Be Near Me
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Read in April, 2008
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Read in February, 2008
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I read Maureen Corrigan's review last summer and couldn't resist this book. I have never had the experience with a main character where I was intrigued and interested and then repulsed and resigned. I think Corrigan is right, this is a meditative novel, and the language is so beautiful that it's startling. I was in awe of several passages in a way that I don't remember being with a modern novel. I'm still...more
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Read in March, 2008
Be Near Me tells the story of Father David, a priest having a mid-life spiritual crisis. After moving to a new parish, Father David becomes friends with two rebellious teenagers as well as his acerbic housekeeper.
I did not like this book. Father David, as a character, is a bit of a whiner and quite weak minded. Although he is middle-aged, he doesn't have a strong sense self, seeming to have stopped his maturation shortly after university. He makes bad choices even though he knows he m...more
I did not like this book. Father David, as a character, is a bit of a whiner and quite weak minded. Although he is middle-aged, he doesn't have a strong sense self, seeming to have stopped his maturation shortly after university. He makes bad choices even though he knows he m...more
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Read in July, 2007
When you hear that the story is about a Catholic priest, you can't help but fear that you know where you are going. But this delicately written, complicated story takes you many other places. Father David does not fit in in the insular, conservative Scottish town where he has come to be near his ailing mother. He would have stuck out simply for being Catholic in the mostly Protestant north, but his being English and Oxford-educated set him even further apart. The writing is gorgeous, if slig...more
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I only read one book on the way to ALA (I slept on the plane, and read the newest issue of Craft magazine), and was really excited for it, b/c I loved O'Hagan's Personality. Unfortunately, this novel involved one of my least favorite plot points--an old dude forming an inappropriate relationship with someone much, much younger. And O'Hagan is way too young to be writing a book about a pretentious old British priest who takes a post in a tiny town in Scotland and forms a friendship with two drug-...more
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Read in September, 2007
I read a review about this book in the NYT. The review made the book sound heartbreaking, lonely and complicated. I immediately added it to my list.
Unfortunately, I liked the review better than the book.
There were positive aspects of this story. The lead character (a fallen, gay priest) was complex and well developed. I would imagine that most readers would feel for him the way I did--a combination of love and hate, pity and anger. But, in general, the dialogue was choppy, storyli...more
Unfortunately, I liked the review better than the book.
There were positive aspects of this story. The lead character (a fallen, gay priest) was complex and well developed. I would imagine that most readers would feel for him the way I did--a combination of love and hate, pity and anger. But, in general, the dialogue was choppy, storyli...more
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I started out really liking this book - the language, the setting, the characters. Then I didn't like it so much because the story began to seem so implausible to me. Why would a 56 year old Catholic priest want to hang out with a group of delinquent, drug-taking, petty-crime-committing teenagers? And why would they want to hang out with him? As the story unfolded though, I began to see it as a commentary on personal isolation and how vulnerable each of us is to the need to maintain connections ...more
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Read in April, 2007
This is very moving and very powerful, raising questions not only about christianity and religion, but also education, childhoood, truth, beauty, and justice. Yes, really.
An English priest moves to a poor Scottish parish, riven with sectarianism. He becomes 'close' and starts to develop feelings for one of the young hoodies at the local school. As the relationship develops between them, and in the aftermath of a shocking discovery, the priest thinks over his life and work.
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An English priest moves to a poor Scottish parish, riven with sectarianism. He becomes 'close' and starts to develop feelings for one of the young hoodies at the local school. As the relationship develops between them, and in the aftermath of a shocking discovery, the priest thinks over his life and work.
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Read in June, 2008
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This novel takes place in Scotland with flashbacks to a priest's days at Oxford. Although born in Scotland, he sounds English and encounters prejudice against both priests and the English in his small parish. The plot surprised me and kept me reading as I learned more about the lonely priest, his past love, his family and why he behaved so strangely with his teenage friends.
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Read in January, 2007
I first heard about this book through the NY Times book review. I loved it. In theory, it makes no sense that (a) a well educated, well off man would be living in such an impossibly depressing situation, or that (b) readers would actually understand or even sympathize with what he was going through or how he could act so stupidly. Yet to me it all made perfect, awful sense. I also loved the housekeeper character!
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Read in November, 2007
After reading several reviews of this book, I was really looking forward to reading it, but it was just boring and didn't make much of an impression. It's about a wealthy priest who has recently been transplanted to a working class town in Scotland. The locals don't get him, he gets mixed up with some teenagers, and he remembers being young, brilliant, and gay at Oxford.
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Read in January, 2007
Again, a review in the Guardian got my attention. I've always wanted to like Andrew O'Hagan but his books have never quite interested me enough. This one though was terrific. The narrator is hardly the most likeable of men but O'Hagan manages to make us sympathetic nontheless. And he somehow makes a minor tragedy out of a pettily sordid situation. Nice work, that!
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Read in May, 2007
This gorgeously written book is the best thing that I have stumbled across in awhile. It is refreshing to encounter such a nuanced, authentic and slightly contradictory main character. There are many shades of grey on display in this work; it highlights the complexity of being human. Excellent.
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Read in February, 2008
Heart-breaking, lonely and complicated...and subversive and sad and just plain well-written. Andrew O'Hagan's powers of perception are way beyond any normal person's ability. He takes what is implicit and makes it explicit. His depiction of these characters' interior lives is supernal.
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Read in September, 2007
I got a slow start with this one but it grew on me as I read. The main character is a priest with an assignement in Ireland and befriends some less than angelic teens with disasterous results. The ending was very interesting and I am still finding myself thinking about it.
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Read in July, 2008
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Meh. Perhaps I am too burned out on stories about priests who have inappropriate relationships with minors, but honestly, aren't we all? The novel was fine, familiar territory, I really liked the character of the mother, and sort of wish the entire book had been about her.
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Read in September, 2007
Of the three O'Hagan novels I've read, this is my favorite. The narrator is a remarkable villain, and I couldn't help feeling sorry for him. Already I've read the novel three times, and I find myself getting happily lost in the sentences.
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The narrator is in denial throughout most of the book, and he (almost?) persuades us that he is a decent person. It's been several months since I read it, and I'm still a little iffy as to whether he is a "normal" guy or Humbert Humbert.
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Read in January, 2007
I'd like to read more by this author. I had some issues with the main character but not simply because he is a priest and in the situation he is in. But it is still a worthwhile read (if a bit on the heavy, intellectual side).
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to begin with, i didn't have too much sympathy for the priest in this book, who neglected his parish to hang out with teenagers, but i ended up feeling more understanding. and it was well-written.
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