Goodreads helps you keep track of books you want to read.
Start by marking “Pink Brain, Blue Brain: How Small Differences Grow into Troublesome Gaps — and What We Can Do About It” as Want to Read:
Pink Brain, Blue Brain: How Small Differences Grow into Troublesome Gaps — and What We Can Do About It
Enlarge cover
Rate this book
Clear rating
Open Preview

Pink Brain, Blue Brain: How Small Differences Grow into Troublesome Gaps — and What We Can Do About It

3.73  ·  Rating Details  ·  594 Ratings  ·  124 Reviews
In the past decade, we'veheard a lotabout the innate differences between males and females. As a result, we've come to accept that boys can't focus in a classroom and girls are obsessed with relationships. That's just the way they're built. In Pink Brain Blue Brain, neuroscientist Lise Eliot turns that thinking on its head. Based on years of exhaustive research and her own ...more
Hardcover, 432 pages
Published September 14th 2009 by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt (first published January 1st 2009)
More Details... edit details

Friend Reviews

To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up.

Reader Q&A

To ask other readers questions about Pink Brain, Blue Brain, please sign up.

Be the first to ask a question about Pink Brain, Blue Brain

Confessions of a Shopaholic by Sophie KinsellaMy Life in Pink & Green by Lisa GreenwaldPrincess in Pink by Meg CabotThe Princess Diaries by Meg CabotThe Secret History of the Pink Carnation by Lauren Willig
pretty in pink!
43rd out of 220 books — 77 voters
The Ultimate Guide to Green Parenting by Zion LightsThe Boy Who Played with Fusion by Tom ClynesCliffsNotes Parents' Guide to Paying for College and Repaying... by Reyna GobelThe Guide to Creating Unique and Unusual Baby names by Jeff EdisEasy Guide to Baby Sign Language by J.R. Cagle
Modern Parenting Strategies
16th out of 16 books — 9 voters


More lists with this book...

Community Reviews

(showing 1-30 of 2,724)
filter  |  sort: default (?)  |  Rating Details
Caris
Apr 18, 2010 Caris rated it liked it
Shelves: 2010
My grandma swears by estrogen injections. A long time ago, perhaps on the seventh day, a doctor she trusted very much started her on them and told her to never, ever stop getting them. She continued, as the estrogen made her feel good. As it turns out, lots of doctors did this. Estrogen was considered to be some kind of miracle cure; it elevated mood and enhanced overall functioning.

But in 2003, after something like thirty years of longitudinal study, it was determined that high levels of estrog
...more
Alison Dellit
Apr 07, 2012 Alison Dellit rated it it was amazing
This was one of several books I picked up after I decided that I was just getting too uncomfortable with the discussion about boys and girls innate differences. Discovering feminism in the 80s, for me feminism was in large part defined by the idea that girls could do everything that boys could. Over the last 30 years, it felt insidiously as if the nature vs nuture debate pendulum had swung back in the opposite direction.

Of the books I picked up, this was easily, easily my favourite. I wish I cou
...more
Jacinda
Dec 11, 2011 Jacinda rated it did not like it
Shelves: nonfiction, gender
I was deeply disappointed by this book. Repeatedly, the author tells us that some difference between girls and boys is insignificant compared to variation within each group -- then goes on to discuss at length how parents and teachers should accommodate these important differences. WTF? If the differences are that small, then parents of boys do not, in fact, need to talk to them more in order to make up for their naturally poorer language skills (for example). I fail to see how encouraging this ...more
Amanda
Jan 04, 2012 Amanda rated it liked it
Shelves: feminism
I have mixed feelings about this book:

PRO:
*The author knows her science and presents facts in a very levelheaded way. Sources are fastidiously documented in a nearly 100 page appendix.
*The author discusses both boys and girls, the sexist views our society holds and how those views effects their development
*The author offers suggestions for helping children nurture talents that may not be their preferred way of behaving

CONS:
*The author rarely shows any engagement with the subject and the brief mo
...more
Emily
Aug 21, 2014 Emily rated it did not like it
I started to read this, but decided to quit early on. The writer's lazy conflation of sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, and phenotype was bad enough, but claiming that babies with ambiguous genitalia should, by default, be given surgery to create male genitals and raised as male was the last straw. That is a terrible idea. The author is very clear about being a fan of traditional gender roles and treating boys and girls completely differently even though, as she admits, the ...more
Dominic
Jan 20, 2012 Dominic rated it really liked it
Shelves: feminism, parenting
Ever since I've been in college, I've been studying, reading about and challenging others about gender stereotypes, perceived and biological gender differences, and alternatives to traditional gender roles. Now that I am going to embark on the awesome journey of raising a child, I'm happy to have come across Lise Eliot's thoughtful and well-argued book, Pink Brain, Blue Brain. It gave me an opportunity, now three months before my baby's birth, to review and potentially revise some of my stances ...more
Shannon
Aug 04, 2014 Shannon rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: Parents
Shelves: parenting
Abbreviated review - full review appears on Amazon.Com

Lise Eliot's book focuses primarily on the slight differences between male and female brains in prenatal fetuses and in infants, and how those differences may grow over time through cultural influences. She distinguishes between the effects of hormones, developmental differences, and cultural expectations and impacts. What is particularly notable is that she never makes a statement without listing an associated study. In fact, she takes apart
...more
Marie
May 23, 2010 Marie rated it really liked it
Shelves: nonfiction, children
As the mother of three sons, I've always been interested in learning more about what is hardwired into males and females, and what is influenced by environment. So when I heard about this book, I immediately put it on hold at the library.

Eliot is a neuroscientist, a graduate from Harvard and Columbia, an associate professor of neuroscience, and mother of two sons and a daughter. The basic premise of the book is that although yes, males and females have biologically based differences, many of ou
...more
Vanessa
Apr 09, 2012 Vanessa rated it did not like it
I was really excited about this one, but I cannot go further. The book (or I should say the writer) is extremely gender essentialist and it just rubs me the wrong way. A lot of swooping generalizations and no conversation about gender that is significant. I love science but I don't like science meddling with gender. Why? Because gender is socially constructed. This is my opinion, though. As a feminist who believes that gender doesn't just include FEMALE or MALE, I just had to put it down.

What r
...more
Sébaste
This book could have been so great. I was really excited about reading this, at first. I was like "yeaaah, brain plasticity!! :D i'm so excited about learning more about that!! let's destroy neurosexism!!"... And then the author missed so many great opportunities.

I feel like she had good intentions when writing this, really. I feel like she actually wanted to debunk a lot of gender stereotypes that are very present in our society. But in the end, she does spend a lot of time reinforcing the ste
...more
Histteach24
Aug 26, 2014 Histteach24 rated it liked it
The book was very informative but I found it slow through the "brain talk". Mind you I know this was written by a neuroscience professional and not a psychologist. I only discovered that after already starting the book. I was expecting it to be more case studies, less science, so it was my fault for not reading about the author beforehand.
Regardless, she made interesting points that can be used by educators and parents. Of course, you probably should read the book as you prepare to have children
...more
Sarah
Nov 30, 2012 Sarah rated it really liked it
Pink Brain, Blue Brain is a thorough investigation into gender differences by neuroscientist Lise Eliot. With a nuanced and scientific perspective, she delves into all the major cognitive gender differences observed in children and adults and explores the source of these differences. Initial chapters focus first on babies, then toddlers, then preschoolers and older, and later chapters address verbal differences, math differences, and emotional/interpersonal differences.

The major concept that th
...more
Veronica
Nov 14, 2009 Veronica rated it really liked it
Shelves: reviewed
Eliot takes a much debated issue - are girls and boys fundamentally different? - and sets out with a well restrained heart. Eliot painstakingly goes thru all available scientific research and popular culture books to sort out the truth. Are men from Mars and women from Venus? In a nutshell, no.

What Eliot does is walk us thru the research, data and the facts about the differences. I say painstakingly because this 315 page tome has almost 40 pages of endnotes and 45 pages of bibliography and zero
...more
Sally
Oct 05, 2009 Sally rated it really liked it
This careful yet very readable examination of scientific research on brain differences between the sexes -- prenatal, infant, childhood, teen -- is an antidote to media hype about vast, obvious differences. A brain scientist, the author details the biological differences (or lack of difference) revealed by current research and suggests strategies for parents and teachers to help children of both sexes reach their full potentials. She points out that much research on sex differences in male/femal ...more
Shana
Sep 26, 2012 Shana rated it liked it
(This is my review and it was originally posted on Elevate Difference).

Given the heavy media coverage about studies that “prove” significant, inborn differences between males and females, it is no surprise that we excuse or accept certain behaviors depending on whether they come from a boy or a girl. We are often led to believe that it is natural for a boy to be athletic and for a girl to demonstrate more empathy because it is part of their biology and something that cannot be helped one way or
...more
Lisa
Jan 12, 2010 Lisa rated it really liked it
This book was great. It does away with many old myths and presumptions about boys and girls. Here are 9 things I will never forget after reading this book. #1 The corpus callosum is the same in both sexes. #2 There is a "first puberty" at 3 months. #3 soy formula is banned in the UK. #4 pushing more writing ability in Kindergarten doesn't necessarily benefit boys because of their slower rate to develop fine motor skills. #5 most elementary school teachers are female, which can have all kinds of ...more
Lara
Mar 30, 2010 Lara rated it liked it
Shelves: feminism
Eliot offers a good rebuttal to Sax, but still falls short of really challenging the way we think about gender. She is very essentialist and normalizing, just like Sax, in her distinctions between boys and girls. I'm very against using "science" to "prove" differences between gender. Science can only prove sexual differences, not gender. Sex is biological; gender is much more complicated. She does not offer any insight into the influences of race, culture, socioeconomic backgrounds, sexuality (w ...more
Marissa Morrison
Sep 26, 2009 Marissa Morrison rated it it was amazing
I think that this book is an important one. Eliot shows how gender differences occur naturally and become stronger through nurture. Since young children are strongly influenced by their gender identity and tend to self-segregate, it's up to parents to strongly nudge them toward "opposite gender" toys and activities. A typical girl spends hundreds of hours in the preschool years playing mommy in her toy kitchen or painting at an easel--so she will grow stronger in verbal, empathetic, and fine mot ...more
Mireille
A lot of very interesting research, well presented, in a topic that I care about a lot. Of course, the fact that a lot of research concluded that there are no measurable differences in the brains of boys and girls make for some underwhelming results at times, but it forces a very interesting reflexion on how society/culture/nurture/etc. is the thing to "blame" for differences between boys and girls. I found the beginning very drab (in general I like more anecdotes or metaphors in my non-fiction) ...more
Michelle
Apr 02, 2016 Michelle rated it really liked it
Shelves: parenting
So while I was pregnant with Baby #2 (a boy), people kept sqealing at me (as they do), "What are you having?!"

And I would say, "A boy, omigod, I don't even know what to do about it." ("It" being: Everything boy-related. Because Baby #1 is a girl.)

My very wise friend Keri said, "The same thing you did with the first."

I think my jaw literally dropped. It's strange. Having a girl, being a feminist, I was all, "Rahrahrah, I will raise my girl to know that she can be anything she wants to be! She is
...more
Allison
Feb 25, 2015 Allison rated it really liked it
Shelves: non-fiction
Enjoyed this, for the easy access to her sources if anything. A good summary of how the gender gap isn't so big after all (or shouldn't be). I'd be wary of some of the reviews on this page -- they seem to be misinterpreting the author, who, while pretty obviously writing from a heteronormative perspective, isn't as god awful as she is being interpreted to be. I really feel like the book is written from a perspective to appeal to the mass (also heteronormative) parenting crowd, and in doing so in ...more
Holly
Jun 04, 2012 Holly rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: all the parents, ever
Recommended to Holly by: Barbara Trailanoia
I really enjoyed reading this book up until the minutes I stopped reading it. It was indformative, and well written, and had actual tips and things to do to help your child. I loved it. But the second I stopped reading it, I stopped thinking about it. I want to finish it, but I haven't the inclination. To the try-again-later shelf you go, Pink Brain, Blue Brain!
Tiffany
Apr 14, 2012 Tiffany rated it it was amazing
I'm just gonna go ahead and rate this 5 stars right now, even though I'm only halfway through. This book is totally informative, gives all kinds of evidence to back up claims, and makes me think! Should be a must-read for every parent, teacher, guardian, etc.
Robin
Oct 18, 2015 Robin rated it really liked it
I had a really hard time rating this book. There are parts of the book I loved-- I went around summarizing tidbits to my husband, friends, etc. Eliot is very careful when she summarizes research to not make too big of a case of small differences and to explain them in a way people understand-- the average boy is better/worse at X than 2/3 of the girls, so there are many many girls who are better/worse than many, many boys at X... blah blah.

But then there are these weird spots where she steps out
...more
Gail
Apr 18, 2015 Gail rated it liked it
Determined to figure out how much of my toddlers’ divergent behavior is based upon innate gender difference, I read Cordelia Fine’s Delusions of Gender and the first 100 pages of Lise Eliot’s Pink Brain, Blue Brain (the introduction and chapters covering prenatal development and infancy, since both authors agree that these periods are key to determining whether only nurture is to blame for pre-pubertal differences between boys and girls). Though the two writers agree on just about every scientif ...more
Katie G
Jun 13, 2014 Katie G rated it really liked it
This was a good book overall, though I had a few issues with parts of the book. I liked the way she made science accessible for the average person without sounding like she was dumbing anything down. She includes a lot of research and explains it in a way that makes a lot of sense. I also enjoyed how she reviewed other people's talk of studies and pointed out how they could reach different conclusions than she did.

Of course, it's easy to like a book when you agree with the conclusion. I loved t
...more
Eva Shang
Jun 19, 2011 Eva Shang rated it liked it
Another librarian recommendation--I don't read books like this willingly, but in this case, I was forced to check it out.
It was boring. I'll be honest. I'm not big on the science of brains, and all my biology knowledge is gone, so I basically just skimmed it.
It speaks a lot of truth though, particularly about how perceived gender differences are mainly because of society--we don't LET little girls play with trains and cars, we don't LET little boys play with dolls. So therefore, little girls g
...more
Meg
Apr 29, 2010 Meg rated it it was amazing
Excellent book. Scientific, yet straightforward and enjoyable to read. Nuanced, yet clear. The author has a refreshing willingness to take into account both biological and cultural/ social forces. Also, I really felt that she didn't go into writing this book with the attitude "I'm going to prove A, B, or C," but really just wanted to examine the research and write about what it indicates. This is rare - often authors on both sides of the nature/ nurture debate are very attached to the outcomes, ...more
Jean Godwin Carroll
Ok, so after finishing it, I liked the author's point of view (nature is there, but nuture shapes it). However, she tended to inject her own opinions a little too frequently, which annoyed me.

The author takes on the nature/nuture polemic in this book. Her stance is that we magnify small biological differences (nature) and turn them into troublesome gaps by the way we raise girls and boys (nuture).

Sample quotes from the introduction:

"...the male-female differences that have the most impact - cog
...more
Hilary
Jul 05, 2010 Hilary rated it it was amazing
Shelves: non-fiction
This is an accessible look at the observed and claimed differences between boys and girls, how meaningful those differences are, and in what proportions biology and society seem to be responsible. The chapter on the effects of prenatal hormones alone would have made the book worthwhile, but the author does an excellent job of pulling apart studies and showing how the results are exaggerated or erroneously assumed indicate innate differences. It was especially illuminating to see the way that par ...more
« previous 1 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 90 91 next »
There are no discussion topics on this book yet. Be the first to start one »
  • Brainstorm: The Flaws in the Science of Sex Differences
  • Packaging Girlhood: Rescuing Our Daughters from Marketers' Schemes
  • Same Difference: How Gender Myths Are Hurting Our Relationships, Our Children, and Our Jobs
  • Delusions of Gender: How Our Minds, Society, and Neurosexism Create Difference
  • The Scientist in the Crib: What Early Learning Tells Us About the Mind
  • So Sexy So Soon: The New Sexualized Childhood, and What Parents Can Do to Protect Their Kids
  • Pink and Blue: Telling the Boys from the Girls in America
  • Enlightened Sexism: The Seductive Message That Feminism's Work Is Done
  • The Curse of the Good Girl: Raising Authentic Girls with Courage and Confidence
  • Myths of Gender: Biological Theories about Women and Men
  • Fight Like a Girl: How to Be a Fearless Feminist
  • A Child's Work: The Importance of Fantasy Play
  • Virgin: The Untouched History
  • The War on Choice: The Right-Wing Attack on Women's Rights and How to Fight Back
  • Reality Bites Back: The Troubling Truth About Guilty Pleasure TV
  • Too Much of a Good Thing: Raising Children of Character in an Indulgent Age
  • Reclaiming the F Word: The New Feminist Movement
  • He's a Stud, She's a Slut, and 49 Other Double Standards Every Woman Should Know
83915
Lise Eliot is a mother of three, and the Associate Professor of Neuroscience at The Chicago Medical School of Rosalind Franklin University. She is the author of What’s Going On In There? How the Brain and Mind Develop in the First Five Years of Life.
More about Lise Eliot...

Share This Book