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Wired Love: A Romance of Dots and Dashes
This book published in 1879 mulls what how authentic a romance can be that is mediated over the wire by two telegraph operators.
An excerpt from the book:But a very significant noise to Miss Nathalie Rogers, or Nattie, as shewas usually abbreviated; a noise that caused her to lay aside her book,and jump up hastily, exclaiming, with a gesture of impatience:--"Somebody always ...more
An excerpt from the book:But a very significant noise to Miss Nathalie Rogers, or Nattie, as shewas usually abbreviated; a noise that caused her to lay aside her book,and jump up hastily, exclaiming, with a gesture of impatience:--"Somebody always ...more
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August 13th 1879
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In all honesty, I have to point out that I actually read the scanned version of this book available (for free) for download through Google Books. I've long been intrigued by the similarities between our times and the 1880s, and this book points out another connection. It tells the story of an early online romance conducted between telegraph operators. The relationship progresses much as you would expect it to if it were conducted using say, Match.com, today. Pitfalls are recognizable to anyone w
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This was a joyful surprise. I was immediately drawn in by the similarities of the long distance communication via telegraph and today's chat rooms, as well as other comments concerning technology. The author had a wonderful grasp of where technology (cell phones!) was headed. And then the characters grabbed hold of me. The various personalities and the situations they found themselves had me laughing out loud through the grand majority of the book. It was such a fun, light read.
'Wired Love- A Romance of Dots and Dashes', by Ella Cheever Thayer (1849-1925), is an enchanting book about a love affair between two telegraphers in America, code names 'N' and 'C'. The couple fall victim to the dangers that internet chat-room users are faced with today: coming into unusually close contact with strangers. For the first few chapters, 'N', known as Nattie, has no idea if the grapher on the end of the line is a man or a woman. She leads a double life - her 'online' life and her hu
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Tremendously cute. The type of story in the "Shop Around the Corner" and "You've Got Mail" genre, although this one pre-dates both.
Nattie, a young woman who has obtained a post in a telegraph office, is having a particularly bad few minutes. The telegrapher on the other end is sending way too fast for her to decipher, a customer is asking stupid questions, and then she upsets a bottle of ink all over herself. These things cause her to interrupt "C" (the telegrapher on the other end) several time ...more
Nattie, a young woman who has obtained a post in a telegraph office, is having a particularly bad few minutes. The telegrapher on the other end is sending way too fast for her to decipher, a customer is asking stupid questions, and then she upsets a bottle of ink all over herself. These things cause her to interrupt "C" (the telegrapher on the other end) several time ...more
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Miss Nathalie Rogers, aka Nattie, is a telegraph operator in the 1870s. She is eighteen and lives in a boarding hotel, having left her family so that they won’t have to support her. She is independent, smart, and aspires to be a writer someday, once she finds the time.
One day, at work, another telegraph operator some sixty miles away begins to chat with her through Morse code. They begin telling stories, laughing (“the circumstance being conveyed to her u ...more
Miss Nathalie Rogers, aka Nattie, is a telegraph operator in the 1870s. She is eighteen and lives in a boarding hotel, having left her family so that they won’t have to support her. She is independent, smart, and aspires to be a writer someday, once she finds the time.
One day, at work, another telegraph operator some sixty miles away begins to chat with her through Morse code. They begin telling stories, laughing (“the circumstance being conveyed to her u ...more
I downloaded this book because of the tantalizing idea that people were falling in love through electronic means in the 1800s -- basically, the 19th century version of Catfish. I wasn't disappointed at all.
The story is cute. In all honesty, it reads like a romantic comedy, though it did a good job of surprising me with some of its twists now and then. One of its strengths is that we not only see the actions of the two people who have fallen for each other "over the wire," but those of others in ...more
The story is cute. In all honesty, it reads like a romantic comedy, though it did a good job of surprising me with some of its twists now and then. One of its strengths is that we not only see the actions of the two people who have fallen for each other "over the wire," but those of others in ...more
I read this on the strength of Clive Thompson's review Wired Love: A tale of catfishing, OK Cupid, and sexting … from 1880; I downloaded & read the Google Books version.
Thompson summarizes it:
Thompson summarizes it:
...Nattie is at work one day when a telegraph operator in another city, who calls himself “C”, begins chatting her up. They engage in a virtual courtship, things get funny and romantic, until suddenly things take a most puzzling and mysterious turn....more
It’s all quite nuttily modern. Wired Love anticipates e
It's just another day in the office when Nattie begins chatting with "C@Xn" over a customer service snafu. Soon enough, conversations with the witty "C" are the highlight of her day — a highlight for which she comes to work early and leaves late. Until the day he suggests that "C" and "N" should meet.
Ella Cheever Thayer has written the most topical book of 1999, a charming romcom that combines the cyber-pals of You've Got Mail with the urban-twenty-somethings-living-in-the-same-building of Frien ...more
Ella Cheever Thayer has written the most topical book of 1999, a charming romcom that combines the cyber-pals of You've Got Mail with the urban-twenty-somethings-living-in-the-same-building of Frien ...more
I need to read a nice little book, a book that did not include chopped-off wrists (The One I Left Behind by Jennifer McMahon, which we read for book group last week) or terrible people who deserve the misery they sow for each other (Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn, also read for book group). This book did the trick.
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This book has become recently famous due to the parallels between the plot of two young people following in love, sight unseen, over the wireless, and the modern phenomenon of internet dating, or hooking up, or virtual twerking, or whatever it's called. My favorite quote: "I suppose no one really means what they say on the wire. I am sure I do not!"
But there is something els ...more
This book has become recently famous due to the parallels between the plot of two young people following in love, sight unseen, over the wireless, and the modern phenomenon of internet dating, or hooking up, or virtual twerking, or whatever it's called. My favorite quote: "I suppose no one really means what they say on the wire. I am sure I do not!"
But there is something els ...more
For all that it was written in 1880, Ella Thayer's "Wired Love" is still remarkably apt today. Two telegraph operators N (Natty) and C (Clem) meet over a wire while sending messages to each other; they flirt and become friends, but without actually meeting, there is no way to prove they are what they say they are - they just have each other's word - and living seventy miles apart, it is unlikely they will meet face-to-face. Via facebook and chat rooms we can meet people and strike up a romance -
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"We will soon be able to do everything by electricity; who knows but some genius will invent something for the especial use of lovers? something, for instance, to carry in their pockets, so when they are far away from each other, and pine for the sound of 'that beloved voice,' they will have only to take up this electrical apparatus, put it to their ears, and be happy. Ah! blissful lovers of the future!"
A nicely-crafted little melodrama. Funny (even 130some years after publication) and moving, w ...more
A nicely-crafted little melodrama. Funny (even 130some years after publication) and moving, w ...more
I've seen a lot of mentions of this book recently - I think this blog post from July 2013 is the one that got the buzz started. Wired Love was published in 1880 and is available for free from Project Gutenberg. It's a short, fluffy book about a woman who becomes infatuated with a person she talks to regularly but has never met - a telegraph operator working at a station about 70 miles away from her own. The buzz about the book in 2013 is, of course, due to the fact that it completely and perfect
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I found this book for free download on Amazon, and was surprised to find out it was written in 1897--I thought it was going to be about Internet dating or something. I was happily surprised because it turned out to be a darling historical romance between two telegraph operators. They meet each other "on the wire" and being a romance that way, without ever meeting each other (until half way through the book.) Many other fun characters aid in the romance (the female protagonist lives in a boarding
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Many stories have been told over the years, of couples who meet and correspond without – or before – ever coming face to face. ‘Wired Love’ is a particularly lovely example of that type of story, and – given that it was published in 1879 – a strikingly modern story.
Nattie – Miss Nathalie Rogers – was making her own way in the world. She was bright, she was independent, she hoped to become a writer one day; and she had secured a room in a respectable boarding house and employment in the small, lo ...more
Nattie – Miss Nathalie Rogers – was making her own way in the world. She was bright, she was independent, she hoped to become a writer one day; and she had secured a room in a respectable boarding house and employment in the small, lo ...more
I believe this could very well be the first "Internet Romance" novel ever written!!! Published in 1880, it describes the romance between two telegraph operators: Nellie and an operator known only to her as "C". Our heroine is a young woman just gaining her independence and earning her way in a very male dominated field of work. Through a bit of serendipity, our protagonist meets "on the wire", the object of her growing affections,an unseen male operator in a distant town, who she becomes ever mo
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Nattie rather enjoys her work as a telegraph operator: it's sometimes monotonous and her little office is rather confined, but there's a romance to those messages flying up and down the wire. Then she strikes up a friendship with another operator further down the wire, who signs themself "C", and even though C and Nattie only communicate in dots and dashes, their conversations become the highlight of Nattie's day.
This is a fairly sweet but unremarkable romance, other than the telegraph-age inter ...more
This is a fairly sweet but unremarkable romance, other than the telegraph-age inter ...more
One reason I gave this book a 5-star rating is because...it's FREE! You can get it from Project Gutenberg, or from Google Play Books.
This is a cute story...a precursor to 'online dating', but over the telegraph! There are remarkable parallels to the behavior that goes on today, and even a spooky accurate prediction of the cellular phone. A number of themes come together in this book...a frustratingly rigid study of Victorian etiquette, an emerging technology that threatens the old social order, ...more
This is a cute story...a precursor to 'online dating', but over the telegraph! There are remarkable parallels to the behavior that goes on today, and even a spooky accurate prediction of the cellular phone. A number of themes come together in this book...a frustratingly rigid study of Victorian etiquette, an emerging technology that threatens the old social order, ...more
You've got to hand it to Ella Cheever Thayer. In her novel Wired Love, she anticipated online dating, smartphones, and catfishing—in 1879. I only wish she were around now; these are confusing times, and we could use someone with that kind of foresight.
The "wired love" of the title is a romance between Nattie, a telegraph operator, and "C", another operator whom she meets "on the wires." After a rocky meeting, they strike up a friendship and chat constantly over the wires between sending messages ...more
The "wired love" of the title is a romance between Nattie, a telegraph operator, and "C", another operator whom she meets "on the wires." After a rocky meeting, they strike up a friendship and chat constantly over the wires between sending messages ...more
So N and C fall in love over the latest of the communication technology and they go through a series of emotions that such long distance, invisible chat will bring through. After meeting each other and hating for that, they finally unite and love triumphs..
It is an ordinary story but the brilliance of this book is that it was written in the 1890s and the latest technology here is the telegraph. So it is fun to read that all the ills that we associate with modern technology has been in existence ...more
It is an ordinary story but the brilliance of this book is that it was written in the 1890s and the latest technology here is the telegraph. So it is fun to read that all the ills that we associate with modern technology has been in existence ...more
Usually when I review a book from previous centuries, I have to preface it with warnings about the bits that are dated, weird, or offensive to modern sensibilities. No such preamble is needed here.
The book is a bit prescient in that it presents that unfolding of a romance between two people who first meet as operators over a telegraph wire. Maybe that's dated again because now when people meet online they often do know what each looks like. Still, the story, including the fascination of the unkn ...more
The book is a bit prescient in that it presents that unfolding of a romance between two people who first meet as operators over a telegraph wire. Maybe that's dated again because now when people meet online they often do know what each looks like. Still, the story, including the fascination of the unkn ...more
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Whenever I start to forget that times change but people stay the same, a book like this comes along to remind me how much we have in common with the past. We've all asked ourselves, "How would someone from the 1800s react if you stuck them through a time machine and brought them to today?" Well--Ella Cheever Thayer and her characters would survive this experiment perfectly intact.
"Wired Love" is a fresh and modern sounding book, with ambitious go-getting women (Nattie, Cyn) who don't allow them ...more
"Wired Love" is a fresh and modern sounding book, with ambitious go-getting women (Nattie, Cyn) who don't allow them ...more
A delightful novel, Wired Love asks fascinating questions of the accuracy of representation with the increasing role in technology. This novel tells of a romance that begins over telegraph. Although the romance follows a typical story arch, fascinatingly enough, "crossed wires"--i.e. miscommunications--keep inhibiting the lovers from an unfettered relationship. Even in the era with just the telegraph, then, technology begins to infuse itself through terminology (the lovers use much jargon in the
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Very well done tangled romance (like Shakespeare in fact) based on a friendship developed between two telegraph operators who have never seen each other in person.
This is a period piece (1879) and some of the social conventions and attitudes seem a bit narrow to us 150 years later, but even so it is entertaining. The similarity to stories of "distance" relationships formed over the internet today or through correspondence even longer ago than this setting is striking.
A short novel, easy reading ...more
This is a period piece (1879) and some of the social conventions and attitudes seem a bit narrow to us 150 years later, but even so it is entertaining. The similarity to stories of "distance" relationships formed over the internet today or through correspondence even longer ago than this setting is striking.
A short novel, easy reading ...more
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Ella Cheever Thayer (September 14, 1849 – 1925) was a playwright and novelist. A former telegraph operator at the Brunswick Hotel in Boston, Massachusetts, who used her experience on the telegraph as the basis for a book ("Wired Love, A Romance of Dots and Dashes" was a bestseller for 10 years). She was a playwright, writing "The Lords of Creation" in 1883 as a suffragette (her play is reviewed in
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“Ah, well! then the young woman was only in advance of the age," said Miss Archer; "and what with that and the telephone, and that dreadful phonograph that bottles up all one says and disgorges at inconvenient times, we will soon be able to do everything by electricity; who knows but some genius will invent something for the especial use of lovers? something, for instance, to carry in their pockets, so when they are far away from each other, and pine for a sound of 'that beloved voice,' they will have only to take up this electrical apparatus, put it to their ears, and be happy. Ah! blissful lovers of the future!”
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