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Lady in Waiting: Becoming God's Best While Waiting for Mr. Right
With humor, honesty, and biblical truths, the authors help point women to being the right woman and not just finding the right man. By studying the biblical character Ruth, women learn the characteristics that every woman of God should develop. This expanded edition of the original best-selller includes a personal journal and study guide.
Paperback, Expanded Edition, 442 pages
Published
December 1st 2005
by Destiny Image Publishers
(first published December 1st 1995)
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This book was a brilliant look at the biblical book of Ruth and how it applies to the every day life of a single woman - waiting on God's timing. Oftentimes, women will settle for less than they deserve when it comes to romantic relationships (as will men). This book focuses on developing a loving relationship with Christ and focusing on Him first, and He will provide you the desire of your heart. I found it to have a bit of a feminist message, even. You do not need a significant other to comple...more
Reading this under duress. Society has a very insulting tendency to suggest you're not "really" an adult until you're married, and after reading the first four chapters I believe this book promotes that idea. At best, those first few chapters were shallow. (Really, all you can say is that I have so much more free time than all the poor, poor stay-at-home mommies? And therefore I should spend more free time serving Jesus? Nice assumption. I work full time, take 6 graduate hours, and still manage...more
This is an amazing book... really insightful and filled with wisdom. It really reminds me how I need to develop my character with God's help, instead of just wasting time. There are so many things to develop: reckless abandonment (to Jesus), diligence, faith, virtue, devotion, purity, security, contentment, conviction, and patience. I also really liked how there are many practical ideas to help the readers strive toward godliness. Like for diligence, we can diligently pursue a ministry of teachi...more
This is a great devotional book. Well, for me it's more than a devotion material..it's like a personal journal.
Ever wonder why certain relationships keep failing? Why some marriages fall apart? Why my prince or princess become my very own nightmares? This book offers more than you could ever think of.
It's not about the solution, not a to-do-list and definitely not only for those single christian females out there. It's about the Truth. What kind of foundation you're building your relationship on...more
Ever wonder why certain relationships keep failing? Why some marriages fall apart? Why my prince or princess become my very own nightmares? This book offers more than you could ever think of.
It's not about the solution, not a to-do-list and definitely not only for those single christian females out there. It's about the Truth. What kind of foundation you're building your relationship on...more
I would have to say this book is helpful for a certain set of single women. If you are considering reading this book, I would read it with a grain of salt, knowing some of it may not apply to you, but if you find that you identify with a lot of what the author talks about, then keep reading. I know many friends who have found it to be extremely helpful as they related to men in their own singleness. For me personally, most of what the author talked about wasn't relevant to my own journey through...more
When you're waiting, you may feel like everything is on hold, or worse, you may think that God is doing nothing that you start to do something on your own. Do not be deceived by such thoughts. God does not withhold good things to those whose walk is blameless (Psalm 84:11). While you're waiting, God is doing His very best in preparing every part of you to deserve the best He has for you. Participate in what God is doing. One day you'll be surprised--before you know it, what you've been praying a...more
The book opens with the contention that a husband will not truly or fully satisfy a young Christian woman deepest desires, only God can do that. But the rest of the book presents a variety of admirable qualities found in Ruth and on more than one occasion the authors note that Ruth exhibited quality "x" and God rewarded her with a godly husband, so the reader should be patient/virtuous/etc. like Ruth. The unsaid implication is then maybe God will give the reader a godly husband too. Hard to shak...more
If I'd known half this book was a study guide, I would've read it sooner. It seemed very heavy and I put off reading it till today. I'd say five eighths of it was the study guide.
This wasn't really a book you could get out from the library like I did. I would've liked to try the study guide out, and I'm honestly not sure why the library has it since it's practically a study guide only and you need to do the study guide to get the whole deal from what I saw.
Anyway, while encouraging, it could've...more
This wasn't really a book you could get out from the library like I did. I would've liked to try the study guide out, and I'm honestly not sure why the library has it since it's practically a study guide only and you need to do the study guide to get the whole deal from what I saw.
Anyway, while encouraging, it could've...more
A fantastic guidebook in practical ways to develop the woman you are becoming in Christ...while 'waiting for Mr. Right'. For me there were many confirmations of things I'd already been doing that I wasn't really aware were God's design. This was great encouragement - to know I was Holy Spirit taught in the way I'd started to navigate through my singleness!
I would say this is for sure a great gift to give to a young girl just starting out...or even to a woman who has been married and is now tryin...more
I would say this is for sure a great gift to give to a young girl just starting out...or even to a woman who has been married and is now tryin...more
Some very interesting reflections on what it means to meaningfully embrace singleness as a gift to be used for the Kingdom. It did start to get repetitive towards the end, the study guide journal (which I couldn't complete, since I was borrowing the book) was pretty much selections from the book proper. Additionally, I got a little frustrated with some of the ways the Ruth metaphor got tortured, especially considering that Ruth was not a single woman, she was a widow. I would have appreciated a...more
I liked this book. It was directed towards saved, single women looking to marry. With that being said, it wasn't for me since I am not now, nor in the near future seeking marriage(if at all). Although the book was directed towards a different audience, I did learn a few "first lady lessons". The information in the book would be very beneficial for the girls/young ladies that I mentor who are looking to get married. I especially like the questions at the end of each lesson; they could be very hel...more
For every anxious heart wondering when it was going to be her turn for love, this book was wonderful at quelling fears and providing wonderful perspective on single-hood. I used to moan, goran,complain,and hope to meet Mr. Right before I read this book. I now appreciate single-hood and understand that every thing in life has its season and I am patiently enjoying mine because of it. Its a great read for anyone whether religious or not but as a Christian it has particular relevance and meaning.
Jul 28, 2012
Aprile
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It took me a long time to get through this book. Not because it was terrible, but because I had some pride issues to work through regarding the book. This book isn't just for single women, despite what you may read into about the title. It says that regardless of her relationship status, a woman who directs her life to God and gives him the reins on her love story will find herself less likely to get in the way or to take things in her own hands. It's about accepting that you can't control thing...more
this book is extremley different from other relationship book i've read.This is the 2nd best book about relationship, which the 1st one is i kissed dating goodbye.This book give you a new perspective about being single, inspired by Ruth live's, a new paradigm about being single replace the old perspective which the world always told to a single woman. Being single is not always a bad choice or a bad stage ofA SINGLE woman lives.With our sinleness we can serve Our Lord fullhearted without any int...more
I am so glad I read this book. I only wish I had read it in college. Even though it took me a long time to read, August 2008 to March 2010, I took long breaks from the book. When I was actively engaged with it, it only took a few weeks to read the whole thing, which is saying a lot, since I did the workbook with it.
The book follows the life of Ruth to teach women about becoming ladies of patience, diligence, purity, contentment, conviction, and some other great things I can't remember off the to...more
The book follows the life of Ruth to teach women about becoming ladies of patience, diligence, purity, contentment, conviction, and some other great things I can't remember off the to...more
I have read this back in the mid-2000s when a church friend suggested that we read this book for discussion. This book will speak to you if you plan to get a college diploma and be single then enter the work force and get married. I am now re-reading this book as it comes into play with my life being in transition. Just because you live in a state like Ohio, doesn't mean that you have to move somewhere else. You can pray and trust that God will bring you a Boaz in the state that you now live in....more
I deeply appreciate Jackie Kendall's perspective on a Christian woman's singleness. With graciousness and sympathy, yet the firmness of biblical truth she points the single woman to God Himself, showing her the necessity of finding fulfillment, security, and every other need fulfilled in Him. She never denies the reality of desires nor the goodness of God's fulfillment of them. What she points out are the dangers of our own plans apart from God.
AMAZING BOOK! I recommend it for women in any stage of life; whether you are single, in a relationship, engaged, or married. Unlike many other "looking for Mr. Right books" out there, this book puts your focus right where it needs to be- the present- and helps you to become the best that you can be, instead of focusing on the future relationship that you want and who the man will be that you end up with. Very good insight.
Very good and eye-opening at times...but extremely cheesy at others. I don't know- I've read so many books like this, and this one didn't seem like anything special. The first chapter was very good. The last chapter was sort of depressing (though it didn't mean to be). Or maybe it was just my state of mind reading it, given that I'm single and it's the day before Valentine's Day. :)
Also, the book itself is quite short- the meditation journal and study guide take up about 2/3 of the physical book...more
Also, the book itself is quite short- the meditation journal and study guide take up about 2/3 of the physical book...more
This is not just another book about relationship. These book teach women not only finding the right man but also learn the characteristics that every woman of God should develop to become a lady of purity, faith, contentment, patience, and more as you pursue a personal and intimate relationship with Jesus. You'll find out that only your relationship with Heavenly Father could satisfy you!
This book stands out from the more common Christian dating manuals. The focus here is on finding contentment with God and becoming the woman He wants you to be, rather than trying to be the right woman for a man. A convicting read that takes heavy hits on the man-seeking manipulation and ulterior motives of many women, but encourages us to cast those cares before God and work on our own character development during the time of preparation and unique season of singleness, a time when we are most...more
I learned so much from this book. God is in control of our lives and with faith, He will bring the right person if we are to be married. It also talks about not compromising our purity, our time and out service to the Lord. Women sometime waste their entire life waiting for life to happen with a man when in reality God wants us to live a happy life with or without one.
This is the best book I have read about living the single life and preparing yourself for marriage. I've read most of the single living books, and most of them focus on how to find the right guy, what you're not doing right, etc. Instead of doing that, Lady in Waiting focuses on godly characteristics of a woman and focuses on the inside rather than the outside.
I think every junior or senior high school girl/college girl should read this book. It truly helps to guide your heart, soul, and mind toward God instead of finding a man. I think so many single women, no matter the age, fall into the trap of focusing on getting married, and they forget to focus on our heavenly Father. I definiately fell into this trap, especially in college. This book brings to light that being single can be a blessing. You can use this time to focus on developing your on perso...more
This would get a 7-star review if it were an option. This book has impacted my life in so many ways. I have read it twice for myself, once with a group, and it is something great that I can turn to in order to point me in the right direction when I am feeling down. It is a must read for any woman seeking to follow God wholeheartedly.
This is a torn review. This books is a little too on the churchy side of things, but a girl could take away some great lessons from this book such as learning who you are before you get into a serious relationship and remembering "you" when you ARE in a relationship. Basically, there are some parts to take, and some to leave.
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I really like this book, however, I thought the personal bible study on Ruth was weak. I also did not use (nor did my high school girls) the journal pages. I would recommend the book without all the "extras". My d-group really connected with the authors and we had great discussion surrounding the chapters.
Just so you know this not just another book about relationship. Reminded to become a lady of purity, faith, contentment, patience, and more as I continually pursue a personal and intimate relationship with Jesus. Realized that only my relationship with Heavenly Father could satisfy me!
Highly recommended for any single Christian woman struggling with being alone. Most books on this topic are cheesy and unhelpful. By contrast, this book was refreshing, honest, concise, and based on Christian values instead of those we see in today's secular society. Loved it!
The writing style of this book was great. More so, it was exactly what I needed. Right now, it is my single life guidebook. I feel so much better about being single after reading this book. I feel inspired and I just want to keep the book with me to remind of what it says.
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