Lust isn't just a guy problem - it's a human problem. And unless we honestly confront it, lust will destroy our relationships and our lives. Joshua...
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Apr 22, 2010
Jennifer
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This is a great book to learn what lust is really about and how to combat it in our lives. Lust is not just a male problem and does not just mean dealing with pornography. Joshua Harris lets us know that God does not want us to even have a hint of lust, whether it is having impure thoughts, reading romance novels, watching romantic comedies, staring at an attractive person, etc. if it does not honor God. It was surprising to find out that he as a pastor and a married man also struggles and needs
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Jun 09, 2011
Liesl
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This book may not be for everyone, but it was definitely for me. It is very blunt and gives practical help for the battle against lust.
Probably what stood out the most to me in this book was what the author referred to as the key to escaping the cycle of defeat:
Embracing God's standard for holiness (not even a HINT of lust), His source of power for change (victory of Christ's death and resurrection), and His motive for fighting sin (grace - trust in the undeserved favor of God). More...
Probably what stood out the most to me in this book was what the author referred to as the key to escaping the cycle of defeat:
Embracing God's standard for holiness (not even a HINT of lust), His source of power for change (victory of Christ's death and resurrection), and His motive for fighting sin (grace - trust in the undeserved favor of God). More...
Aug 14, 2009
Rcbuenaventura
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Joshua Harris, best known for writing "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" , tackles the tough subject of lust in his third literary outing. Harris candidly writes about his personal struggles and also recounts stories and insights from others who have written letters to him.
The simplicity of his language and the organized chapter structure make for an easy read. In addition, the fact that he’s done his research is evidenced by the resources he quotes (C.S. Lewis, John Stott, Jerry Br More...
The simplicity of his language and the organized chapter structure make for an easy read. In addition, the fact that he’s done his research is evidenced by the resources he quotes (C.S. Lewis, John Stott, Jerry Br More...
Jun 05, 2009
Jed
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I've heard that short stories "begin when you put the book down". I find that to be true with Christian books as well. They may be good or otherwise while reading, but their real impact will only be visible in the life change that they begin. Anyway, Josh Harris has a lighthearted, comfortable writing style that I like a lot. He aslo goes right at the tough issues without being gross or squeamish.
Very good book: definately the most insightful look at lust per se I've ever seen, More...
Very good book: definately the most insightful look at lust per se I've ever seen, More...
Aug 16, 2010
Ninya
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I did not like the book because there were explanations and teachings that were inaccurate to Catholic knowledge; maybe because it was written by a Christian author. Anyway, not that I am being biased but it just confused me now with my knowledge with the teachings I already know and I regret reading it. I wasted my money on buying the book because it just made me doubt the teachings I already know especially when the author said, "Jesus was completely human and that He also had sexual urge
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Aug 25, 2010
Butch
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This is the best book I've read on dealing with lust and sexual sin. I highly recommend it.
Josh Harris, author of I Kissed Dating Goodbye, deals transparently with the roots of lust and the real issues behind it. Then he equips the reader with the tools needed to fight it.
The biggest problem we have in the fight for moral purity is that we've let the lies of the world influence our thinking. Josh helps us see where we've gone astray and realign with God.
One other key point ab More...
Josh Harris, author of I Kissed Dating Goodbye, deals transparently with the roots of lust and the real issues behind it. Then he equips the reader with the tools needed to fight it.
The biggest problem we have in the fight for moral purity is that we've let the lies of the world influence our thinking. Josh helps us see where we've gone astray and realign with God.
One other key point ab More...
Jun 23, 2010
Lust isn't just a guy problem - it's a human problem. And unless we honestly confront it, lust will destroy our relationships and our lives. Joshua Harris, author of the runaway bestseller I Kissed Dating Goodbye, calls a generation bombarded with images of sexual sin back to the freedom and joy of holiness. This "PG-rated" book - straightforward without being graphic - speaks to those entrenched in lust or just flirting with temptation. Honestly sharing his own struggles, Harris expos
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Oct 05, 2008
Victoria
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I thought this was a very well written , un-intimidating look at the sin of lust. The author spoke about this problem without giving inappropriate descriptions. I think it would be good for people to read this wether they think they have a problem with lust or not .
I think that the principles in here can be used towards any unhealthy activity that comes between us and the Lord. Wether it be an addiction, Food , television or money.
He talked about how Lust is a greed problem and how More...
I think that the principles in here can be used towards any unhealthy activity that comes between us and the Lord. Wether it be an addiction, Food , television or money.
He talked about how Lust is a greed problem and how More...
Jun 27, 2010
Sam
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I read this book in one day. It was a very easy read. It had some helpful points and I appreciated his abundance of Scripture refs. My disappointment was in his lack of clear explanation of what lust is. It's still not clear in my mind. I heavily appreciate this book and would recommend it to lots of my guy friends. It was a good research book for my project as well. This book also reminded me a lot of Randy Alcorn's Purity Principle
Good book, but not the best. I'm giving it a 3.
Good book, but not the best. I'm giving it a 3.
Feb 26, 2010
Amy
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I've read a couple books on this subject recently and I have to say this was by far the most practical. It was nice to have clear cut ideas on how to identify and avoid temptation instead of just saying lust is bad. I would definitely recommend this to anyone who wants to know more about guarding themself from the temptations of lust.
Dec 17, 2008
Eddie
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Valiant attempt at a coed book that tackles issues not discussed in mixed company. Some of the anecdotes exposed things I didn't really need to know, but Harris does a good job exposing the true heart of what a Christian's freedom looks like.
Jul 27, 2011
Grete
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This is one of the most challenging books I have ever read. Harris's commitment to utter righteousness before God--not just sexual purity--is humbling yet inspiring.
Jun 02, 2007
Joy
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I think this book definitely covers the fundamentals in the most unintimidating way. This is probably better suited to non-believers who are struggling with lust, and other forms of temptations they feel they have no control over.
It was rather nice to read and reflect over the habitual sins that God has helped me and others overcome (or otherwise, in the process of overcoming!) from the start of my walk with Him, for without Him we can truly do nothing!
It might have bee More...
It was rather nice to read and reflect over the habitual sins that God has helped me and others overcome (or otherwise, in the process of overcoming!) from the start of my walk with Him, for without Him we can truly do nothing!
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Jan 29, 2010
Christie
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Lust is wrong, even the little things we would not think wrong are wrong accorrding to holy writings.
May 30, 2011
Courtney
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This book is essential. I recommend to every person desiring to grow in the view of God. Suited for all audiences: single, dating, courting, married. Joshua Harris has composed a short 10 chapter book applicable to all forms of lust, not just sexual lust. The greatest "research" book every concieved; all sources citied... All sources Biblical.
Mar 17, 2009
Kyle
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This is a good book for anyone who wants to stay sexually pure.
I highly recommend it.
I highly recommend it.
Aug 05, 2010
Gretchen
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It really hits home on the issues of todays problems with lust and sexual sin
May 10, 2010
Sam
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All right - but the library still thinks i have it for some reason - hmph
Nov 29, 2008
Snorkle
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Joshua Harris' take on sexual purity and it's hold on our culture is positively refreshing. He offers way to combat it, as well as sharing his own personal struggles and how he strives to overcome them everyday. I found this book inspiring, and took its message to heart. Definitely a book I'd recommend.
*Taken from my book reviews blog: http://reviewsatmse.blogspot.com/2008/06...
*Taken from my book reviews blog: http://reviewsatmse.blogspot.com/2008/06...
Jul 03, 2008
Becca
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Bought this book because I love Joshua Harris books. Had left it out and my hubby picked it up and read it. It was a life changing book for him in many ways. I eventually read it as well and felt that he took a humble down to earth approach talking about the issue of lust. I think he tackled a topic most pastors don't even address, and which is something that needs to be brought up.
Sep 27, 2007
Emerald
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LUST...! everyone knows this term but very few do anything about this. Not even a hint is a hard-hitting counter argument to lust! Lets face it...we all struggle with it but unless we fight it with the grace of God afforded to each of us we will never overcome it. Very practical and biblical approach to lust. I can say... It helped me! How about you?
Sep 01, 2011
anca
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When it comes to sexual desire, one may think that only guys have problems regarding lust, at least my teenager mind thought so. Reading this book made me realized that I suffer of the same problem but it was just a different way of manifestation. It is an eyes-wide-open book. Beware! Once you read it you can NOT run from the truth that you know now!
Sep 29, 2007
Lana
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I appreciate this man's desire to do what it takes to fight the pervasive sensuality that is overtaking our culture. It gives me great hope to see him lay out some practical ways both men and women can fight the battle of lust and be Daniels in the midst of a current Babylon--a culture that offers us the world's table of poisonous delicacies.
Sep 24, 2010
Rachel
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A friend of mine gave me this book to give to another friend of ours, but I decided to read it before I pass it along. I think it's an important topic to focus on, as it's so prevalent in our society. With a strong focus on God, this book helped to direct thoughts to where they should be.
