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  <title><![CDATA[Loose Girl: A Memoir of Promiscuity]]></title>
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  <default_description>For everyone who was that girl.
For everyone who knew that girl.
For everyone who wondered who that girl was.
Kerry Cohen is eleven years old when she recognizes the power of her body in the leer of a grown man. Her parents are recently divorced and it doesn't take long before their lassitude and Kerry's desire to stand out--to be memorable in some way--combine to lead her down a path she knows she shouldn't take. Kerry wanted attention. She wanted love.  But not really understanding what love was, not really knowing how to get it, she reached for sex instead.
&lt;i&gt;Loose Girl&lt;/i&gt; is Kerry Cohen's captivating memoir about her descent into promiscuity and how she gradually found her way toward real intimacy. The story of addiction--not just to sex, but to male attention--&lt;i&gt;Loose Girl&lt;/i&gt; is also the story of a young girl who came to believe that boys and men could give her life meaning. It didn't matter who he was. It was their movement that mattered, their being together. And for a while, that was enough.
From the early rush of exploration to the day she learned to quiet the desperation and allow herself to love and be loved, Kerry's story is never less than riveting. In rich and immediate detail, &lt;i&gt;Loose Girl&lt;/i&gt; re-creates what it feels like to be in that desperate moment, when a girl tries to control a boy by handing over her body, when the touch of that boy seems to offer proof of something, but ultimately delivers little more than emptiness.
Kerry Cohen's journey from that hopeless place to her current confident and fulfilled existence is a cautionary tale and a revelation for girls young and old. The unforgettable memoir of one young woman who desperately wanted to matter, &lt;i&gt;Loose Girl&lt;/i&gt; will speak to countless others with its compassion, understanding, and love.</default_description>
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  <original_publication_month type="integer">6</original_publication_month>
  <original_publication_year type="integer">2008</original_publication_year>
  <original_title>Loose Girl: A Memoir of Promiscuity</original_title>
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      <name><![CDATA[Kerry Cohen]]></name>
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  <read_at>Fri May 23 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was raw and intense in its revelations.  But it suffers from a fatal flaw: the road to recovery was relegated to 9.5 pages of the 210-page memoir.  And only one of those paragraphs was devoted to the pain she felt at stopping the promiscuity and attempting to face the aching emptiness with...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/22843000">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Aug 10 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu Jul 31 17:06:46 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Aug 10 18:35:02 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[It's a challenge not to judge the character of someone who writes such a revealing and vulnerable memoir, but I'll do my best to stick to my views on the book, not my opinions of the author, whether I saw myself in her or what she should have done.  <br/><br/>It's somewhat awkward when she comment...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28924531">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="18618782">
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    <name><![CDATA[Andrew]]></name>
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      <rating>4</rating>
  <votes>4</votes>
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  <read_at>Tue Mar 25 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Mar 25 15:00:16 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Mar 25 15:11:08 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Reading this book was kind of hard going, especially at first. I don't want to give the indication that the writing was bad; it was actually really good, but that was part of why it was hard to get through. Kerry Cohen's matter-of-fact narration of her teenage years, and the way she spared nothing i...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/18618782">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="25292802">
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  <date_added>Tue Jun 24 06:34:47 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Jun 24 06:35:10 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[In &quot;Loose Girl&quot;, Kerry Cohen has written a memoir of startling clarity and unblinking honesty. So often, memoir has proven to be a vehicle for proselytization or even vindication, but Cohen resists the temptation to assign blame or explain away the personal impulses that drove her to reckl...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/25292802">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="25174221">
    <user id="622779">
    <name><![CDATA[Kris]]></name>
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <read_at>Tue Jul 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Sun Jun 22 22:16:34 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Jul 07 22:22:01 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[A quick and good read as biographies go.  Not much in way of wit or prose, it's a rather raw and straight forward telling of how and why the author came to make the decisions she did regarding sex and relationships.  Yes, there's parental issues and what no mentioned but most of it is about her need...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/25174221">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="24570668">
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      <rating>2</rating>
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  <read_at>Wed Jun 11 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Sun Jun 15 17:35:32 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Jun 15 18:28:13 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I just read this guys, and it just came out, I went to the reading at Powell's and bought it there, I'm so contemporary for once.<br/><br/>I thought this &quot;MEMOIR OF PROMISCUITY&quot; would be about me but instead it was about the kind of person I find pathetic and tiresome. The narrator is no...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24570668">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="24545485">
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      <rating>4</rating>
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  <date_added>Sun Jun 15 09:37:27 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Jun 15 09:43:40 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a book that every woman needs to read!  Even more so if you are the parent of a daughter.  I pair this with Pledged by Alexandra Robbins as &quot;Must Reads&quot; for any girl on her way to college, in college, or about to send their own daughter to college.<br/><br/>Kerry gives a powerful...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24545485">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="26164672">
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    <location><![CDATA[Cleveland, OH]]></location>        
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      <rating>2</rating>
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[wanna-be sluts and the people that love them]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Thu May 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Jul 02 17:41:32 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Jul 04 12:39:48 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was okay.  It was a very fast read (books about slutty girls alway are).  I guess I can just say it's an &quot;in between the good stuff&quot; book.  A readable but forgettable account of a young womans life of being a ,well,  Loose Girl.  Most of the time I just wanted to shake the author...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/26164672">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="40903019">
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  <read_at>Thu Jan 15 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu Dec 25 18:50:03 -0800 2008</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[Everyone has a story to tell: about their shitty childhood, failed marriage, battle with cancer, a parent with Alzheimer's, but quite honestly, not everyone should share their story with the world.  Yet people do, and the result is piles and piles of simply awful memoirs, that would be better served...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40903019">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="24995423">
    <user id="51848">
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  <read_at>Sun Jun 22 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Mon Jun 23 12:21:52 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Loose Girl is a well focused look at one woman's journey through insecurity, dysfunction and unhappiness. It reads a lot like many other 'addiction' books but since the 'addiction' it covers is sex, the highs and lows are a lot less extreme.  Author Kerry Cohen does a good job of drawing the reader ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24995423">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="24559342">
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    <name><![CDATA[John]]></name>
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  <read_at>Sat Jun 14 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Kerry Cohen discovered that her body gave her power over boys and men. Early on she described an angst, a turmoil, that everybody experiences and must cope with in some way. Some attempt to deal through drugs, alcohol, exercise or by following their ambitions and dreams. Kerry chose sex. She sought ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24559342">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="28303906">
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  <read_at>Tue Sep 09 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Tue Sep 09 18:41:38 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I was not really sure what I would think of this book.  I figured it would almost be like a fantasy or sci fi book because her reality was so different than my own reality.  I did realize that we all have the same teenage angst, but we dealt with it in a very different way.  Maybe it was her dysfunc...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28303906">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Sep 15 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I gained some insights reading &quot;Loose Girl,&quot; although not as many as I had hoped.  As a boy - Hoffmann's word for any eligible male - it was fascinating to hear the thoughts of a girl so completely oblivious to the arc of her own actions.  As a teen, a young adult, and as a grown woman, Ho...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40545646">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Repetitive, but too brief (200p) to really get old, Cohen describes years of trying to find true love from anything with a boner in reach.  I was hoping it would end with an epiphany where she realizes she just really likes to party, but alas, her bed-hopping left her pretty down in the dumps most o...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/27584152">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[The thing about this book is, she wasn't even all that promiscuous.  Her fairly normal search for love or whatever else she can get goes on for like 200 pages.  Her writing style is good but the story itself is not that great, even if it's her life story.  I was yawning the whole time.<br/><br/><br/>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24891114">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was depressing to read. My adopted daughter is so much like the author it isn't even funny. I was struck by pure sadness that Kerry went through her teens and young adult life feeling that the only time she was worthy of love was when she was having sex with some boy. That need to be loved...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/30969721">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Remind me not to read this when my daughter gets closer to adolescence.  An honest (but depressing) narrative.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I could have written this book myself.  I found a lot of myself in the story.  The needing and wanting to be loved I personally deal with still to this day.  I thought it was a brave story, to put yourself out there like that and admit to your sexual past is humbling at best.  I thought it was an ea...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/32814467">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[While I certainly could relate to a story of continually using boys/men to boost self esteem, I didn't think this particular story was very interesting or insightful.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I don't see how this memoir benefits anyone but herself.  This is not a novel about self-reflection and/or improvement, this is a depiction of a &quot;notchpost&quot; sex addict who comes off as bragging about her sex life.  If the author was *truly* seeking love and used sex as a means to find it, ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/73086159">more...</a>]]></body>
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