false 6012776 1 True love doesn’t just happen, notes professional matchmaker Patti Novak. You have to work for it–and want it. Forget eight-minute speed dates or online dating sites with twenty-page questionnaires that promise a scientifically calculated perfect match. The fact that you both like golf, stamp collecting, and pizza with anchovies is great, but it won’t mean a thing if you don’t feel that zing. <br><br>But before there can be sparks, there have to be dates. And before the first date, you need to get over yourself! Taking a tough-love approach, and in her signature straight-shooting style, Patti will show you how to fix what needs to be fixed, reach your core, and identify who you are and what you want in a partner. She uses a three-part common-sense formula:<br><br>• <b>Getting Over What?</b> Assess your dating weaknesses, recognize what’s not working, and adjust your expectations. Delve into your personal history and past relationships, and pinpoint the issues that have been holding you back.<br>• <b>Almost Over It </b> Fine-tune your attitude, your look, and your behavior to maximize your dating chances. Novak lays out strategies to help you deal with the brutal dating monsters you find along the way.<br>• <b>Over It</b> Learn the do’s and don’ts of the first date, the second date, and beyond. Remember, it’s not a job interview or therapy session. Pretend you’re meeting a new friend, not a prospective husband or wife.<br><br>Finding your one and only isn’t about having the right shoes or a flat stomach. It’s about being true to yourself, being vulnerable, and being ready for love. Whether you’re new to the dating scene, divorced and looking, or just trying to reach that second date, Get Over Yourself! will help you get the love you’ve always wanted and deserve. 6188007 30 12 2008 Get Over Yourself!: How to Get Real, Get Serious, and Get Ready to Find True Love total:4|4:2|3:1|2:1| 4 13 20 3 0 0 false false Sat Aug 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009 Sun Aug 02 11:15:54 -0700 2009 Sun Aug 02 11:16:54 -0700 2009 0 0 false false Thu Dec 18 00:00:00 -0800 2008 Fri Dec 19 05:38:18 -0800 2008 Fri Dec 19 05:38:47 -0800 2008 4 0 false false Tue Feb 03 00:00:00 -0800 2009 Tue Jan 20 12:14:32 -0800 2009 Tue Feb 03 18:12:52 -0800 2009 0 0 false false Mon Nov 02 07:28:58 -0800 2009 Mon Nov 02 07:28:58 -0800 2009 0 0 false false Wed Sep 30 13:22:37 -0700 2009 Wed Sep 30 13:22:24 -0700 2009 Wed Sep 30 13:22:37 -0700 2009 0 0 false false Fri Sep 25 13:10:02 -0700 2009 Fri Sep 25 13:10:02 -0700 2009 2 0 false false Fri Sep 25 11:17:50 -0700 2009 Fri Sep 25 11:17:50 -0700 2009 0 0 false false Sat Aug 29 13:01:41 -0700 2009 Sat Aug 29 13:01:41 -0700 2009 0 0 false false Thu Aug 13 18:27:22 -0700 2009 Thu Aug 13 18:28:35 -0700 2009 0 0 false false Sun Aug 02 11:29:07 -0700 2009 Sun Aug 02 11:29:07 -0700 2009 0 0 false false Sat Aug 01 14:27:46 -0700 2009 Sat Aug 01 14:27:46 -0700 2009 3 0 false false Tue Jul 28 12:25:39 -0700 2009 Tue Jul 28 12:25:39 -0700 2009 0 0 false false Wed May 20 07:46:24 -0700 2009 Wed May 20 07:46:24 -0700 2009 0 0 false false Thu Mar 19 23:34:04 -0700 2009 Thu Mar 19 23:34:04 -0700 2009 0 0 false false Thu Mar 19 12:32:46 -0700 2009 Thu Mar 19 12:32:46 -0700 2009 0 0 false false Tue Mar 10 14:01:52 -0700 2009 Tue Mar 10 14:01:52 -0700 2009 0 0 false false Sun Mar 01 10:34:19 -0800 2009 Sun Mar 01 10:34:19 -0800 2009 0 0 false false Sat Jan 31 13:35:45 -0800 2009 Sat Jan 31 13:35:45 -0800 2009 4 0 false false Sat Jan 24 06:31:11 -0800 2009 Sat Jan 24 06:31:11 -0800 2009 0 0 false false Fri Dec 19 08:11:17 -0800 2008 Fri Dec 19 08:11:44 -0800 2008 http://www.goodreads.com/book_link/follow/8?book_id=6012776