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So Long, Insecurity: You've Been A Bad Friend To Us
by
Beth Moore
2011 Retailers Choice Award winner!Perhaps one of the biggest issues all women face is their own insecurity. Beth Moore, one of today's most admired and trusted Christian writers, wants women to be free from the insecurity trap. "So Long, Insecurity" will strike a chord with women everywhere, as Beth speaks truth into the lives of readers, showing them how to deal with the...more
Hardcover, 352 pages
Published
February 2nd 2010
by Tyndale House Publishers
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There was some good stuff in there. Overall I had the same complaint about Beth Moore as I had before. I cannot relate to her. She is almost insufferably girly. In fact I identified far more closely with one of her male correspondents who answered a question about his own insecurities than I did with any of the women she described. I don't think Beth Moore is shallow at all, but she sort of comes across that way, because the world that she inhabits is such an utterly feminine one. I suppose that...more
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The title leave you nothing to wonder about....it's about insecurity. And if every woman was honest with herself, we would recognize that oftentimes we fail to embrace our God given security, strength and dignity like we should. I think this book is an outstanding tool, even if you don't feel like you have cronic insecurity. It's eye opening to how, we as women, tend to walk into a room and immediately compare ourselves to our surroundings and chalk points into the "do I measure up" column. I pa...more
This was a pretty decent read. Nothing earth-shattering here, but some good reminders about our identity in Christ and how we as women are to relate to other women. I like one thing she pointed out as a suggestion that I had not considered before.
She suggested that women who have extremely beautiful body types might not want to flaunt what they've got ALL the time. Wearing figure-flattering clothes is one thing, but constantly strutting your stuff in front of women less fortunate by comparison...more
She suggested that women who have extremely beautiful body types might not want to flaunt what they've got ALL the time. Wearing figure-flattering clothes is one thing, but constantly strutting your stuff in front of women less fortunate by comparison...more
Ummm. Okay. I'm not going to be a Beth Moore Basher because I think for a lot of women she has really been helpful and I think she really does love the Lord. But...sometimes she gets a little carried away and in her enthusiasm can cutesy up the Bible or be so determined to make a humorous point that she ends up missing her mark just a bit. My real complaint about this book is the one I have had of all her books so far (and the only reason I've read this and those is because they were chosen for...more
I've read books by Beth Moore before. While most women seem to love what she has written, I've never been a huge fan. I've not one to really struggle with insecurity, so I'm not sure I'm the best one to write a review. However, I realized why insecurity probably isn't a big issue to me. In the book, she talks about how once we depersonalize someone, we no longer see them as human, and they are larger than life in our minds. I stopped to think about that. If you were to look at my list of friends...more
Beth Moore has the heart of a servant and this book proves her passion, knowledge, and wisdom in Christ. She has done her best in helping women believe in their God-given beauty, talent, and anointing from Christ. With tact, Moore convicts with the Holy Spirit's guidance and touches the brokenness with the compassion from the Father. Women in today's age need a reality check, and Moore helps unravel the lies and temptations the world burdens us with. I recommended this book to every friend I hav...more
I was a little apprehensive about going through this book. Up until now I have tended to write off the, in my view, over-sensationalized "Beth Moore" women's studies and have consequently avoided them. However, I was proved quite wrong in my private little stereotype, and the shallow book I expected turned out to bring me to depths in both my spiritual journey and my emotional and mental well-being that no book ever has. Ever.
This book is easy to read, but has clearly been used by the Holy Spir...more
This book is easy to read, but has clearly been used by the Holy Spir...more
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I tend to dislike womanish books. Not this one. Beth is humorous and her illustrations hit home. Insecurity has done damage to my energy and intimacy in relationships. What I learned from this book has helped me relax and enjoy myself.
What I learned---
What is insecurity
-self-doubt and uncertainty about my place in the world, -self-consciousness, anxiety, lack of confidence, fear of rejection, unsure of whether my feelings are legitimate.
-self-preoccupation—more aware of self than anyone else in...more
What I learned---
What is insecurity
-self-doubt and uncertainty about my place in the world, -self-consciousness, anxiety, lack of confidence, fear of rejection, unsure of whether my feelings are legitimate.
-self-preoccupation—more aware of self than anyone else in...more
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Review by Jill Williamson
I love Beth Moore. I've never met her, but I've done several of her Bible studies and had the privilege of attending one of her conferences. The woman inspires me. Why? Because she's real. She's suffered through life, just like the rest of us, and she refuses to let that define her. Praise Jesus for that! That, and her passion for studying the Word of God, draws me, and thousands of other women, to her like sheep to a shepherd. She is a disciple of Jesus. She teaches Hi...more
I love Beth Moore. I've never met her, but I've done several of her Bible studies and had the privilege of attending one of her conferences. The woman inspires me. Why? Because she's real. She's suffered through life, just like the rest of us, and she refuses to let that define her. Praise Jesus for that! That, and her passion for studying the Word of God, draws me, and thousands of other women, to her like sheep to a shepherd. She is a disciple of Jesus. She teaches Hi...more
Beth Moore says our journey to authentic security can only be found in a relationship with Jesus as walk in who He says we are; not what we or others tell us we are. Beth Moore writes like she talks. Because of that it was fun to read this book on such a touchy subject. I didn’t realize the many faces of insecurity until she pointed them out. It’s staggering.
I enjoyed Beth Moore’s honest approach as she says, “Do you ever stop in your tracks and ask yourself out loud, “What am I doing?” Boy, I d...more
I enjoyed Beth Moore’s honest approach as she says, “Do you ever stop in your tracks and ask yourself out loud, “What am I doing?” Boy, I d...more
Beth Moore has discovered what many of us already intuitively knew: that our insidious insecurities are inner time bombs that destroy ourselves and our cherished relationships. She unfolds the devious plot of the enemy of our souls to make us afraid and doubtful of others’ motives to the point of isolating us from meaningful loving friendships, marriages, etc. Insecurity causes women to hate each other instead of befriend each other; causes us to treat people as objects to either conquer or comp...more
Beth Moore is so fun to read because she writes just like she speaks. A down to earth soul-sister, she says what is really going through her mind as though your sitting at the kitchen table having coffee and talking it up. This book was really really good, as the jumping off stage of awareness to the dreadful and undetected, vastly common problem in society….insecurity/inferiority. This book will give you knowledge and understanding to immediately change the way you act and perceive others. I en...more
This book was among several Beth Moore audio books I downloaded from overdrive.com (through the public library system). I didn't feel that I had any issues with insecurity. Sure, I have some creep up now and then. However, when I started listening to this I realized just how much I do suffer from insecurities in many areas of life. Wow. The good thing is that while sometimes it's hard to get real with yourself facing what's bad in your life, it gives you a chance to make changes. Beth helps you...more
Beth Moore is one of my all time favorite speakers, bible study writers, and book writers. She has big texas hair, makeup and jewelry, and she knows it & isn't afraid to poke fun at herself.
This book was a slower read than the others, as it was a lot of food for thought. I think it's a great book for moms of girls to read, as some of her advice about the world we're raising our daighters in is RIGHT ON THE MONEY.
Proverbs 31:25 is the premise of the book. She is clothed with strength and dign...more
This book was a slower read than the others, as it was a lot of food for thought. I think it's a great book for moms of girls to read, as some of her advice about the world we're raising our daighters in is RIGHT ON THE MONEY.
Proverbs 31:25 is the premise of the book. She is clothed with strength and dign...more
9 You whom I have taken from the ends of the earth,
And called from its farthest regions,
And said to you,
‘ You are My servant,
I have chosen you and have not cast you away:
10 Fear not, for I am with you;
Be not dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you,
Yes, I will help you,
I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’
(Isaiah 41:9-10, New King James Version)
This is a book I was really looking forward to read and not just because it's a "Beth Moore" book, but because like many pe...more
And called from its farthest regions,
And said to you,
‘ You are My servant,
I have chosen you and have not cast you away:
10 Fear not, for I am with you;
Be not dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you,
Yes, I will help you,
I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’
(Isaiah 41:9-10, New King James Version)
This is a book I was really looking forward to read and not just because it's a "Beth Moore" book, but because like many pe...more
This book is awesome! I did not have too high of expectations because I do not like the title. I really enjoyed the read, though! I was afraid she was going to rant about how insecure I am, but she let me know it is okay to be mostly secure with a few small battles with insecurity. Beth Moore has a great way of story telling. She uses colorful language and verbage. She has an uncanny ability to describe things. She researched what women and men are insecure about. Those thoughts were a favorite...more
Although I often begin inspirational books focused on women with a large grain of salt,I found this book to be surprisingly honest,conversational,and helpful. Thankfully,there weren't all of those horrible sweeping generalizations about "all women;"instead,she used her own journey with insecurity as well as the honest(and anonymous)stories that she received in response to an online survey--although not a comprehensive and sound method of reaching a statistic,it was useful for her purpose which w...more
Another excellent book from Beth Moore. I pretty much know that anything I read of hers is going to be fantastic. This book is so full of honest insight. It was convicting. That is what I love about her books. She tells it like it is. Her willingness to share her own experiences creates a safe space to open up and look honestly within. I found myself shaking my head in agreement with every turn of the page: "Yup, this is me too." I also love that she speaks honestly when she says that every sing...more
I bought this book because of two reasons: First, I love Beth Moore--she has great insight, is a fantastic Bible teacher and can be those things and still embrace a spray tan. Secondly, I wanted to dig into something deeper--but not as deep (with as much homework) as a typical Beth Moore study. I did not buy this book because I thought that I was fraught with crazy insecurities.
HOWEVER, let me just say that I have learned a lot about myself, and others, from So Long Insecurity. Granted, there a...more
HOWEVER, let me just say that I have learned a lot about myself, and others, from So Long Insecurity. Granted, there a...more
Beth Moore is one of my favorite authors as well! She is a Christian author. Because this book could imply religion, I would not recommend this to be read to students. Maybe this would be a better book for college settings and for personal reading time. A lot of her books have to deal with Christianity, and since I am a Christian, they are perfect for me!
This book was all about how to deal with insecurities. Not only was it about how to deal with them, but it was also about how insecurities begi...more
This book was all about how to deal with insecurities. Not only was it about how to deal with them, but it was also about how insecurities begi...more
Moore tackles a topic that all women I know suffer from but usually won't admit. That's what the 5 stars are for. It's a great book because of how she approaches the topic not necessarily for her writing. Moore has southern wit and charm but it got a little too thick in this book for my liking. But because of how deftly she handled the subject matter I was able to read through the laying on of thick wit and charm and appreciate the conversation she facilitated about insecurity. I read this book...more
What are the key factors of insecurity? How do you confront insecurity issues and how can you break out of different types of insecurity mindsets? The answers to these and other personal insecurity questions can be found within this book.
How to help ourselves and one another battle issues, how to recognize problems and to achieve satisfaction from the past and present.
This book includes prayers and passages from the bible. A concise, complete volume that can bring the reader out from the pit o...more
How to help ourselves and one another battle issues, how to recognize problems and to achieve satisfaction from the past and present.
This book includes prayers and passages from the bible. A concise, complete volume that can bring the reader out from the pit o...more
This book should be standard issue to every woman on earth. Probably every man, as well. Whether insecurity dogs your steps constantly or whether it only rears its ugly head on occasion, we all hate that ugly feeling. Moore delves deep into finding the root of the problem of insecurity and helps us examine why we find ourselves falling into this trap. Like a wise and loving big sister, she doesn't pull any punches but with authenticity and transparency about her own struggles, Beth offers practi...more
While Beth Moore's Bible studies have been immensely eye-opening to me, her book So Long, Insecurity was a waste of time. The book begins promisingly enough, but then spends too many pages explaining that, yes, this is a book about insecurity, and yes, some people are insecure, and yes, insecure people might benefit from reading about insecurity. She forgot, apparently, that she'd already said that with the title. This often happens in self-help books - pages and pages spent justifying its publi...more
Although I usually shy away from women's Bible study material (often brain-light and emotion-laden), I've discovered that I like Beth Moore. She is insightful, intelligent, and funny. She doesn't skimp on theology.
She's written some excellent studies (eg, Stepping Up: A Journey Through the Psalms of Ascent). This is the first book I've read by Beth Moore that isn't a Bible study. The topic is an important one for women, and I'm glad Ms. Moore addresses it. However, the book isn't as polished as...more
She's written some excellent studies (eg, Stepping Up: A Journey Through the Psalms of Ascent). This is the first book I've read by Beth Moore that isn't a Bible study. The topic is an important one for women, and I'm glad Ms. Moore addresses it. However, the book isn't as polished as...more
Funny story--A couple of friends of mine asked me to read this book with them as sort of a "Bible Study group". I figured that I don't deal with a lot of insecurity issues, but what could it hurt? And then, when I went to first put it on goodreads, I thought, "I can't put this book up here, people with think I am insecure!" So, there you go--I could use a lesson in insecurity after all. :)
I don't agree with Moore's over-all religious philosophies (she's Southern Baptist) and could go without so...more
I don't agree with Moore's over-all religious philosophies (she's Southern Baptist) and could go without so...more
Everyone on planet earth feels insecurity. It's just that Beth is actually honest enough to admit it. An intriguing read on the root causes and how to move away from being victimized by insecurity. One of the better books I've read this year.
Sep 22, 2012
Dawn
marked it as to-read
This book was a gift by someone very dear to me. Once i started reading i couldnt put it down. Alot of people say i'm a Christian baby and i'm proud of that fact. Beth answered some questions i had plus made me realize i have alot to learn. I am a woman of GOD clothed in Strength and Dignity and no one can take that from me! That statement has made me feel so empowered, for every female in my life that has shared thier problems and pain with me. I repeat those same words to them,once they have t...more
Beth Moore is one of my literary heroes, so it is no surprise that I would love this book. It felt a little more raw then her other materials, which I appreciated, especially considering its topic focus. Reading through this book you learn a couple of things, 1. Everyone, and I mean everyone, has insecurities. They find us in every part of our lives. 2. We can be, and should work towards, being free of them in our lives. The book is definitely geared towards women, though I'm willing to bet men...more
I thought it was a good book, but there were some of the Scripture verses that I think were taken out of context to match the situation. They were meant well and did make sense, but were not what the verses meant at times. Otherwise, it was a good read on a difficult subject to pinpoint and quick-fix. Insecurity is individual and shows up differently in people it can be hard to define depending on the person, their environment, their background, and their temperament. I'd say it worth the read a...more
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FROM THE AUTHOR'S WEB PAGE: Beth founded Living Proof Ministries in 1994 with the purpose of teaching women how to love and live on God’s Word. She has written numerous books and Bible studies, including Breaking Free, Believing God, and When Godly People Do Ungodly Things, that have been read by women of all ages, races, and denominations. Through the y...more
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FROM THE AUTHOR'S WEB PAGE: Beth founded Living Proof Ministries in 1994 with the purpose of teaching women how to love and live on God’s Word. She has written numerous books and Bible studies, including Breaking Free, Believing God, and When Godly People Do Ungodly Things, that have been read by women of all ages, races, and denominations. Through the y...more
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“We're going to have to let truth scream louder to our souls than the lies that have infected us.”
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“As long as we live, our self-absorption and our insecurity will walk together, holding hands and swinging them back and forth like two little girls on their way to a pretend playground they can never find. Human nature dictates that most often we will be as insecure as we are self-absorbed. The best possible way to keep from getting sucked into the superficial narcissistic mentality that money, possessions, and sensuality can satisfy and secure us is to deliberately give ourselves to something much greater...[Christ] showed us that giving, rather than getting, is the means to receiving...to find yourself, your true self, you must lose yourself in something larger.”
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