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    <body><![CDATA[This book was eye-opening to me. I never understood my need for isolation, why I chose friends who weren't good for me, etc. After reading this book, I understand why God created community and how important it is to have safe people in my life who are God-given, loving and accepting. I highly recomm...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/29543099">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Another amazing book. A friend once told me, &quot;Just because they're your family doesn't mean they're good for you to be around.&quot;  This digs into this idea much deeper than any counselor I've had.  Toxic people are toxic, regardless of how much you try to love them.  I didn't have a clue unt...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/47763526">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Dealing with some hard (read painful) relationships in my life, this book was a very helpful tool to figure out that God does not call me to hard, painful relationships all the time. While he may call me to a few relationships like that, for the most part he wants me to have a safe community of peop...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/23960480">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was a little too religious for me, but I definitely identified with their descriptions of &quot;unsafe&quot; people because several of them have greatly affected me.  It gave me something to think about as far as improving my relationships goes.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book helps you to look at the relationships in your life and discern whether they are really safe or not.  It gives you the skills to understand who is a person that you should let into your life.  Safe people allow you to be who you are and want to know your heart and help you grow.  It also h...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/19633723">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[As I read this book, I could immediately think of people in my life who fit into the safe and unsafe categories. It's incredible how I've tried to hold onto a relationship without realizing the negative effects it had on me. You can't change people no matter how hard you try, and this book has made ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51592449">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[How to recognize the signs of people in our daily lives that come across our path or we theirs, that are healthy enough- emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically, to be able to be open, vulnerable with them and be safe in doing so. Not everyone in our lives are healthy enough within themselves...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28242239">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this book seeking to learn how to avoid unsafe poeple, like those who lie and cheat. For some reason-reasons my therapist and I have discovered- I was attracted to unsafe people. Low and behold, I not only discovered what to look for in others (sharpening my radar and intuitive red flag indic...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/21032984">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is the book that I'm working on now.  Actually I'm leading a group study on it with about 4 other women.  It's a great follow up to Boundaries.  I always thought of myself as a 'safe person'.  But after working through this book, I realize that I've been in search of such a person for ME!  It's...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/29447052">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is great too.  If you don't have the skills in picking out good people to associate with, this is for you.  I tend to think all people are nice and I don't want to hurt their feelings so I allow alot of people into my life that should have never been allowed.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[A lovely book, with Christian overtones (not evangelical though)... You must feel loved in order to love other people!  ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Discusses &quot;toxic friendships&quot; and identifies which friendships are healthy and which are not, and what you can do about them.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I need to read this one again.  It's important for our own self worth to find healthy friends and relationships.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Once I read this book, I was able to find and invest my time into friendships worth keeping]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Another educational learning tool. Helped me understand myself and how I choose people.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Good book about learning how to treat others and how to expect to be treated. ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I value everything they write! I taught this at church as well.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Can't wait to get to it...]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Excellent insights]]></body>
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