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The Way of the Heart

4.32  ·  Rating Details ·  3,711 Ratings  ·  212 Reviews
Since it was first published more than twenty years ago, The Way of the Heart has helped millions of men and women cast off the anger and greed that trouble the world–and find love, compassion, and peace in the heart of God.

Inspired by the ancient teachings of St. Anthony and the Desert Fathers, The Way of the Heart clears before us a spiritual path consisting of three ste
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Paperback, 112 pages
Published December 2nd 2003 by Ballantine Books (first published 1981)
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Chris
Jun 18, 2012 Chris rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I've had this book on my shelf for quite awhile but had not gotten around to reading it. A couple of weekends ago I was scheduled to take a "personal retreat" which I try to do 3 or 4 times per year. As I perused my two shelves worth of Christian spirituality, formation, etc...the title caught my eye so I stuffed it in my bag with 2 or 3 other books for the weekend.

It only took a few pages to realize Nouwen was going to nail me. He identifies greed and anger as two critical sins which tend to pl
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Gregory
Mar 04, 2009 Gregory marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
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The best book for blogging.
from Stuff Christians Like by Prodigal Jon

Sometimes people ask me for tips about blogging. I don't feel particularly qualified to answer that question even though I do blog a lot. What I can tell you though is the name of the best book ever written about blogging:

"The Way of the Heart" by Henri Nouwen.

Here are three things I can tell you about this book:

1. It is only 84 pages long.
2. It only costs $9.31 on Amazon so it's super cheap.
3. I underlined almost every line on
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Ron
Aug 19, 2012 Ron rated it really liked it
(Upon my second reading)

“Arsenius, flee, be silent, pray always, for these for these are the sources of sinlessness.”

A valuable retrospective on the prayer life of the Desert Fathers, and Eastern Orthodox Christians. Drawing on the main themes of solitude, silence and prayer, Nouwen offers an alternative to the western church’s going-through-the-motions approach to following Christ.

“Only in the context of grace can we face our sin; only in the place of healing can we show our wounds; only with a
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Kathleen Kurlin
Apr 01, 2013 Kathleen Kurlin rated it it was amazing
This book promises (from the book jacket) "Within this one small book lies the most relevant and inspiring challenge that we shall ever face: to surrender the compulsive noise of the world for the way of the heart that leads us to God." This book delivered on what was written in the book jacket! I read this book very quickly and found myself wanting to withdraw from my daily life to a secluded spot somewhere so I could truly seek God with the hopes of hearing His words for me and my life. I woul ...more
Jkanz
Sep 03, 2015 Jkanz rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
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Flee, be silent, pray always, for these are the sources of sinlessness.-Abba Arsenius



The Way of the Heart: The Spirituality of the Desert Fathers and Mothers (1981) by Henri Nouwen is a short book with deep impact. At just 96 short pages, Nouwen provides much to think about. In essence, Nouwen examined the importance of solitude, silence, and prayer through the lenses of the desert fathers, Christians who lived in the Egyptian desert during the 4th and 5th centuries.


Flee--In the first section,
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Sarah Milad
Feb 07, 2016 Sarah Milad rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
معرفش...بس مش زي كتب هنري نويين..لدرجة اشعر انه مش كتابه اساسا!!!
معرفش يمكن عشان الاب داود لمعي حاطط التاتش بتاعه......مش عارفة
الكتاب يغلب عليه الطابع الارذوثكسي بشدة و يمكن كمان لاني مش مقتنعة بفكرة رهبنة و الهروب للصحراء ...و كتاب كله كده !!! و أري انها عكس ما يطلبه منا الكتاب المقدس.

بس الكتاب لطيف

إن الناس ليسوا هم الغاية من حياتنا..بل الله..لأننا لن نجد راحة سوي في شخص الله
الصمت طريق آمن إلي الله
Susie
May 01, 2008 Susie rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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Once again, a little 95 page book from Henri Nouwen finds a way to powerfully penetrate my heart and requires months of soaking, processing, and re-reading to reach the end. This little quirk of Nouwen's, by the way, is not at all a bad thing. In fact, it is the mark for me of a truly amazing, insightful book.

Compiled from a lecture series Nouwen taught regarding the Desert Mothers and Fathers, _The Way of the Heart_ describes in detail three qualities often lacking in modern Christian spiritua
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Jasonlylescampbell
Once there was a culture so malicious, yet banal that Christians felt they were drowning. The culture embraced them, persecution ended, but the violence of propaganda and the pagan way of life constantly assailed them. Many were sinking deeper and deeper into this poison culture. The spirit of the age was seductive and constant with its promises of happiness and material success. The constant refrain could be summed up as: "Keep your spirituality, that is something you enjoy ... just join us in ...more
Angel
Jan 30, 2013 Angel rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Originally posted in angelroman

I was dubious about reading this book, mainly because I did an online research about Nouwen’s life and finally found out that even though he respected his celibacy until his death he was struggling with homosexuality. Yet, I know He is respected among christians as a great teacher about spirituality and it’s not my intention to diminish his teaching or his life purpose.

With that being said, The Way of the Heart is about the story of the desert fathers (you can read
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Mindi
Jan 23, 2017 Mindi rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This was a life changing book for me.

Nouwen discusses three of the disciplines of the Desert fathers and mothers, solitude, silence and prayer.

The purpose of the book can be summed up in the following quote, "Our compulsive, wordy and mind-oriented world has a firm grip on us, and we need a very strong and persistent discipline not to be squeezed to death by it."
Porter Sprigg
Apr 27, 2016 Porter Sprigg rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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Thought-provoking and simple reflections on the value of solitude, silence, and prayer. I especially enjoyed the section on prayer and how it will change our hearts by allowing us to share in God's heart for humanity.
Cameron
Apr 08, 2008 Cameron rated it really liked it
More and more I'm thankful for the small books, simple but profound ones--those that are just long enough to get you off the couch and motivated to do the work that needs doing, reaching the heart. This is one of those books.
Cory Jones
Mar 18, 2016 Cory Jones rated it really liked it
Amazing. It's an easy read, but best to digest it slowly. I'll keep this one on my desk (and not the shelf) as I'm sure I'll return to it over and over. Anyone wanting a fuller experience in solitude, silence, and prayer should read this.
Nicki
Mar 31, 2011 Nicki rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Nicki by: Wendy
Re-read this one and I didn't get much out of it at all.

This is one of those books that has come along at the right time for me. Its very short but has so much depth that it definitely needs to be meditated on. I'm going to read it again and again.
Lori Neff
Oct 16, 2013 Lori Neff rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
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This was my second time reading this. I read it 15 years ago, so I read it this time with very different eyes. Loved it - it's a short, rich book.
Dave
Great reflection on what it means to "pray without ceasing." Portrays prayer - and God's work in response - as ongoing as I learn to turn my heart towards God.
Nicholas Quient
A quick and insightful little read, but its brevity is a bit of a drawback - especially since the Desert Fathers and Mothers are invoked but not full explored.
Joel
Sep 02, 2011 Joel rated it it was amazing
Amazing journey into my own heart as I read this. Worth keeping around for a reread any time.
John Burge
I read Henri Nouwen's The Way of the Heart: The Spirituality of the Desert Fathers and Mothers many years ago, and on a whim I decided to pick it up again. I hadn’t read any works of Christian mysticism or spirituality in a while, and so I pulled out a stack of books including Nouwen, Tozer, Augustine, and a Celtic Daily Prayer devotional. I started on Nouwen, figuring that I could get through it quickly, even if I didn't like it. As it turns out, I liked it a lot – much more than I remember. It ...more
Jeff
May 08, 2017 Jeff rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Nouwen's starts with a thesis that is worth thinking over, namely that solitude, silence, and prayer are especially key aspects of ministry today. While the section dealing with silence was a bit weaker than the others, Nouwen'a suggestions on why and how to practice solitude and prayer were both thought provoking and helpful. This book easily makes the list of books I would like to read again (indeed, I'm considering purchasing my own copy).
katie
Dec 10, 2016 katie rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: spirit, read-in-2016
Lovely. Read in small doses from the nightstand. Raises interesting questions about how much language we use in prayer vs. how much heart.
Olivia
Mar 14, 2017 Olivia rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is a powerful little book on Solitude, Silence, Prayer. I will be returning to it again and again.
Andrew Frazier
I had to read this for a leadership class at church and I highly recommend this book for those looking to pursue life long ministry and church leadership.
April-lyn
As always, Nouwen is direct, relevant, concise, and challenging. He doesn't mince words or skirt around issues, and he doesn't coddle. His writing is full of hope and both a) shows me how much more deeply I could go in my relationship with God, and b) shows me practical steps to get there instead of leaving me in despair.

This book was particularly well-timed because I have been feeling scattered and aimless, and I know that poor discipline in exactly the three areas he touches on - solitude, sil
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Aaron Priebe
I honestly did like this book when I first started it. It felt too wishy washy, and overly spiritual, sacrificing common knowledge for these desert fathers and mothers that no one really knows. But the principles that come out of this book are astounding and I found the truth of God's word and the teaching of the Holy Spirit through this book. The section on prayer was by far my favorite. He does a great job in the summary at the end of the book. If you don't like solitude and silence the way he ...more
Kelly
Oct 13, 2015 Kelly rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
A book you'll want to read slowly and take time to reflect on how you can cultivate the spiritual disciplines of solitude, silence, and prayer to be a way of life.

I love that the explanation for solitude here is "not a private therapeutic place" but "Rather, it is the place of conversion, the place where the old self dies and the new self is born, the place where emergence of the new man and the new woman occurs." That it is in solitude that we don't "catch a break from the world" but that we m
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Benjamin Vineyard
Apr 29, 2012 Benjamin Vineyard rated it it was amazing
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The Way of the Heart by Henri Nouwen (Book Reaction)

Desert Spirituality and Contemporary Ministry

The Desert Fathers and Mothers of early Christianity have always intrigued me. Their book of sayings is filled with a consoling yet perplexing spiritual guidance - words I've never read a parallel to. Yet, those words from the desert are laden with meaning, especially today.

The Desert Fathers and Mothers were prayerfully led to the desert right after the empiric absorption of Christianity into Rome (
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Tim Baumgartner
When I teach the history of Christianity, we talk about how Constantine's declaration of Christianity as the religion of the Roman Empire. This changed SO much because Christians basically stopped being persecuted. This new-found freedom caused a lot of Christians to become lax and not 'make the most of the time' (Ephesians 5:15-16). In order to prevent following the ways of the culture, some Christians chose to abandon the big cities and head for places that were more conducive to focusing on G ...more
Leo
Feb 27, 2017 Leo rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
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A good exploration of the challenge to “Flee from the world, be silent and pray always"
Dayton
Feb 25, 2017 Dayton rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is my second reading of The Way of the Heart. As always, Manning continues to go deep to my heart and points the way to an authentic faith and hope modeled by those who have gone before us!
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Henri Jozef Machiel Nouwen (Nouen), (1932–1996) was a Dutch-born Catholic priest and writer who authored 40 books on the spiritual life.

Nouwen's books are widely read today by Protestants and Catholics alike. The Wounded Healer, In the Name of Jesus, Clowning in Rome, The Life of the Beloved, and The Way of the Heart are just a few of the more widely recognized titles. After nearly two decades of
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“We enter into solitude first of all to meet our Lord and to be with Him and Him alone. Only in the context of grace can we face our sin; only in the place of healing do we dare to show our wounds; only with a single-minded attention to Christ can we give up our clinging fears and face our own true nature. Solitude is a place where Christ remodels us in his own image and frees us from the victimizing compulsions of the world.” 45 likes
“It is this nothingness (in solitude) that I have to face in my solitude, a nothingness so dreadful that everything in me wants to run to my friends, my work, and my distractions so that I can forget my nothingness and make myself believe that I am worth something. The task is to persevere in my solitude, to stay in my cell until all my seductive visitors get tired of pounding on my door and leave me alone. The wisdom of the desert is that the confrontation with our own frightening nothingness forces us to surrender ourselves totally and unconditionally to the Lord Jesus Christ.” 31 likes
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