The Chosen

The Chosen

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"Anyone who finds it is finding a jewel. Its themes are profound and universal."
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It is the now-classic story of two fathers and two sons and the pressures on all of them to pursue the religion they share in the way that is best suited to each. And as the boys grow into young men, they discover in the other a lost spiritual brother, and a link to an un...more
Paperback, 304 pages
Published August 27th 1996 by Ballantine Books (first published January 1st 1967)
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Elisabeth
Jul 05, 2007 Elisabeth rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: anyone interested in history, Judaism, forgiveness or friendship,
My brother Matt suggested this book, and I'm very glad that I read it. (And glad that he was there to fill me in a little more on the history it brings up.) It is very well written, and enjoyable as well as educational. It helped me better understand the Jewish faith and branches of Judaism, the horror of WWII, what is unique about American Jews, and some of the conflict over the Israel as a Jewish state. Leaves you with a warm feeling and lots to think about. "The Talmud says that a person shou...more
Emily
I'm really struggling with how to review this book. It was beautifully written. The relationships between Danny and Reuven and between Reuven and his father were real and touching. I enjoyed learning about different systems of Jewish faith and the interactions (or lack thereof) between their communities. The historic insights into WWII and its aftermath, particularly the realization among American Jews of the extent of the Holocaust and the formation of the state of Israel, were fascinating.

But...more
Radhika
Aug 14, 2007 Radhika rated it 1 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: the cast of the ringer.
i was litterally gnna shoot myself when reading this boook. i couldnt evn stand it so i decided to buy the audio version on itunes and that was even worse and cost me like 20 dolllaa. i wass like heyllll nawww im not reading dissss but den i did cuzz i kinda had too. its about a jewish nerd who gets hit in the eye when the rivalryy jewish team hits him. they dont like eachother or something i dont know. it was all downhill from there. ysaaaaa heardd???
Paul
Jul 26, 2008 Paul rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: fathers, sons, friends
Shelves: fiction
Well, I just finished this book last night and I must say I was deeply moved by the whole experience. I remembered there was a reason I liked it so much back in high school. I love the relationship between the two main characters, Danny and Reuven. They've reminded me that there are definite friendships that I cherish highly, and that true friends are hard to come by. But when they do, you know in your heart that you will never leave them for the rest of your life. I guess after reading this, i...more
Madeline
May 16, 2008 Madeline rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: everyone
Recommended to Madeline by: English teacher
Shelves: 2008, wishlist, favorites
This was required reading for my sophomore-year honors English class; upon reading chapter one, I prepared myself for great disappointment, firstly because the chapter was entirely about baseball (which although I’ve tried to enjoy I can’t seem to get in to, I’m sorry to say), and secondly because it was so descriptive. It was hard to imagine me being interested in something so...flowery (in some time I’ll post a review on another required reading, the oh-so-detailed Great Expectations, which ha...more
Lucy
Dec 16, 2007 Lucy rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: everyone
I love how Chaim Potok is able to create a story about so many different things. There are dozens of topics within his books to discuss, enjoy and ponder, but he manages to twist and turn his story, so at its end, you get the Rubik's cube sides all neatly back to the same color.

Like My Name Is Asher Lev, which I loved, Potok writes about a Jewish boy torn between his own genius and his orthodox father's expectations. Danny Saunders, a genius boy with a photographic memory, is destined to take hi...more
Christine
Also try The Promise, Davita's Harp, and the Asher Lev books. I first read these when I was younger, and I still read them over and over. The relationships in these books are quiet and beautiful, and the stories have a real depth of emotion. Read Chaim Potok now!

However, some people feel differently about this book:

Radhika rated it: 08/14/07

bookshelves: thecrapfrommatergayyyy

recommends it for: the cast of the ringer.

i was litterally gnna shoot myself when reading this boook. i couldnt evn st...more
Anne
Think you got a great education? Follow these teenage boys as they learn about one another, their faith and their relationship with their fathers. The rigorous studying that they do is foreign to today's youth. A classic in so many ways.
Alina
Jul 01, 2007 Alina rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: everyone except immature boys
(...as immature boys won't be able to understand/appreciate a close and beautiful bond between two heterosexual boys)

I loved this book. I read the Asher Lev books in high school and loved them, but this was great in a whole different way. Explicit (although not too 'in your face') theme of seeing and not seeing, a view of Jewish life and culture in America during and post WWII, and beautiful/touching portrayal of many different types of relationships (with family, friends, and strangers).


The boo...more
Dana
I should really give this book five stars. I am just not feeling that generous today, but it is deserving of five stars IMO. Though I read this over four years ago, I continue to think in the reserves of my little brain about the juxtaposition of the two fathers, and their parenting styles. Read the book and then let's discuss: the use of Silence as a teaching tool and as an entire concept to contemplate. How much cruelty can we assign to silence? Is it a choice made out of wisdom at times? Or s...more
Leftbanker
A novel about friendship, you don't read about that every day. I can't remember how old I was when I read this book, like 12 or 13. I had never met any Jewish people and I barely knew what it meant to be a Jew. After reading this book I felt like I was an expert, at least in Hicksville, USA where I was living.

On a side note, as I write this the church bells at San Valero, a XIV Spanish iglesia (not a cathedral I've been told), are going off like crazy. It's for a wedding and this means that the...more
Tanu Das
NEW YEAR RESOLUTION NUMBER 62: READ EVERYTHING WRITTEN BY CHAIM POTOK.

I think I might actually end up fulfilling this resolution (unlike most of the others), because “the chosen” was a masterpiece.

It's a poignant story about friendship, father-son relationship, about 2 Jew families on the other side of the Zionist movement and the reaction of American Jews to the horrors of holocaust. It’s about two deeply religious boys, trying to strike a balance between modernity and their deep rooted tradit...more
Alisa
Danny Saunders was raised in silence to save his soul. His father saw that his mind was so keen that his soul would be lost if there was not some awful tragedy to break his soul into a living space. So his father raised him in silence, never speaking to him until Danny learned to listen to that silence, to hear in the silence the cry of millions of his people as they were slaughtered, starved, beaten, and experimented upon by Hilter's army. It did not make Danny a rabbi, but it saved his soul in...more
bookczuk
This was a re-read for me -- last read probably in 1969 0r 1970. What strikes me now is the description of a lifestyle that has vanished or become part of the great melting pot of America. (And of the quote of one of the boys in my high school English class, when we read this who said on the homogeneity of our society, "America is not a melting pot. It's an acid bath."

Anyhow, the initial part of the book charmed me again, and I found lost in the world of Reuven and Danny, and their unlikely, but...more
Kelsey
Vomit. I just wasn't really into it. I understood it and stuff, I just think there are better books.
Poiema
The Jewish Talmud exhorts a man to do two things for himself. First, acquire a teacher. The other is to choose a friend.

Danny Saunders got the package deal when he made the acquaintance of Reuven Malter. Theirs is a Jonathan and David friendship, the two-bodies-with-one-soul type of friendship that happens rarely in a lifetime.

As the oldest son of the tzaddik (righteous leader) of a strict, Hasidic Jewish sect, Danny is the chosen. Upon the death of his father, he will be expected to step up as...more
Anna
At first I was wondering why this book didn't have an "official" summary/plot, like most books do. Well, a plot summary would not do the book justice. I mean, the book is about a friendship, but (definitely) not your typical, cheesy story. The best plot summary I've found would be from Sonlight homeschooling curriculum.

In 1940s Brooklyn, an accident throws Reuven Malther and Danny Saunders together. Despite their differences (Reuven is a secular Jew with an intellectual, Zionist father; Danny i...more
Evelyn
I really liked this book. The characters were good - I especially likeed the characterization of Reb Saunders. Though some parts were heavy on the Talmud jargon, even someone whose knowledge of a Jewish lifestyle extends only to going to her friend's bat mitzvah (like me) could enjoy the story immensely for its plot and character interactions.

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Upon rereading: I've got to tell everyone about this book.

First of all, my original statement that the characters were "good" will not suffice. The cha...more
Antof9
I read this one on a business trip in the NYC area, and thoroughly enjoyed it. It's the kind of book I immediately wanted to read again once I finished, but I know I'll have another chance to read another copy ... another day :)

I'm fascinated by the writing in this book. It's compassionate, literate, educated, and also ... contains one of the best bits of sports writing I've ever read
  The second one started to come in shoulder-high, and before it was two thirds of the way to the plate, I was alr
...more
Josh
Dear Mr. Potek,

You're dead. But since you believe in an afterlife, I feel okay writing to you anyway.

Despite being a finalist for the National Book Award, written about lovingly by critics, lauded across the country and even transferred to the stage, your novel The Chosen is absolute garbage. It is a disgusting attempt to justify child abuse with good intentions and you should be deeply ashamed of yourself for it.

In your book, a father wrecks irreperable harm upon his intellectually gifted son,...more
Kane Keating
Mar 02, 2008 Kane Keating rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: Anyone
Recommended to Kane by: A School Teacher
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Synopsis

Rather than allowing feelings of hatred & difference to make enemies out of two teenage boys, they choose the harder path of forgiveness and love and in return find an amazing friendship that is strengthened through difficulty and conflict.

My Review

I had finished reading all but the last chapter of this book when I decided a three star rating would fit this novel perfectly. The book was an easy read filled with uplifting advice from father to son and friend-to-friend. Nothing was hi...more
Lynn
This is an excellent book about friendship, and about families and the tensions within them. Potok does an amazing feat: he tells a completely believable account of events without resorting to predictability, or surprises that seem fake. You will not be able to guess what happens in this story, but it will feel inevitable once you finish it.

There is a lot of detail about Orthodox Judaism and the Hasidim. I can't verify all of its accuracy, but I can vouch for many of these details being correct....more
Shauri
I really enjoyed reading this book. I took this one at a slow and steady pace and enjoyed digesting every little bit. I only wish it were more fresh in my mind so that I could say something more meaningful, but I'll just say that it was inspiring and intriguing, and I recommend it to anyone.
Jenny
I really enjoyed this book I had never read it before and it was a great book to read as an adult. We had a great discussion in our book group and it really made me think about how parents can parent so differently and still get great results. I know that I need to work more on getting my children to resect me more so that I can hope that they will listen to me when they grow older and respect my opinions. It was a fast read and a great discussion book.
Jen
Mar 31, 2008 Jen rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: all my friends
I loved this book. I feel like I learned a lot--about Orthodox Judaism, Hasidic Judaisim, and how Jewish people in America responded to the discovery of the concentration camps at the end of WWII. It's also a touching story about friendship and family that people of all backgrounds can appreciate. I knew I was really hooked, however, when I was reading it one morning on the train, and when my stop came up, I stood on the platform afterwards in order to finish reading this very exciting part--whe...more
Mike Puma
This should be required reading for college courses in Gay Studies/Gay Literature. It is small wonder that Potok's inspiration for writing came from reading Brideshead Revisted. Reuven's narration, particularly the ways he describes Danny, is a virtual textbook case of repressed desire. This repression is consistent with one of the novel's themes: silence.

Having read this book, originally, many years ago, I did not pick up on Reuven's infatuation in the same way I've since come to recognize. In...more
John
My favorite quote from this book:

I learned long ago, Reuven, that a blink of an eye in itself is nothing. But the eye that blinks, that is something. A span of life is nothing. But the man who lives that span, he is something. He can fill that tiny span with meaning, so its quality is immeasurable though its quantity may be insignificant. Do you understand what I am saying? A man must fill his life with meaning, meaning is not automatically given to life. It is hard work to fill one's life with...more
Lillian Chen
I read this on the price is right road trip, bought in Oberlin, OH, our 1st stop, at an used bookstore. I asked my friend Harry to recommend a book, and he pulled this one out, and said half jokingly, half seriously, that I would understand him and Jon if I read it, who are both modern orthodox jews. I can't say of course that I completely understand Jewish identity now, but this book was definitely interesting from a jewish historical and cultural perspective. Although it was sometimes kind of...more
Ray
This classic novel is set in the WWII-era Jewish neighborhood of Williamsburg, Brooklyn. Its teh story of a deep friendship between adolescents Reuven (Modern Orthodox son of an intellectual) and Danny (brilliant Hasidic heir to the office of head 'rebbe' of the sect). On the surface its lots of fascinating religious debate. But really its the story of a how two friends together navigate the delimnas of adolescence.

Beautiful, deeply interesting story, but a master novelists (and ex-rabbi).

Don't...more
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American author and rabbi. Herman Harold Potok was born in the Bronx to Jewish immigrants from Poland.

His parents, Benjamin Max (d. 1958) and Mollie (Friedman) Potok (d. 1985), gave him a Hebrew name, Chaim Tzvi. His Orthodox education taught him Talmud as well as secular studies.

He decided to become a writer as a teenager, after reading Evelyn Waugh's Brideshead Revisited.
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“I've begun to realize that you can listen to silence and learn from it. It has a quality and a dimension all its own.” 1,915 people liked it
“Human beings do not live forever, Reuven. We live less than the time it takes to blink an eye, if we measure our lives against eternity. So it may be asked what value is there to a human life. There is so much pain in the world. What does it mean to have to suffer so much if our lives are nothing more than the blink of an eye?

I learned a long time ago, Reuven, that a blink of an eye in itself is nothing. But the eye that blinks, that is something. A span of life is nothing. But the man who lives that span, he is something. He can fill that tiny span with meaning, so its quality is immeasurable though its quantity may be insignificant. Do you understand what I am saying? A man must fill his life with meaning, meaning is not automatically given to life.

It is hard work to fill one's life with meaning. That I do not think you understand yet. A life filled with meaning is worthy of rest. I want to be worthy of rest when I am no longer here.”
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