The Patience Stone

The Patience Stone

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“For far too long, Afghan women have been faceless and voiceless. Until now. With The Patience Stone, Atiq Rahimi gives face and voice to one unforgettable woman–and, one could argue, offers her as a proxy for the grievances of millions…it is a rich read, part allegory, part a tale of retribution, part an exploration of honor, love, sex, marriage, war. It is without doubt...more
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Published January 19th 2010 by Other Press (first published 2008)
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Friederike Knabe
This is an extraordinarily powerful novella, despite being compressed on some 120 pages. The story is both personal, even intimate, and wide-reaching in substance and relevance. At the centre of all comings and goings is one room where a woman attends to her wounded husband...

In a language that is at the same time simple, spare and compressed, yet often poetic, Rahimi evokes the atmosphere in the room and slowly, in sensitively conveyed step, the reader learns to understand the hard life of the...more
Eileen Souza
I thought that this book would be great - it had a fascinating premise, as a living version of the sang e saboor. Unfortunately, the reality just didn't hit the mark.

It was too short, not deep enough, and unrelateable - I think because of the way it was written. It was almost like a very long poem that didn't rhyme or follow any rhythm, if that makes sense.

The story is told from a third party perspective, and the entire story takes place in a room - and you only read about what is said- which is...more
Hiba Essa
Beautifully written but a lot of violence and crude words are not always necessary to make a point.

Winner of the prestigious Goncourt Prize in France, an Afghani writer with an introduction by Khalid Hosseini - I was thrilled to start reading and managed to finish it in one evening.

This short novel is incredibly deep in the psychological and social exploration of a "typical" afghani woman, whose husband, a Jihad warrior, has been injured. As he lays there in the coma she uses him as a sang-e-sab...more
Quang Nhật
Tác giả đã quá tuyệt khi làm mình muốn nổ tung theo nhân vật ở những trang cuối cùng, để rồi khi khép trang sách lại, ông ấy vẫn nhấn mình dìm sâu vào sự huyễn hoặc, sự hỗn loạn.

Phải chăng, kết thúc đó là sự giải thoát cho tất cả, là "một kết thúc tốt đẹp" mà các nhân vật vẫn mãi tìm kiếm cho riêng mình ?
aPriL MEOWS often with scratching
The extremely wretched existence of being an Afghanistan woman along with a story exposing the sick and rotten life that Afghan men have created for everyone in that damned country is revealed by this surprising high art novella. All of the action occurs in a single room so this could easily be turned into a play. It is a frank, honest monologue which reveals a country that hides it's barnyard mentality and psychopathic cruelty behind twisted interpretations of an already illogical collection of...more
Ismail Elshareef
First off, this is one tight book. The translator, Polly McLean, pulled a Hemingway with this one. Every sentence is accounted for and ever word conveyed a specific mood, feeling and image. Kudos to a flawless prose!

Now to the story itself.

This short story (136 pages) is about a woman caring for her immobile, stricken husband as she recounts her dark thoughts and secrets to him. The entire story takes place in the room where the husband lies bed-bound, which makes it a great candidate for a pl...more
J. Luis
Novela corta, muy corta, que se lee casi de un tirón. Aunque creo que el autor lo ha hecho bastante bien, escribiendo desde la ventana de la habitación, manteniendo las distancias, y consiguiendo fundamentalmente crear una atmósfera adecuada, a mi, personalmente, la historia no me ha llegado. Y no porque no tenga todos los ingredientes para hacerlo, que seguramente los tiene porque lo que nos cuenta es muy crudo y muy duro, y está muy bien contado..., pero a mi me ha quedado como algo lejano.
Dec...more
Denise
The Patience Stone, also called Syngue Sabour, is said to absorb the grief of people who confess to it. This concept is used as a strong metaphor in this brief but powerful story. A woman sits vigil over her comatose husband. He was injured in Afghanistan fighting in a jihad. As she waits, often hiding from marauding soldiers, seeking shelter from bombs, and vaguely caring for her young daughter, she talks to her husband.

This one-sided conversation is the heart of the book. She is at turns angr...more
Maryan
Atiq Rahimi cast a forceful spell with this extraordinary and powerful book and enchanted me for a day refusing to answer the phone until I breathed in the last page.
Rahimi, an Afghanistan refugee who fled to France in 1984, has poignantly taken the voiceless millions of Afghani woman and with spare and poetic prose written a deeply moving novella.
The scene is confined to a room with a nameless woman and her husband who has been shot and lies mute and paralysed while she cares for his every nee...more
Jeanette
This is a short but powerful novel, well-deserving of the 2008 Prix Goncourt.
Through the revelations of one nameless woman's secrets, Atiq Rahimi speaks for Afghan women down through the ages, silenced and negated by religion and tribalism. As you read, you may be struck with wonder that the author is a man.

The legend of the patience stone, the sang-e saboor, says that if you bare your soul to this magical stone, it will eventually shatter. When it does, you will be released from your sufferin...more
Liz
The idea of the book intrigued me, but I felt its execution fell a little short. There was a crudeness to the woman as she revealed her secrets; I didn't like that and felt it was unneeded. A liberated woman is not necessarily a crude woman who speaks about sex as fucking, etc. Perhaps that wouldn't have bothered me as much as it did, if we had gotten a more complex portrait of the woman. But, she seemed distant from all of the people in her life, including her children, the only exception perha...more
Maxine
This was a fascinating read for so many reasons; a trapped woman reveals her secrets to a comatose husband who is her master/captor in death as he was in life. She's in a kind of afterlife; there was her life before her husband was shot in the neck, and there's her life afterwards. As she begins to crack under the stress of this new, post-shooting life she finds herself in, she starts to reveal herself to her husband, and as she does so, reveals secrets of Afghan women and society. She purposely...more
Gloria Bernal
I expected more. The introduction by one of my fave authors, Khalid Hosseini, in his own eloquent style, was promising. I was excited to start it, and it kept my interest for the most part, but found the ending unsatisfactory for my taste. I have an advanced readers copy (ARC paperback size: 7-1/2" x 5"), provided by the publisher for reviewing purposes, not for re-sale, but if anyone wants to trade this, I would be interested in hearing from you.

mzglorybe@gmail.com
Jim Elkins
This is an appalling book. It's about a woman who nurses her husband, who is in a coma. He won't wake up, and that drives her to speak more and more candidly about her life. She reveals an entire dictionary of the mistreatment of women by Afghan men. In the course of the book she is also threatened with rape; she masturbates in front of him; she describes how she made her menstrual blood apear to be the blood from her hymen; she recounts the times she was beaten; she reveals he wouldn't let her...more
Mohd Nazmi Yaakub
SAYA hampir pasti pengarang The Patience Stone, Atiq Rahimi pernah membaca Ranjau Sepanjang Jalan sebelum menulis novel keduanya itu. Watak wanita yang tak pernah diberikan namanya itu seolah-olah Jeha yang berbangsa Afghan yang terpaksa mengunyah derita selepas suami mereka ditimpa tragedi.

Hanya saja saya disedarkan tema yang diungkapkan Shahnon Ahmad dalam Ranjau Sepanjang Jalan adalah bersifat sejagat. Boleh berlaku di Banggul Derdap di kawasan pertanian, juga tak mustahil menjalar di kota di...more
Tina Hayes
"The Patience Stone" by Atiq Rahimi is an impressive novel that gives us a peak into Afghani culture. The story is unique in that it's told from the viewpoint of the room around which all the action happens. The characters aren't named, only called the man and the woman, but yet the reader feels an affinity to them both.

In Afghanistan, a woman takes care of her patriot husband, who is wounded and unable to move. War is going on around them and everyone else she could depend on to help her has fl...more
Sanaa
I read this today on and off since it is a quick read and I came to the conclusion this story was classed as 'powerful' due to the fact it is based upon a nameless Muslim woman who is tending to her husband who is in a coma. She uses this situation as a opportunity to confess all her feelings good and bad whilst he can't reprimand her. She takes to curses every other minute with the cursing being mainly sexual. Not the usual way Muslim women are portrayed in t.v or books which makes the storylin...more
Mariana
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Nadine Millar
I wasn't overly fond of the style - it read a little bit like a screenplay; very descriptive, impersonal. We're reliant entirely on our interpretation of what is seen and overheard (the woman speaks to her husband as he lies in a coma). I also struggled at times with the authenticity of the woman's character - would she really have used such harsh words in describing sexual acts? And that's not to say I was affronted by those passages - I think the honesty was beautiful albeit painful; but I had...more
Pbwritr
A very slender book. The book jacket pretty well foreshadows what the ending will be, so it was a bit anticlimactic. Nevertheless, a woman is viewed as taking care of her wounded Taliban husband (or a soldier, maybe fought against the war, but I think he was Taliban). Everything takes place in the room. He's in a vegetative state and she begins confessing all sorts of things, ending with that their daughters were not his because he was infertile and her mother-in-law forced her to have sex with...more
Robin
*very strong language in many places; contains sex and violence*

I would not recommend this book to anyone unless I knew them well. There are some things that many would find offensive. They did go a little too far for my comfort, but I found myself asking how much could be taken out and still have the story told properly.

It is a heavy story.

I enjoyed the way the story was told. I think the pace and tone represented well the experience of the abused. The author writes much without emotion -- abus...more
Tim Meneely
This is the best book I have seen in a very long time.

You rarely see a book like this, particularly in the modal literature about Afghanistan. War is but the chorus to this tragedy. Revenge and possession are deployed as redemptive powers. Rahimi takes a Persian myth – the Sang-e Saboor – and uses its ‘vessel’ component to invert a gender power hierarchy with such violent simplicity that the themes weave themselves.

Briefly: a woman in war-torn Afghanistan finds herself alone with her unresponsiv...more
Theresa
This very short book would have been a definite four star read if the ending had not been so mystical. I found it in the course of searching for any new writing by the author of The Kite Runner. (He wrote the introduction to this selection.) It is the story of a Muslim woman, probably in Afghanistan, who is tending her comatose husband who is suffering from a bullet wound received as a jihad fighter. She is in their home in a deserted village and surrounded by fighting. Even though there is neve...more
Jeniwren
This is a short novella set in Afghanistan narrated by a nameless woman who
is nursing her injured husband who is in a coma after being shot. The
fighting continues around her whilst she struggles to also care for her two
young daughters. The narrative device confines the dialogue to the one room
and at times different people come and go whilst giving a unique perspective
of the strains of war on this woman. Soon she is praying less and speaking
more to her husband telling him what is in her heart , h...more
Wanda
A good book; but, a hard read. This book is the well-written tale of a young woman (in a warn-torn area - maybe Afghanistan) who administers the day-to-day care to her mortally wounded husband. How he survives his wound (bullet to the neck) is beyond me; but, survive he does. Eventually, because this poor young woman has no one to provide emotional and/or mental support to her, she slowly cracks and it is under this intense emotional pressure that her story comes through to us.

In the end, this...more
Alain
Un livre court construit sur le mode du huis-clos ?touffant. Une femme afghane doit prendre en charge seule son mari, un taliban, qui a ?t? bless? et est dans un ?tat v?g?tatif. Elle utilise cette situation pour lui dire tout ce qu?elle a sur le c?ur, ce qu?est sa vie, faite de douleurs, de frustrations, de non-dits, sans aucune libert? de choix et sans espoir.


Le style est tr?s efficace pour faire ressortir le d?sespoir de cette femme. C?est un r?cit court, sans dialogue, original dans sa const...more
LaDawn
It is difficult to say how much or how little I liked (or didn't) this book. I still feel very conflicted about my rating and would hesitate to recommend this to anyone.

But the book has stuck with me. This might be because I am not entirely sure what the book is about. I have read and reread the ending and I'm still not sure what happened. My book group discussed the ending repeatedly and we came up with several different scenarios none of them very plausible.

All possibilities were equally horr...more
Ryan Mishap
The presentation of this story feels like reading a play--a room in an unnamed town in Afghanistan is the stage setting, a woman and a man the main characters. The man has been wounded in a macho fight (ironic, here, as he has been a freedom fighter for most of his adult life) and now lays in a coma, his wife attending. She cares for him and her children while fighting disrupts the life of the town around them. She begins to talk, to tell him things she never could when he was aware. She reveals...more
Erin
I've read a lot of books about Afghanistan and this is one of the most haunting. It took me a couple hours to digest the last few pages. I found his style of writing difficult, but in a way it beautifully captured the choppy nature of a difficult conversation which is essentially what the book is. I heard about it after a reading where Rahimi spoke about the book and read passages from it - the story of how this book came about is heart-wrenching and made each of the pages that much more real. I...more
Syringa Smyrna
«Cette pierre que tu poses devant toi... devant laquelle tu te lamentes sur tous tes malheurs, toutes tes misères... à qui tu confies tout ce que tu as sur le cœur et que tu n'oses pas révéler aux autres... Tu lui parles, tu lui parles. Et la pierre t'écoute, éponge tous tes mots, tes secrets, jusqu'à ce qu'un beau jour elle éclate. Elle tombe en miettes. Et ce jour-là, tu es délivré de toutes tes souffrances, de toutes tes peines... Comment appelle-t-on cette pierre ?»

Syngue Sabour: pierre de p...more
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عتيق رحيمي

Atiq Rahimi est un romancier et réalisateur de double nationalité française et afghane, réfugié de la guerre d'Afghanistan.

Atiq Rahimi is a writer and director of French and Afghan multiple citizenship, refugee from the war in Afghanistan.

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“Ma fille, malheureusement, ou heureusement, tout le monde ne peut pas accéder au bonheur, que ce soit dans la vie ou dans une histoire. Le bonheur des uns engendre du malheur chez les autres. C'est triste, mais c'est ainsi...” 2 people liked it
“Oh, ma syngué sabour, quand c'est dur d'êre femme, ça devient dur d'être homme!” 1 person liked it
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