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استشعر الخوف وقم بالعمل بطريقة ما

really liked it 4.00  ·  Rating Details  ·  17,287 Ratings  ·  552 Reviews
الحياة هي الاستفادة من الفرص، وهذا الكتاب ساعد أناساً عدة من الرجال والنساء على تحقيق النجاح، كما أنه كتاب كلاسيكي حديث، ومفيد لكل شخص يريد أن يتحرر، ويعيش حياة أكثر سعادة، إنه كتاب نفيس ستحبه مثل الملايين قبلك، فاستمتع بقراءته!.
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Published by مكتبة جرير (first published January 1st 1987)
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Tommy
Jun 27, 2008 Tommy rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
A girlfriend in grad school gave me this book, shortly before we parted ways, in fact. It was a real eye-opener to me that I lived much of my life hovering around the perimeter of the pool rather than jumping in with both feet.

Most eye-opening for me, though, was it was the first time I had been taught that fear was fine - embrace it, don't dodge it. Then, walk through the fire anyway.

I'm not saying I turned into Russell Crowe from "Gladiator" because of it. I'm still more Woody Allen from "Ann
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Katya Kean
Jul 23, 2014 Katya Kean rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: gave-up-on
I was afraid to leave this review, but I did it anyway. Kidding.

Really, though, this book is probably really important for some people. Women, especially. Women leaving relationships, I'd imagine. The first two chapters are pretty neat. They highlight an important truth that you can't wait for the fear to go away before you do something.

I know that this book influenced a lot of other books I've liked.

The 3 stars instead of 4 or 5 is partially because of sentences like these:
[This] "Higher Self i
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Jj873
Aug 23, 2008 Jj873 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: anyone who wants to feel that they control their life, it doesn't control them.
Recommended to Jj873 by: random find by my mom
Having lived most of my life with debilitating Panic Disorder (google it if you're curious) this book has done more to put me in charge of my life than all the years of medications, therapy, and all the other self-help books I've read combined.
I encountered this book at the worst point in my mental health struggle (being nearly housebound by agoraphobia - again, google if needed) and truly found it to be a sanity saver!
If it has helped me pull myself back from the brink of desolation too deep an
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Greg Stearns
The book starts off with a pretty decent premise which is entirely summed up in the title.

Things will always be scary until you master them, then there will be something new to be afraid of so instead of eliminating your fear you should be working on pushing through. There are some decent ideas and suggestions in the first couple chapters, but it goes downhill for the rest of the book.

Between the constant ads for her other products (Inspirational Audios, books of affirmations, etc) and the unaba
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Moira
"Should be required reading for every person who can read," says Jack Canfield (author of Chicken Soup for the Soul) and I completely concur. I learned so much from it and use her techniques constantly. Jeffers has a PhD in Psychology, and her book is full of inspiring calls to action and powerful but accessible techniques to help "start taking charge of your life."

There are many practical, simple (although not necessarily easy) things one can do to confront fear. Jeffers suggests ways to take
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Marthad
Mar 16, 2012 Marthad rated it liked it
في الحقيقة تقييم لن يكون دقيقاً، لكني على كل حال سأكتب تجربتي الشخصية معه.

الكتاب جيد وغير جيد.
غير جيِّد لأن المؤلفة ذكرت أن حل مشكلة الخوف ليس لازماً أن نعود إلى جذورها التي كونتها. وشخصياً، أعتقد أن هذا إلى حد ما غير دقيق، أو يحتاج إلى تدقيق. لأنه كما ذكرت في غيرما كتاب أن أكثر مشاكلنا اليوم هي نتاج طفولتنا.

النقطة الأولى: بشكل شخصي أحببت الكتب التي تبدأ في حل المشكلة من أساسها بدلا من إعطاء أساليب وعلاجات لمعالجة الأعراض
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وهذه الطريقة يستخدمها ( جون غراي في كتابه ما تشعر به )
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Lucinda
Oct 19, 2015 Lucinda rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: inspirational

The only way to conquer fear is to face it!

In life, we encounter many trials and tribulations (these may be internal or literal realities) yet the only way to overcome our struggles is to be ‘a tryer’ and try until you overcome the obstacle. There is never a more perfect time than when you’re broken and hit rock bottom, than to give it a crack [uncertain and expectant of failure] is the only way.

Whilst reading this illuminating, informative book I thought about – how everyone seems to judge th
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Rori Rischak
Man. How do you rate a book that steadily devolves from five stars down to one star?

This starts out as a five star book. The first few chapters of this book have probably altered my world view permanently. Here's the gist of what really hit home for me:

At the heart of every fear we have is one single fear: "I can't handle it." This is an absolute revelation, at least to me, because it means that there is one reliable (though still not easy) formula to be used for overcoming fear: convince yourse
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Alexandra
Apr 06, 2012 Alexandra rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I finished reading this book 2 weeks ago, and feel compelled to review it.

A few short months ago i took the steps needed to change my life for the better. I was not happy living how i was, i hated my body, i hated myself, all because i was scared of the truth. That truth is that i am transgender.

I admitted to myself that i needed to seek medical help, to rectify my situation, which includes taking hormones and having gender reassignment surgery in the future. I went to the doctor in december 201
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Nick
Mar 22, 2009 Nick rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Sir Ken Thompson recommended this book in his, The Element. I picked it up with some trepidation, because the whole idea sounded so simple. But it's a top-notch self-help book, about a whole lot more than just fear. Jeffers covers the whole waterfront of ineffectual behavior and patiently tells you how to stop it and replace it with better behavior. If you're stuck at any point with fears, resentments, bottled up anger, and so on, this book will help (if you let it).
Ashley
Sep 01, 2007 Ashley rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: own, favorites
A friend of mine recommended this book to me and at first I was a bit skeptical but fell in love after the first 10 pages. It seems to cover every issue you come across without actually pinpointing one certain issue.

It's a good book to fall back on as a quick picker-upper if you're having a bad day or just feel discouraged. It's helped with my personal life alot and it's something I'm sure to have memorized within the next 10 years.

Rebecca Foster
Oct 06, 2015 Rebecca Foster rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: skimmed, self-help
Originally published in 1987, this self-help classic was reissued in a 25th anniversary edition in 2012. I looked over it for a proposed comparison article with How to Win Friends and Influence People (later cancelled, alas) and found this one to be more relevant and readable. Jeffers says that at the base of every fear is a belief that “I can’t handle it.” Our fears are either of things that can happen to us (ageing and natural disasters) or of actions we might take (going back to school or c ...more
JChipol
"Take your life in your own hands, and what happens? A terrible thing: no one to blame. " Erica Jong

One of my favourite quotes of all time sums up what this book is trying to say; basically we cannot blame situations around us for the state of our own lives. This book brings up some very interesting thoughts; we are in control of our own attitudes and decisions. We may not be able to control the hand that life has dealt us, but we certainly are in control with what decisions we make in order to
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Pam Burzynski
Oct 19, 2013 Pam Burzynski rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: self-help
A self-help book addict, I've read a ton of them and was pleasantly surprised and "fearless" by the time I finished Feel the Fear....

Hoping for solutions or a "how to" to let go of or conquer "a" fear, I realized this book was much bigger than "a" fear.

You will be relieved to know that Jeffers does not believe that our fears are psychological--phew! Rather she believes our fears are, in most cases, an educational problem, and her book is loaded with ways to help us reeducate our mind.

Not heavy,
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Jessica (j*&p*)
Jul 27, 2008 Jessica (j*&p*) rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Susan Jeffers has a lot of sound, practical advice for taking the step to overcome the nagging fears that are standing in the way of getting to the places you want to be in your life and career.

The first year I was teaching at a university I was really nervous and anxious whenever I stepped into the classroom. I loved what I was doing, but hated not being an expert with years of experience yet. What if a student asked me a question I didn't know the answer to?


I used to read a little bit of thi
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Elicia
Jun 12, 2009 Elicia rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction
A great book for everyone even if you don't think the title applies to you.
Sometimes the only way to overcome the fear and feel better about yourself is to just go out and do it. But it also talks about taking more control of your life instead of indecision ruling because of being afraid of making mistakes. Tells you how to move from a position of pain ("It's not my fault, I'm never satisfied, It's terrible") to one of power ("I'm totally responsible, I want to learn and grow, It's a learning e
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Haneen Najeh
May 26, 2014 Haneen Najeh rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: audio-books
"How many times you wanted to do sth but you stopped yourself because you were afraid?"
The book has started with this sentence.

I can say that I learned a lot from this book; one and the most important thing that I learned is that to feel fear and do it anyway.

When I read the subject of the book at the first time I excepted it be good and good it was.

We used to think that feeling fear is a good reason to not do sth BUT it hasn't to be this way.

Suzan is is speaking about fear and it's kinds.
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Tilda
Feb 08, 2013 Tilda rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
I'd call it a bag of pebbles and pearls. Some stuff a bit overly simplistic and unrealistic, but some real pearls of wisdom as well. It goes beyond the subject of "fear" and encourages a positive attitude and lifestyle in general.

As I mentioned in an earlier review, I'm not a fan of affirmations, and I believe that the underlying problem should be addressed, not masked. And I think her expectations for people to choose to feel positive even under the most dire circumstances (e.g. bereavement or
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Daniel Petra
Apr 08, 2016 Daniel Petra rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
An exxxtremely helpful and very practical book. To deal with fear, anxieties and toxic emotions is never easy. I have learned much that is useful and practical from this book. I have been guided and inspired by this book for decades. It has guided be to write Chapter 13 in Missing Links which deals with: Our Toxic Emotions. I am truly very grateful to Susan Jeffers.
Alana Muir
It was a good book that reinforced a lot of the ideas I've been given in both individual and group therapy, and I'd recommend it to anyone with anxiety. The one complaint I have is that the author has some very irritating attitudes towards disability and chronic illness. In more than one anecdote, she implies that a patient was faking or making up an illness and once they adopted a positive attitude, all their symptoms disappeared. For people with chronic illness, we already face doctors and pee ...more
Rae
Dec 28, 2015 Rae rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Susan Jeffers is obviously a lovely person and refreshingly non-judgemental. I'm sure this book has helped many people. For me, however; it's a bit like trying to put a glove on an octopus.

Why why why does the self help genre insist upon it's one-size-fits-all, simplistic approach to human behaviour? Why does it insist on taking good ideas and motivational advice and turning it into a miracle cure... You will be happy and fulfilled and live an amazing life if you only take the prescribed advice,
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Emily
Great book, it was an easy, quick read. I actually read a few times. The author brings up some good points on how we see fear, how even as children we are told to "be careful" and we see an optimist as a Pollyana and their positive view as unrealistic even though most of our fears of negatives things never actually happen.
The author gives you a few strategies to try to keep out of the negative/fearful mindset and gives great examples of how she overcame her fears.
Hope Irvin Marston
This author believes that fear is primarily an educational problem. By reeducating your mind, you can accept fear as a fact of life rather than a barrier to success. Step by step she shows you how to develop trust in your ability to handle whatever comes your way--to face any situation, determined to show yourself and anyone else who may be watching, you CAN handle it. You have the power within yourself to do that. Bottom line: “If we do not consciously and consistently focus on the spiritual pa ...more
Stacey Rice
Mar 20, 2012 Stacey Rice rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Stumbled up on this book some years ago and was glad I picked it up. It helped me get past the fear of sitting down and talking about business with individuals I didn't know. This book is a real eye opener, deserves a re-read.
Karthikeyan Chellappa
This is a great book that will help you move past your fears. As the title suggests, first acknowledge that the fear exists and then do exactly the thing you are resisting to overcome your fear. That's easier said than done, which is why the exercises provided at the end of each chapter help you implement the tools and techniques covered in this book. Here are some of my best takeaways -

(1) The seven definitions of taking responsibility, which includes never blaming anyone or yourself for whate
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Kirsty
Aug 08, 2014 Kirsty rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
To shake things up a bit for our radio book club shows we decided to read a regular book but also some kind of factual one

My copy proudly declares it’s a 20th anniversary edition so my first concern was if it would still be relevant in today’s society and after reading through it I would say yes. The only really out of bit parts are technological. In one chapter she mentions picking up the phone or writing a letter and getting in touch with people. While still positives to do these days you’re
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Daniel Johnson
I checked this book out from the library and wanted to renew it, but there was a hold on it. I kept it anyway throughout December because I needed to read this. I've taken notes and refer almost every day to them. At the very basis of every fear is the feeling that "I Can't Handle It!" or "I Won't Be Able To Handle It!" Once you get it down that you actually can - most of us just have to look to our past to see what we've been through to get encouragement that we can - then it's just letting go ...more
Amjid Mohammed
Jun 30, 2013 Amjid Mohammed rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway

An amazing book that changed my life. A quick read that has the potential to change the course of your future and redefine you as a person forever.

The lessons I learnt from this book have accompanied me through the last 6 years and have played a major factor on the quality of my life and in my decision making.

Although there are a lot of old school positive affirmations involved, I think the underlying message is priceless. I read this book and the next day when I w
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Mckinley
See fear in wrong way. If not feeling fear, may not be growing. Different types of fear. Re-educate about fears. Affirm what is so don't get bogged down, lose terror of what could be. 90% of what we fear doesn't happen. Re-fuel, positively re-energize with inspirational books, quotes, affirmations, etc.
Robert
May 09, 2009 Robert rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
A very wothwhile book to read if you are looking for information on personal development. It illustrates how we let our irrational fears limit our potential and more importantly how to go about overcoming them. The books is short and easy to read and contains many simple and prectical examples and exercises.

I would say that you are unlikley to find all the answers you are searching for in this book however it does have a few that most people should find very worthwhile. I would recommend it as a
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Susan Jeffers, Ph.D. has helped millions of people throughout the world overcome their fears, heal their relationships, and move forward in life with confidence and love.

She is the author of many internationally renowned books including Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway, Feel the Fear. . .and Beyond, Feel the Fear Power Planner, End the Struggle and Dance W
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