I Do Not Come to You by Chance

I Do Not Come to You by Chance

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A deeply moving debut novel set amid the perilous world of Nigerian email scams, I Do Not Come to You by Chance tells the story of one young man and the family who loves him.

Being the opera of the family, Kingsley Ibe is entitled to certain privileges--a piece of meat in his egusi soup, a party to celebrate his graduation from university. As first son, he has responsibili...more
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Published (first published May 2009)

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Petra X
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An alternately amusing and serious book on the Nigerian scam of emails that promise you millions of dollars if only you help the poor man/widow/cancer victim get the money out of the country. But this is written from the point of view of a well-educated but relatively poor Nigerian lad who has responsibilities to support his family. Its a very light read, quite well written and with a cast of some very colourful and more-or-less-believable characters. Althoug...more
Emma
This is one of those books that takes a grim situation and turns it into a fun and entertaining story: the background is poverty and corruption in Nigeria, but the book is the polar opposite of, say, The Beautyful Ones Are Not Yet Born, which deals with similar themes; this one is quick and easy to read, exciting, and very nearly uplifting.

Kingsley is the oldest son of a family that values education above all else, but he's been unemployed for two years after graduating with a degree in chemical...more
Cheryl
This was exactly the type of world lit book I enjoy reading. It is set in Nigeria and written by a Nigerian, so it felt like I was reading the story from within, from that perspective. It disobeyed all the rules of how to write about Africa, set out in that tongue-in-cheek Granta article several years ago ( http://www.granta.com/Archive/92/How-... by Binyavanga Wainaina.

The story centres around a likeable fellow from an honest and hard-working family who highly value education. Despite getting h...more
THE
Having removed the splinters from my eyes, I can finally review this tree-destroying book with its wooden characters and torpid prose. Yes, I was disappointed in this first novel in terms of its inarticulate thematic development, stereotypical portrayals, and stultifying language.

I had hoped that a satire on the notorious Nigerian 419 Internet financial scams would be insightful or at least amusing. (The Washington Post had referred to it as "original and heartfelt" and the Christian Science Mo...more
Kiera Healy
I Do Not Come to You by Chance (what a mouthful! And not the best title, for me anyway - it made me think at first of a cheesy romance) is a contemporary Nigerian satire of 419ers: those scammers we're all familiar with, who promise us 20% of their US$60,000,000 fortune if only we can help them get it out of the country. When I get one of those emails (and I've started getting them in my Goodreads mailbox, which really adds to that air of legitimacy, right?), I laugh, delete and move on. I'd nev...more
Wal.li
Der 419er
Als sein Vater seine Mutter kennenlernte war das erste, was der Vater von der Mutter wollte, dass sie einen Studienabschluss macht. Nach Jahren ist der Vater ein kleiner aber ehrbarer Beamter geblieben und die Mutter führt eine Näherei. Nach Jahren, die vier Kinder sind fast erwachsen, ist der Vater in Pension, die Näherei der Mutter läuft nicht besonders, doch der älteste Sohn hat seinen Abschluss als Ingenieur geschafft. Die Eltern sind sehr stolz, doch auch mit einem sehr guten Absch...more
Angela
I don't know what possessed me to read this book. It's a far cry from my usual fluffy paranormal/young adult literature, and not even the topic is something I would find interesting.

However, I'm glad it's my first book of the new year. I've heard of the Prince of Nigeria scams, and used to wonder how those people slept at night. Now...pfffft, if people are fool enough to fall for that kind of scam, let them be taken for what is asked of them. The writing style did take some adjustment, the langu...more
Marcy
Kingsley did not come to his uncle,"Cash Daddy's" way of life by chance.

Augustina and Paulinus were the highly educated parents of Kingsley and his brothers and sisters. Both parents could not keep up monetarily with the inflation of their country. They became poorer and poorer as the years passed. Their hopes and dreams were for their eldest son, Kingsley, to become well educated, and attain a well-paying job of his dreams so that he could ease the financial burden of his family. Kingsley rece...more
Elizabeth
I don't want to review the whole book, but I noticed looking through the reviews on here that several people commented on the writing style being strange/unappealing, full of weird adjectives and proverbs, etc. Rather than constituting "bad writing" on the author's part (although I understand how it can come across that way), I think it's worth noting that these are deliberate usages of West African-style English. I used to live in Ghana, and the narration style of the protagonist in "I Do Not C...more
Emily
I wasn't sure if I was enjoying the story at first, but eventually I was drawn in. Framed by a preface and epilogue from the mother's point of view, the bulk of the book is told by Kingsley, the oldest son in a Nigerian family. With his family facing financial hardship due to the state of the economy and his father's illness and death, Kingsley is taken under the wing of his uncle "Cash Daddy" to learn the business of internet scamming. He becomes a successful "419" man (named for the criminal c...more
Heather Rothman
This is a compelling, prosaic, well-written novel, by a young Nigerian female author, (first novel). The reader will be privy to the rhythms and tones of daily life in Nigeria, often not a pretty picture.

If you are not familiar with 419, the Nigerian penal code number given by the government that refers to e-mail scams and fraud, you probably don't have an e-mail account. The novel utilizes the 419 scams and its purveyors as its vehicle to move the story of one son and his family forward. If you...more
Elizabeth
If you have ever wondered about the people who send you those spam e-mails promising a share of a huge, illicitly acquired fortune if you simply cooperate in filling out paperwork, then this book will enlighten you. Nwaubani's work is part commentary on Nigerian society and part coming-of-age story. The protaganist, Kingsley Ibe, is the child of a western-educated Nigerian man and his nearly as well-educated wife. As the first son, he feels responsible for carrying on his father's tradition (bot...more
Alison Lang
We've all had the emails, recognised them for what they are and deleted them within seconds, and these days most spam filters are wise to the scammers before their unfeasible promises of USD millions locked up in African bureaucracy even present their patently fabricated credentials. But what of the writers of these outrageous fictions? I do not come to you by chance takes us along the path of corruption trod, unwillingly at first, by Kingsley, unemployed graduate and eldest son of a struggling...more
Angela
I have to start by saying this Nigerian Author did a very good job on this book. I was a bit leery at first about the book. It started out moving, what I would consider, on the slower side. It brought you into the family dynamics and introduced you to the characters who they really were and what they were about. Kingsley is a truly amazing character in this book. He is the oldest boy and is the one who is supposed to take care of the family as his parents age or die. His Father and Mother made s...more
Carol
The reason that I picked out this book to read was that I was curious about the culture behind the scam e-mails that come from Nigeria and other places. Why do people
get into that kind of wheeling, dealing and deceiving ? Do they have any conscience? Is there a big network of them? Along with the answers to those questions, I learned about the Nigerian family, wedding customs and burial customs. I followed Kingsley, a son of poor but well educated parents from college. Witnessed his desperation...more
Njenva Heimi
I enjoyed reading this book. It had hilarious similies and sayings that I guess would be used in conversational English in Nigeria. The book shows how we human beings are driven by greed to reap where we haven't sown; whether one is a 419-er looking for a mugu or a mugu who is looking to gain where there have been minimum investments. I laughed out loud several times and I am looking forward to reading the book again.
Ngozichi Omekara
Ms Nwaubani is a funny story teller, she writes about a very serious topic punctuated with a lot of anecdote. a book that weaves within it the culture and expectations of the Igbo ethnic group from their sons and daughters, especially firstborns.
Her choice of words, and the way she composed her sentences evoked not only strong imagery but raucous guffaws, on every chapter.
As i read, being a firstborn myself and a descendant of the Igbo ethnic group, i could feel the pain, and great responsibilit...more
Patricia
I get a lot of Nigerian scam e-mails, so I ordered this book on a whim. It is written as the life of a Nigerian scammer, who starts out entirely respectable, with a degree in Chemical Engineering. After a couple years seeking a job with the oil companies in Nigeria, and after suffering the death of his father (reading about the Nigerian hospital experience is an eye-opener), the main character goes to work for his very rich and highly disreputable uncle, as a '419', the code name for Nigerian sc...more
Julie
Once I finished this book, I kind of wondered what other readers thought. I read through some of the other reviews here, some of which were super funny. "Garbled patois"? "Torpid prose"? Get a hold of yourself, people. I agree that the writing is less than perfect, but it also added a bit of feeling and flavor. Was the story factually accurate? Probably not, but I don't think accuracy was the goal. It is fiction! If you can read a novel set in Nigeria (a country that most Americans are not all t...more
Beth
This year at least 3 times someone has taken a rental ad I posted and changed the rent amount to a lower number and the place to reply to to adifferent phone and email address than mine. When people replied, they were asked to send money to a person out of this country. If they had, they would have been scammed. This is a book about a person whose parents got educated and wanted their children to also go to college. Unfortunately, they fell on hard times and things were looking bad as their 1st...more
Cyd
Excellent novel about a young well-educated man in Nigeria who is frustrated to find that even with his university degree he's not able to take on his responsibilities as the first son--providing for his parents and siblings. When tragedy strikes his family he turns to a wealthy uncle who makes his money, among other ways, through 419 scams, those ubiquitous emails promising untold riches in exchange for bank account information.

I've read a number of African novels lately that I had some trouble...more
Donal Phipps
'Deeply moving' is not a phrase I would use to describe this novel.
Imagine submitting a plot to google translate, copying the translation and then re-submitting it. The garbled patois which results is akin to the writing style of this book. Open any page and you'll find an example. Most of my time reading this book was spent in frustration, trying not to trip over awkward English and the maddening spray-gun of proverbs in pretty much every line of character dialogue.

I gave 2 stars instead of 1...more
Jane
I thought this book was rubbish!!!
It is not a true representation of the Nigeria I know. It also did not give any insight into the world of advanced fee fraud (aka 419). Kingsley was a moron ( i highly question his supposed first class degree), and the character "Cash Daddy" was too much of everything that was wrong with the book. The idea of him running for governor was so unbelievable that it gave me a headache. As an indigene of that part of Nigeria, I feel the author owes us all an apology f...more
Candice
It takes talent to make sympathetic characters of adults who fleece others for a living. Nwaubani does it with skill and a strong sense of humor.

She makes no effort to “pretty up” Nigeria – as she's said herself in interviews, she's neither worried about Westerners who think everything Nigerian is 419 (ie, fraud) nor worried about the Nigerians obsessed with changing the impressions of the West. It's a brave stance – and perhaps a touch callous, since expat Nigerians deal daily with the negativ...more
Mindy
You know those e-mails you get from Nigeria asking you to help someone get millions out of the Country and just for depositing them into your account you will get a nice big cut. Have you ever wondered who are the people who send these emails? And who are the people who fall for them? (Not always what you would expect). Well this novel helps to explain that whole culture. (I know every time I get one I immediately delete it but isn't there a part of you that thinks "Oh how I wish this were true!...more
Katie
I really enjoyed this look at the people behind the Nigeria email scams. What a clever idea for a book, and it was well-executed. The author gave the lead character a real dilemma in terms of why he got into this industry and why he stayed there, both for reasons of selfishness and selflessness. I really felt for his familial situation, and it's something that Americans don't always have to deal with in our lives. It was also very well-written, and the lead character looked at the world in his o...more
Liz
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Lisa
I found this book at the library and brought it home because ANZ LitLovers had recently read The Other Hand by Chris Cleave, partly set in Nigeria, but not written by a Nigerian. While I don’t subscribe to the view that only those of a certain culture may write about it, I did want to see what difference it might make…

It makes a lot of difference. I Do Not Come to You By Chance is Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani’s first novel, and it’s distinctively African in its theme and setting.
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Titilayo
my people are great storytellers...the eloquence of all that is nigeria shines through in the prose and personal lives of this very realisic tale. there were so many truisms that is had to not think of kingsley ibe as flesh and bone. as a first born child i understand the pressure he feels as being opara. the difficult choices he has to make....morality....negotiating a conscience...siezing opportunity in the name of filial interest..death..love...finding your self ..capitalism..education..solac...more
Tiah
The time it took me to finish the book is a poor reflection of said book. THE OLYMPICS ARE ON! I hardly watch TV, but for this, I have made an exception. Poor book.

Nwaubani has written a very engaging book that reads quickly (if you actually pick it up!). I enjoyed it immensely and have passed it on to the Husband saying, 'Good book. You'd like it. Go read.'

I realise writing about 419 scams has become over done. But I think this author was one of the first to tackle the subjects before everyon...more
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