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  <title><![CDATA[Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline: The 7 Basic Skills for Turning Conflict into Cooperation]]></title>
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  <default_description>&lt;P&gt;The 7 Basic Skills for Turning Conflict into Cooperation.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt; Have you ever opened your mouth to discipline your child, and your parents' nastiest words tumble out? In an era when most parenting books focus on the child, this book supports parents in dealing more positively with themselves as well as their toddler&amp;ndash;to&amp;ndash;school&amp;ndash;age children, offering specific tools to stop policing and pleading with kids and start being the parents we want to be. &lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt; Based on Dr. Bailey's more than 25 years of work with children, this book explains that how we discipline ourselves is ultimately how we discipline our children. Her &quot;Seven Powers for Self&amp;ndash;Control&quot; dramatically increase our ability to keep our cool with our children. These correspond to &quot;Seven Basic Discipline Skills&quot; we can use with our children in conflict situations. As children internalise these skills, they naturally learn &quot;Seven Values for Living,&quot; which include integrity, respect, compassion, and responsibility.&lt;/P&gt;</default_description>
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  <original_publication_year type="integer">2002</original_publication_year>
  <original_title>Easy to Love, Difficult to Discipline: The 7 Basic Skills for Turning Conflict into Cooperation</original_title>
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      <name><![CDATA[Becky A. Bailey]]></name>
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  <date_added>Thu Oct 15 16:19:53 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Oct 15 16:37:53 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book, as with all Becky Bailey books, is nothing but fluff and &quot;feel good&quot; psychology. Yes, let's love the children. Let's nurture them. Of course, that is what we should strive for. I'm not in disagreement with the basic premises. But what about the 4-year-old who calls his teacher a...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/74665146">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <name><![CDATA[Jennifer]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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      <rating>4</rating>
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  <recommended_by><![CDATA[Tracy J]]></recommended_by>
  <read_at>Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Feb 27 18:44:32 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Feb 27 18:48:08 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I found this book very helpful in dealing with my son's misbehavior -- realizing that misbehavior (and especially repeated misbehavior) is a part of development, and helping me to think about my reaction to it.  The hard part is keeping it in mind in the heat of the moment!  The book is written like...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/16563536">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="67902887">
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    <name><![CDATA[Angela]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Cambridge, MA]]></location>        
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      <rating>5</rating>
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  <read_at>Mon Dec 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Aug 18 11:05:45 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Aug 18 11:10:06 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[At first I started out not liking the book, it seemed too &quot;opinionated&quot; about our societal problems at the beginning and too much like a 7 step program.  I think you could skip the first 3 chapters and just start on #4.  <br/><br/>From then on, it became my all-time favorite parenting/disc...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/67902887">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="69850181">
    <user id="391373">
    <name><![CDATA[Nicole Handy]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Wed Jul 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Sep 02 15:20:18 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Sep 02 15:24:31 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Yes...another dicipline book.  I'm getting sick of them too!<br/><br/>I was skeptical of this book.  I heard about it on a blog and after reading the first chapter I was disenchanted because 1) the author is not married and does not have any children  2) she spent the whole first chapter telling p...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/69850181">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="32117675">
    <user id="1220668">
    <name><![CDATA[Amy]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Provo, UT]]></location>        
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      <rating>2</rating>
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  <read_at>Sat Nov 15 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Fri Sep 05 14:16:40 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat Nov 15 21:49:12 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a great book as far as advice goes. . .but impossible to implement.  It was written by an author who is not a parent, and basically has this attitude: &quot;if you have ever given in to a temper tantrum (EVER) or anything like unto that, you have ruined your child. . &quot;  something that I...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/32117675">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="67963600">
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    <name><![CDATA[Lauren]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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      <rating>5</rating>
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  <date_added>Tue Aug 18 18:38:18 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Aug 18 18:56:10 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is hands down one of my favorite parenting books.  It is unbelievably practical and the strategies offered are extremely effective.  They can be aged up or down - my son has responded to some of the strategies since he was just over a year old, actually, but it is definitely more geared toward ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/67963600">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="67709920">
    <user id="976361">
    <name><![CDATA[Melony]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[everyone!]]></recommended_for>
  <recommended_by><![CDATA[a neighbor]]></recommended_by>
  <read_at>Tue Nov 17 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Aug 17 04:37:05 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Nov 09 18:02:51 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Aug 09<br/>I just started this book last week and love it! <br/>she is all encouragment.  I got so sick of &quot;don't do this, don't say that&quot; in the other parenting books.  she starts with encouraging parents to change their outlook on life, which we all can use in everyday living, not just...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/67709920">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="47211784">
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    <name><![CDATA[Ammica]]></name>
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  <date_added>Sun Feb 22 19:37:33 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Feb 22 19:40:01 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is my mommy handbook!  Bailey's ideas are so Christlike (and it's not a Christian/spiritual book).  Her focus is on the parent learning to discipline him/herself, and you can then learn to model better behavior to your children.  Excellent, excellent book!!!]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/47211784]]></url>
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    <review id="35776319">
    <user id="1638935">
    <name><![CDATA[Kati(e )]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Winfield, KS]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Mon Oct 20 12:26:18 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat Nov 22 12:58:58 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book has some great techniques in it for toddlers and on up. The theme of the book is based on disciplining yourself as a parent first and then your child. It teaches you to view 'conflict' as a teaching opportunity. I'm still implementing the techiniques. The book gives specific teaching tools...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/35776319">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="28207286">
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    <name><![CDATA[Ardra]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Chapel Hill, NC]]></location>        
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  <recommended_by><![CDATA[Leslie]]></recommended_by>
  <read_at>Tue Aug 26 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu Jul 24 16:57:15 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Aug 26 19:00:12 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I HIGHLY recommend this book. Probably the most helpful parenting book I have read.  The author concentrates on how to maintain self-control (not lose it) and view conflicts as teaching opportunities.  She gives many examples on how to follow the &quot;loving guidance&quot; techniques.  I noticed an...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28207286">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="47556159">
    <user id="2050914">
    <name><![CDATA[Amy]]></name>
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  <date_added>Wed Feb 25 20:10:17 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Feb 25 20:11:32 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is so insightful and more importantly makes what she is teaching very easy to put into practice (that's always the hardest part for me).]]></body>
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    <review id="77762713">
    <user id="268391">
    <name><![CDATA[Julie]]></name>
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  <date_added>Sat Nov 14 11:02:08 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Nov 25 04:17:45 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I can't actually read this book all the way through. It's too touchy feely for me. But it does have some useful advice in there, and works in snippets, and in moments of desperation.]]></body>
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    <review id="60781848">
    <user id="2175556">
    <name><![CDATA[Ellen]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Lexington, KY]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Mon Sep 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Tue Jun 23 08:45:38 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Good parental outline; reminder of what we want to nurture]]></body>
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    <review id="56919796">
    <user id="811417">
    <name><![CDATA[Tiffany]]></name>
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  <date_added>Thu May 21 20:31:48 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu May 21 20:32:02 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Hands down the best parenting book I've read to date.]]></body>
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    <review id="19644133">
    <user id="1031607">
    <name><![CDATA[Rocklynn]]></name>
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  <read_at>Sun Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2006</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Mon Apr 07 10:27:25 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is my absolute favorite parenting book, which more than any other book has influence my view of parenting.  Bailey's approach involves attributing positive intent, even to actions and behavior that is bothersome, so that one is acting out an understanding of what is going on for the child.  Act...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/19644133">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="17274583">
    <user id="966486">
    <name><![CDATA[Kristen]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Provo, UT]]></location>        
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[mothers and fathers of toddlers and above]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Fri Mar 07 18:38:54 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Mar 07 18:42:09 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is my latest miracle book.  Since I had my third baby, I often feel like my life is on the edge of chaos.  Much of that is due to discipline issues with my children.  This book not only gave me my hope back -- it helped me feel confident in my parenting and it gave me good methods with directio...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/17274583">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="10218085">
    <user id="377421">
    <name><![CDATA[Heather]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Saco, ME]]></location>        
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[mainstream parents]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Mon Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2007</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Dec 10 09:23:58 -0800 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Dec 10 09:24:07 -0800 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I have to admit I really skimmed this book. It was perfectly helpful, but didn't have what I needed. The information was useful only in snippets. I didn't enjoy the &quot;seven...skills&quot; format. I'm not in the market for new &quot;systems&quot; of parenting or living.<br/><br/>The thing I did...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/10218085">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="65849321">
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this for my book club and really enjoyed it!  I think it's the same philosophy as the Positive Discipline book I read but this gives a lot more examples and practical application.  This book along with Positive Discipline (Nelsen) and Blessing of a Skinned Knee rounds out my discipline bible....<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/65849321">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I read and then re-read this book to make sure I got it all. In the first few chapters, I was pretty skeptical. It all sounded annoyingly upbeat and simplified. But by the end, I realized that the ideas are well reasoned and explained.  It is a great book, and my advice is not to give up at the begi...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/16550980">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[The hardest thing about parenting sometimes is taking a hard look at yourself to identify your strengths and weaknesses and then learning how to best raise and discipline your children.  Dr. Bailey is fabulous...her book is really not about disciplining children it is about your own discipline.]]></body>
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