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Apr 01, 2010
Ben rated it: 5 of 5 stars
I’m a black sheep. Always have been. Study after study has proven that men actually DO prefer blondes. Also, study after study has shown that women are attracted to men like their father, and men to women like their mother.

I'm a guy and my mother is blonde. So yeah, man. Most guys are more likely to prefer blondes and they’re more likely to prefer women like their mother -- so I should totally be into blondes.

But I’m not. I dig brunettes! What the hell? Is this bo More...
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Feb 02, 2012
Amanda rated it: 4 of 5 stars
Very interesting and well written. Sometimes science books are written too dry and poorly, which is a shame since they do not do justice to their topic (which is not saying that the style should dumb down the way information is conveyed -- just keep it interesting!). This book was a great read with lots of information that was not only interesting, but quite useful if you are wanting to maximise your tips as a waitress or scientific explanations for attraction! I definitely recommend it.
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Jul 29, 2009
Thomas rated it: 3 of 5 stars
The narration is good, but "menstrual" sounds just like "minstrel" should. This is a shame, as "menstrual" shows up in just about every paragraph.

The text itself is surprisingly fun and informative. However, it covers the same ground that one may have read in newspaper health and science sections. If you don't keep up on psychology and sociology, maybe you should give it a try.

P.S. This book makes sex sound quite unsexy. You might avoid it
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Jan 19, 2009
Zenaide rated it: 5 of 5 stars
I love this book! Do Gentle men Really Prefer Blondes, has helped me maintain a fun dialog while on dates and get togethers. Not to mention choosing the right look that's gives me that slight edge. Its a great conversation starter, when I mention I'm reading "Do gentlemen actually prefer blondes", people are actually curious to know if they do and ask for examples of scientific studies. Since the studies are fun and interesting I actually remember them, like the Law of Excitation. Any More...
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Jan 25, 2009
Willa rated it: 5 of 5 stars
I loved this book! Every question & answer was fun & interesting.
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Oct 29, 2008
Christine rated it: 4 of 5 stars
I thought this would be a fluff book that only skimmed over the topics here and there of the real science behind why we are attracted to the opposite sex. The author actually provides an interesting compilation of psychological to neurological studies and research of all kinds of interesting information regarding our sexual behavior.

She presents us with a ton of information in a pretty light format. But it gives us the basics and the ability to delve further on any topic we are i More...
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Jan 10, 2011
Megan rated it: 4 of 5 stars
If you're at all intrigued by the science of attraction, this is an amusing, quick read. Spurred by documentaries on the subject, I purchased this book not knowing many of those studies would be referenced in the book (which was a bonus for me since I wish there were follow up documentaries!).

While not ground-breaking discoveries, evolutionary reasoning & laboratory studies are presented to explain some of the old theories, such as men being more attracted to looks, while women are at More...
Nov 13, 2009
Candice rated it: 5 of 5 stars
Witty and fun, this book was a great overview of the current science on love and attraction. The best section in my opinion is on hormones and how they affect our perceptions. Also loved the research on pheromones. I never knew that odors carried so much information. I should also mention that the book has a great sources and endnotes section so you can explore the studies yourself if you want to go more in depth. Only caveat is that the book is geared mostly for straight women although it addr More...
Feb 04, 2012
Davidl rated it: 1 of 5 stars
I really wanted to like this book, as it covered an interesting topic and I usually enjoy science/explanation books. However, this book rubbed me the wrong way for two things the author seems to be implying:

A) That we're all just acting on instinct and subconscious drives, and that in actuality we're all superficial when it comes to choosing our significant others, rather than being a unique species that chooses our partners/mates based on emotion and connection and things like commo More...
Jun 08, 2010
Kendra rated it: 5 of 5 stars
This book was such a fun read. I kept finding myself reading excerpts aloud to my husband because I found so much of the material fascinating. I especially liked the chapter on pheromones. It definitely added strength to the nature side of the nature vs. nurture debates on human sexual attraction. It also gave me a new argument to use against people that believe homosexuality is a chosen trait, since gay men and women actually emit different pheromones to attract each other. It turns out tha More...
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Aug 14, 2011
Gen rated it: 4 of 5 stars
Ahem... I have something to say. 'Do Gentlemen Really Prefer Blondes?'. The answer is simple AND obvious. Gentlemen prefer FLINGS, and blondes are exotic. How many people have dark hair than fair hair? This makes blondes DIFFERENT and therefore far more interesting for a fling. Am I right or am I right? I have a naturally critical and scientific brain. And blonde guys love me, and I am dark haired tanned skin German/Philippine. TaDa. I don't mean to hurt anyone's feelings. Blondes are 'fun'. It' More...
Dec 14, 2010
Luis rated it: 4 of 5 stars
As humans we very much want to be in control of our futures and believe that we are the captains of our destiny, but Jena Pincott clearly shows how we are all victims of our bodies biology. We may never consciously know that the reason we are attracted to someone is their "smell" or that our "testosterone" levels are high because we are single men, but it happens, and it shapes are decisions and behavior.

This is an extremely interesting read if you have interest i More...
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Jun 27, 2011
Cheri rated it: 2 of 5 stars
"Do gentlemen Really Prefer Blondes?" is an enjoyable book if you like women's magazines. Some of the ideas that Pincott presents as fact are merely theories, with little actual proof behind them. There is an over heavy use of statistics, with little of the ranges being offered. And no discussion that some of the studies have been found to have cultural biases. Some theories have so many alternate explanations that are not mentioned, I can only assume that the author picked the mos More...
Feb 12, 2009
Lauren rated it: 2 of 5 stars
This was mildly entertaining, although I didn't finish. I never actually got to the part that explains whether gentlemen prefer blondes. I misplaced the book and am not that worried about it. Some of the scientific studies were interesting, but they were sandwiched between really dumb, Cosmo-esque commentary that was pretty unnecessary. Also, the font was purple, for chrissake. I'm sorry, I just can't take it seriously if the font is purple. (At least the i's were not dotted with hearts.)
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Jun 20, 2011
Mike rated it: 4 of 5 stars
No book this saturated with one scientific study after another should be this fun to read. From the first page to the last, you'll learn something about how we humans (and therefore you!) work. Though she may not mention Freud, it turns out he was right--at least in the essential sense that he was right in just how much what we think about our world--and each other--is formed below the threshold of self-awareness. A very fun and very informative read.
Oct 19, 2009
Jeff rated it: 2 of 5 stars
This book was interesting in places to me because of discussing body language and other items of interest in my study of deception detection. Aside from that peculiar interest, I don't think I would have enjoyed it at all. Even with that, I abandoned it with a note to try it at some point in the future in another state of mind.
Aug 02, 2011
Jody added it
Very informative, lots of good topics covered, well organized, and it covered a lot of topics generally without getting too deep into the subjects - a good overview, basically. A bit troubling though; when you realize how important your body is in attraction, your biological clock starts ticking like canon fire, lol.
Jun 12, 2011
Huma rated it: 4 of 5 stars
This book was wildly fascinating. It's not at all a manual on how to seem more attractive to the opposite sex, but then again, I never thought that it was, although I can easily see how some would. It's all about the chemistry, biology, and physiology of sex and attraction and love, and in a larger sense, just how we relate to each other as people. It's chock full of scientific studies on these sorts of relations, and it was a quick, fun, interesting read that I really enjoyed.
Jun 18, 2009
Melody rated it: 3 of 5 stars
It was an interesting exploration of human attraction. I enjoyed it but I'm about 20 years older than the target audience- most of the Q&A was skewed toward those who haven't yet bred. A little fluffy, which fact was telegraphed by the purple type throughout. But fun. Worth a look, especially if you're twenty-something.
Mar 25, 2009
Jason rated it: 4 of 5 stars
Very interesting read. I picked this book up, originally thinking that it was going to be a spoof book on relationships (which it isn't), and ended up really taking an interest in the genuine scientific studies within. Like many of the other reviews, I found that this book WAS more for women readers, but was still interesting to read nonetheless.
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May 25, 2009
Ann rated it: 2 of 5 stars
Mildly amusing, but definitely the People magazine version of science writing. Instead of taking one topic and researching it in depth, as Mary Roach does, this author glosses over a myriad of topics related to sex, love, and attraction. Each one gets at most 2 pages and every entry ends with a "funny" quip.
Feb 23, 2009
Saadia rated it: 5 of 5 stars
All the latest science behind sexuality and sexual attraction, etc. Everything you ever wanted to know about chemistry, biology, genetics, reproduction, competition, natural selection of the fittest, monogamy, anthropology, etc. on this subject, ha!
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Nov 25, 2008
Jocelyn rated it: 4 of 5 stars
Lots of interesting tidbits that range from two-to-four pages on all sorts of topics from sights to smells that explain the scientific basis behind attraction. The book is designed so you can skip from topic to topic, but you can do what I did and read it straight through!
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Aug 08, 2011
Elizabeth added it
Nothing new here, but entertaining and informative review of the various dating/mating socio-biological studies. NB -- It is written with the assumption that the reader is a single woman. As a single woman, I resent that! ;-0
Apr 06, 2009
Lynette rated it: 2 of 5 stars
I'm not fond of studies and the stats they yield. Still, this book was an interesting read, even if i didn't agree with all the findings, some of the theories regarding evolution and human mating rituals were intriguing.
Jul 26, 2011
Tori added it
2009- I found some sections extremely interesting, but I thought the author could have combined some other sections, there was a bunch of overlap. I found it more of a ""bathroom book""- good to read in small chunks.
Jun 05, 2011
Melissa rated it: 5 of 5 stars
Very entertaining. Even tough there are a lot of details and scientific fact, it doesn't read like a science book, the author uses humor to make this a very enjoyable read. It makes a great coffee table book.
Dec 16, 2010
Tom rated it: 5 of 5 stars
This was an excellent book that went into the biology of attraction. The author used both psychological and neurological studies to explain differences in attraction and sex among the sexes.
Apr 19, 2009
Sarah rated it: 5 of 5 stars
Lovely. Sex and the human brain: taking it apart, seeing how it works, and putting it back together again. We really are just big dumb animals, folks. Some of us bigger and dumber than others...
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Apr 06, 2010
LaDonna rated it: 5 of 5 stars
I learned so much reading this book about how science ties into who we love. There were a lot of things I knew instinctively, so it was nice knowing that I wasn't just imagining things.