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  <title><![CDATA[Perfection: A Memoir of Betrayal and Renewal]]></title>
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  <default-description>&quot;Metz's &lt;i&gt;Perfection&lt;/i&gt; chronicles with lapidary precision one woman's climb back to happiness after not just a spouse's death, but also the shocking recognition that her life before that death was not what she had thought it was. The journey is a painful one, but Ms. Metz is much the stronger for having survived to recount it.&quot;  &lt;br&gt;--Julie Powell, author of &lt;i&gt;Julie &amp; Julia&lt;/i&gt;  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;Julie Metz's memoir of how her marriage unraveled &lt;i&gt;after&lt;/i&gt; her mate's death is piercingly honest, haunting, and heartbreaking. Anyone who has ever been in a bad relationship will over-identify.&quot;  &lt;br&gt;--Susan Shapiro, author of &lt;i&gt;Five Men Who Broke My Heart&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;Lighting Up&lt;/i&gt;  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; &quot;It is impossible to put &lt;i&gt;Perfection&lt;/i&gt; down as we follow Julie Metz through her true story of love, lies, loss, and moving forward. Her raw and brave writing makes you want to cheer Metz on as she pieces her life back together, one beautiful sentence at a time.&quot;  &lt;br&gt;--Marian Fontana, author of  &lt;i&gt;A Widow's Walk&lt;/i&gt;  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt; &quot;This aching memoir of love, loss, and deception is candid and compelling. I found myself rooting for Julie Metz in her search for a happy `second life.'&quot;  --Hilma Wolitzer, author of The Doctor's Daughter and Hearts  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Julie Metz's life changes forever on one ordinary January afternoon when her husband, Henry, collapses on the kitchen floor and dies in her arms. Suddenly, this mother of a six-year-old is the young widow in a bucolic small town. And this is only the beginning. Seven months after Henry's death, just when Julie thinks she is emerging from the worst of it, comes the rest of it: She discovers that what had appeared to be the reality of her marriage was but a half-truth. Henry had hidden another life from her.      &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&quot;He loved you so much.&quot; That's what everyone keeps telling her. It's true that he loved Julie and their six-year-old daughter ebulliently and devotedly, but as she starts to pick up the pieces and rebuild her life without Henry in it, she learns that Henry had been unfaithful throughout their twelve years of marriage. The most damaging affair was ongoing--a tumultuous relationship that ended only with Henry's death. For Julie, the only thing to do was to get at the real truth--to strip away the veneer of &quot;perfection&quot; that was her life and confront each of the women beneath the veneer.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;i&gt;Perfection&lt;/i&gt; is the story of Julie Metz's journey through chaos and transformation as she creates a different life for herself and her young daughter. It is the story of coming to terms with painful truths, of rebuilding both a life and an identity after betrayal and widowhood. It is a story of rebirth and happiness--if not perfection.</default-description>
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    <body><![CDATA[Julie Metz is an amazing writer who has turned her mid-life drama into a lyrical memoir. Forty-three when her husband dies, she eulogizes him: &quot;Henry was the love of my life. He was also an impossible man.&quot; Soon she discovers just how impossible he was: Henry was carrying on a double life ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/73560930">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Sep 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book sounded interesting to me: the memoir of a woman who discovers her husband has a secret life... after he drops dead on their kitchen floor. I wanted to learn about his secrets and kept turning the pages until Metz uncovered them for me. But after that, I didn't really feel like I cared eno...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/73308934">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Sep 29 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book fell far short of its promise.  It is presented as the story of a woman finding out about her husband's infidelity after his early death, but it's really more about how she coped.  And how she coped appeared to involve a lot of screaming profanities at people, and bouncing into bed with pe...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/72830370">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Sep 15 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Four stars means &quot;I really liked it&quot;, which is kind of like saying I really liked being glued to the Internet for news when terrorists launched that weekend long attack on Mumbai.  It's not so much that I liked it as that I was fascinated by it, held hostage by it, trying but unable to ave...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/72715399">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Sep 27 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[let me preface this review by saying--julie metz is a good writer with creative metaphors and descriptions. in fact--i would say my favorite part about the book was the way she described how things looked or felt or smelled or tasted. and, i appreciated her honesty and candor about a troubling subje...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/72713214">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Memoir; author's husband dies, she discovers he's had affairs with several women, she seeks to &quot;understand why&quot; by discussing with most of these women their relationship with her husband. I almost gave up reading this in the first part of the book because these people come across so incred...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/71702735">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I had to give up after 100 pages because time is precious.  I found this book to be utterly annoying, with false notes on every page.  Supposedly she is writing about a great betrayal, but within weeks of her husband's death she's having an affair with a family friend.  In bed, post-coitus, this fam...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/70578472">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Metz has produced a raw and moving memoir of her life as a grieving widow faced with the reality of her dead husband's infdelity. Her writing is honest and brave as she chronicles the unraveling of her marriage post her husband's death - as evidence of each new woman comes to light, Metz acknowledge...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/68784934">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This was a bit of a head-scratcher for me.  It’s the memoir of a woman who, after her husband suddenly died, learned that he’d been having multiple affairs, including one with a family friend.  She sets about trying to understand him, by contacting each woman, personally and/or by e-mail, and by...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/68586724">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Whew.  This was a real heart-wrenching reading experience for me.  As a married woman, I never want to think that the life I'm living - or the man I'm married to - is anything other than what I know it to be.  But within the story of this memoir, I saw that what you might know to be the truth isn't ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/66354463">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Refreshing honesty through the entire range of human emotions. Raw anger and sadness especially. It can't be easy to splay yourself and your life open like that but one can only hope that it is as cathartic to write this type of story as it is to read it. <br/><br/>For the life of me, though, there ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/64267467">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Geez Louise.  When I read the blurb of this book (it's a memoir of a woman who, after her husband's sudden death, discovers that he was a serial cheater), I thought, &quot;Huh.  She has a six year old daughter, who will one day read this book.  Not very nice for little Liza.  Odd choice for Mommy to...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/62484120">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[The book begins when Metz's husband of over a decade, Henry, collapses in their kitchen and dies.  Metz reflects on her less than perfect marriage, which becomes even more complicated when seven months after Henry's death she finds out about his numerous affairs.<br/><br/>Metz includes segments fr...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/60533223">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Perfection: A Memoir of Betrayal and Renewal , by Julie Metz is an extremely personal account of a not so &quot;perfect&quot; life. After the unexpected death of her husband Henry, and 12 years of marriage, 44 year old Julie Metz finds herself alone with a six year old daughter to raise. She spent t...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/60401121">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[January 8, 2003. A pleasant house with a river view in a charming town not far from New York City. Julie Metz, a freelance graphic designer, is working on a book cover in her home office. Her husband Henry, a writer, is resting upstairs. Their six-and-a-half-year-old daughter Liza is in school. <br/>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/59387035">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Description:<br/><em>Julie Metz's life changes forever on one ordinary January afternoon when her husband, Henry, collapses on the kitchen floor and dies in her arms. Suddenly, this mother of a six-year-old is the young widow in a bucolic small town. And this is only the beginning. Seven months after H...</em><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/55730200">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Metz, who zealously tracks down each one of her husband's extramarital lovers after his sudden death, is an oddly unsympathetic  character in her own memoir. While you feel like finding out that your husband was unfaithful throughout your entire 16 year marriage is upsetting and perhaps his choices ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/68826735">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This memoir of a young widow on the mend from the death of her serially unfaithful husband was a quick, engaging read but one I had significant trouble relating to.  Though allegedly a memoir, it has a one-sided, unrealistic overexagerated feel to it.  For example, all the central cast are pretentio...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/76534729">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a horrific story.  The first several chapters of the book are told well,  the drama is revealed in a compelling way even if you know what to expect (because you read the book jacket).<br/><br/>After that, the book unravels.  She admits she ignored a million red flags (such as her husband c...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/64291781">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I first saw Julie Metz being interviewed on Good Morning America. Her story was basically her husband suddenly drops dead and she finds out that he has been having affairs for years, even with next door neighbor good friend Cathy. I thought that it might be interesting to hear her story in her memoi...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/69140326">more...</a>]]></body>
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