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You Are Not a Stranger Here: Stories
by Adam Haslett
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Read in April, 2008
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Michael Lowenthalrecommends it for: Everyone on the planet. It's an important, necessary book to read.
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Read in July, 2005
The short stories in here are "heavy" in a good way -- rich, complex, filling. Two years after reading this -- longer even -- certain moods, images, and phrases still stay with me. This is old-fashioned, solid, nourishing fiction.
I read this on the beach in Italy, surrounded by children, ice cream, sun lotion, lifeguards, typical Summer insanity, but I remember the book weaving a somber web around my towel, and everything became a little bit ominous. For some reason, the dark stori...more
I read this on the beach in Italy, surrounded by children, ice cream, sun lotion, lifeguards, typical Summer insanity, but I remember the book weaving a somber web around my towel, and everything became a little bit ominous. For some reason, the dark stori...more
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Read in March, 2008
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Sometimes reading books of short stories can be pretty unfulfilling. It's hard to write a good short story, and I really don't think very many modern authors are very adept at it. This book is obviously an exception. Each story in this collection shares a similar theme of sexual frustration and mental illness, which, of course, are two of my favorite things! The stories are often disturbing yet completely engaging. The characters are well developed and it's easy to relate to their circumsta...more
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Read in January, 2007
A beautiful and thought-provoking but very difficult read. Haslett’s short stories share themes of mental illness, suicide, alienation and grief—boy, do I make this book sound fun! But these stories are striking, and Haslett’s prose is beautiful. “The Beginnings of Grief,” about the violent relationship an orphaned boy tumbles into with a brutal classmate, was especially compelling to me, as was the story about a grown up brother and sister living together, haunted by the memory of the...more
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Read in March, 2008
I can't even remember why I picked this book up in the library, but I'm quite glad I did. This collection of nine short stories is really good, although it tends towards subject matter of death/suicide/mental illness which was a little frustrating to me. I think every story in the collection had a least some mention of one of the three above, and it was just a little disappointing not to have some more variety.
That said, that stories were great, the characters vivid even in a short time,...more
That said, that stories were great, the characters vivid even in a short time,...more
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Adam Haslett’s inaugural collection of published stories is an impressive study of mental illness and sexual identity. Each story has characters that are struggling either with a debilitating psychological condition or with a burgeoning gay awareness, and shows how people who don’t fit into our culture’s idea of “normal” find connections, however tentative, to make it through daily life. The stories and characters are memorable, and Haslett has a poet's eye for the telling detai...more
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First off, I'm looking at my rating and thinking that I'd probably give this 4 stars if I read the stories separately. As is, I read the book in two sittings, and the stories felt far too similar. I lovelovelove with The Volunteer, and individually, the stories were great. They're mostly about mental illness, yes, but they manage to balance without tipping into either depressive my-life-is-a-tragedy or everything-will-be-better-the-world-is-great!, which is worth applauding. And Haslett is a goo...more
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Read in April, 2008
This was a fabulous book of short stories. I have a hard time believing that this is Adam Haslett's first book. It was first described to me as a book that will rip your heart out and make you want to jump off a cliff....but in a good way. Since I tend to love darker material I found that to be true but at the same time I couldn't put it down. It made me think of life in a fuller way, where heartbreaking glimpses into the soul are gorgeous, albeit difficult. These are the moments when our t...more
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Read in June, 2008
The stories were well-written and at times beautiful, but there is something about them that won't let me give this collection above three stars. Maybe it is that they are all a bit unrealistic, but in a setting where realism is expected, maybe it's that they were so depressing, about death and mental illness, maybe it's because I was able to read the lot so quickly that the characters just haven't stayed with me. Whatever the case, I'd suggest picking this book up if you stumble upon it, but ...more
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Read in July, 2008
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Kathy Mintonrecommends it for: Caitlin Karosen
Starts off wonderfully, with "Notes to my Biographer", and then pitters out a bit, comes back to the deeply moving "Devotion" pitters off a little more, deeper this time, then concludes with what it possibly the greatest story in the book, "The Volunteer". If it weren't for these three gems, the rest of the book would be a total flop. You Are Not a Stranger Here, at its weak points, reads like a lengthy, over-thought MFA exercise. At its strong points, it ...more
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This book is one of the best I have ever read. It deals with tragedy, mental illness, suicide and loss in a realistic and beautifully heartbreaking manner. Many of the stories are almost too difficult to read, uncomfortable and humiliating in their truthfulness. It is not a happy book but it is important in the way that it brings often ignored or poorly written themes to our attention.
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The stories are really well written and quite moving at times but wow, so depressing - to the point that actually it all became very predictable - like a friend who never stops moaning. Maybe I'm really shallow but maybe it was 2 stories too many by the time I'd finished the whole book. Perhaps something that you should dip into rather than read from start to finish.
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Read in February, 2008
This book was not what I expected. The short stories are pretty intense at times and mildly disturbing. They're all quite different yet somehow there is a common thred throughout it all. It took me finishing the book to realize that. Most of the stories are pretty sad so it's not a book to read when you need a good laugh. However good anyway.
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Read in June, 2008
I only got through 70% of this book. It is too depressing. I gave it one star for having some stand out moments (like the story about the gay orphan). But right from the beginning there was a scene where a guy said "never finish anything that bores you." So I thought about that and came to the conclusion that this book was boring me.
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Read in August, 2007
I was so surprised not to love this book. Haslett tends to go for sudden endings or last minute surprise twists that (in my opinion) don't work--the only ending I liked was that of "Devotion." "Notes to my Biographer" was brilliant right up to that final sentence. I wish he had put more thought into choosing titles, too.
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Read in June, 2008
I hadn't realized this was a collection of unrelated stories, which I don't normall enjoy (preferring a longer story that may double back on itself and eventually tie together). My bad for not reading the back of the book - BUT - so far so good... pretty colorful accounts of coping with forms of mental illness.
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I haven't seen such insight into the manic mind since Jesus' Son. I have read this book twice and feel my backbone yanked out from under me. I am not sure if he has written anything else since, but this collection of stories is pretty much perfect. I feel dwarfed and challenged at all at the same time.
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Read in June, 2008
I doubt I would have read this book on my own volition. The book club I partcipate in assigned it. The stories were well written but, wow, depressing. Very sad. It is sometimes good to see other's point of view, which all were quite different than mine. I prefer my stories to inspire and uplift.
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Read in January, 2005
I was suspicious of the book when it came out because rarely does a short story collection receive that much attention and that many stellar reviews (how could it be true). But it IS good, very good. Several stories in the collection are truly excellent; the title story is one of my favorites.
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Read in January, 2008
This was eliminated from common book contention last week, so I don't really feel motivated to finish it. I enjoyed the first three stories, but someone on the committee (who's reading tastes tend to be similar to mine) told me the first three were the best stories of the collection.
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