Lips Unsealed: A Memoir

Lips Unsealed: A Memoir

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The women of the iconic eighties band the Go-Go’s will always be remembered as they appeared on the back of their debut record: sunny, smiling, each soaking in her own private bubble bath with chocolates and champagne. The photo is a perfect tribute to the fun, irreverent brand of pop music that the Go-Go’s created, but it also conceals the trials and secret demons that th...more
Hardcover, 272 pages
Published June 1st 2010 by Crown Archetype (first published 2010)
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Katherine
Pretty good. I am, and always have been, a big Go Go's fan. It started off really interesting but by the end was a little monotonous and I felt like screaming "Either get off the blow or die already!"
Sally
I was at the library and saw this book in the return pile and thought, Hey! Belinda Carlisle! I was a Go Go's fan, owned their first 2 albums in my record collection. Judging from the title, I thought this should be a good read about the Go Go's told by the lead-singer herself. However....
Belinda, Belinda, Belinda! You seriously glossed over the years with the Go Go's and wrote a book about a coke/alcohol addiction lasting 30yrs! Hardcore! Why are you still alive?! And why did it take you 30yrs...more
Louise
This is the year for the rock memoir. There are new books by Keith Richard, Paul McCartney, Pat Benatar and Belinda Carlyle to name just a few.

About a week ago I read Pat Benatar's Between a Heart and a Rock Place: A Memoir and just finished this one today. The experience of the music industry as lived by these two women couldn't be more different. Both came from modest families, but Benatar's was stable and Carlyle's was not. Besides the chaotic home life, Carlyle's trials as a teen basically a...more
Neil McGarry
As an ardent Go-Go's fan, this was a must-read for me. Belinda was never my favorite of the five (Jane Wiedlin rocks!), but if she had been, Lips Unsealed might have changed my mind.

Beginning from her early childhood, Lips Unsealed follows Carlisle's career from struggle to stardom to decline, and the most common element of it all is drugs and music...and the inability to cope with either. There are some great insights into the music industry in this book, although most of it comes during the s...more
Georgette
I loved the Go-Gos. I still love the Go-Go's. What I wasn't too hot about was Belinda's autobiography. While it was quite enlightening to read about her struggles with addiction and weight issues, it seemed throughout the book as if she was striving for more sympathy, by piling on more and more of things that went wrong. She glossed over the Go-Go's(in my opinion) and the fact that they were a pretty big part of the 80's(girl groups, that unlike the Monkees, played their own instruments, did the...more
Nicole
This book was a real guilty pleasure, just like the Go-Gos' music, which I secretly love.

The book was an entertaining history of the Go-Gos and then Belinda Carlisle's solo career. It also had plenty of celebrity cameos and stories of debauchery from the Behind-the-Music years, which was exactly what I was hoping for. My only complaint about the book is that it's clear that the story Belinda Carlisle really wanted to tell was the story of her addiction--it's an addiction memoir even more than i...more
Laura
I love the Go-Go's. 'Beauty and the Beat' was the first record album I bought with my own money, and I've been a huge fan of the group for as long as I can remember. Following them in fanzines and the press, I'd always heard about Belinda's antics so I had to read this book to get the story from 'the horse's mouth'.

The book is good. She doesn't get into too much detail, but she's very open. The tone is conversational, and it was very interesting to hear about the group's start and her early lif...more
Chris
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christa
I fell in love with Belinda Carlisle in the back of a clunky brown passenger van in the summer of 1987, my walkman spinning the cassette of her debut solo album, "Belinda." On the cover, the most beautiful woman in the world was dressed in all black against a Hubba Bubba pink backdrop, her bob flung whimsically in a way that said "I'm the kind of girl who tosses her hair. I'm always having fun."

To see her on MTV supported this personae. In her videos, Belinda Carlisle spun and rolled in the sand...more
Dachokie
Not a Happy Tale ..., September 28, 2010

When I saw this book, I thought it was a "must-read" for me. The Go-Gos' music musically documented a period of my generation, just like "Fast Times at Ridgemont High" did visually. Similar to Robert Plant or Mick Jagger, Belinda Carlisle easily commanded attention as a gregarious vocalist of a popular music group ... and over the years, the tabloid stories and a surprise "Playboy" picture spread generated obvious clues that she had a story to tell. Initia...more
V. Briceland
When it comes to celebrity memoirs, I can't think of any I've read that have quite as many eye-popping drug-related revelations as Carlisle's tell-all. In fact, I'm not sure how any of them are going to top Carlisle's confession about taking a large opium ball as a suppository. And I'm not sure I'm really want to find out.

Carlisle's memoir is a fairly absorbing read about her outsider childhood and adolescence and the founding, flare-ups, and eventual reconciliations between the Go-Go's, mostly...more
Wendy Wallace
While I wouldn't call myself a huge Belinda Carlisle fan, I did grow up in the 80's and heard the Go Gos and her solo stuff constantly. I appreciated the memoir for giving the reader an insight into the troubled life of the author. I never would have guessed she was a hardcore drug addict and alcoholic. I came away from the book being reminded that, no matter how beautiful or seemingly charmed someone can appear, there is so much more going on than we see.

I have two gripes though.

One, the book w...more
jess
This book is actually not great but I enjoyed it. The storytelling is flat and shallow, the gossip is slim and Belinda really wants you to appreciate how far she fell so you can appreciate how far she's come during recovery. It is more of an addiction memoir than a chronicle of the Go-Go's. While it's not a great addiction memoir, I managed to find enough to like about it. I appreciated the parts about growing up in the 1980s Los Angeles punk scene, living in gross punk houses and crashing on co...more
Josh
Feb 24, 2013 Josh rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Fans of the Go-Gos & Belinda
In the summer of 1984, I was at summer camp and one of the camp counselor's put on a cassette tape of The Go-Gos "Talk Show." In an instant, I fell in love with the group. I begged the counselor to play the tape over again, and so began my relationship with Belinda Carlisle, Jane Weidlin, Kathy Valentine, Gina Shock, and Charlotte Caffey. It's been an enduring interaction with this amazing girl band who I can honestly say changed my love of music.

29 years later, I sat down to read the recollecti...more
Lisa Stephenson
This is a 2010 autobiography by Belinda Carlisle, lead singer of the 80s all-girl rock band The Go-Gos. In the book, she met almost every big name in the music business but the book was primarily about her constant drinking and drug-taking, which continued until 2005, years after she was for all intents and purposes out of the music business. During the past few decades she has been extremely lucky to have stayed married to her husband Morgan Mason (actor James Mason's son) and raised a son, Duk...more
Alexis
I quite liked this book. I wanted to give it 3.5 stars but alas that is not an option here. I have great memories of being a little girl listening to the Go-Gos and then Belinda herself as a solo artist. I always thought she was adorable. The ending about how she found yoga and chanting was a bit meh for me as that is not my thing but hey whatever lets you sleep at night as I always say. I think it was a very honest memoir and you get to see a side of her that has been hidden from the world. I w...more
Snapekat
I remember getting the LP of "Beauty & the Beat" when I was in 7th grade. I thought it was way cool that it was all girls and they were so TOUGH and rock n roll! Over the years I had heard the stories about the wild parties and antics of these chicks and I guess that was what I was really looking for. "We were so smashed we did ___ and ___." You get some of that in this book, but mostly you get Belinda talking about how she spent nearly 25 years wacked out on drugs and alcohol. More than hal...more
Mike
When I think of Belinda Carlisle, the first song that comes to mind is her hit "Heaven is a Place on Earth" that came out while I was in high school. I was a fan of hers, loving the music she wrote and came out with. Little did I realize until reading this book, what she really was like...into the hard core rocker party scene...and its only been in recent years that shes come to terms with her past problems and seems to have a great outlook on life.

This book was a good read...I enjoyed reading a...more
Lori
If you are a Go-Go's fan and/or a Belinda Carlisle fan, you will enjoy her autobiography entitled Lips Unsealed. Although her book is marketed as a memoir, I believe it to be more autobiographical. In an autobiography, the author discusses one's entire life from birth to the present. In a memoir, the author focuses on an aspect or a snapshot. Belinda focuses on three main points of her life: her musical influences and coming-of-age as a Go-Go, her alcohol and drug addictions that haunted her for...more
Agatha West
I am a huge Belinda Carlisle fan, she is beautiful, and her music is timeless. She is also a very good author (if she did write this by herself, I am always suspicious lol)and her writing style is clear, consice, and it was a very easy read because of that.

She has had a hard life, and through most of the book she seeks out an answer for why she treats her body and her loved ones the way she does. She does find that answer near the end of the book, and it does speak to how families can be breedin...more
Etcetorize
Sep 06, 2012 Etcetorize rated it 2 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Fans of Belinda Carlisle
I was a teen girl in the 80's so of course that means I was a big fan of the Go-Go's and later a bigger fan of Belinda Carlisle in her solo years. This book is a good account of how the band formed, their early trials before they became famous, and what lead to the downfall and eventual break up of the band.

There isn't a large amount of emotion in the recounting of the tales of the past for Carlisle, then again, maybe that's because she was completely out of it for most of her life. I was startl...more
Shaney
Belinda Carlisle and the Go-go's were and still are one of my favorite bands. The first time I heard them, I was in 7th grade Spanish class and a classmate had the "Vacation" cassette tape in his (1983) Walkman. He let me listen for a second and I was hooked. I went home and begged my parents for my own music, but I didn't have a Walkman so I bought a 45--(a record, OMG!) of We Got the Beat. As I read this title on my NOOK as an ebook, I listened along to the songs she referred to on the NOOK mu...more
Alicia
I liked the stuff about the LA punk scene in the early 80s. But the tales of the $300-a-day coke habit for 20+ years were really repetitive, as these things tend to be. Still, there were some especially impressive feats in cocaine intake. For example, JOHN BELUSHI cautioned Belinda about her drug use. That's right, John Belushi. And also, Rod Stewart scolded her for partying too hard and keeping him up all night. Rod Stewart! And also, she did coke in her five-year-old son's elementary school ba...more
Krusher Basta
Hello, my name is Bill, and I am a G0 GO’s fan. There, I admitted it.
I was inclined not to post anything about this book and not acknowledge that I was reading it. However, once I started reading I really like the book. It isn’t so much about the Go-Go’s but the rock or punk rock lifestyle; all or nothing. It almost defies all reason that Belinda Carlisle and the Go-Go’s should have been a success, but they were. And I admit that I am glad they were.
To me one of the best features of the G0 GO’s...more
Devin Tait
I started reading this book on a Saturday morning, just intending to pass some time before I would begin my day. Well, the "day" never happened, because I could not put the book down - I just read it from cover to cover, stopping only to eat lunch. It was that much of a page-turner. Admittedly, I am a huge Go-Go's fan, and grew up with Belinda's solo music, and I own all of her CD's. It was great to hear her behind-the-scenes versions of what went on behind the making of each album, the tours, t...more
Mehjabeen
Sep 29, 2012 Mehjabeen is currently reading it
This isn't a review but an anticipation of reading a book I've wanted to read a long time. As a big Go-Gos fan and admirer of Belinda in all the tabloid spreads with her handsome hubby starting, I thought her life was so cool. I listed to the Mad About You LP so much I had to go get another one after a few years. Anyway, ho hum, gonna read this and take a trip down memory lane. Canadian fans, she was on Jian Ghomeshi's Q 2 years back to promo the book and while I'd heard of her drug and alchohol...more
Becky Sandham Mathwin
A junk book I picked up at the library on a whim. I'm not a big Go Go's fan so I don't really know why I thought I'd be interested in this. I really don't care for Belinda too much (or at least how she portrays herself in this memoir). I finished the book but I skimmed through parts of it. What a narcissistic person. I give her credit for being very honest about her drug and alcohol problems but feel sorry that her husband and son had to put up with her issues for so long. I know drug/alcohol ad...more
Kris
I was very into the Go-Go's in the day, so I thought this would be a fun read for my trip up North.

The early parts with the band were by far the best part. I found Belinda very tedious after a while, and then downright annoying by the end. Usually addicts seen to learn from themselves before they write a book about it. She didn't seem to. It was a never-ending stream of using, not using. Got really old.

She also tacked on some new age-y Buddhist stuff at the end which seemed forced to me. The end...more
Kim
I only marked "read" b/c I am done with this book. I got about 75 pages in and it just seemed like I was reading about drugs, drugs & more drugs. While I don't proclaim to be an angel, I didn't feel the need to continue to read about BC's party days. I got the point. The funny thing is that I really thought I liked BC and have always liked the Go Go's and even BC's solo music.

My final feeling before I stopped reading this book was that I have so many books that I want to read on my list, I...more
Suzy
I loved it-but then again my favorite band in the 80's was the GoGo's. As a child we had crushes on the same actors so it was a trip down memory lane. Belinda was very candid-especially about her drug use which was out of control. I was scared and appalled at times and saddened that had she been sober her experiences could have had so much more meaning and depth, especially those with her son. She clearly has lucked out when it comes to her marriage, not many men would have stood by her through...more
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Belinda Jo Carlisle is a Grammy Award–nominated American singer. After beginning her career as a drummer or backup singer for some Los Angeles music groups, she achieved international recognition in the early 80s as lead singer of the new wave group The Go-Go's. The Go-Go's made history as the first all-woman band that both entirely wrote their own songs and played their own instruments to top the...more
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