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    <body><![CDATA[Fantastic book about women in post-feminist America.  The author did lots of really great interviews with women at all stages of their lives and gains a lot of insight into how the work-family balance is playing out for them.  I found myself sympathizing with so many of the stories, goals, and chall...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/81731833">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I am so tired of these books... and yet I keep reading them.  An incomplete analysis of the status of women today, focused largely on &quot;powerful&quot; women.  It's not that it doesn't talk about relevant issues, because it does, making some good points along the way.  It is just that the whole t...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50329514">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Interesting book, but dealing mostly with the question &quot;Can women 'do it all'?&quot; (i.e. have a great career AND have children), I felt it didn't apply to me. And since when is choosing between family and work strictly a woman's problem? Many men wish they could spend more time with their fam...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/9520075">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This book attempts to answer the question &quot;Can I have it all?&quot; by following professional women at different stages of their lives and careers (20s, 30s, 40s, 50s).  Unfortunately, it is not a longitudinal study and there is only anectdotal information, but there are some interesting anectd...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/4876626">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I dunno.  A lot of my friends really loved this book, which is why I decided to read it.  But it just didn't do it for me.  I thought it was overly simplistic.  I didnt' like that there weren't any interviewees who were just plain happy with their lives--surely, there must be some women out there wh...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/10784038">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Non fiction. Each chapter is by a different woman with her unfiltered view of her life choices on work, babies, staying at home etc. The book doesn't have an agenda or present any one choice as the right one. ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[definitely worthwhile reading, as it provides a “normalizing” context for my own confusion and frustration with what I am and am not able to affect in my life  however, the book reads as if it is (and I think this is accurate) a project that the author put together for her own benefit, and so it...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/16740607">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[An interesting feminist look at women in with regard to careers, marriage, and children, analyzing the choices they make in the light of societal trends that disempower women and mothers. Like many books that focus on the social and gender implications of motherhood, this focuses on middle and upper...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1684762">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Flux: Women on Sex, Work, Love, Kids &amp; Life in a Half-Changed World]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[What a great book. I've never felt that marriage or motherhood was the end-all, be-all for women...and hope that my own daughters don't feel pressure to define themselves based on those choices alone. The personal stories of women, told by Peggy Orenstein, were brought together beautifully with the ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/27305658">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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