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3.21 of 5 stars
After more than a decade of "marriage" to a woman with whom she was raising a daughter, Jan Clausen fell in love with a man, stunning herself and t... read full description

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Mar 31, 2011
Emily rated it: 2 of 5 stars
I can't help but posit that Jan Clausen's memoir was written for a very specific audience (well-educated lesbians who are contemporaries of hers) of which I am decidedly not a part.
The text is very dense and much more erudite and philosophical than I was prepared to expect in her memoir. Clausen ruminates on what it means to be a woman in many different contexts: as relates to her middle-class 1950's upbringing, at a "hippie" college in the Pacific Northwest, in the lesbian intell More...
Nov 01, 2010
Kellyann rated it: 3 of 5 stars
Great writing, unflinching awareness of the author's own faults and weaknesses as she analyzes the sexual relationships in her past. But that unflinchingness and honesty can make her hard to sympathize with at times, until you remember none of us is perfect.
Dec 24, 2009
Kate rated it: 4 of 5 stars
A bit hyper-intellectual (I craved more narrative!) but her theoretical reflections and life story were overall very interesting, and they helped me think through some of my own life journey.
Apr 28, 2011
Rutemple rated it: 4 of 5 stars
Apr 25, 2011
Bri rated it: 1 of 5 stars
Jan 29, 2011
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Aug 19, 2010
heidi rated it: 3 of 5 stars
Jul 28, 2010
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Feb 08, 2010
Tangomeydl rated it: 2 of 5 stars
Dec 27, 2009
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Feb 04, 2009
Kathryn rated it: 4 of 5 stars
Dec 22, 2008
Louise rated it: 5 of 5 stars
Nov 30, 2008
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Aug 14, 2008
C rated it: 3 of 5 stars
Jul 17, 2008
Travis rated it: 4 of 5 stars
Aug 04, 2008
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Oct 31, 2007
Schip rated it: 2 of 5 stars
Oct 11, 2007
Julie rated it: 3 of 5 stars
Sep 14, 2007
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Sep 04, 2007
Carmen rated it: 5 of 5 stars
Apr 17, 2007
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