The Undertaking: Life Studies from the Dismal Trade

The Undertaking: Life Studies from the Dismal Trade

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Thomas Lynch serves his readership as a poet and memoirist, and his townspeople as a funeral director. In this wholly unique collection of essays, the two vocations meet as Lynch shows himself to be a competent functionary of mourning -- dispensing comfort and homespun wisdom to the grief-stricken -- as well as a poet poignantly tuning language to the right tones of privat...more
Paperback, 224 pages
Published September 1st 1998 by Penguin Books (first published July 1st 1997)
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Mere
Feb 21, 2008 Mere rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: everyone
Recommended to Mere by: PBS/Frontline
Wow...I mean wow. A poet & an undertaker - a sensible combination, Thomas Lynch writes with such grace and clarity I often found myself rereading passages or laughing out loud. I didn't always agree with the Lynch's religious or political views, nor the way in which he expressed them, but accept my lens is a little thicker. It never ceases to amaze me how our culture deals - or doesn't - with death...a subject that has, does or will affect and effect us all. wow.

OOO - also, if you are/were...more
Jenny
Oct 11, 2007 Jenny rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: anyone
Although The Undertaking includes a plethora of examples of the experiences Lynch has seen throughout his years as an undertaker, the book is really more a book about life than it is about death. Woven in essays throughout the book, Lynch engages in reflective consideration about death and expresses his wisdom and humor with a poetic meticulousness.

I found the book to be beautiful and mesmerizing, drawing me slowly into the issue of how death affects life. This book is probably one of the best...more
Becky Everhart
Perhaps my fascination with this book says a little something of my darker side, but when it's a book this good, I don't mind letting the skeleton out of the closet for a nice jaunt. The essays are eloquent as only the words of a poet can be (yes, he is a poet as well as an undertaker!) with a sprinkling of profanity and such to keep Lynch human. The points of his poignant essays hit home with their well-made arguments and other sides of the story. I can only wish when my time comes I have someo...more
Loren
Thomas Lynch is an undertaker and a poet. Unsurprisingly, one occupation interests me more than the other. When he tells the tales of things he has seen -- the late night “removals” he's performed, the children he buried while his own kids grew up, the bedrooms he painted so the surviving spouse wouldn’t sleep beneath the shotgun’s evidence -- those stories are riveting.

Some of what he has to say comes perilously close to testifying: he has seen our futures and it’s later than we think. One essa...more
Linda
While searching for another book I came across this title and immediately remembered it with reverence. So, I checked it out at the library and re-visited the pages. What a book! Every word is a jewel; every page is a treasure. Well, maybe not the part about golf, which I hate, but oh well. Thomas Lynch is an undertaker. He is also a poet so he chooses his words with care. I love/loved his take on death and his careful detailing of the rituals of death combined with his deeply religious, or for...more
Visha Burkart
Somehow, lately, I keep coming across undertakers and funeral homes (in literature, thank goodness).

Lynch's collection of essays is beautifully written; the pace of his writing flows with the rhythm of a grandfather clock's pendulum - even, slow, comforting, reliable. I loved his tone even more than his poetically magnificent sentences - he's dry, not without gallow's humor, and lacking the kind of judgement and religious fervor I expected. He braids his subjects with ease, and manages to appea...more
Fred
I had hoped for much more from this book. It received good notices and won the American Book Award. But there were a few aspects of the book and the writing that put me off, and I quit at the halfway point.

First, I would very much like publishers to stop putting out essay collections that appear to be continuous narratives. Such a form can be done well (Atul Gawande's BETTER achieved a continuity with a consistent theme and editing that reinforced it, despite the fact that it was clearly a colle...more
Padraic
May 02, 2008 Padraic rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Those of us on the downward slope
Recommended to Padraic by: Dante
Shelves: irish-diaspora
My senior year high school American lit teacher was an undertaker by trade. So this book makes great sense to me. Coming from a culture that rarely distinguishes between the dead and the living, I find Lynch's essays bleak, hilarious, and sublimely spiritual. Which is exactly why some of you will hate him.

As Olympia Dukakis says to Vince Gardenia in Moonstruck, "I just want you to know no matter what you do, Cosmo, you're gonna die, just like everybody else."
Darlene
The Undertaking:Life Studies from the Dismal Trade is a collection of essays by Thomas Lynch. I was aware before starting the book that Mr. Lynch, along with his brother and father before him, is a funeral director but I also discovered that Mr. Lynch is also a published poet. This turned out to be an interesting combination! These beautiful essays were WERE written in that unmistakeable lyrical voice of a poet.

There is no real theme in this collection of essays... they are simply Mr. Lynch's m...more
Sarah Payok
The Undertaking: Life Studies from the Dismal Trade is a memoir from Milford, MI mortician/poet Thomas Lynch. Lynch positions key moments in all of our lives (such as birth, death, illness, and suicide) against his own life experiences, and mixes in snippets of death and burial facts, along with stories from his own experiences as an undertaker. His professional stories were my favorite moments of the book; I loved the real life stories, such as the woman who had the ashes of her cremated husban...more
Jeffrey Moll
The novel is an almost technical way to look at death in light of elements of dark comedy. There are moments where Thomas Lynch depicts the process of preparing the body for a funeral as a mix of duty and modern mentality. He states that the world changed when the toilet was brought into the household, waste simply disappeared at the pull of the handle. This mood is carried throughout when he compares the decomposition of the body with the need to quickly make a proper funeral and final memories...more
Gail
Thomas Lynch is one of those writers I've heard about for ten years but had never read. Famous to all ( all who read) as the poet/funeraldirector.

This is a collection of his essays, some previously published in Harpers and the London Review of Books. I don't know if one can "tell" someone is a poet by his or her prose, but Lynch is certainly an admirable stylist. He squeezes out all the extras and leaves the reader with the essense, pungent, earthy, rich.

I Lke to read about death as much as the...more
Sarah
I live not far from Mr. Lynch's home town of Milford. This was a very hot book here in Michigan a dozen years ago, and I finally got around to reading it. Perhaps I"d heard too much build up, because I did not find it that wonderful.

Some of the tales of his experieince as funeral director were interesting - to a point - but even that seemed to feel repetitive as the book carried on - how man times did he use the phrase "The dead don't care, they're dead." or similar words? Too many for me.

It see...more
Jennifer
I really enjoyed this 'dismal' book. The author, poet/undertaker weaves lyrically but sometimes very pragmatically in, out and around the big subjects of Life and Death and lives and deaths.

I sometimes felt he was a little too defensive about his trade - he doesn't (I don't recall) quite describe Jessica Mitford (of "The American Way of Death") as 'that nasty woman' but you do get the impression that's what he thinks. I don't feel he adequately addresses why she might have been wrong. He does al...more
Barbara Coe
Leave it to a poet to turn the topic of death upside down. This is not a book about dying. This is a book about living. Underneath all the details of his business, Lynch returns to the heart of the collection: The dead don't care. He tells us over and over again in lean yet layered prose.
The big take away for me was that he allows us inside these stories to view the impact we have on each other.
When I finished, I was reminded of David Foster Wallace's This is Water speech in which he says that...more
daysgoby
Feb 16, 2008 daysgoby rated it 3 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Schmutzie
Beautiful and lyrical, this book sucked me in from the second page and wouldn't let go. More about the impact of being the undertaker in a small town than the actual business, it was written by a poet/undertaker in a small town in Michigan who uses words like darts to exactly indicate his meaning.
Kristine


The best thing: I was able to read it in one night.
The next best thing: I'd never read a memoir by an undertaker before.
The worst thing: it was a memoir of an undertaker.
The next worst thing: the book was organized in what felt like essays, but the essays seemed disconnected from each other-- sometimes in tone and topic both.
A slightly positive thing: the topics touched upon by the author might spur various interesting reactions from different readers, creating an opportunity for group di...more
Joey
What is there to say about an undertaker who moonlights as a poet?

In this collection of essays, Lynch ponders many of the questions about death and life, his intimate perspective providing a sometimes jaded, most often though, reverential view on society's obsession and revulsion of all things deathly.

Lynch has a lyrical voice, a prophet's insights and manages to meld these in compelling essays that always seem to just skirt the overarch.

He reminds us there is humor in death, as there is in lif...more
Jan
Very interesting book. Some parts he was a little wordy. I wondered if he was completely off his subject, but then he would bring whatever he was talking about back around to the main subject. Gives a litte insight into the life of an undertaker.
Juan Valera
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Heyhansen
At times funny and difficult, this is a book written by someone you don't really get to talk to that often, the undertaker. Definitely some enjoyable or maybe better said interesting, stories but it left me wanting a bit. It reminds me of a friend of mine who grew up with the undertakers son, the stories have a similar ring.
I think what disappointed me is the author, who reminds you he is a poet regularly and describes poets as the ones who work with "sex and death" seems fairly unsettled and a...more
Lisa Pletz
Lynch is my new favorite author. I should say "poet," because that's what he does in his other job. His prose just drips with poetry. He writes the way that I wish I could. Don't miss his work.
Jeff
Dec 04, 2011 Jeff rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Jeff by: Hane Joehner
Shelves: 2011, non-fiction
Billed as a memoir by a Michigan poet-slash-mortician, this book reads more like a collection of essays on various topics relevant to the apparent fact that Thomas Lynch's life is dominated by poetry and mortality. I often enjoyed his look-at-me prose stylings but on several occasions his tone jarred with my feelings. Also, i occasionally suspected fabrication, which—after reading the caveats in the Acknowledgments—i presume might have been the direct result of Lynch's need to maintain the priva...more
Tabitha Blankenbiller
The style and organization of The Undertaking is unique and thoughtful. The book follows no chronological narrative structure, but you do feel led thoughtfully on a journey through the author’s musings. It starts and ends with mirroring essays. The first, The Undertaking, explains the circumstances that led to Lynch’s profession and lets us in on a few basics that will help us keep up with him on the journey. Primarily his assertion that “the dead don’t care” and the reminder that death is a 100...more
Nick
Richard Bernstein said that, "Mr. Lynch emerges as a cross between Garrison Keillor and one of the Irish poets." This seems like a good description to me, though my experience with both is fairly limited. Lynch puts his poetry skills to good use, turning phrases, intertextualizing, crafting and coining new verbs ("kevork...the verb form of kevorkian, which proceeds from the infinitive "to kevork" should observe the usage guides applied, in practice, to the other high-volume verb of our generatio...more
Stacy
You know, I knew I would love this book from the beginning. I wanted to give it 4.5 stars, but I would rather err on the high side because I think his writing and subject matter deserve this. He is a poet and I just love the way he says everything. He isn't overly wordy so you have to wade through the words, he just has a way of putting everything. This book is what I call essay style, where it seems the author took each chapter and subject at a time. It made me think of a topic I don't much, wh...more
Rachelle Urist
It's good. I wasn't sure what to expect, but I didn't think I'd be drawn in so quickly and thoroughly. Thomas Lynch is a philosopher, poet, mortician, observer of life, a family man, and a practical fellow. I loved his musings. Loved his way with words. Loved his embrace of the family business - undertaking. Loved his toying with the word "undertaker" and his capacity to find amusement in people's reactions to his profession. The book is inspiring. Made me think in new ways about many things, in...more
Liam
"The medical-technical parlance of death emphasizes disorder. We are forever dying of failures, of anomalies, of insufficiencies, of dysfunctions, arrests, accidents." (10)

"I sometimes think the only firms that put their names on what they do anymore are firms that make toilets and funeral directors." (34)

"The poor cousin of fear is anger." (54)

"Henry Nugent was hungry for love: that unencumbered approval by another of your species for your presence in their lives." (70)

"Where choice is enshrine...more
Tris
I'm a nurse who works with older folks who have a tendency to become hospice patients and die (NOT my fault, I swear). I find myself thinking about these essays all the time. Thomas Lynch writes beautifully--dry and clear, betraying his inherent kindness all over the place. He has a perspective on the whole death and dying thing that I find very comforting, and manages to be funny without ever being disrespectful. I frequently disagreed with his opinions, but was able to appreciate them, none th...more
Wyatt
I'm definitely not a "pro-lifer" in the politcally-hijacked sense of the term, but I did really like Lynch's outlook on being pro-life in a more real sense: "For if we live in a world where the value of life is relative, and death is welcomed and well regarded, we live in a world vastly more shameful, abundantly sadder, and ever more perilous than all the primitive generation of our species who were sufficiently civilized to fill with wonder at the birth of new life, dance with the living, and w...more
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Thomas Lynch's stories, poems, and essays have appeared in Granta, The Atlantic, Harper’s, the Times (of London, New York, Ireland, and Los Angeles), and elsewhere. The Undertaking was a finalist for the National Book Award; he is also the author of Still Life in Milford, Booking Passage, Apparition & Late Fictions and Walking Papers. Lynch lives in Milford, Michigan, and West Clare, Ireland.
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Bodies in Motion and at Rest: On Metaphor and Mortality Apparition & Late Fictions: A Novella and Stories Booking Passage: We Irish and Americans Still Life in Milford: Poems The Sin-eater: A Breviary

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