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The Little Disturbances of Man

4.08  ·  Rating Details ·  1,252 Ratings  ·  95 Reviews
With a sure and humorous touch, Grace Paley explores the "little disturbances" that lie behind our everyday lives. Whether writing about sexy little girls, loving and bickering couples, angry suburbanites, frustrated job-seekers, or Jewish children performing a Christmas play, she captures the loneliness, poignancy, and humor of human experience with matchless style.
Paperback, First Plume Printing, 189 pages
Published May 1st 1973 by Plume (first published 1956)
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Glenn Sumi
More than half a century after it was published, Grace Paley’s debut, The Little Disturbances Of Man, remains fierce, funny and startingly fresh.

The author had yet to discover fully her political activism – that would come a decade or so later, as chronicled in the appropriately-named Enormous Changes At The Last Minute (1974) – but this first book provides great insights into urban women and men dealing with sex, relationships and raising kids.

These stories pulse and throb with the ordinary str
May 31, 2014 Teresa rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: n-usa, g-contos, e2
Meia dúzia de contos um bocado chochos. São mais, mas já não os li, pois não estou para me contrariar com leituras que não me aquecem nem me arrefecem...
Elizabeth (Alaska)
The cover of this edition has a line from Philip Roth: "spendidly comic and unladylike". My sense of humor seems at variance with many, but I did find many amusing lines. The unladylike is spot on. There is no real sex in these, but the situations are obvious. I was shocked. Not because of so much sexual activity which involved pre-marital sex, free-sex, and outright adultery, but because this little volume was first published in 1956 in the United States. This was a time when a girl was sent of ...more
Nov 25, 2012 orsodimondo rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: americana, racconti
Mi ha colpito Grace Paley, o meglio, mi hanno colpito i suoi racconti: sono fuori dal coro, possiedono un ritmo insolito, si muovono come uccelli sui rami, sono composti da un orecchio perfetto.
Piccole storie, molto dialogate, che con una frase, con un pensiero trasportano anni dopo, poche pagine per racchiudere squarci di esistenze, banali solo in apparenza: possiedono la magia unica del quotidiano, l’incessante rumore di gioia che arriva dalla stanza a
Larry Bassett
Jan 31, 2014 Larry Bassett rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: short-stories
This book of short stories was published in 1959 – a lifetime ago and it is still very fun to read. I love the NYC and Jewish settings.

I will steal some quotes from other GR reviews that say just what I would want to say about this book:
Half way through the first paragraph—“Only a person like your mama stands on one foot, she don’t notice how big her behind is getting and sings in the canary’s ear for thirty years. Who’s listening?”—I realized I was in the company of some very special literatu
Sep 17, 2010 Chantal rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Earlier this month I came across Grace Paley’s The Little Disturbances of Man on the clearance rack at Half Price Books. At two bucks, I knew this was a book to buy—I’d heard Paley’s name mentioned perhaps a dozen times in and around the Bennington campus—but that was all I knew of Paley. I began reading The Little Disturbances of Man oblivious to anything and everything about the author or her work.
Upon opening the book, I was pleasantly surprised to learn that it was a short story collectio
Oct 16, 2015 Northpapers rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
"Under the narrow sky of God's great wisdom, she wore a strawberry-blonde wig."

I first read this collection in October of 2015. On that first time through, I stopped and re-read "The Loudest Voice," the story from which I drew that quote about the wig, at least four times, once aloud to a group of friends who may or may not have shared my enthusiasm for it. It's hard to tell sometimes.

I received The Collected Stories of Grace Paley for Christmas, and I decided to open 2016 by reading The Little
Jul 09, 2008 Lee rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Less political than her second collection and maybe therefore not as charged or textured? Here's a self-critical comment cleverly embedded in the collection's last story:

"'What's the matter with you? Don't put yourself on a platter. What are you -- a roast duck, everything removable with a lousy piece of flatware? Be secret. Turn over on your side. Let them guess if you're stuffed. That's how I got where I am.' The organization of his ideas was all wrong; I was drawn to the memory of myself --
Garrett Zecker
Jul 30, 2011 Garrett Zecker rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Beautiful short stories that may be some of the most notable of Paleys. She is a seamstress with characters that walk off of the page and transform into our brothers, sisters, grandparents, mothers, and fathers. This book outlines the sexually charged life we lead as human beings and how that can be complicated by communication, distance, closeness, and much more. Gorgeous little volume from a beautiful writer. This book will warm you in more ways than I can describe... After reading this, pick ...more
Ben Loory
i'd read and loved paley's story "wants" in an anthology somewhere and so i figured i'd try this collection of hers a try. unfortunately, this collection is her first, 12+ years before "wants," and the stories are much longer and "normaler" than that brilliant little jewel. it's impressive how she changes voices so completely and convincingly from one story to the next, but in the end only one of these stories (the first, "goodbye and good luck") actually had any emotional effect on me, and none ...more
Feb 05, 2017 Tutku rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
2.5' tan ☆☆☆
Kitabı çok sevemedim maalesef. Sonlarında bitirmek için cebelleştim. Yazarın diline bir süre sonra alıştım fakat okuma heyecanım öyküler ilerledikçe azaldı. Özellikle birkaç öyküde ' Ne anlamalıydım?' diye düşündüm. Anlam yükleyemedim, hoşlanmadım. Sevdiğim 1-2 öykü ve bazı kısımlar oldu fakat etki bırakmadılar üzerimde...
I had never read Grace Paley before and certainly didn't expect such a weird, wonderful writer. Her stories are disturbing, surprising without being gimmicky and very funny. Some of her sentences are so perfect, they made me gasp.

This collection of stories was going to launch my new plan - to keep a book of short stories on my bedside table and read a couple a week or whenever I'm too tired to dip into my current novel. But my plan didn't work - I read all of these irresistible stories in a cou
Mar 17, 2016 Adam rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
"I served myself hot coffee in the living room. I organized comfort in the armchair, poured the coffee black into a white mug that said MAMA, tapped cigarette ash into a ceramic hand-hollowed by Richard. I looked into the square bright window of daylight to ask myself the sapping question: What is man that woman lies down to adore him?"

Highlights: "The Pale Pink Roast," "The Loudest Voice," "An Interest in Life," "Two Short Sad Stories from a Long and Happy Life," "In Time Which Made a Monkey of
Dec 09, 2007 Daryn rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Grace Paley's first and best collection of stories, this includes some of the finest stories written by an American in the past 50 years: although it is hard to choose, I would say my favorites are "The Loudest Voice" and "In Time Which Made a Monkey of Us All." Paley rarely wrote again at this level, as her admirable commitments to political activism and teaching necessarily distracted her from her writing. I ran into Paley at the MLA conference a couple of years ago before she passed away and ...more
Kate S
Nov 22, 2015 Kate S rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2015, brighid
This was an amusing collection of short stories. Am interested to read more of this author's work.
Feb 14, 2014 Zana rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
«Ao fim destes dias regressei à minha vida. Quando nos encontrávamos, Vlashkin e eu, só nos saudávamos com Olá e Adeus, e depois durante alguns tristes anos apenas acenávamos com a cabeça, como que dizendo: «Sim, sim, sei quem tu és».

«Por exemplo, a gerência - gente de vistas curtas - já não lhe oferecia determinados papéis de personagens mais jovens. Tolos. Que homem mais novo saberia da vida o bastante para ser tão jovem quanto ele?»

Grace Paley, «Pequenas Contrariedades da Existência» (conto «
Mar 10, 2017 Yvonne rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
A friend sent me an article about Grace Paley written by George Saunders at the New Yorker magazine. I was so intrigued by the article which sang her praises and described her as "one of the great writers of voice of the last century" that I reserved two books of hers from my local library.
Yes indeed she is a funny and dazzling writer. These short stories are feisty, sexy, witty, non sentimental, set in another time and yet people don't change. They just express themselves differently. The stori
Cecillia V.
Mar 10, 2011 Cecillia V. rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
The Little Disturbances of Man: a compilation of eleven short stories written by Grace Paley. Written in New York in 1959, this collection of stories involves real love, real life, and the real city of New York. This collection can serve as a Bible for women in relationships. It gives a variety of situations; some that you would never think you could experience in a lifetime but are certainly possible. It serves as a compilation of experiences that would give advice for any woman in a relationsh ...more
Victoria Ryan
Jan 29, 2011 Victoria Ryan rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
The Little Disturbances of Man- Grace Paley
review by- Victoria Ryan

Grace Paley explores the “little disturbances” in her so aptly named “The Little Disturbances of Man”, with a collection of short stories and anecdotes. Paley tells about everything from young girls, couples in despair, and Jewish children in a Christmas play. “Little Disturbances” captures what it means to be human through recollections of loneliness and humor.

Each story involves a new set of characters and a new perspective wi
Phil Syphe
The only reason I didn’t give up on this collection halfway through the first story is because I had to do a joint presentation on the author as part of my MA degree.

Checking other reviews, I see I’m of a minority who can’t stand these type of stories. Here and there my interest was caught, hence my rating it two stars instead of one, but on the whole I was either bored, irritated, or both.

Too many characters, not enough plot.
Paul Cockeram
Jun 28, 2015 Paul Cockeram rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Grace Paley is delightfully, relentlessly witty. One of her sentences is worth an entire tale from a lesser craftswoman, the most important thing being the way she tells her stories--her distinctive voice and its sardonic, sincere look at the lives of early twentieth century Jewish New Yorkers. Here are a few splendid examples: “In the end, man will probably peel his skin (said Eddie) to favor durable plastics, at which time, kaput the race problem. A man will be any color he chooses or transluc ...more
Oct 16, 2011 Bruce rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
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Miguel Jiménez
Grace Paley tenía habilidad para deleitar al lector con historias donde predomina el tono jovial, compuesto de humor disparatado y ternura hacia sus personajes —los dos juntos son unomismo— pero a su vez muestra la contraparte contando una historia "seria" —casi siempre en el mismo relato—. Algo nada fácil y lo digo por el tono que se debe utilizar para cambiar de sintonía tan rápidamente. No se puede dejar de lado la inteligencia y creatividad par darle forma a la historia e ir estructurando ca ...more
Sep 03, 2007 Nicole rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
"I held him so and rocked him. I cradled him. I closed my eyes and leaned on his dark head. But the sun in its course emerged from among the water towers of downtown office buildings and suddenly shone white and bright on me. Then through the short fat fingers of my son, interred forever, like a black and whited barred king in Alcatraz, my heart lit up in stripes." - p. 145
I've read this paragraph about thirty times in the last few days and might continue to read it every day from now on so that
Adam Cherson
Mar 05, 2014 Adam Cherson rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I rate this book a 3.7 on a scale of 1 to 5 with 5 being best. A surprisingly readable set of vignettes from 1950s New York. Described as a set of little disturbances, these stories have the ring of Bellow to them, without the philosophical excursions (which could make them more accessible for many readers). Yes, I am saying that these stories are on a par with Bellow. They are stories about average people chasing their humble 1950s dreams heroically. Characterization is extremely pithy and poig ...more
Austin Allen
Mar 22, 2010 Austin Allen rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
One of the best story collections ever written. My review at Guernica is here:

The first story is like the first chapter of Pride and Prejudice, a perfect piece of comic writing. Once you strip away the differentiating markers--American, Jewish, twentieth-century, etc.--Paley might be the truest literary sister to Jane Austen. Her characters learn what Austen's heroines would have learned past the endpoint of their books: that the quadrille of anxiety, jeal
Oct 28, 2007 Astall rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Full of characters I guess I'd call jaunty, tough, smart in the sense of freshness. The first five stories are tight and efficient, the back five expand a little, all are top notch except maybe the last, which seems to kind of plunge into a completely other aesthetic region. The book never flinches away from difficulty or sexuality, and although the sarcastic/cheeky narrative voice is not generally my favorite sort, something (perhaps the not-too-sensitive, uneducated nature of the characters) s ...more
Apr 05, 2008 Megan rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
When I am traveling I want Grace with me. Her stories about interactions between men and women help me stay grounded, not as if I am hurtling through the air at 35,000 feet. This is very helpful and I suppose its because her stories all take place in New York City. On my most recent trip I took her first book of short stories because I realized I had never read it all the way through. I wanted to like it the best of her three, but I don't. The stories are funny and wry, but without the depth, in ...more
Some pretty terrific stories with quite awe-inducing sentences. Paley's descriptions and the weaving of her characters' stories in such short bursts are robust; sometimes sad, other times comedic. There were one or two stories I couldn't delve into quite as much - something off with the characters, the unrealistic dialogue. But though the female characters in her stories range from stubborn to wry to self-conscious, I loved them all. There was always something in those characters and their lives ...more
Aug 22, 2008 j_ay rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: short-stories
With Paley’s first story collection (1959) she comes right out of the (metaphorical) box with great writing and quirky (that’s a compliment) stories.
And she only got better.

Goodbye and Good Luck ****0 (4 stars)
A Woman, Young and Old ***00
The Pale Pink Roast ***00
The Loudest Voice ***00
The Contest ***00
An Interest in Life ****0
An Irrevocable Diameter ****0
Two Short Stories from a Long and Happy Life
1-The Used-Boy Raisers ***00
2-A Subject of Childhood ***00
In Time Which Made a Monkey of Us All *
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“I unknot his tie and offer him a cold sandwich. He raps my backside, paying attention to the bounce. I walk around him as though he were a Maypole, kissing as I go.
“I lost my cuff link, goddamnit” he says, and drops to the floor to look for it. I go down too on my knees, but I know he never had a cuff link in his life. Still I would do a lot for him.
“Got you off you feet that time,” he says, laughing. “Oh yes, I did.” And before I can even make myself half comfortable on that polka-dotted linoleum, he got onto me right where we were, and the truth is, we were so happy, we forgot the precautions.”
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