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MY LITTLE RED BOOK is an anthology of stories about first periods, collected from women of all ages from around the world. The accounts range from light-hearted (the editor got hers while water skiing in a yellow bathing suit) to heart-stopping (a first period discovered just as one girl was about to be strip-searched by the Nazis). The contributors include well-known wome...more
Hardcover, 240 pages
Published February 26th 2009 by Twelve
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Holly Ord
Most women remember their first periods and no matter what emotion or range of emotions they experienced on that day, they can still look back on it many years later and smile–for one reason or another. No matter what a woman thinks about her period, the bottom line is that it is with us for the long haul. It is one of our long-term relationships and even if we love it or hate it, it is with us for the majority of our lives; and if we live with our periods for the majority of our lives, why do w...more
Venessa
This book got me thinking about how strange it is that every woman will menstruate and yet it is still such a taboo to talk about. The purpose of the book is to obliterate taboos and make every girl realize that this is nothing to be ashamed of, and indeed, should even be appreciated and celebrated. I can't wait until every young girl I know reaches the age when I can buy this book for her and become a part of their growing up and into life.

Nalebuff gathers stories from famous and no...more
Anna Balasi
My first reaction to this book was that I wish I had something like it before my first period. My second reaction to this book was that I wish I could've contributed my own story.

Women, in general, I think, would be better empowered sharing their first-period experiences to their children, mostly to their daughters. A wonderful book like MY LITTLE RED BOOK emphasises the importance of this, since too many little girls thought they were dying, thought they were freaks, or were just p...more
Margaret Roberts
This book is about first menstrual experiences of female(thankfully, not male) writers, artists, etc. Why did I read this? My mother gave it to me, and I read anything someone gives me out of impulse.
So I read this, and it was a good book. I mostly just liked the nerve of it, writing about a kind of tabooed subject so openly. I personally thought in fifth grade the boys should get to see the "girl talk" because they seem so ignorant about this topic and 1) need to know they're n...more
Audrey
Audrey rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: non-fiction, history
This has been, by far, my best early-reviewing experience. I am going to lend it to most of my friends, but I am insisting they return it![return][return]Menstruation is a universal experience for women, and it's hard to find a woman for whom the "first period" was not a major life event. However, for many women across many different cultures, the monthly physical evidence of womanhood can be a lifelong burden and is considered shameful. The goal of this book, a collection of stories a...more
Andrea Blythe
This is a collection of first-period stories, written by women of all ages from around the world. They are artists, writers, professionals, doctors, and students. Many of these stories have similar themes, for example:
*The author thought she were dying.
*The author was excited about becoming a woman.
*The author got their period in a public situation and bled through her clothes.
*The author didn't know anything about periods until it happened.
And so on.

And yet,...more
Sandy H
Sandy H rated it 3 of 5 stars
Recommended to Sandy by: sandyquiltz@gmail.com
I read My Little Red Book on recommendation from a friend and appreciated about half of it. The book is a collection of essays from a women recalling their experience of first getting their period. It's a neat idea--it set out to be an exploration, I think, of how our understanding of ourselves and our relationship with the world is shaped through our understanding of this defining event in the path of womanhood.

However, after reading a bunch of essays with relatively the same idea a...more
Erin
Erin rated it 5 of 5 stars
Shelves: non-fiction, teen
What I liked so much about this book was not the book itself, but what the book does. The book is nice in general- attractive binding,k a good variety of short stories, information about each author, often with humourous quips, and even the year at the beginning of each story so that the reader can begin to place them within a chronology. The editing seemed well done, with several little editor's notes at the ends of various stories that briefly added to the whole without getting in the way. ...more
Beth
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Shelves: inspiration
This book is a must have for women and the men that want to understand them. This was probably the coolest book I have read on the subject. You get to read stories going back as far as 1916 until today. This book really reveals how different cultures look at your first period. What traditions occur during this time. How a girl is now viewed in society. This book has replaced Judy Blume in my opinion in regard to what book should you hand a girl when it comes to her time. This book is very positi...more
Freda mans
This is a book, that is perfect if you have a daughter and are unsure how to approach the subject of menstruating.
I rather appreciated all the stories, since being a woman I sympathize. I, too, have a red book story;

I was 2 weeks shy of my 11th birthday, and went to the bathroom. As I was going, I noticed blood. Of course I knew what a period was, my mom had used a tampon in front of me once when I was small, and I asked a lot of questions, but it still didn't prepare me for wh...more
Marie
Marie rated it 4 of 5 stars
My Little Red Book is a wonderful collection of stories about women's first periods. The stories come from women from different walks of life, different age groups and different cultures. Because of this, each story was unique, yet equally fascinating.

This book is awesome. While I was reading this book I kept thinking "Where has this book been all my life? Why didn't someone think of this before?" If someone had told me years ago that I'd be reading a book on menstruation (...more
Nancy
Nalebuff began collecting stories from women about their first menstrual periods as a high school project. She found that while women had a variety of stories to tell, several themes, taboos, or old wives tales, carried across cultures. The stories collected here are from young women who have just recently started their periods to elderly women long over with menopause. A large number of women mentioned getting their initial, or only information about menstruation from Judy Blume's children's bo...more
Caroline
Caroline rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: non-fiction
Not since Are You There God? It's Me, Margret has the subject of periods been discussed so meticulously. Women of different generations, nationalities and walks of life discuss their entrance into womanhood in a celebration of a moment, a time period, a cycle, that all too often is one of hassle and embarrassment.

I don't remember any of the gifts I received for my thirteenth birthday. Except for one. One that I found in my cotton panties after first period PE. I blinked at the red s...more
Brenda
I really liked the idea of this book. I have to say that before having heard of it, I’d really never given first periods a second thought (except of course immediately after my first). Having these collected stories at hand not only made me think about my first experience but made me wonder at others. It started dialogues with other women, that then segued into other great female topics—and for that alone this book is worth reading. It also made me do some impromptu research on feminine hygiene ...more
Michelle
Very interesting book. The premise sounds kind of strange -- and most men might say, totally gross -- but, it is a book about menstruation. More specifically, it's a compilation of reminiscences of women getting their first periods as 9-18 year old girls/teens. I actually found it validating, kind of comforting, and encouraging. I don't know that I've ever talked about first periods with other women, beyond noting how old we were when it happened. And I liked reading other women's experienc...more
Lee Anne
This could have been horrible, a compilation of first-period stories edited by an eighteen year old girl, but it's surprisingly entertaining. The stories are short, and for the most part stay away from the hyper-feminist but secretly self-loathing (you know, the "now I'm considered less than men, blah, blah, blah" stuff) side of the issue. I imagine it would be reassuring to read these stories as a tween (or younger), in addition to Are You There God, It's me, Margaret and whatever ...more
Barky
Rachel Kauder Nalebuff became interested in stories about first menstruation experiences after getting her period for the first time – after which women in her family shared their stories with her. She was really fascinated by their tales, and felt that telling these stories was a great way to open up the topic of menstruation. She compiled this collection to share with girls and women of all ages.

After reading these stories I’m not entirely sure that girls and women do want to dis...more
cecilia
cecilia rated it 5 of 5 stars
Shelves: red-covers
The contributors ranged from young to old, mothers to daughters to sisters. I especially appreciated those who had a terrible or disappointing "first period" experience with their parents and vowed to change that with their own daughters. I really enjoyed the older stories where "belted" pads were still in vogue - I had never heard of those before (and sadly, I have not read Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret). Or that French women cannot make good mayonnaise while they hav...more
Nely
Nely rated it 4 of 5 stars
My Little Red Book is a collection of stories about first periods from women throughout the world. This anthology includes positive, negative and indifferent experiences from ordinary women and girls, in addition to well known authors and high profile feminists.

This book is riddled with stories of girls thinking they were dying upon getting it, or those that looked forward to getting it for years and when they finally got it, how it took them by surprise, those who were looking forw...more
Tamora Pierce
This is a dynamite book, not just for girls just learning about menstruation, but for women looking to see what kinds of experience other women had when they encountered this particular step toward adulthood. It's also a good book for those who want to see a new face of a favorite author: Rachel got writers like Erica Jong, Gloria Steinem, Cecily von Zeigesar, Meg Cabot, and, um, me to contribute. There are stories from all over the world and over the last seventy years, showing how times and ...more
Emily C.
This was a fun, light read, and would make a good gift. The book is a series of very short (sometimes only a sentence long) essays chronicling "first period" stories from 1916 to 2007. It's an awkward subject and perhaps one of the last remaining taboos, and I am glad Nalebuff tackled the subject. However, after the first 100 pages or so, I felt like perhaps she was making a mountain out of a molehill, celebrating menarche as a glorious event marking the beginning of womanhood. I w...more
Sara
Sara rated it 2 of 5 stars
I wouldn't have picked this up on my own, but read it because it was in the house when I wasn't feeling well and wanted something light to read. I found a few of the stories to be moving, and it was worthwhile to learn about the Health and Water Foundation in Kenya, which provides water and sanitary supplies that help girls stay in school. But the pieces are all so short that it felt like a long series of anecdotes; there just wasn't enough depth to hold my attention. I can't remember much abo...more
Hendo
Hendo rated it 4 of 5 stars
My Little Red Book is a collection of "first period" stories compiled by a high school senior. It's a pretty interesting little volume comprised of around 100 stories. There are stories by mothers, daughters, grandmothers, etc., and one of my favorite parts is that the editor lists personal details about each of the contributors--like where they are now and some of their more noteworthy accomplishments. A couple famous people contributed too, like the lady who wrote the Gossip Girl ser...more
Upstatemamma
I did not expect to have very many thoughts about this book. I pretty much just expected to read it and be done with it. It seemed interesting but not all that amazing really. And then I started reading it and I learned how many girls go through a first period that was similar to mine. That was difficult - and also how many have a worse experience than mine. How many think they are dying. How many have no idea what is happening to them. It has given me resolve to make sure that my daughters neve...more
Deborah
Books by Robie Harris and others are, thankfully, available on shelves to ably help parents explain and children understand the the birds and the bees; they are necessary, medically accurate, and attentive to the feelings of children as their bodies grow and change. But... if you were a twelve year old girl and full of questions you were too embarrassed to ask anyone, would you be all that eager to read those books, even if they were immediately accessible, and had very conscientiously been give...more
Lisa
Lisa rated it 3 of 5 stars
I liked the concept of this book a lot. It was very entertaining, but some of the stories were a little much and she chose all feminists as contributors, so hearing everything from that perspective got a little old. I wish I could make a copy for my daughter including only the stories that would be appropriate for her. I did learn a lot about how I want to go through this transition with my daughter and what she will want and need to hear.

My favorite quote is:

"This me...more
Bobbie  Crawford-McCoy
Bobbie Crawford-McCoy rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Women of all ages and open-minded men.
My Little Red Book
Edited By: Rachel Kauder Nalebuff
Published By: Twelve, an imprint of Grand Central Publishing, 2009, First Edition, 240 pages, hardcover
ISBN 978-0446546362

My Little Red Book is one of the most honest, soul-bearing story collaborations that I have ever had the good fortune to read. When I heard about this book I was instantly intrigued. What woman hasn’t at some point, felt embarrassment or felt somewhat stigmatized by their monthly flow? I know the...more
Corin
Corin added it
As the mom of a newly transformed 'young woman', this book was really terrific. I feel like I did a decent job in alerting my daughter to how it all works, congratulating her in a positive way, and not totally embarrassing her, either. She also read the book and found it enlightening... and tells me I did a decent job, too. How reassuring! Every woman will find an anecdote in this book to relate to -- something that will seem familiar or make them want to laugh or to cry (in a good way, I hope).
Emilia P
Emilia P rated it 3 of 5 stars
Shelves: real-books
Well, meh.
I wanted to like it, I think it was pretty useful, but I need to stop reading short essays by non-writers, with a not very invasive editor (in this case, a hard-working and resume-building teenager), on subjects I find profoundly affecting. Very short essays about getting your period spanning the 20th century, a few experiences from abroad. I think it honestly represented that a lot of girls basically feel like meh, this is a little frustrating, my life goes on. To my taste there...more
Jennifer
Jennifer rated it 2 of 5 stars
Shelves: adult-books
This book is definitely a case of what you see is what you get: 1-2 page personal stories from different women and girls about their experiences getting their periods. After the first 10-12 times reading about the "rusty brown stain" that showed up at summer camp/gym/boyfriend's house/grandma's house, etc. I was a little bored. The reprint of a famous Gloria Steinam article about how the world would be different if men menstruated was amusing, but this whole book is pretty one-note. A ...more
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