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    <body><![CDATA[I've read many a parenting help book and this is by far my favorite.  It changed the way I parent.  It is practical advice that is easy to implement and follow through with.  I have loaned out this book over and over to all of my friends and they have come back with the same rave review.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm not big on self-help books, but this book has really helped me step back and take a look at the way I interact with my children.  I read a chapter or 2 when I have a moment.  He uses a lot of examples which is very helpful.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Excellent advice. I like to give this to new parents.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Super excellent. Still reading and re-reading.]]></body>
    
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