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The Careful Use of Compliments (Isabel Dalhousie #4)

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Full-time philosopher and occasional sleuth Isabel Dalhousie, now the mother of a baby boy, is getting used to the new rhythms of her life, caring for little Charlie with the sometimes unsettling aid of her forthright housekeeper, Grace, having dinners with Charlie’s father, Jamie, and tending as usual to submissions to the Review of Applied Ethics. But Isabel is deeply un...more
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Richard Reviles Censorship Always in All Ways
Rating: 3.5* of five

The Book Report: Isabel Dalhousie, wealthy old-Edinburgh-family woman, art collector, philosopher, editrix of The Journal of Applied Ethics, lover of a beautiful younger musician, single mother.

Wait...what?!

My Review: This is the fourth Isabel Dalhousie novel, as I am pleased to note Pantheon is now marketing them, not mysteries. Now I wonder why my library still keeps them in the mysteries...?

It's a lovely, warm way to spend a frustrating day's end, reading a well-written bo...more
Nandakishore Varma
This book is the fourth of a series, and as usual with series, follows about a character or a set of characters. Isabel Dalhousie is the protagonist of this one. She is very interesting: philosopher, editor of The Review of Applied Ethics, unmarried mother of a boy whose father is her niece Cat's ex-boyfriend and fourteen years her junior. Isabel keeps on a running monologue in her head which the reader is privy to: this is the main charm of the novel.

This novel, though standalone, presumably p...more
Nancy
Every time I read one of Alexander McCall Smith's books (particularly the Scottish ones, though I love the Precious Ramotswe books too) I am stunned. He presents such a gentle, humane view of human relationships, without being naive or saccharine. I also can't get over how well he writes from a woman's perspective!

I relate everything I read to my own experience, which is perhaps a bad quality, but makes every book personal to me. So of course to find Isabel with a 3 month old baby in this book,...more
Jo Mclennan
The Isabel Dalhousie books just keep getting better! I really enjoyed this one and the last one (The Right Attitude to Rain). Although NOT detective fiction as they are so often classified, they are easy reads with interesting philosophical questions presented in a way even non-philosophers like me can understand.
Andrea
Sep 24, 2007 Andrea rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: those looking for a break
This, the Isabel Dalhousie series, is one of two series that I keep tabs on, and both have new books out this fall. This series is largely character driven, has a great sense of geographic place, and is just an easy, entertaining read. Plus, I'll always give points for a book whose main character is a philosopher. I do think this particular book is the weakest of the 4 Dalhousie books, but that's alright. Still quite enjoyable.

I do confess that I almost didn't list this on my Goodreads account -...more
Goldenwattle
Comment after reading first chapter:
I had read the first two books in this series, but not the third. I did enjoy them, but my comments included, "It was an easy, light read. Nothing much happens.". Because of that when this book - the forth in the series - appeared on the table at a BookCrossing Meet I did not think it would matter that I had not read the third story. THEN, in the first few pages I read that Isabel has had a baby. Shock...how old is she exactly? I thought she was late middle ag...more
Ed
I always say these Alexander McCall Smith books are review-proof, especially if you are on the 4th book of a series, as is the case with The Careful Use of Compliments. I had read the 3rd book earlier this year and had not intended to pick up this one quite yet, but I had just come off such a mentally taxing read that I really need the light and fluff of McCall Smith to do what I call a cleanse of my literary palette. Normally, I would have switched off with the No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency ser...more
Nancy (NE)
I LOVE Alexander McCall Smith. His books are just plain delightful. They are my comfort zone. Like-able characters, fun plots. While his writing does make me think, he has a light handed touch at ethical dilemas and current events. I love the way the main characters often have a rambling train of thought that allows the author to weave around lots of life's little issues without hitting you over the head with it. Fleeting references to a world view. The books are like those old "Little House" ty...more
Mary
I enjoyed this book very much, but then I always like McCall Smith. Isabel Dalhousie might be my favorite character that he's created, largely because she reminds me of me. Everything for her is fodder for thinking, and she lives in a complicated moral universe where every decision is weighed against Dalhousie's notion of right and wrong/should or shouldn't do.

But it's not as dry as all that sounds. She loves a niece who hardly seems worth the bother, for the most part, and she loves a man who'...more
Merry
I have rarely encountered a character as pensive as Isabel Dalhousie. She deliberates about every aspect of life, and strives to make the highest moral decision. She is a great role model for anyone, and I wish she were my best friend.
Anne
I love these little mysteries...no bloodshed or gunshots. Fun to read Isabel's thought process. Makes philosophy interesting and real.
Priscilla
Another fun AMS book. I love Isabel . . . she can't help herself from overthinking everything. I really resonate with her!
Sophiene
I just love this series, it's like coming home and sitting in your favorite chair with a nice cup of tea.
Dorothy
So the thing about these Isabel Dalhousie "mysteries" is that nothing very much ever happens in them. We are presented with a situation - one can't really call it a mystery or even a problem. Something is occurring or has occurred and Isabel thinks about it. Isabel, you see, is a philosopher and she edits a journal of philosophy, and everything in her life becomes a philosophical conundrum. We are privy to her internal processes as she works out the conundrum and that is the body of each book in...more
Jon
My wife talked me into reading this one, even though I'd pretty much given up on this series. Many people find Isabel Dalhousie to be charming--I find her annoying. She allegedly has a PhD in philosophy, and she thinks incessantly about almost everything. She says she likes to let her mind wander, because that's how it arrives at interesting places. I don't find her getting anyplace interesting very often. Her musings remind me of the way your mind drifts while driving on a long trip. At the end...more
Bruce
I ran out of reading material twenty-four hours before the end of a recent trip and needed something to fill the flight home, so I picked this book up expecting nothing special; I found it, however, to be most enjoyable. Smith’s protagonist, Isabel Dalhousie, is a philosopher and the editor of the Review of Applied Ethics in Edinburgh, Scotland. The story is a rather meandering one, plot being a bit secondary and the “mystery” being a little unessential, but Smith’s characterizations are strong...more
Tim
Another in McCall Smith's Isabel Dalhousie/Edinburgh series, the events in this story come closer to the sort that detective novels typically address: art forgery and unexplained death. In the end, Isabel brings matters to a good conclusion, though as she admits, not without a full compliment of accident, misunderstanding, and even error.

Smith's deeply thoughtful relationships between - and with - his characters - evident in all his writing - were captured for me in one particularly fascinating...more
Kay
I just finished this book and started the next one, the comforts of a muddy Saturday. I love most of Alexander McCall Smith' book and I love Isabel Dalhousie. For me they are not detective novels. They are stories about good people who lead ordinary lives.
This book did not disappoint me. Isabel is still her curious and pensive self. Isabel always raises questions that stay with me for a while. She makes me think about things I haven't thought about or sometimes that I have thought about but coul...more
MJ
Alexander McCall Smith has written several series of light novels, among them the series started by the No. 1 Ladies Detective Agency, set in Africa, which was delightful.

This book is the 4th in his 'Scottish' series starring a philosopher named Isabel Dalhousie who can't help interfering in other people's affairs in a rather quiet way. They are harmless and diverting books, and Smith has an exquisite writing style and a charm that never fails to make me smile. I highly recommend these for a qui...more
Anna
I'm tired of Cat. I really am. Such a spoiled brat. I always find Isabel fun although I'm a little frustrated with how "beautiful" she finds Jamie - enough already - she's supposed to be a woman of substance. My favourite sub-plot of this book was the whole George Orwell writing 1984 on Jura in a remote house - that really saved the book for me. Otherwise, I thought it was pretty ordinary and a weaker than usual Isabel Dalhousie book. I'd like to give this book two and a half stars but since thi...more
Susan Brown
Feb 28, 2014 Susan Brown rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Susan by: Have read previous novels


Yet another gentle read from Alexander McCall Smith. Our heroine, Isobel Dalhousie is still over thinking every situation and every decision but this just makes for excellent reading in my opinion. This is an extremely thought provoking book and I enjoyed it immensely. Once again the characters are very well developed and I feel I am getting to know them even more as each novel in the series is read - they are becoming a part of my life. I cannot stress enough that these stories are not for peop...more
Niki Costantini
Quarto libro della serie di Isabel Dalhousie, filosofa e detective dell'umana quotidianità. E' molto piacevole, come tutti quelli che l'hanno preceduto, soprattutto grazie all'acume dei dialoghi. Continua l'approfondimento psicologico della protagonista cominciato nel precedente "The right attitude to rain" e il risultato è un romanzo di lettura forse più lenta, ma più interessante dal punto di vista dei personaggi, che vengono sempre meglio delineati. Ancora una volta, l'avventura "gialla", la...more
Ann
Isabel Dalhousie has returned in another wonderful Philosopher's Club tale. She has given birth to her son, Charlie, and is enjoying being a mother. She receives a letter firing her from her position as the editor of the "Review of Applied Ethics" and she is stunned. She then attends an art auction and wants to purchase a painting by Andrew McInnis, a Scot painter who passed away eight years before. She is outbid but then the painting is offered to her the next day and her suspicions are aroused...more
Hana
I find the books in this very readable series sort of run together in my mind, but this is one of the better ones. After a couple of weak two and a half star outings, McCall Smith finds his footing again in The Careful Use of Compliments. Isabel Dalhousie's run-in with the obnoxious Professor Dove was delicious -- and, having a business background I was delighted when she (finally!) realizes how to cage that nasty Dove.

In addition to a satisfying academic battle, Book 4 features a nifty puzzle...more
Nanou
La vie d’Isabel a bien changé depuis l’épisode précédent puisqu’elle est maintenant mère d’un petit Charlie. Elle a d’ailleurs parfois du mal à s’imposer face à Grace, sa gouvernante, qui s’est transformée en une Nounou presque trop consciencieuse. Elle doit également faire face à une attaque en règle de sa position de rédactrice en chef de la Revue d’éthique appliquée, puisque le professeur Lettuce, le président du comité de rédaction, la licencie et veut la remplacer par Christopher Dove, un b...more
Leslie Klingensmith
This is a fun series that brings out lots of life's day-to-day ethical quandaries. I also like the quirky characters and the Scottish setting.
Miss Leacock
Another good one! The first is still my favorite, but this author is fantastic!
 Marla
I was interested in hearing about the new baby and how Isabel and Jamie will progress, but I still don't really care for this series, Isabel and philosophy just don't interest me. More from Jamie's point of view in this book and I do like Jamie. If Isabel every breaks with Jamie, I'm certain I will quit the series at that point.

Likes:
* Baby Charlie complicating Isabel's life
* Grace doting on Charlie's care
* Jamie coming every evening to "daddy" Charlie
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Louise Culmer
This is the fourth in a series of mysteries set in Edinburgh and featuring a philosopher called Isobel Dalhusie. isobel has a young and very boring boyfrend called Jamie, and a baby called Charlie. She has a job as editor of a philosoohy magazine, though she doesn't need it as she is extremely rich, this story involves the possible forging of paintings by an artist Isobel admires, and the possibility of her losing her job on the philosophy magazine.

The part about the art forging is quite interes...more
Jo
Book 4 is my favorite so far. Isabel is drawn into a game of politics, scheming, and underhanded plotting all clothed in polite and friendly communication. Really enjoyable to see Isabel wrestle with her reactions, philosophize about what is right and good under the circumstances and allow herself to be a little bit imperfect.

She continues to be overly nosy, inserting herself into situations that aren't hers, and come away relatively unscathed (except perhaps when it comes to Cat). Her relations...more
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