Stand Before Your God: An American Schoolboy in England
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Stand Before Your God: An American Schoolboy in England

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At the age of seven, Paul Watkins was roughly transplanted from his home in Rhode Island to England's Dragon School. He was greeted by a delegation of bullies who, in time, would become his friends and whose rules would become his own. For at Dragon, and later at Eton, "there was no middle ground. You could not go here and come out not caring one way or the other. You had...more
Paperback, 256 pages
Published March 14th 1995 by Vintage (first published 1994)
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Lauren
I adore this memoir about a seven-year old American boy sent to boarding school in England. It's not the actual experience, but the way he coaxed himself through it that I connect with. I understand his journey of self-discovery through writing and the awkwardness of a difficult and lonely adjustment. "It made me sad to think that my greatest pleasure was to buy cheese and bread and coffee and sit on my window-sill, hearing the distant people laughing in the dark." That passage sums up how I ha...more
Cropredy
Well, this was interesting. I was expecting a tale told from the perspective of an American about the oddities of the British upper class schooling system, over-the-top classism, perhaps some bits on bullying, and many comparisons about the American vs English way of doing things. This book is none of those things. Instead, it is a wistful journey told linearly but where dates and chronology are not that important to Watkins. Instead, he writes mostly about the journey of becoming a man and figu...more
Karen
Stand Before Your God was recommended to me by someone who went to English boarding school from the age of 8, including the same high school Paul Watkins writes about. He vouches for the accuracy of the author's description of the boarding school life, even though some things have changed since Watkins' days.

I, on the other hand, can vouch for the quality of the writing. I tore through this book like a bolt, even though it is neither a particularly dramatic or suspenseful tale. Watkins' writing...more
Rachel
This is an excellent book for fans of the "boarding school novel." I happen to love them, perhaps because the only kids I knew who went to boarding schools were bad ones sent there by the juvenile courts. It wasn't very common to board schoolchildren in the US in the '70s and '80s; it's become much more common today thanks to the Harry Potter books. It's important to note the genre oif this book because otherwise, there's no much to interest a reader in this autobiographical tale. (By "boarding...more
Cammie
What a wonderful book this was! I glanced at the reviews of some other readers and a recurring theme seems to be that people often "stumbled across" this book. This was exactly how I found it as well. I was browsing in a second-hand bookshop when the title caught my attention and I picked up an old hardcover first edition at a bargain price.

Watkins's writing is sparing and lyrical, and he takes the reader into the world of English boarding schools in a way that captures a real sense of privilege...more
Meg
Stand Before Your God: An American Schoolboy in England is Paul Watkins' memoir of his life in the British public school system, first at the Dragon School, and then at Eton.

Mr. Watkins is primarily a fiction author, and that shows in this memoir. Rather than telling the whole story in his present-day adult voice, the author instead changes his writing style to better reflect the different time periods about which he speaks. When talking about his earliest years in the schools, his circuitous st...more
James
Opening as a very young boy suddenly is seemingly abandoned by his father in a house with a group of other boys and a housemaster, this memoir of growing up in English boys' schools is both sincere and heartwarming. The author, Paul Watkins, shares his experiences as a young American among the, mostly, young British boys in two schools, The Dragon School and, later, Eton. The memoir is filled with memories of friendships and fun. There are typical schoolboy activities, but sometimes punctuated b...more
Maya
I got this book with a Borders gift certificate...I think from that Borders in the Westchester Pavilion, next to the Kung Fu school. What a blessing that place was.

Anyway it's clear why I picked this up--that guy is very good looking. It's a memoir by an American who goes to Eton. Do you know how hard this would be to sell? I can't imagine this book made a cent. Nevertheless it's really well-written and I think evoked a lot of the less pleasant aspects of growing up pretty well, especially in an...more
Cecily
Memoirs of coming from the US, to Oxford, via the Dragon prep school and Eton. Some parts very evocative of time and place and parallels with when I was at boarding school in Oxford at exactly the same time, and the outlook of a young, abandoned child: the sights, smells and traditions of school life. Other incidents seem much less plausible (taken from films and comic strips?), eg an over-charged hand warmer setting the wearer's trousers on fire and the cliched filling a whole dorm with feather...more
Ellen
Interesting, but seemed curiously flat to me. Trying to figure out, too, why author's Rhode Island-based British parents would send him to Eton of all places! Haven't read his novels, but this book didn't make me strongly want to.
Jrobertus
a memoir of his school days in eng (although i think he is an american). a bit flat at times but still has interesting and informative moments.
Jody
awesome personal style- he's got a real edge on telling every boys coming of age story
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Paul Watkins is an American author who currently lives with his wife and two children in Hightstown, New Jersey. He is a teacher and writer-in-residence at The Peddie School, and formerly taught at Lawrenceville School. He attended the Dragon School, Oxford, Eton and Yale University. He received a B.A. from Yale and was a University Fellow at Syracuse University, New York. His recollections of his...more
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