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Home Safe

3.48  ·  Rating Details  ·  8,894 Ratings  ·  1,264 Reviews
In this new novel, beloved bestselling author Elizabeth Berg weaves a beautifully written and richly resonant story of a mother and daughter in emotional transit. Helen Ames–recently widowed, coping with loss and grief, unable to do the work that has always sustained her–is beginning to depend far too much on her twenty-seven-year-old daughter, Tessa, and is meddling in he ...more
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Published April 28th 2009 by Random House Audio (first published January 1st 2009)
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Sep 29, 2010 Barbara rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
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Jul 17, 2010 Myth rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
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I received this book for free, as a sort of promotional Nook was doing. I felt kind of cheap and decided I would get this, instead of one of the books I had planned on.

What a mistake.... but before I get into subject analysis and general ranting, here are the technical specs.

Most of the writing is in third person present tense. At first it's awkward to read in present tense, but you get use to it. It appears to be written this way so as to make easy transitions from past and present.

The main ch
Sep 20, 2010 Heather rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
I've heard this is not a typical Elizabeth Berg story, but this is my first, and, from the writing, it could be my last. Incidentally, I have been informed (by a rather nasty reviewer), to put a Spoiler tag here. So, here it is! SPOILER ALERT.

The book seemed to lack plot or point; the main character, Helen was so unlikeable -- needy, non-self-reflective in any way, no sense of self, critical, empty, and lacking any EQ, that I felt sorry for her daughter and parents, and angry and irritated at he
May 28, 2009 Diane rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I was anxious to read Home Safe by Elizabeth Berg, because I have enjoyed a few of her books in the past. The premise of this story is not a new one: when her husband dies unexpectedly, Helen Ames is stunned and finds it difficult to move on.

Yes, Helen lose her husband, but this woman was incapable of doing anything for herself ; honestly, she was pathetic. Once a best selling author, she even loses her her ability to write. She also becomes dependent on her 27 year old daughter Tessa, to the po
Elizabeth Berg's books tend to be those I refer to as "brain resting" books. Not to say that the characters aren't real or developed nicely, it's just that they are a whole lot like that pair of pajama pants that are definitely not for public viewing. Her books are comfortable and cozy and not at all surprising in any way. Sometimes a girl needs a book like that. In Home Safe: A Novel , I felt so often that Berg is becoming more and more autobiographical in her character development. There was a ...more
Sep 28, 2009 Joy rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Elizabeth Berg's books are really good. I'm enjoying novels by women these days. This was a mother-daughter story of a recently widowed woman who is overprotective of her 27-year-old daughter. The mother's own mother gives her excellent advice from older times: "We didn't need to air all our dirty laundry and run to therapists every five minutes. Life comes with problems. You just have to accept that. And you have to try to lead the simple life; to not constantly ask questions about the whys and ...more
Feb 06, 2012 Katy rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
When I first picked up an Elizabeth Berg novel, I was so intrigued. I read the entire thing in a day, I had a special connection to the characters, I loved the intimate details of feminine life, and I wanted to be like all of her protagonists when I grew up. I gave the books to my mom, we discussed how much we loved them, and I was convinced that this is what adult women were like.

Fast forward 15 years ahead, and this book actually made me ANGRY in how little i could relate to the characters. He
May 17, 2009 Lynn rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I always look forward to a new work by Elizabeth Berg which is why I devoured it, gulping it when I should have probably done more sipping and savoring. The plot, a middle-aged widow with writer's block discovers a secret her husband kept from her, and a secret she has kept from herself about who she is and what she is truly capable of, is classic Berg. I didn't particularly care for Helen. Her relationship with her daughter, Tessa, made me want to smack her up-side the head on several occasions ...more
May 29, 2009 Alissa rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Heather, Lesley, Kay, Diana, Stephanie, Maya, June
Recommended to Alissa by: Kay got me hooked on her books
I'm always ashamed to admit how much I like Elizabeth Berg's books. I mean, really--they're corny, with a lot of rumination about the small pleasures in life. Which, yeah, ok, I have to admit: I'm kinda the same way--I just don't talk about how much I love the iridescence of a scrub jay's wings. Maybe Elizabeth Berg is just the part of myself I'd never let anyone see because I'd be too freakin' embarrassed.

Anyway. I read this book in a day and a half, and that was even with Charlie sitting on my
Aug 25, 2012 Marlet rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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I’m now officially a fan of Elizabeth Berg. This is my second book and I finished it in 3 days. I guess Berg has a gift in hooking readers with her natural storytelling style.

Home Safe is about a novelist and a widow who can’t get over the death of her husband. While the theme may sound depressing, Berg managed to tell Helen’s life without too much weight in the heart. It’s not like I’d get to almost choke with tears but there were moments in the book that I truly felt for Helen.

Helen was very d
In Elizabeth Berg’s newest novel “Home Safe,” we are almost immediately plunged into the world of loss. It begins in the preface, when, as a nine-year-old girl, Helen Ames experiences the death of a classmate: she describes everything she sees, up close, from the hands on a wristwatch to the top of the mother’s head and the sound of her weeping – and completely immersed in this experience, she becomes obsessed with these details. And then she describes: “Nothing helped until the day she took a t ...more
Apr 17, 2012 Julia rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I bought this book when it first came out, but the reviews that I read put me off it and it's been sitting on my bookshelf ever since. Now that I've finally read it, I'm sorry I waited so long. It's a lovingly written, thought provoking book about moving on after you've lost your partner, and redefining what your "home safe" place will be.

Helen Ames is in her late 50s and a successful author. She is recently widowed and is struggling to cope without her husband, Dan. She is becoming overly depen
Linda Bewley
This book received many conflicting reviews. Personally, it made me think about lots of things that I'd rather not face, like the sudden death of my spouse, how that would change my relationship with my children and how I would now have to handle all the day to day things that were always taken care of for me. I felt that many of the negative reviews were written by women who, for one reason or another, had to rely solely on themselves and therefore could not relate to Helen's situation. One rev ...more
May 26, 2009 Cathy rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2009-books
I like the depth of Elizabeth Berg's characters even if I can't identify with the characters, which is the case with this book. The main character is Helen, a woman nearing 60, a writer whose husband suddenly drops dead. There is a mystery - he withdraws most of their savings without telling her. If this was an Anita Shreve or Jodi Picoult, it would be for nefarious purposes.
I can't identify with Helen much. She strikes me as self-indulgent and weak. I did squirm uncomfortably at how interferin
K. L. Petersen
Berg's writing was warm and simple, with perfectly timed moments of radiance. I think you could feel her love for her characters. I would describe the book as effortlessly charming, even elegant. It's the kind of novel you read, not be challenged or teased or even entertained, but to relax. The kind of book you grab while you're wrapped in a blanket, holding a hot cup of tea, and want to read something honest and kind about life, love and loss. I wouldn't recommend it to everyone though. Some of ...more
Havebooks Willread
While this book wasn't as enjoyable as other Berg books I've read, it did serve its purpose: to provide a little escape from real life. I could really identify with the love and appreciation for the written word which was woven through the pages of this novel.

"She opens the novel again, reads one page, another. Then another. And finally, everything in her own life surrenders to the one being presented here. . .Dan once had a friend who died from metastatic cancer. Toward the end, Dan visited h
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Jun 30, 2012 Stacy rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Helen is a 50 something widowed author who is still trying to find her way a year after her husband’s death. She cannot do the most basic things around the house relying instead on her 27-year-old daughter Tessa and she has not been able to write at all. When she finds out the nest egg she thought would support her financially is gone, having been taken out of the bank by her husband before his death, she has no idea what to think. She takes a job teaching a writing workshop and the eccentric st ...more
Sandy T
Apr 11, 2010 Sandy T rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: fiction, 2010
I've read several of Elizabeth Berg's books because I love her thoughtful discriptions of everyday ordinary life. But I keep waiting to really LOVE one of them, and it just hasn't happened yet. I did love this quote about books though:

"When Suzie introduced Helen, she told the audience that one of the best things about books is that they are an interactive art form: that while the author may describe in some detail how a character looks, it is the reader's imagination that completes the image, m
Jun 02, 2010 Karen rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I've told you before that Elizabeth Berg is my favorite author. I don't think I could ever read a book by her that disappoints! This novel is about a 59-year-old writer, Helen Ames, who is recently widowed and trying to now fend for herself, and is battling writer's block. Her 27-year-old daughter lives in the same city and Helen depends on her too much and meddles in her life as well. One day Helen discovers her husband was seemingly leading a double life and had withdrawn a huge amount of mone ...more
May 15, 2014 Aura rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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Sometimes books present themselves to us at special times of our lives and we love them because there is something particularly timely to us. I love Elizabeth Berg since Pull of the Moon, Open House and Durable Goods but this book was timely to me because my mother just died and she was a woman a lot like Helen. Home Safe is a story about a woman whose husband died and she is forced to grapple with no only the loneliness of losing a marriage but the loss of a man who took care of life, paying th ...more
Jun 10, 2014 Joana rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Nem sempre um livro consegue estar à altura dos comentários que constam nas contra-capas - por regra, pequenas considerações de críticos de renome. Este "Porto de Abrigo" é descrito como sendo "Simples, belo e real"e "Sábio, gracioso e romântico". E realmente é isso tudo e muito mais, na minha opinião, claro!

Elizabeth Berg não é uma autora da moda, mas a Bertrand já publicou várias das suas obras, o que significa que os leitores portugueses gostam das suas histórias. Eu adoro, e progressivamente
Dec 30, 2014 Marie rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
A corny but sweet mother-daughter and mid-life changes book. It reminded me a lot of the other book by Berg that I've read, Open House. Another middle-aged heroine figuring out how to be single after many years of co-dependence with her husband. (I happen to find that an interesting topic since I can imagine myself being in her shoes one day; it might not appeal to young/single readers as much). It seemed like the author was also trying to make some commentary on the novel writing industry in th ...more
Mar 13, 2011 Tina rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Painful to read. I disliked the main character so much that I wanted to reach in the book and smack her!
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Aug 12, 2015 Karen Lang rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I really like Elizabeth Berg's writing and this book did not disappoint. I could understand Helen and the impact of her grief and loss. Women of this generation tend to be caught in that role of wife and mother and have not quite moved into the independent and free spirited woman of the next generation. She is stuck in her focus on her situation and does not begin to heal until she begins to allow herself to begin to look around, accept and explore a new opportunity. She begins to understand she ...more
Jan 28, 2010 Dawn rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
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Sep 21, 2010 Amanda rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
I don't really dislike books very often, but this one is a "dislike" for me. I would probably give this a 1.5 stars because the writing is not hideously bad, I just did not find the story enjoyable at all.

This book is what my husband and I call a "lady book". It's as close as I comfortably get to a "beach read", but far from romance novel. It's the kind of book I probably would have liked in high school because I thought it would make me seem sophisticated or grown up.

The story focuses on Helen
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Helen, a successful writer, lost her husband, and after a year of emptiness and blank pages. She's turning all the energy she used to spend on writing and hr life towards interfering in her daughter, Tessa's, life instead. Then she finds out her husband was keeping a very big secret which involved removing most of their life savings. Reading this book is like having a long conversation about everything with an old friend you haven't talked to in a while. Helen and Tessa and their muddled relatio ...more
Shonna Froebel
Nov 25, 2012 Shonna Froebel rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I found this book a quick read, but a very enjoyable one. The main character Helen Ames is a writer, or at least she was until she hit the writing block she is currently up against. The block began eleven months ago when her husband died suddenly.
Helen has gone from depending on her husband to do certain things to depending on her daughter. And while she depends on her daughter, she still sometimes treats her daughter too much like a child. Her best friend Midge is urging her to move on.
When Hel
Jul 01, 2010 Jouraine rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: fiction, library, 2010
I gave this book 3 stars only because it was readable and it didn't take me to the point where I wanted to put it down. It came very close though. Like the writing students in the book, this was like one long writing exercise that went on beyond the point of reason. The book begs so many questions: Why wasn't more done with the missing money angle? Why wasn't the relationship between Helen and the builder developed? If Helen felt guilty about her husband's passing, why wasn't that explored?

Of co
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Elizabeth Berg is the New York Times bestselling author of many novels, including We Are All Welcome Here, The Year of Pleasures, The Art of Mending, Say When, True to Form, Never Change, and Open House, which was an Oprah’s Book Club selection in 2000. Durable Goods and Joy School were selected as ALA Best Books of the Year, and Talk Before Sleep was short-listed for the ABBY Award in 1996. The w ...more
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“She sits down and puts her hand to her chest and rocks. Thinks of all she has lost and will lose. All she has had and will have. It seems to her that life is like gathering berries into an apron with a hole. Why do we keep on? Because the berries are beautiful, and we must eat to survive. We catch what we can. We walk past what we lose for the promise of more, just ahead.” 24 likes
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