Losing Mum and Pup

Losing Mum and Pup

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In twelve months between 2007 and 2008, Christopher Buckley coped with the passing of his father, William F. Buckley, the father of the modern conservative movement, and his mother, Patricia Taylor Buckley, one of New York's most glamorous and colorful socialites. He was their only child and their relationship was close and complicated. Writes Buckley: "They were not - wit...more
Hardcover, 272 pages
Published May 6th 2009 by Twelve (first published April 22nd 2009)
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Jocelynne Broderick
Apr 02, 2013 Jocelynne Broderick marked it as skipped
I consider myself a very smart person, and this book was full of words even *I* didn't know! Sheesh! Talk about writing for the common folk. Seriously, if I Post-it flagged every word to look up, this would look like a freakin divorce decree with all the "sign-here"s. Also, this bonehead goes right into the story ASSUMING we know who his "famous" parents are. He never says. What he does do though is list the famous people his parents hung around with. So what? He's all "I don't want to be a name...more
Nancy
Christopher Buckley was the only son of the Messiah of Conservatism, William F. Buckley, and his wife, the style icon and socialite Pat Buckley. When he lost these two larger-than-life characters within a year of each other, he felt compelled to pen this short memoir of that painful year. I confess that I was no fan of either parent, but this memoir is actually quite lovely. Buckley writes of both of these difficult, complicated people with wry honesty, genuine affection, and a complete and (to...more
Terra
Losing Mum and Pup by Christopher Buckley is an unforgettable memoir that is endearing, enchanting and spoken from the heart. A story of dedication, love, honesty, irritable moments and just plain stubbornness. A serious story but with so many light moments that you can't help but chuckle out loud. Oh don't get me wrong as you will still need a hankie for the tear jerking renditions of what we deal with when a loved one dies, but that is more back story and the pleasant, jovial moments of life a...more
Bill
Christopher Buckley's bittersweet memoir of his final year with his stylish mother and famously conservative father lends a human scale to a couple that so often appeared larger than life. Personally, I was never particularly enamoured of William F. Buckley, Jr.'s politics or even his books, despite being piqued by God and Man at Yale and amused on occasion by the capers of fictional CIA agent Blackford Oakes. However, from the time I was a small boy who loved big words, I was flattered to be c...more
Ariel
Jan 07, 2013 Ariel rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: 2013
The problem with this book is that it is a book in which someone says a lot of nice things about a person whose political ideology I find pretty abhorrent (and that's before we even get to the nice things the author says about Henry Kissinger-PS: the nice things he says about Kissinger make me kind of wonder how he and Christopher Hitchens remained such good friends). Also, there is a lot of irritating rich WASP b.s. that I suppose is unavoidable when you are writing a memoir and that's your bac...more
Jay Glickman
Bestselling satirist Christopher Buckley (Thank You for Smoking, Supreme Courtship) lost both his parents in 2007. Their death was not entirely unexpected - Buckley was 55 years old, and both Mum and Pup (as he called them) were in their eighties, and in failing health. The interesting part of this memoir is that his Pup was world-famous Conservative author, icon, television personality, and intimate of Presidents William F. Buckley, Jr.; and that his Mum was the almost equally famous society fi...more
Holly Morrow
I bought this on a whim in an airport bookstore. Its essentially an extended eulogy for William F Buckley and his formidable wife Pat, told by their son Chris as he processes their deaths, which happened within a year of each other. The author has a breezy, sardonic style that some probably find annoying but I really like; for example recounting an ill-fated sailing trip with his father which ended with their boat laying on its side, run aground, with the mast under water - which he refers to a...more
Linda
This book is skinny so it is a fast read. Plus, Christopher Buckley, the son of the aforementioned "Mum and Pup," is a good writer. Pup, is William F. Buckley, the ultra-conservative and Mum is, his wife, Pat Buckley, a socialite. Ultra-conservatives and socialites are not exactly the kind of people that I am crazy about but this memoir is the tale of parents, as they slip, not too quietly into old age and death. Also, it is a retrospective, of a sort, of what these difficult people were like in...more
Ellen Gemmill
This was a terrific read, as are all the other books I've read by Christopher Buckley. His humor is unparalleled, especially in the face of such sadness - losing both his parents within a matter of months, both of them succumbing to slow and painful illnesses. Buckley's writing is crisp, clear and clever. He is unflinching, and valiently forgiving, of his parents' faults and foibles.

I found it interesting to learn that William F. Buckley, Jr. (Pup) had feet of clay. WFB smoked pot? Abused pills...more
Tim
Chris Buckley is a wonderful writer, and the vignettes he offers of his mother and father are as beautiful as they are revelatory. The Buckleys were not ideal parents; great men (and this includes women) rarely have time to be. And it is at times, remarkable, that CB would offer such personal details about his parents. Even WFB, Lion of the Right and one of the most notable Catholics on the planet, considered suicide in his last year of life. The sort of suffering he endured in his final months,...more
Edith
I found this book fascinating! It was my Christmas vacation read this year. Christopher Buckley writes about his famous father, William F. Buckley, “considered the father of the modern conservative movement”, and his mother, Patricia, who was “one of New York’s most glamorous and colorful socialites.” He concentrates on details during their final years leading to their deaths, but also dips back into their history for interesting stories. And there are lots of them...these were colorful people w...more
Nita
Nov 09, 2010 Nita rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: memoir
This is a mixed review. It's possible that I liked it in spite of myself. I listened to this on CD and Chris Buckley's upper class manner of speaking as if his nose were ever so slightly turned up turned me off a little. I mean, I went into it knowing there would be tons of name dropping and such,but it got old after awhile.

Having said all that, I still enjoyed it a great deal. I love the way he titled each chapter using a line of dialogue that would occur later in the chapter. I also love his r...more
Ruth
This book was a mixed bag, but overall, pretty good. I listened to it, if that makes a difference. The author read it. He was okay.

I had to apoligize to my mother that I was reading anything related to the "Lion of the Right", William F. Buckley. Who I have a vague image of, some snooty guy barking questions on Sunday morning political shows. This book is by his son, and is more or less a tribute to his "larger than life" parents.

This book had a little history in it, of course, but was mostly a...more
Sherry Howland
I thoroughly enjoyed this book, if for no other reason than it reminded me how much I miss Buckley's intelligent discourse of issues (even if I rarely if ever agreed!) rather than the mudslinging lies and vitriol that pass for news & views nowdays.

The young Buckley does a masterful job of opening the family home, allowing us to eavesdrop on some of the most laugh-out-loud conversations and situations one can imagine. Yes, yes, yes...he shamelessly namedrops. "Whatever," as he would say.

I d...more
Deanna
Wendell and I listened to this book, read by the author, the son of conservative leader William F. Buckley. The book is one long list of incredibly famous people, and their connections to WFB and his wife Patricia. Christopher documents each of their final illnesses, and the agony it was for him to watch them die, one year apart, with a grace and openness that help make sense of grief at the loss of a parent, even when that loss is expected, and even when there are moments when you might wish th...more
David
well-written book about losing his mother and father within a year when he was age 55. Author is self-aware enough to know that being "orphaned" at this age is hardly the most tragic experience the reader will have heard of, but it's still poignant.

He clearly admired his parents tremendously, perhaps esp. his well-known father William F. Buckley Jr., and the number of allusions to the "great" man and his many famous friends and connections (VP Dick Cheney couldn't make the cut as a eulogist; th...more
Judith
I kept resisting this book, but it showed up everywhere I looked so I finally gave in and read it in one sitting. I have always enjoyed Christopher Buckley's fiction, so I should have expected I would also enjoy his memoir about his parents. What I found remarkable about this book is that he manages to tell horror stories about his parents' bad parenting without ruining their reputations. Some examples include: his father's only acknowledgment upon the publication of one of Christopher's best-se...more
Sam Schulman
Not quite the Roman Catholic answer to Leon Weiseltier's Kaddish, but an interesting evasion/revelation of a struggle with his parents that Chris Buckley has only started to think about. He will have more to say than he can say here - or at least he has more to say, whether or not he will ever say it. This remains a first draft. Still, the book has interesting bits - about being an only child in a world of filial plenitude: he proclaims that he has 57 - or 71? - first cousins, poor fellow, but n...more
cat
After this son of two of the most well-known conservative parents eschewed his father's (william F. Buckley) politics and endorsed Obama for president last year, causing the loss of his position with The National Review, the uber conservative publication that his father started in 1955, I decided he was interesting enough to actually seek out. I soon realized that he had written 'Thank You for Smoking', which I saw in movie form, and my interest was cemented.

This memoir of losing both his mothe...more
Kathleen Hagen
Losing Mum and Pup, by Christopher Buckley, narrated by the author, produced by Hachette Audio, downloaded from audible.com.

I couldn’t describe this book better than the publisher’s note so I include it. I was, however, moved by the book and laughed much more than I would have expected to laugh.

In 12 months between 2007 and 2008, Christopher Buckley coped with the passing of his father, William F. Buckley, the father of the modern conservative
movement, and his mother, Patricia Taylor Buckley, on...more
Mark
What I’ve read of Christopher Buckley’s fiction is funny and incisive, as he takes on the hypocrisies, corruption, foibles and follies of the American political universe (or should that be “biverse”?)—the lobbyists, lawyers, candidates, spin doctors, players, kingmakers, etc., etc. And he should know this world, since he’s the son of William F. Buckley, conservative icon, author of over 50 books, creator and host for 30 years of “Firing Line” and founder of “National Review,” both prominent defe...more
bookczuk
I adore Christopher Buckley's writing. Have been a big fan for a while now, especially with his novels and pos-NR stuff. Had read excerpts of this book in various places, then my mom took a nosedive in her health and I forgot about reading the book. Enter my good friend Liz, my book-lending savior, with a copy of Losing Mum and Pup.

What a truly moving memoir. Humor, honesty and a helluva vocabulary (not to mention a fabulous writing skill and the ability to tell a story) made this one of my fav...more
Art
Losing Mum and Pup: a memoir by Christopher Buckley. Some time last year, when I was speaking with my "pup" on the phone, he remarked, "I thought of you the other day when that guy you used to watch on tv died." It took me a couple of minutes to figure out who he was talking about. "That guy" was William F. Buckley, Jr. (WFB) I used to watch "Firing Line" when I was young (now my weekly political addiction is "The McLaughlin Group"). In this memoir, Christopher Buckley talks about the two year p...more
Laura
I was interested in what he had to say and in the discussion on handling a parent's death.[return][return]Christopher Buckley writes well and is very funny. And what a life and cast of characters to discuss. My parents were really nice people, but they weren't "great" people so I didn't live with the pressure of having an intellectual powerhouse or social phenomenon for a parent. Chris Buckley did, but I never felt like I couldn't relate to his life. He tells the stories so matter-of-factly that...more
Kristi
Leave it to Christopher Buckley to write a light, funny book about his recently deceased parents. I really want to read NT Wright's The Resurrection of the Son of God but am waiting until I'm not so sleep-deprived. Losing Mum and Pup is not as edifying -- CB's idea of the afterlife, if there's any, is pretty juvenile -- but it's an entertaining book w/ interesting anecdotes, some flattering and many not, about his famous parents. This book supports the hypothesis that "great" men don't make the...more
Trish
I borrowed this book in audio from my library because the Boston Globe made it sound like a book that one shouldn't miss. I must admit I don't know quite what to make of it. Firing Line may have taken place while I was younger, but my guess is the politics didn't appeal. I paid no attention. I wish now I had seen it, and may still try to rustle up a couple episodes. Christopher Buckley is rather more open than either his mother or father would have liked, I'm sure, but since his birth, educatio...more
Jennifer
I know only the very basics about William F. Buckley (mostly that he and I would never agree on politics or religion) and I know less about his son Christopher. But this book is a pretty fun read, despite the fact that it's Christopher's recollection of losing both parents within a year of one another. Christopher Buckley has a sharp wit and a great sense of humor, so while he writes in a very humane way about how hard it is to lose your parents, and how hard his parents could be on people at ti...more
Judy
The author, the only child of William F. Buckley and Pat Buckley, writes about his parents' deaths, which occurred about 11 months apart, but he also writes about their unconventional parenting, their many flaws, and their substantial personal legacies. This is a very unusual memoir about unusually complex people. Buckley Jr., a successful novel writer, is very frank (and often funny) in his descriptions of the shortcomings of his parents, who were generally difficult to be around and not very n...more
Lauren
I’m going to begin on a rather odd note for a review about a book that deals with losing both parents within a year: Mr. Buckley ruined my fun. As I read this book, I found myself mulling over the thought that Mr. Buckley should have stuck with his promise to never write a memoir about his parents. I even had the review all mapped out in my head: I was ready to point out that in writing a book about that all-too-human emotion called grief, Mr. Buckley ably demonstrated just how divorced his fami...more
Jennifer
I was liking this book until I was about halfway through and decided to do a Google search on Christopher Buckley. Come to find out that he had a child, Jonathan, out of wedlock who he doesn't seem to have contact with. I could care less about his infidelity or parenting skills. What really bothered me is that he makes no mention of this child in what is supposedly a very intimate look at his life. His "legitimate" children are mentioned frequently.

What was even more troubling was what my search...more
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Christopher Buckley graduated cum laude from Yale University in 1976. He shipped out in the Merchant Marine and at age 24 became managing editor of Esquire magazine. At age 29, he became chief speechwriter to the Vice President of the United States, George H.W. Bush. Since 1989 he has been founder and editor-in-chief of Forbes Life magazine.

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“I looked at Mum and realized -- twang! -- that she was telling an untruth. A big untruth. And I remember thinking in that instant how thrilling and grown-up it must be to say something so completely untrue, as opposed to the little amateur fibs I was already practiced at -- horrid little apprentice sinner that I was --like the ones about you'd already said your prayers or washed under the fingernails. Yes, I was impressed. I too must learn to say these gorgeous untruths. Imaginary kings and queens would be my houseguests when I was older.” 3 people liked it
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