A Widow for One Year

A Widow for One Year

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Ruth Cole is a complex, often self-contradictory character—a "difficult" woman. By no means is she conventionally "nice," but she will never be forgotten.

Ruth's story is told in three parts, each focusing on a crucial time in her life. When we first meet her, on Long Island, in the summer of 1958, Ruth is only four. The second window into Ruth's life opens in the fall of 1...more
Hardcover, 537 pages
Published April 28th 1998 by Knopf Canada (first published 1998)
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devon
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Laura
John Irving has yet again created a whole world between the covers of a novel. Characters grow old with the reader, experience lust and loss, love and life. The thoughtfulness of his every detail and the concise placement of every word create a landscape more vivid than reality
One of the interesting topics of conversation in A Widow for One Year involves the main character’s attitude towards autobiographical fiction. Irving’s protagonist, world-famous author Ruth Cole, gives one hope that the po...more
E
The first half is Irving at his best. All those hooks on the wall. All that broken glass and all those windblown sketches. All that honesty amid all that posturing. All that clunky sex amid endless guilt.

The second half embodies the detachment, the absurdity, the too-many-ideas-at-once that the main characters have grown to embrace. Perhaps they are defense mechanisms. Perhaps they are the inevitable scars of emotional abuse. Marion is so matter-of-fact about her fate, so resigned to a life that...more
Erick
The first couple hundred pages of the book, before it jumps forward several decades, are the most even, and it is this part of the story that is most endearing. This first part introduces us to the story's three or four main characters and chronicles their shared summer of 1958--a summer which, you guessed it, has profound effects on the rest of all their lives.

And it is much of the rest of these lives that Irving takes us through in the remaining four hundred pages, and due to the front-heavy n...more
Kellie
When I think about a book written by John Irving, the picture that comes to mind is a vine; a vine that weaves within itself and spreads thick in it’s own mass. This is the 3rd Irving book I have read. Irving uses some of the same themes in his many novels. Boarding schools, younger men with older women are some that immediately come to mind. This particular book is about a family that lives in The Hamptons. The father, Ted is an author of children’s books. The wife, Marion, is also an author bu...more
Eli
The first thing that struck me about this book was the heart-stopping beauty of Marion, a central character near the beginning of the book. It's tough to get images that concrete in written words, but Irving handles it without strain. Its not just a physical description, its the way that the rest of the image is a bit darker, a bit fuzzier when Marion is in the picture, like Irving is using the depth of field in a photograph to highlight the subject, like her physical brilliance is so overwhelmi...more
Carol
My 4-star "read" review is really a misnomer because I haven't really "read" this book. This is my third try at it and once again I am stopping at the same spot I stopped the other two times! I reread the first third of the book, which I enjoyed, got into the second third of the book, read about 50 pages and come to a grinding halt.

I'm really not sure what it is that is stopping me at this point but since it is the third time, I'm not sure I will try again. I returned it to the library and am a...more
Kate
Jul 13, 2007 Kate rated it 1 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: no one
I hated this book. John Iriving's inability to write women characters was a huge problem in this book since it has a female protagonist. I didn't care about her at all and I wasn't that intrigued by the story either. I generally like John Irving's writing style, but it didn't make any difference to me with this book because I didn't like one single character.
Mitch
This is one of those 537-page books that, after you've read about 100 pages, you realize you've pretty much seen what the author's handing out and you don't care for it. This is a drag because there is so much more of it to go and only some misguided impulse to finish what you've started goads you stubbornly onward.

What's not to like? Well, here's some:

At times Irving writes with the grace of a ballet dancer and at others he lumbers along like a blindfolded football player looking for an exit....more
Caitlin
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Jeana
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Suzanne
One of the great books Irving has ever written, this novel is basically two stories in one. A fairly accurate and well-done film version of the first part came out a few years ago entitled "A Door in the Floor". It was well cast with Jeff Bridges and Kim Basinger and filmed on location on Long Island.
This is the story of a young girl born to two people whose lives were destroyed when their two young sons were killed while driving their parents home after a night of too much drink. The child is...more
Tory
I saw a trailer for the film based on this book, and decided I should read it again before seeing it. I love LOVE John Irving. I love what his mind comes up with. There are very few books that I am willing to re-read, but John Irving’s books are some of the few.

I was looking at the reviews on Amazon and a lot of people were getting down on the book. Because it “wasn’t realistic” - “just didn’t ring true” Fiction, people. Do we understand the concept? It’s NOT true. It’s a story, that someone wro...more
Stephanie "Jedigal"
Aug 03, 2008 Stephanie "Jedigal" rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Stephanie "Jedigal" by: Karyn
Wow. My 5th Irving, and what a good book. As usual, the author depicts scenarios that seem SO UNLIKELY! and yet they are believable and compelling.

A major theme of this novel is grief, grief for those we've lost to death, grief for our bad past choices, grief for loss of connection with the living, grief over abandonment. Connected to this, however, is the theme of love. Love of children for their parents, love of parents for children, love for our fellow man whom we may not know very well, the...more
Rachel
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Ian Wilson
I read this directly following The World According to Garp...not a good idea. The parallels are abundant, and for the first half or so of the book I wondered about Irving's fixation on writing about writers. Like song writers writing about writing songs, it's an interesting possible introspection on the writer's part, sharing their process, doubts, etc with their audience. It really can be charming, the first time around. When I get into the second and feel as though I'm reading a parallel novel...more
Oceana9
Nov 16, 2007 Oceana9 rated it 2 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: horny bored housewives
OK here's my final word on John Irving, because I will probably never read anything else he's written (though I've heard The World According to Garp is his best.) His characters are real and they were JUST ENOUGH to keep me going each of the twenty times I nearly stopped reading this novel. The plot is a rambling patchwork in which we never, ever, forget the writer sitting at his typewriter, searching for something to say. When he finds it, he riffs on it till it dies, and then searches for some...more
Allison
Way more quirky and twisting plot than I expected, but thoroughly enjoyable story.
Annika
This is typical John Irving good storytelling. The bookjacket promises "a multilayered love story of astonishing emotional force." I'll give it that. But the love story is not the most interesting part. I like book sex as much as the next reader. But in addition to detailed and engaging personality descriptions Irving is also really articulate about bodily descriptions and refers to the main character's "great breasts" a few too many times for my liking. The more interesting story is the writer'...more
Airin
This is the only Irving novel I've read so far, but I plan to read more in the future. I read "A widow for one year" about a year ago, and I picked it unknowingly in the bookshop without knowing anything about the author, his style or the story. To be honest, I picked it up just because:

a) It was long and it was summer
b) It began with the sentence "One night when she was four and sleeping in the bottom bunk of her bunk bed, Ruth Cole woke to the sound of lovemaking -it was coming from her parent...more
David Brown
I had never read a John Irving novel until the one who is always right, Mrs B, handed me a copy of The World According To Garp. Mrs B once told me my style of writing reminded her of Irving so I was understandably intrigued to try one of his books. I found Garp a stunning read with its mixture of comedy and tragedy shared by a group of memorable characters. In facing A Widow For One Year my hope was that the magic of Garp would remain.

The novel is divided into three parts covering the years 1958...more
Laurent
Wow, what a strange book

Having read 'Garp' I was pretty keen to give another Irving book a go. Well, I kind of wished I hadn't. As a vaguely intelligent human being who has seen the world revolve, I have several gripes with this book.

Firstly, it is my firm belief that Eddie O'Hare must be one of the biggest fools in literary history, if he cannot get over Ruth Cole. Come on, are you serious? He keeps loving her until they're old and decrepit despite not seeing her for all those years. That my fr...more
Bridgette Redman
I’d forgotten what an intoxicating writer John Irving is. His compelling prose has a clarity and starkness that manages to entertain your brain and soul while permanently incorporating his characters and stories into your memory and being.

Irving is not one of those writers who kicks out a new novel every year. His novels are too carefully crafted, too (dare I say it?) literary to be anything less than an evolutionary process. After reading A Widow for One Year, I suspect his books are touchstone...more
Eliza
I love John Irving and have been reading him faithfully for many years. This book had some interesting themes around motherhood, grieving, and the art of writing fiction. But it was dull. If it weren't for the fact that I have a long history with John Irving's work, I might have put it down. I stuck with the novel because I assumed a writer of Irving's talent would have a strong payoff for my effort. Unfortunately, the ending was predictable and uninteresting. To be fair, the first section of th...more
Karen
I started to give this four stars but, the more I thought about it, well, here's five stars.

A fifth star (from me) means there has to be something timeless about the story, passages that express moments of what I think of as universal connection and deep understanding. My heart either seems to slow down or speed up and I sometimes close my eyes and feeling a welling up of emotion inside. I suppose if I were willing to spend the time on this review I could express myself better, but here I sit i...more
Nirmala
“A widow for one year”...a different book...grief is described so ..errr...differently...then it is hilarious too...explicit at places, bit repulsive though..but if u ask me if I liked it- I dont know...i’m curious, intrigued, and the narration style is gripping...the chronology is random, references are made to future incidents...there is no attempt to hold back ...no suspense...there are psychological insights...and yet I ‘m not sure if it will have a lingering effect in me as a good book.......more
Kelly A.
A Widow for One Year is a story about Ruth Cole, told in three parts. For the first part of the book, she’s only four years old. In the second, she’s in her 30's, a successful writer. In the last part of the book, she is 41, widowed, and the mother of a one year old.

The story is both tragic and farcical. When it opens, her two older brothers have both perished in a car accident. (Something Ruth doesn’t have the capacity to understand, and her mother doesn’t have the capacity deal with .) Ruth’s...more
Kristin
John Irving has this way of making me feel really disturbed and uncomfortable. I had a hard time rating this book because there's no denying that he's a fantastic writer. I've never seen an author who can write in the third-person omniscient point-of-view as well as he can, as well as frequently jump back and forth in time without confusing the reader. However, this story could have been told without the really graphic scenes and all the gratuitous sex, and it still would have been great.
The Col...more
Katherine Porter
I vacillate between loving and loathing John Irving. Mostly I come down in favor of loving, but it is a love-hate relationship I have with his books. This book did ultimately draw me, woo me and win me over, despite the flawed characters, the (very male) graphic, sometimes violent, sometimes pathetic sex scenes, the violence and the pain inflicted by the various characters on each other. In some sense, the book's discourse on literature (most of the main characters are writers of some kind) may...more
Cams
I just finished reading this for the second time and thoroughly enjoyed it. I was given it by a friend back in 1999 as I departed for Sochi, Russia. I read it whilst I was there and, if I remember correctly, it was my first John Irving novel. (I've since read The World According to Garp and The Fourth Hand).

The story is about a writer, who gets a job with a writer as a writer's assistant and falls in love with the writer's wife (who, later, becomes a writer). The husband and wife have a four-ye...more
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John Irving published his first novel, Setting Free the Bears, in 1968. The World According to Garp, which won the National Book Award in 1980, was John Irving’s fourth novel and his first international bestseller; it also became a George Roy Hill film. Tony Richardson wrote and directed the adaptation for the screen of The Hotel New Hampshire (1984). Irving’s novels are now translated into thirty...more
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