet and have very intense hungry sex...they get to know each other and then at some point the sex changes and thereby indicates that their feeling for each other have...more
Mely
This has some of the hottest sex scenes I've ever read -- in fact, my favorites may actually be the kisses in the first couple of chapters, where the make-outs don't even get to orgasm. This is surprising, because usually I find erotica hottest in the context of characterization, and the love interest, Brandon, is really sparsely characterized and mostly seems to be the perfect, self-confident, accepting-of-narrator's-confusion-and-occasional-asshole-behavior guy; Dustin, the narrator, has a lit...more
karlakolumna
It's been a while since I read this book, but I remember very well how I felt about it.

I have to admit that the book starts really, really ... - wow.
The part when Dustin and Brandon meet for the first time in that bar, the looks, the chemistry, the banter between both of them are so captivating, so great. The sparks are flying and the author described this situation amazingly well, it was almost palpable.
And I swear, I had butterflies in my stomach while reading it.

Well, as I said, great start,...more
Susan
This whole book was a journey for Dustin. He is in the middle of a divorce and has never had a relationship with a man before when he meets Brandon. (view spoiler)[ He does not seem to have any problems with the physical aspects of his new relationship but is concerned about the reactions of his family should they find out. (hide spoiler)] I loved how Brandon was so supportive throughout the relationship and he made no demands on Dustin to come out to his family. (view spoiler)[ When Dustin is o...more
Adara
I read this a while back, when it first came out, but I didn't jump onto GR until after I'd read it, so I didn't have a review previously. I reread it so I'd remember these two before reading the sequel. I'm glad I did. I started remembering bits of the story as I was reading it.

I remember really liking it when I first read it, and I still really like it now. I doubt that I thought it had too much sex in it the first time I read it, but reading it through this time, I definitely thought it mayb...more
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