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Matt McAllester lost his mother, Ann, long before she died, as mental illness snatched the once-elegant woman away and destroyed his childhood. In ... read full description

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Jan 30, 2010
Catherine rated it: 3 of 5 stars
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Mar 28, 2010
Holly rated it: 2 of 5 stars
The subtitle of this book ("lessons from my mother's kitchen") is misleading. This book is not primarily, nor mainly, nor even significantly about cooking. As the subtitle is the reason I chose the book from the library, you can imagine my disappointment.

I also didn't like the way he handled his wife's two (possibly three) failed attempts, through IVF, to have a child: he threw himself into learning about his recently deceased mother's mental illness and into cooking ( More...
Jul 23, 2009
Molly added it
I love memoirs. This is well written and certainly articulates the emotions one has regarding a loved one suffering from mental instabilities and/or illness. The cooking aspect is terrific.

As I was reading this I thought how wonderfully lucky I am to live in Ann Arbor and have librarians that know how to select great books for me, and the community at large.

Thank you librarians!
Dec 21, 2009
Liana rated it: 3 of 5 stars
This book was written by a war correspondent, a Pulitzer prize winning war correspondent, I believe. His mother died and in his sorrow and in an attempt to heal the hurt, he turns to the memories of his mother in the kitchen. He learns to cook and learns to come to terms with her mental illness and his relationship with her.
May 05, 2011
Lauren rated it: 2 of 5 stars
I feel a little misled. I thought this would be a novel about food and cooking (since I bought it at the James Beard book sale), but really its the author's out-loud coming-to-terms with his mother's mental illness and eventual death. Not so appetizing.

On the plus side, there is a good recipe for strawberry ice cream hidden in its pages.
Oct 08, 2011
Sarah rated it: 2 of 5 stars
This book seemed to be more about memories of his mother than cooking. I do understand how cooking played a part in triggering those memories, however, after picking this out of the cooking memoir section, I expected to hear more about cooking and less about a crazy mother. Overall an okay book.
Dec 20, 2009
Sarah rated it: 2 of 5 stars
I forgot I don't really like memoirs because they tend to be about depressing/dysfunctional childhoods. This was one of those. His mom had mental illness compounded with alcoholism. Sad.
Jan 28, 2010
Heather rated it: 4 of 5 stars
I loved the premise of this book--coping with loss by revisiting and remembering the the past, with food as a contributing character.
Jan 15, 2011
Reading rated it: 4 of 5 stars
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Jul 21, 2009
Melissa rated it: 4 of 5 stars
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Sep 24, 2010
Psirene rated it: 4 of 5 stars
I have a bipolar mom who cooked off and on until I left for college and now has problems remembering what goes in a simple dish. This book was very close to home except that my mother has food addictions vs a drink addiction. I would highly recommend it for lovers of food.
Nov 12, 2009
Traci rated it: 4 of 5 stars
A very good mix of anger and nostalgia that being a child of a mentally ill parent would bring
May 05, 2009
Uma marked it as to-read
Newsweek gave it a solid review. Lets see how it really turns out....
Jul 20, 2009
Lupine rated it: 3 of 5 stars
Not bad. Does have one of the best descriptions I have ever heard about how it feels to have a parent die on page 9.
Oct 23, 2011
Brenda marked it as to-read
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Nov 22, 2011
Gigi rated it: 2 of 5 stars
Aug 16, 2011
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Jun 05, 2011
Dani rated it: 4 of 5 stars
Jun 01, 2011
Patty rated it: 3 of 5 stars
Apr 22, 2011
Betsy rated it: 4 of 5 stars
Feb 11, 2011
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