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始於寧謐處 - 默想基督徒生命

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The careful balance between silence and words, withdrawal and involvement, distance and closeness, solitude and community forms the basis of the Christian life and, according to Nouwen, should therefore be the subject of our most personal attention.
Published January 1993 by 基道書樓 (first published November 30th 1973)
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Apr 15, 2016 7jane rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
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This is such a slim, small book, yet it has depths of the deepest ocean within. First appering as sermons given at an university, its filled with sentences that strike you, in a good way.

The main point is about seeking solitude daily to get closer to God and becoming a better person. The writing is in three chapters, each with a theme: solitude + action (solitude is needed for our soul not to get lost in pursuits of life); care (being there), not just cure; and on hopeful expectation for things
Jul 26, 2010 Leah rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I have had an exceptional year when it comes to reading some really great books. This is another one to add to that list. Henry Nouwen is quickly becoming one of my favorite spiritual authors. He was a professor of Divinity at Yale, and yet somehow manages to say the most profound things using simple phrases that pull on the heart-strongs and make you go, "Yes, I've felt that way too!" This book talks about the importance of solitude, care, and expectation. He talks about how Jesus often withdre ...more
Feb 20, 2008 Stephanie rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is one of my favorite books to give as a gift. Great comfort and direction about how to understand your work--and it's place in your life. He works through the need for and joys of solitude. Then he explains the richness that a heart shaped by solitude brings to the community. He always ends with community.

If you've read Nouwen, you'll find that his style in Out of Solitude is different from other works. I don't know the reason for this. But he uses words a small child would understand--I
May 11, 2009 Lauren rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Not finished yet, so can't say 5 stars, but it's on it's way! A couple favorite passages:

(From Thomas Merton's forward)
"The compulsion to cure is like action without a deep and silent center. We want to overcome problems and adversities and want to change at all costs. An alternative is to care for ourselves, each other, and our world. We wouldn't need change and cure if we were in a constant caring mode."

From the first section
"Somewhere we know that without a lonely place our lives are in dange
Dec 16, 2014 Joseph rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Out of Solitude reads like a manual in advanced prayer - prompting more questions about one's self than it answers. The book contains three meditations on solitude, caring, and expectation. Each are scripturally-based and supported, giving the reader a firm foundation on which to assess their lives and discern the direction they wish to follow in light of these revelations.
Jul 01, 2014 Ian rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Nouwen reflects on the importance of solitude in achieving balance in our daily walk. Time spent alone with God allows us to become more aware of His purposes and equips us to let go of the world's.

This short but weighty set of three messages require time to percolate as there is much to contemplate.

Highly recommended.
Apr 04, 2009 Sue rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: christian, read-2009
A short book, but thought-provoking. It's three meditations that were originally given as sermons. They are short and simple, but at the same time profound. I re-read two of them as soon as I had finished, so as to take them in better.

The first one talks about the need for withdrawing to be alone with God; the second about the need for care - for empathy, and suffering alongside people - in a society that's more concerned with cure. The third is about living in expectation of better things, and
Jon Stout
Mar 10, 2015 Jon Stout rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: the caring and the curious
Recommended to Jon by: Candace Sandfort
Shelves: religion
These meditations, used in a Lenten Study, serve to orient one spiritually and have some kinship with Buddhist meditation practices. I find Nouwen to be very down-to-earth and concrete in talking about spiritual life.

The first meditation emphasizes the need for solitude, for withdrawing from the crowd from time to time to find one’s own personal center and to experience the world without the background noise of the marketplace, either inside or outside of one’s own head.

The second meditation emp
May 18, 2015 Glen rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I picked up this book on the recommendation of a friend and was not disappointed. It is brief and in the spirit of Nouwen's mystical writings. The book is essentially looking at how we can live meaningful lives as believers in a broken world. It focuses on three key aspects of Christian spirituality: solitude that detaches us from results-based identity, care that connects us genuinely with the hurting and expectation that gives us joy to press on despite the pain knowing that our healer is comi ...more
Robert Clay
Jan 10, 2008 Robert Clay rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Nouwen packs a lot of simple, yet no less profound, wisdom into these three short meditations. Each is drawn from a Gospel lesson, with the interconnected focus of solitude, care, and expectation.
An excerpt:
'This is the great conversion in our life: to recognize and believe that the many unexpected events are not just disturbing interruptions of our projects, but the way in which God molds our hearts and prepares us for His return.'
Karen L.
Dec 19, 2008 Karen L. rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I found this short book very refreshing. I want to read more Henri Nouwen. His style is very personal. He writes humbly and honestly out of his own struggles. I like how each section opens with a gospel passage emphasizing Christ's quiet times of solitude with his Father.
Dec 07, 2009 Kyna rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
A wonderful tool for the comtemplative practice. I read it before bed and spend time in silence with God. Not a lot of words in this book, mostly a thought provoking ushering into moments of solitude.
Nov 08, 2007 Liz rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This was the first book I read by Henri Nouwen. Love this author. He is one of those teachers that teaches from the heart of one who has "been there".
Mar 10, 2008 Emily rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Like most Nouwen I've read, this was really rich. I wrote down a lot of quotes from a small book.
Mad Russian the Traveller
This was light but profound, and it's as if the author had read Bonhoeffer's "Life Together" because there were some places where the words were eerily parallel. This will be re-read again as there is so much to mine that I might as well post the entire contents. The author uses the biblical dialectic like Bonhoeffer does in the above referenced work. Here is an example from the Introduction:

"I want to reflect on this lonely place in our lives. Somewhere we know that without a lonely place our l
Sep 25, 2013 Karen rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
My mother slipped her browny-orange copy from '77 into my bag before she left, her name in cursive inside the front cover, pumpkin-round and unslanted. Solitude, suffering, vocation, creativity, caring, community, joy, bread, wine. This is the Christianity and Nouwen is the type of christian I remember growing up with. Basically where all my values came from, although I no longer have faith. I read it out of duty and nostalgia, but found so much is relevant to my current reflections, because the ...more
Nov 05, 2010 Angela rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: christian
"Somewhere we know that without a lonely place our lives are in danger. Somewhere we know that without silence our words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure."

"It is in this solitude that we discover than being is more important than having, and that we are worth more than the result of our efforts."

These are just a few of the many wise words Henri Nouwen relays to his readers in this tiny, thin little book. It's a book
Mar 02, 2014 Abigail rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: theology
This is a short volume of three of Nouwen's sermons given at Yale in 1974. There are a few passages I took the time to copy down. I recommend this for a quiet Sunday afternoon.
Jonathan Drnjevic
Weighing in at 63 pages, this felt more like a pamphlet than a book. Still what's here is golden and seems like Nouwen at his best.
Apr 24, 2015 Eric rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: christian
What a gem! I wish Nouwen were still alive today. This book is small in page number, but huge in subject. I will have to re-read it again, but Nouwen gets to the heart or people: our lives, community, and the joy/sadness that comes with life. The hope is to be expectant on God.
Adam Carlson
Oct 08, 2015 Adam Carlson rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: spiritual
Nice meditations I appreciate. But a short book that didn't really speak much of anything new or convicting to me.
Nathan Wesson
Jun 23, 2015 Nathan Wesson rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
So simple, yet so profound and life changing for those who grab hold of his message through the meditations he shares.
May 20, 2014 Sarah rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Loved this book. Very applicable to where I am now. Used it for a retreat
Mark Thomas
This small work is actually three sermons by Nouwen . The three themes are "Out of Solitude", "With Care" and "In Expectation" and mirror the life of Jesus. In solitude he came to understand and live in the fulness of his mission. He gained strength, clarity, focus and peace in his solitude.

His solitude led him out into the world with a purpose to care for people, individually and collectively. Ultimately his mission was to point toward the expectation of his mission and fulfillment of the work
Feb 23, 2016 Colleen rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Great book, full of insights. This is one I would like to own and read over and over.
Wm Hardy
Dec 14, 2015 Wm Hardy rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
The third meditation was very powerful, to me.
Feb 12, 2012 Marty rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition

As its title suggests, Nouwen explores how solitude precedes community, silence comes before meaningful words, and empathy opens the door for compassion. Of huge import, he writes, "The friend who cares makes it clear that whatever happens in the external world, being present to each other is what really matters." (p. 39). In terms of doing our own spiritual work, Nouwen reminds us how reframing our circumstances can be key in providing a curative salve for ourselves and for the people wh
A nice little book on the habit of solitude and where it takes us from there (Caring and Encounters). It was much shorter than I thought (1/3 of the book was taken up with Introduction and Forward). Even with it's small size there were still some good nuggets to ponder from Nouwen.
Lisa N
Feb 02, 2011 Lisa N rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Simple prose; comforting and very insightful.

Profound thoughts on introspection , balance, and true compassion.

“Our greatest temptations are boredom and bitterness.”

“The paradox of expectation indeed is that those who believe in tomorrow can better live today, that those who expect joy to come out of sadness can discover the beginnings of a new life in the center of the old, that those who look forward to the returning Lord can discover him already in their midst.”
Feb 25, 2009 Patrick rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Out of Solitude is a small book filled with only three meditations. out of solitude,with care,andin expectations. in slitude we can find peace in our Lord. Out of that peace comes the ability to care with open hearts and open hands.That caring leads us us to an expectation of hope in our Risen Lord, An expectation in patience and joy. Find a place or a time each day in your life, A place of solitude so that you may live your life out of that solitude where you meet Him.
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Henri Jozef Machiel Nouwen (Nouen), (1932–1996) was a Dutch-born Catholic priest and writer who authored 40 books on the spiritual life.

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“When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives mean the most to us, we often find that it is those who, instead of giving advice, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our pain and touch our wounds with a warm and tender hand. The friend who can be silent with us in a moment of despair or confusion, who can stay with us in an hour of grief and bereavement, who can tolerate not knowing, not curing, not healing and face with us the reality of our powerlessness, that is a friend who cares.” 12539 likes
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