How to Save Your Own Life: 15 Lessons on Finding Hope in Unexpected Places

How to Save Your Own Life: 15 Lessons on Finding Hope in Unexpected Places

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Michael Gill's lemons-to-lemonade memoir chronicled his transformative years working at Starbucks after losing his high-powered job, his marriage, and his health (he developed a brain tumor). In response to overwhelming requests from readers who wanted to know how they, too, could weather downturns, he has distilled his lessons into fifteen meaningful lessons, including:

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Hardcover, 182 pages
Published December 29th 2009 by Gotham (first published December 1st 2009)
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Ben Campbell
Thank you to Jessica Chun with Gotham Books/Avery, she donated this awesome new book for me to read and critique.

Some of my readers have told me that my novels view life too seriously, others have tole me that my books are chunks of abstract art. I welcome all criticisms.

For effort I gave How to Save Your Own Life 2 stars, however weak and tiresome it is. I was hoping to like it, but...

Capitulate and retreat...

This is not a Hawthorne, Melville or any other piece of great literature, but, it is s...more
Joy
As someone who weathered a life-altering crises a few years ago I really wanted to like this book. I purposefully changed the course of my life and am happier than I've ever been, so given the description of this book I really wanted to like it and was delighted to win a copy from Goodreads. Unfortunately I found reading it akin to listening to a 'recovered' alcoholic talk about how 'happy' he is not to be drinking when in fact he'd be back at the bar in a heartbeat given half a chance.

That may...more
Doris
I went through a life changing experience (I barely survived an invasive brain tumor) and during that time had to deal with a series of managers who felt that my inability to focus or to give 110% during my recovery was due to some character flaw, so I was very willing to read about someone else's trials and how they overcame then.

Unfortunately, it began very quickly to sound like a repetitive explanation of a series of humdrum cliches. Stop and smell the roses. Take time to enjoy your children....more
Emily Restifo
Thanks to an advance copy, I had an opportunity to preview Michael Gates Gill's How to Save Your Own Life. Written as a follow-up to How Starbucks Saved My Life, which was a riches to rags story if ever there was one, this newest book is likely to find a following among those down on their luck and looking for inspiration, or those who just feel buoyed by self-help books.

Offering advice on how you too can cope with diminished circumstances and come out the better for it, his latest work will be...more
Cristina
I came across this book at the Coral Gables Public Library while my daughter was auditioning at the Coral Gables Youth Center. The author came to Books and Books in Coral Gables not long ago but I was not able to go. I confess that I did not read this author's first book, How Starbucks Saved my Life but also have wanted to read it. Since I was not able to get the first book, I decided just to dive into the second. As I read the book, I couldn't help but wanting or dreaming about my favourite cof...more
لطيفة
كيف تنقذ حياتك
من نوع الكتب التي أذهب معها للنهاية، على أمل الوصول الى سر نجاحها وانبهار الناس بها.معتقدة بأني حين أعرف سوف أستفيد أيضاً، لكن حتى أسرار النجاح والتميز والسعادة الواضحة أمامنا لا ترضينا فتغدو بلا قيمة وبالتالي غير معمول بها.
ستاربكس، الكتب القهوة جو العمل في مقهى ستاربكس يعرف بشكل يومي أناسا جدد على مدار الساعة..ممتع
لكن الكتاب غير محفز بالمرة..
الدرس 16 يعنيني حالياً ،أكثر من كل المراحل الماضية في حياتي التي كان هاجس الرحيل فيها يشدني للأرض ويقص جناحاتي.
في عالمنا، في مجتمعي مجرد وصول...more
Ash
How to Save Your Own Life finds Michael Gates Gill imparting his wisdom on what he's learned after Starbucks saved his life. Many of it is platitudes we've all heard before: learn from your parents, it's never too late to go for your dreams, listen to the silence, etc. What makes it different is how he takes it from different aspects of his life.

What Gill is going through is nothing new. It's a riches to rags story and learning how to adapt to the misfortune. But he does it well. He's very char...more
Rachel
I'm sorry to say that I did not enjoy How to Save Your Own Life: 15 Lessons on Finding Hope in Unexpected Places. While the premise sounded interesting, the writing turned out to be mediocre, and especially repetitive. The 15 lessons were all rather uninteresting as well, nothing you haven't heard before, mostly instructions to appreciate those around you more, and learn to balance your work with your family/social life.

Perhaps I'm at the wrong point in my life to be reading this, or maybe I'm...more
Jay
Felt like a neighbor that had a near death experience telling you how to live life simply. Parts were repetitive, especially the wonder at how one can live with a part time coffee shop job and in an apartment with lawn furniture for the dining room set, and descriptions of his former high-flying life. It felt like he was trying to reach beyond his first book but didn't have all that much to add. He did have some extended stories that I found interesting, mostly about his family. Those are done w...more
Cathy
Have you stopped to smell the roses lately? Well, according to Michael Gates Gill, author of "How to Save Your Own Life", you should. His circumstances would give most people pause. He was let go from a prestigious New York advertising firm in mid-life, had a marriage end (albeit due to his affair) and found out he had a benign brain tumor after he no longer had insurance. Gill picked himself up by working at a nearby Starbucks and he apparently learned enough lessons to create not just one but...more
Nandi Crawford
First of all, let me say that this is my very first book by Mr Gill; I have heard of his first book, but just haven't read it yet, but after reading this book, I believe I will; I was one of those who was fortunate to get a free copy of this book,and though I am surprised to see the low ratings here, personally, and even though I have read just about every self help book out there that there is, I personally liked and appreciated reading Mr Gill's 15 lessons. I understand how it is to have so mu...more
Karen!
Maybe I should have read the main book before picking-up this little novel, but as it stands, I read them backwards.

This is well-written and much of the advice is quite solid. I enjoy the writing style of the author and I think that the points that he conveys are worthwhile. I just was not terribly attached to him and I kept on wanting to say "We get it! You were coddled as a child and you and your trust fund could get through anything and you wasted your youth, you poor rich kid! And when you l...more
Chris
I won this book, which was exciting! I was hoping to like it as much as "How Starbucks Saved My Life," but Michael Gates Gill is just boring as he drones on and on about his "priveleged" past and his previous life of "status" and "power." Just the fact that any of that was ever important to him sort of discredits him as a role model or as a relevant or sincere inspiration to people.

His ideas are nice in theory, but they don't ring true. Instead of feeling motivated and hopeful, I felt bored and...more
Eliza Fayle
I have two criteria for rating Self Help books:

How many quotes did I make note of to ponder further?
Did it make me cry?

How to Save Your Own Life: 15 Lessons on Finding Hope in Unexpected Places, by Michael Gates Gill, scored high on both criteria.

I have fifteen quote markers. And I cried not once, but three or four times. Granted, I am perimenopausal and I cry during commercials, but four times for a 175 page book is saying something.

To read the full review visit http://silverandgrace.com/book-r...more
Sadouki Oussama
ما شدني لقراءة هذا الكتاب بالرغم أنني أعتزلت كتب التنمية الذاتية منذ فترة، ما شدني هي قصة كاتبه الذي انتقل من الثراء الفاحش الى عمل في مقهى ستاربكس و اكتشافه لاصابته بورم في الدماغ لكنه مع ذلك يقول أصبح أسعد مما كان عليه في حياته السابقة
لم تعجبني بعض فصول الكتاب التي تحول فيها لسيرة ذاتية و بالتفصيل الممل لحياة الكاتب ,,قرأت ريفيو للكتاب باللغة الانجليزية يشبه صاحبه الكاتب و قصته بمدمن تخلص من ادمانه فتغيرت حياته و اصبح سعيدا هه معه حق فالكتاب يصبح ممل في بعض اجزاءه لكن مع ذلك لم يخل من أفكار ج...more
Becky C.
I listened to this one on audio. It was read by the author and, believe me, he is no Jim Dale. Basic content was fine, nothing new or earth-shaking. But the audio was horrible.....mainly because he paused slightly every few words......whether the sentence structure required it....or not.....which I found very annoying. His pronunciation of certain words was very sloppy/mumbly. And my number one pet peeve of all pronunciation errors was committed several times--pronouncing the word "picture" as "...more
Deanna
For anyone who is facing stressful changes or sorrow in their lives, this book will force you to take a new look at what makes life worth living. The author encourages reader to embrace change and to look at it as an opportunity for true happiness. Often we live our lives unhappy but unwilling to change due to fear or economics. Instead do what you want to do and accept a lower salary, spend more time with your family and find pleasure in the little things in life. Live life now not waiting for...more
Amanda
Michael Gates Gill had been working for over twenty-five years as an ad agency director. He was born into a life of privilege and being in the Yale crowd, pretty much given his job and that was that. In one fail swoop -- he loses his job, his marriage, has a child outside of his marriage, and is diagnosed with a brain tumor. I mean...wow. And sometimes I think I have it hard! Down and out, he manages to get a job at Starbucks and his eyes are opened to a world where deadlines and blackberries ar...more
Carol Rich
The little book contains many of the life lessons Michael Gill learned after losing a high-powered advertising job, his marriage and his pala palatial home and ending up working at Starbucks. Since I live a fairly simple life, I did not find the book helpful, but for anyone who lives beyond their means, is more concerned about appearances than relationships, or who feels their job and social status define him or her, this would be a valuable read.
Alisa
Some nuggets of wisdom in this book by a guy who used to be a big muckety-muck in advertising and then got canned. Now he works at Starbucks and couldn't be happier. He definitely had some great experiences to pass along but at the same time I kept wondering if he would be so happy if he had to actually support himself/his family on his Starbucks wages. He mentions (frequently) that he came from money and made a ton of money when working in advertising. While he did sacrifice a lot of "stuff" to...more
Kim
After being fired from his corporate high paying job, then finding out he has a brain tumor, the author gets a job at Starbucks and finds happiness in the simple things in life. Quick read, with 15 meaningful lessons like "look with respect at every individual you see" and "lose your watch, and cell phone, and PDA". I dogeared alot of pages in this book!
Rena Jane
This was a fast and entertaining memoir of Gill's life-changing experience. He was let go from a job he'd had for over 20 years, had his wife leave him and then his doctor diagnose him with a brain tumor, all in a short period of time.

But Gill's outlook is very positive and his faith in God and ability to see God's guiding hand in his future is truly inspirational. He finds a new job, new friends, and a new way to look at life. This life is much less stressful and he learns vital skills he had...more
Anne
A follow up to Gill's "How Starbucks Saved My Life"- his family stories were the best and most interesting parts of his tale. A fascinating pair of parents for sure. His life lessons were pretty straightforward retellings of his prior book's lessons. All in all, a good message but not a particularly deep read.
Laura
I got this book as a "freebie" advance copy from GoodReads. I hadn't read his previous book "How Starbucks Saved My Life" and I think I might have enjoyed this book more if I had. It was OK, not great or inspiring as I expected a self-help book to be. It took me about 8 months to finish reading this.
Matt
Maybe his first book was good, I never read it, but this one didn't offer me anything I could wrap my arms around and use. The author's writing style is easy to read and I would consider reading his best selling first book in the future. From the back cover it sounded like it was pretty good.
pianogal
If I had to rely on this book and only this book to save my life...oy, would I be dead right now. I will say that the chapter on Leaping with Faith was useful, but the rest of them struggled. I'm already depressed, I don't need to read about how this guy's parents died, or that he got divorced. I'm glad he made it through all that and has found a much better life, but I'm still processing everything, and these parts were less than helpful...
Sha Dow
it was ok. i felt the "lessons" were on point but pretty much basic knowledge. i found myself thinking, "well, duh!" quite a few times, ha ha! i guess i'm not the target audience. i finished it in a few days & forced the last bit... thinking "what the hell, i've already read THIS far, ha ha!
Hadeer Atwa
Wonderful ..
I enjoyed it alot and liked the way Michael used to express his messages.
I also enjoyed the details although I feel some weren't important !
This book is my effective treatment for all kinds of despair :)
Gerianne Hannibal
wow this guy thinks like i do: fired at 54 from a high level professional job he reinvented his life by downsizing and learning how to make "serving others" the focus of his life. will try to follow his example....
Sean Hopkins
I really enjoyed this book. It is filled with common sense advice that makes you remember what is important in life with consistent reminders of what is not important relying on the life story of Michael Gates Gill.
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