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Thin Places
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Mary E. DeMuth (Goodreads Author)
In this moving spiritual memoir---Thin Places---Mary DeMuth traces the winding path of thin places in her life, places where she experienced longing and healing more intensely than before. From surviving abuse as a latchkey kid to discovering a heavenly Father who never leaves, Mary's story invites you to a deeper understanding of your own story. She calls you to discover...more
Paperback, 219 pages
Published
January 26th 2010
by Zondervan
(first published January 19th 2010)
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Some people are of the opinion that we are all wounded on one level or another. What makes the difference between us, I suppose, is how much healing has taken place and the circumstances that cause those wounds to reopen. I know this all too well in my life, and I’ve found a kindred spirit in Mary DeMuth. A fellow author, she has turned her sorrows into support; she reaches out not only to those who have survived similar experiences to hers, but, through her wounds, she reaches out to those who...more
“Thin places are holy places and surely God was in this place”
Mary DeMuth is a very talented writer, but much more a gifted vessel. In this memoir, she conveys hurt, hope, and healing as she talks about her life with glimpses of the God’s sovereignty.
It is not a book that ‘excuses’ adult behavior because of childhood experiences. It is a book that reveals what God can do through a life in spite of horrible acts of violence and abuse. Why did God allow Mary DeMuth’s life to unfold in this painful...more
Mary DeMuth is a very talented writer, but much more a gifted vessel. In this memoir, she conveys hurt, hope, and healing as she talks about her life with glimpses of the God’s sovereignty.
It is not a book that ‘excuses’ adult behavior because of childhood experiences. It is a book that reveals what God can do through a life in spite of horrible acts of violence and abuse. Why did God allow Mary DeMuth’s life to unfold in this painful...more
I suspect if you took a survey of 10, 100, even 1,000 people, you would not find one person who would answer the questions openly and honestly. Sadly, this is true for most Christians. We live behind a façade, some thicker than a brick wall, and not even our closest family members and friends know the real person behind that façade.
This is not the case in Thin Places, a memoir. Mary DeMuth has exposed her life and bared her soul to the world. She has done so with dignity and grace.
Here is the b...more
This is not the case in Thin Places, a memoir. Mary DeMuth has exposed her life and bared her soul to the world. She has done so with dignity and grace.
Here is the b...more
I love Mary's writing and really looked forward to reading this book to get a glimpse into the woman who writes such fantastic Christian Fiction.
"The Celts define a thin place as a place where heaven and the physical world collide, one of those serendipitous territories where eternity and the mundane meet. Thin describes the membrane between the two worlds, like a piece of vellum, where we see a hold glimpse of the eternal-not in digital clarity, but clear enough to discern what lies beyond....more
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Never has there been a outpouring of a human soul in so many words articulating the ravishes from innocence's as in Mary DeMuth's 'Thin Places.'
Mary is a woman exceeding in wisdom as she understandingly and forgiving expresses so eloquently her feelings of every detail hidden in her heart. Being thrown into an unkind childhood of various proportions of devious acts of impropriety, Mary's life is strangely familiar. Now grown, her understanding with the wisdom of the love of Christ enables her to...more
Mary is a woman exceeding in wisdom as she understandingly and forgiving expresses so eloquently her feelings of every detail hidden in her heart. Being thrown into an unkind childhood of various proportions of devious acts of impropriety, Mary's life is strangely familiar. Now grown, her understanding with the wisdom of the love of Christ enables her to...more
I don’t know how I got so lucky, but a pre-release copy of Mary DeMuth’s Thin Places arrived in the mail, together with a request that maybe I could read and review it and join in with the “social media tour.” So this is me, joining in.
Thin Places is billed as a memoir, which isn’t really my kind of thing. But I already knew (from reading A Slow Burn) that Mary DeMuth is a really excellent writer. She has the knack of writing about seriously sad and difficult topics with a lightness that’s more...more
Thin Places is billed as a memoir, which isn’t really my kind of thing. But I already knew (from reading A Slow Burn) that Mary DeMuth is a really excellent writer. She has the knack of writing about seriously sad and difficult topics with a lightness that’s more...more
The unspeakable has been perpetrated against five-year-old Mary multiple times, along with threats of death to her and her parents if she tells. Her father died when she was 10, leaving her feeling abandoned. Her mother was ‘unavailable’ when she needed her, throughout all of her marriages and other relationships, leaving her feeling neglected. Her grandparents weren’t as loving to her as she thought. She spent much time alone, fearful of who was ‘out there’ to get her. She was lied to, stolen f...more
When I asked to review the book, Thin Places, I did so because I knew in some way it would help me understand my own struggles. Thin Places is a courageous personal memoir by author, Mary De Muth, who wrote Watching The Tree Limbs and Wishing on Dandelions.
“I picture Him (God) watching from heaven as I press my eye socket to the floor of Jim's Studebaker, watching God's chaotic world spin beneath me. “That one,” He shouts to the heavenlies. “That raggedy one. I choose her because she knows her...more
“I picture Him (God) watching from heaven as I press my eye socket to the floor of Jim's Studebaker, watching God's chaotic world spin beneath me. “That one,” He shouts to the heavenlies. “That raggedy one. I choose her because she knows her...more
Common Weaknesses, Uncommon God
Mary organizes her story based on the "thin places" where her weaknesses, especially, have allowed her to experience God. In the process, we not only recognize where weakness can reveal God's compassionate heart, but also how common our own weaknesses are. And in understanding that commonness, our shame, too, can be healed.
When she describes her "reactionary" self that she wishes she wasn't, we can claim our own overreactions without so much shame.
When she exposes...more
Mary organizes her story based on the "thin places" where her weaknesses, especially, have allowed her to experience God. In the process, we not only recognize where weakness can reveal God's compassionate heart, but also how common our own weaknesses are. And in understanding that commonness, our shame, too, can be healed.
When she describes her "reactionary" self that she wishes she wasn't, we can claim our own overreactions without so much shame.
When she exposes...more
With courage and honesty, Mary DeMuth writes of her struggle through numerous childhood traumas including neglect, the death of her father, and being raped at the age of five. Woven in the poignant prose are threads of Mary’s sometimes wry sense of humor and glimmers of grace which comes not as a swooping cure-all, but as the ever present and constant guidance of a holy God. In what Mary describes as thin places, she experiences Jesus, his beauty, and his provision for her life.
Although those w...more
Although those w...more
I am so grateful to Mary DeMuth to allow God to use her through the writing of her memoir. This was such a vulnerable read that at times I wanted to look away, to afraid of seeing myself in the pages. Yet, I wanted to know how she made it through and how God had healed her innermost hurts--I needed to know. I needed to know that the pain and the hurt caused by others was visible to HIM and that HE did care. She shared the most traumatizing events of her life. She bared herself completely. She al...more
It felt almost like my autobiography. It touched me unlike anything else. This author put into words feelings and experiences I couldn't find words for myself. She gets it. I can't believe I finally found someone who really gets it. There is a difference though...she feels safe with her husband. I have never felt safe with mine. I probably never will. This produces a profound loneliness that pervades my entire life. When I'm home with my children I'm Mommy. I'm in charge, I'm in charge of making...more
I really liked reading this memoir. I'm truly glad that I had the opportunity to review it. Mary brings her life experiences and puts them together in an amazing way. She shares her struggles with us, but when she does this, she shows us about that she calls thin places. Those thin places really show God shining through.
I was very emotional while reading this book. I was smiling, crying, praying. More than once I found myself stopping and praying for Mary. This is a book that I am going to keep...more
I was very emotional while reading this book. I was smiling, crying, praying. More than once I found myself stopping and praying for Mary. This is a book that I am going to keep...more
Thin Places by Mary DeMuth is nothing short of the explosive supernatural healing power of God on paper. Her words are like talons that hooked into my heart and reeled me into her past, a world where suffering is extreme but grace is sufficient; a place where her world and mine collide. This is my story, indeed.
What if you could retrace your life and discover its thin places-places where the division between this world and the eternal fades?
“Thin Places are matches of holy ground, tucked into th...more
What if you could retrace your life and discover its thin places-places where the division between this world and the eternal fades?
“Thin Places are matches of holy ground, tucked into th...more
Jan 28, 2010
Pamela Barrett
rated it
5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
anyone ministering to abuse victims
God’s grace overcomes man’s depravity. Mary De Muth has revealed that thin place where heaven and earth touch. Her new spiritual memoir is an honest, heart-wrenching look at her childhood, which for adults who were abused as children, speaks not only of survival, but of meaning. Thin Places asks “How does the love of God heal our brokenness?”
Mary gives voice to those of us marked by childhood abuse-the questions we ask God and the words we tell ourselves to try to understand the incomprehensible...more
Mary gives voice to those of us marked by childhood abuse-the questions we ask God and the words we tell ourselves to try to understand the incomprehensible...more
This is a sad example of how not all children grow up loved, cared for and protected, and the damage it does to them when they are adults. Mary turned a bad situation into a beautiful testament of how the Lord can deliver us through all things. I read the first 2 books in her Texas trilogy and became interested in finding out more about the author and stumbled upon this autobiography of her life. A life filled with pain, abuse, and neglect. But in all of this she came to know and love the Lord a...more
Thin Places is raw and real. I have worked with sexually abused children for two decades and have come across one particular phenomenon that I've always been fascinated with. Mary called it "The Mark". I used to say...it's like they have an invisible mark on their forehead that only abusers see and it tells them the child has been hurt before thus giving the perverts the notion they can do it again. This chapter was very well stated. Also, the inability to trust and the self-absorption and perfe...more
Although I've never suffered the type of abuse that Mary DeMuth endured, my childhood was a lot like hers in other ways; sometimes it seemed like she was writing the words that have been so long in my heart that I've never been very good at expressing. This is a refreshingly open and honest memoir - no Christian sugar-coating here. The chapters detailing her abuse as a young child were almost too painful for me to read, but knowing the raw truth of her life was necessary to be able to see the ex...more
The author's self-absorption is perhaps explainable due to her childhood sexual abuse, however, it is tedious to read her long-winded life complaints. Long into adulthood, she blames her parents/mother for her troubles and doesn't seem to take any accountability. Also, I'm a Christian. but the long passages were too much for me and got boring. I got the feeling that if I knew the author in real life, she would be the type of person who would rattle on about her own problems and never come up for...more
From the publisher's description: "In this moving spiritual memoir---Thin Places---Mary DeMuth traces the winding path of thin places in her life, places where she experienced longing and healing more intensely than before."
The author writes: "The Celts define a "thin place" as a place where heaven and the physical world collide... Thin describes the membrane between the two worlds, where we see a holy glimpse of the eternal - not in digital clarity, but clear enough to discern what lies beyond....more
The author writes: "The Celts define a "thin place" as a place where heaven and the physical world collide... Thin describes the membrane between the two worlds, where we see a holy glimpse of the eternal - not in digital clarity, but clear enough to discern what lies beyond....more
Ever read a book that kicked you right in the gut? This was such a book. Mainly, the gut wrenching kick you will feel is from vividly experiencing the author's harrowing childhood. All children should be loved, protected and cherished. No small child should ever have to suffer the way she did, and all the neglect, sorrow, and abuse was front and center with nothing held back. I also appreciated the skillful way the author wove the love of God into her story, and how this love saved her. She wrot...more
Thin places is a hard read. I can't imagine how difficult it was to write. Because Mary DeMuth risks the honest disclosure of her worst heartaches, we as readers are privileged to see the best of God's healing work. So many personal stories get stuck in the dark details without moving onto the victory that comes through Jesus Christ. Not so with Thin Places. Mary DeMuth gives us enough glimpses of joy and conquest amid her battles to demonstrate a conquering Savior. When I turned the final page...more
this is for sure a spiritual memoir.
Very real look at her life. Honest and courageous. Her beautiful writing, use of words, I drank it all in. Calls you deeper.
From back cover "She calls you to discover new ways to look for God in the past so that you might experience him more profoundly in the present..." I really say yes to the way she paints a new picture of a past memory - seeing Jesus in it.
from page 178 ...His grace and peace dance on my empty stage. When I decorate the stage with my own...more
Very real look at her life. Honest and courageous. Her beautiful writing, use of words, I drank it all in. Calls you deeper.
From back cover "She calls you to discover new ways to look for God in the past so that you might experience him more profoundly in the present..." I really say yes to the way she paints a new picture of a past memory - seeing Jesus in it.
from page 178 ...His grace and peace dance on my empty stage. When I decorate the stage with my own...more
As I'm reading Thin Places: A Memoir, it strikes me. This book is written by a courageous beauty! A little girl forced to grow up without protection and care. The story of too many little girls. But this one stepped out of her comfort zone hoping to help other women heal from the atrocities of child rape, neglect, and abuse. It takes courage to tell the truth. It takes courage to shimmer in the harmful shame that claims personhood has no value. Mary is a courageous beauty shimmering and sparklin...more
A memoir is a guided trip into someone else's world. It's a little bit like having Superman's x-ray vision. We see the pain, heartache, and struggles the author experiences in becoming a multi-dimensional person. The answer to the question "Hello, how are you?" we ask by opening the book becomes a lighted trail into the writer's soul. Sometimes, we really don't want to know the answer to our question. The paradox is this, the better the author does her work, the more compelling the words on the...more
I had read the first two books in Mary E. DeMuth’s Defiance, Texas series and realized that she was not your typical Christian fiction writer. They were a breath of fresh air. I was excited when I was sent a copy of her book, Thin Places: A Memoir.
De Muth starts the book by explaining that she is a thin place, a Celtic term meaning “the place where heaven and the physical world collide, one of those serendipitous territories where eternity and the mundane meet”. Her story takes us to those thin...more
De Muth starts the book by explaining that she is a thin place, a Celtic term meaning “the place where heaven and the physical world collide, one of those serendipitous territories where eternity and the mundane meet”. Her story takes us to those thin...more
Intimate spiritual memoir, telling of author's sexual abuse at age 5 by neighborhood boys, through mother's serial marriages and (perceived) neglect. Mary grows up afraid of men, wary of everything, until she meets Jesus at age 15 and is able to grow strong and 'safe' in her faith. She experiences the 'thin places' in the barrier between earth and heaven, where she finds faith, comfort, and revelation of God's love. Very moving and encouraging book, but also disturbing because of her abuse.
I have added Mary E. DeMuth to my list of favorites. In Thin Places: A Memoir, Mary E. DeMuth shares the deepest and darkest events of her life with incredible dignity and grace. Her story is filled with not only with hurt, but also with hope and eventually healing.
Oftentimes, it seemed the author had shared my past, heard my adolescent anguish, and validated some of my innermost feelings . I devoured this book in one sitting but am still processing the message.
Oftentimes, it seemed the author had shared my past, heard my adolescent anguish, and validated some of my innermost feelings . I devoured this book in one sitting but am still processing the message.
An intensely personal and honest spiritual memoir. The writing is redemptive and uplifting. The degrading details of the abuse suffered by the author are presented in a manner which are honest, yet at the same time readable, without the mental damage some autobiographies of abusive pasts can do to readers, where over-disclosure can be intrusive, and give the reader more information than they wish to know. The disclosure of the abuse suffered is vivid as the reader is in no doubt what happened, y...more
The honesty with which Mary DeMuth repaints the story of her far from ordinary childhood and the mental struggles of her adulthood is refreshing and freeing. As I read, I found myself recalling parts of my past with which I have and continue to struggle, but seeing them in a different light, a healing light. I am in awe of the healing that has occurred in Mary’s heart and soul through the power of God, and see no reason why I can’t experience the same healing since my owns hurts pale in comparis...more
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Mary E. DeMuth loves to help readers turn their trials into triumphs. Her books include Ordinary Mom, Extraordinary God (Harvest House, 2005), Building the Christian Family You Never Had (WaterBrook, 2006), Watching the Tree Limbs, Wishing on Dandelions (NavPress, 2006), and Authentic Parenting in a Postmodern Culture (Harvest House 2007). A mother of three, Mary lives with her husband Patrick and...more
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