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  <title><![CDATA[Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment]]></title>
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  <default-description>&lt;p&gt; Steve Harvey, the host of the nationally syndicated &lt;i&gt;Steve Harvey Morning Show&lt;/i&gt;, can't count the number of impressive women he's met over the years, whether it's through the &quot;Strawberry Letters&quot; segment of his program or while on tour for his comedy shows. These are women who can run a small business, keep a household with three kids in tiptop shape, and chair a church group all at the same time. Yet when it comes to relationships, they can't figure out what makes men tick. Why? According to Steve it's because they're asking other women for advice when no one but another man can tell them how to find and keep a man. In &lt;i&gt;Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man&lt;/i&gt;, Steve lets women inside the mindset of a man and sheds lights on concepts and questions such as: &lt;/p&gt; &lt;blockquote&gt; &lt;p&gt; &#8212;The Ninety Day Rule: Ford requires it of its employees. Should you require it of your man? &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &#8212;How to spot a mama's boy and what if anything you can do about it. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &#8212;When to introduce the kids. And what to read into the first interaction between your date and your kids. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &#8212;The five questions every woman should ask a man to determine how serious he is. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; &#8212; And more... &lt;/p&gt; &lt;/blockquote&gt; &lt;p&gt; Sometimes funny, sometimes direct, but always truthful, &lt;i&gt;Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man&lt;/i&gt; is a book you must read if you want to understand how men think when it comes to relationships. &lt;/p&gt;</default-description>
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  <original-publication-year type="integer">2009</original-publication-year>
  <original-title>Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment</original-title>
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    <name><![CDATA[Kathrynn]]></name>
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[Young girls starting to date men through married or divorced women with kids]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Mon Apr 06 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Tue Apr 07 03:19:38 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[A quick, easy read that wasn't as funny as I thought it was going to be.  Mr. Harvey gives straight, common sense advice about men that could be used by teenage girls just beginning the dating cycle to women married/divorced with kids.  Several of his examples are with divorced women with kids: when...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51422783">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Mar 03 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Mar 02 13:06:21 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Mar 03 08:23:45 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I saw this book being promoted on &quot;Oprah&quot; one afternoon (rarity, since I typically work until 5) and thought he made a lot of sense.  So, I picked the book up and within 2 days I read it cover to cover.  Excellent.  I recommend it for any woman struggling with relationships with men.  It b...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/48024773">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="45331898">
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    <name><![CDATA[Cydney]]></name>
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      <rating>4</rating>
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  <read_at>Thu Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Feb 04 00:06:23 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Feb 04 00:09:49 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was right on time. Steve gives insight into the male mind and why guys do what they do. He cuts to the chase and informs females what to do to if you want to be a keeper. The book also allows you to realize the good traits that your guy has which helps you feel you're on the right track; o...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/45331898">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="50975286">
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      <rating>4</rating>
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  <read_at>Sun Feb 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Mar 30 17:53:48 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Mar 30 18:14:42 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I actually read this back in February when my mother and her partner saw Steve Harvey on Oprah and it really got to them- they kept bringing him up.  And if this made an impression on two women who are done with men romantically, well, I had to check it out.  This book is great because it is common ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50975286">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="49144118">
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <date_added>Fri Mar 13 08:11:05 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Mar 13 08:19:04 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[The best thing about this book was that when men saw me reading it, they would get ALL KINDS of bent outta shape.   Seriously.   I mean, they took it personally.  That only made me want to get through it faster to see what the hell Steve was telling because men were nervous.  <br/><br/>The first p...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/49144118">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="73604884">
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    <location><![CDATA[Mesa, AZ]]></location>        
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      <rating>4</rating>
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  <read_at>Tue Oct 06 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Oct 06 04:09:56 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Oct 06 04:18:02 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I couldn't resist this book when I stumbled upon it at the store only hours ago, and I read it page by page without stopping.  <br/><br/>This book has great advice and suggestions for women who are struggling with dating and relationships.  I have experienced a lot of what was mentioned in this bo...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/73604884">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="63689104">
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  <read_at>Wed Apr 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu Jul 16 00:19:24 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Jul 16 00:31:38 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Advice for the desperate?<br/><br/>I guess someone who's having a lot of trouble getting married might find this book helpful. I have never found men to be all that simplistic. I also don't need some guy telling me how to be a girl (&quot;don't paint&quot;). Okay, the guys can do the heavy lifting...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/63689104">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="58883888">
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <date_added>Mon Jun 08 12:19:32 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Jun 08 12:19:52 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[So I started the book and finished it. It is really an easy read. I will be honest, I found a lot of the stuff he said is stuff that you might already know. Now the question is do we care to do anything about it. Ultimately what I found from this book is that he reinforces things that you might alre...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/58883888">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="57048476">
    <user id="67550">
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  <read_at>Fri May 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Sat May 23 07:08:51 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat May 23 07:09:08 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Well, look at you, Steve Harvey!  I never would have guessed you've got so much common sense, back to basics, and regrettably underestimated (until now) advice on how straight people get along!  Basic ideas: (1) Men are simple, predictable, express love differently from how women do, and really just...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/57048476">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="54283926">
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  <read_at>Tue Apr 07 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Apr 28 15:35:18 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Apr 28 15:46:57 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was a quick read. Took me only about 2 days. He does make some valid points about how men differ from women and in my relationships I have found some of them to be true. For example when he states that men do not like to get into in depth discussions. This is true. Men are problem solvers....<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/54283926">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="53071216">
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    <name><![CDATA[Monica]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Arlington, TX]]></location>        
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      <rating>4</rating>
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  <read_at>Fri Apr 17 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Fri Apr 17 17:51:16 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Apr 17 17:51:29 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Comedian Steve Harvey of the nationally syndicated Steve Harvey Morning Show shares with us his ideas on how a woman can catch and keep a man. He gives us a heads up (in case we didn't already know this) that most men are out for one thing only. There are tips on how spot a mama's boy, how to train ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/53071216">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="54321361">
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  <read_at>Mon Apr 27 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Thu Apr 30 22:39:38 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is insightful and at the same time does have somewhat of a Christian bent.  I would say that there were some things that were not considered but that the reader should keep in mind such as:<br/><br/>-Men who come from homes where they don't have ideal relationships with their mothers.  I...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/54321361">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="49217121">
    <user id="853772">
    <name><![CDATA[Hope]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Halifax, VA]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Fri Mar 13 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Fri Mar 13 21:56:58 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[So I Steve Harvey was on Oprah about 2 Fridays ago to promote the book. 1. I think Steve is pretty funny and 2. If Oprah recommends it there's a least a 50% chance I'll try it. So, when I downloaded the Kindle app for my iPod Touch I needed a book to test...this was at the top of the list and the re...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/49217121">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="49957796">
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[women, teen girls, young men, children raised in Single Parent Households]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Fri Mar 27 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Sat Mar 21 09:34:49 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Mar 27 08:52:08 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[So as a man I can tell you that this book is definitely on point. Steve Harvey has written a book that is part Father/Daughter advice and part therapist's advice from a relationship O.G. What you will get from this book is #1 an understanding of MEN and what MOTIVATES us, MATTERS to us, MAKES US FEE...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/49957796">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="57887519">
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[no one I know personally]]></recommended_for>
  <recommended_by><![CDATA[Judged by Title]]></recommended_by>
  <read_at>Sat May 30 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Sat May 30 16:12:52 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat May 30 16:12:52 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I grabbed this book because I thought the title was beyond funny. The subtitle might be more appropriate if it was, &quot;What This Man Really Thinks, etc.&quot;  The book falls in the category of light self help, not humour. <br/><br/>There are a good takeaway points:<br/>-get some standards<br/>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/57887519">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="49875348">
    <user id="358682">
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  <read_at>Thu Mar 19 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <read_at>Sun Feb 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Quick read, funny in parts.  It confirmed some things I already knew but helped clarify other aspects of relationships.  Worth reading!]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Steve Harvey was on Oprah so many times promoting his book that I had to see what all the fuss was about.<br/><br/>Halfway through the book, I realized (after looking up some bio info on wikipedia) that Harvey has been married three times - an interesting candidate for relationship book author.<br/>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/53042755">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Not since Mirabel Morgan published &quot;Total Woman&quot; in the 70's has there been such a load of fresh tripe.  I know----the title should have clued me in, but a friend highly recommended it and I fell for it.  Suffice it to say, most of the men I know do not think like this man.  None of the wo...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/69503291">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I was given this book as a birthday gift and while the author is funny and witty, I had a hard time getting through it.  A lot of the book had some some great insight into what goes on in a man's head that I found entertaining and useful.  I found it relatable when he talked about a man's need to &quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/63379838">more...</a>]]></body>
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