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  <title><![CDATA[The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate]]></title>
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  <default-description> Unhappiness in marriage often has a simple root cause: we speak different love languages, believes Dr. Gary Chapman. While working as a marriage counselor for more than 30 years, he identified five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. In a friendly, often humorous style, he unpacks each one. Some husbands or wives may crave focused attention; another needs regular praise. Gifts are highly important to one spouse, while another sees fixing a leaky faucet, ironing a shirt, or cooking a meal as filling their &quot;love tank.&quot; Some partners might find physical touch makes them feel valued: holding hands, giving back rubs, and sexual contact. Chapman illustrates each love language with real-life examples from his counseling practice.  &lt;p&gt; How do you discover your spouse's - and your own - love language? Chapman's short questionnaires are one of several ways to find out. Throughout the book, he also includes application questions that can be answered more extensively in the beautifully detailed companion leather journal (an exclusive Amazon.com set). Each section of the journal corresponds with a chapter from the book, offering opportunities for deeper reflection on your marriage. &lt;p&gt; Although some readers may find choosing to love a spouse that they no longer even like -hoping the feelings of affection will follow later- a difficult concept to swallow, Chapman promises that the results will be worth the effort.  &quot;Love is a choice,&quot; says Chapman. &quot;And either partner can start the process today.&quot; --&lt;i&gt;Cindy Crosby&lt;/i&gt;. This text refers to the Amazon.com Exclusive Journal &amp; Paperback Book Set.</default-description>
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  <read_at>Mon Oct 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[this book is a tool through which the author, gary chapman, can play out his jesus-complex disguised as a relationship self-help book. there are references from the bible throughout almost every chapter and gary likes to include generous praise from his clients who call him a &quot;miracle worker.&quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/8414419">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <date_added>Sat Jun 23 21:12:45 -0700 2007</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[Basically doing the dishes doesn't do it for everyone: Personally I want you to tell me how great I am (words of affirmation) while walking in the house with a collection of poetry for me (receiving gifts), make a beeline for the trash that needs to be taken out (acts of service), then come back in ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/2316001">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[My mother in law gave me this book and I hesitated reading it because it sounds so cheesy (and just take a look at the cover--how dorky!)  But I was stuck on vacation with nothing else to read so I reluctantly gave it a try.  In a nutshell, this book has changed my life. Page after page I found myse...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/16245996">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[My dad actually recommended this book to me and I finally decided to check it out from the library.  Although I think my husband and I have a good relationship - it was amazing how much I learned from this book!  And how I realized that by understand how we communicate differently - it could strengt...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/9702274">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Jan 25 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Everyone has &quot;the&quot; relationship book. This book will NOT automatically solve all relationship problems. People have to want to work on things; have to want to communicate needs and expectations. Having said that, I have not seen a better way to tie in to your significant other's point of v...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42927753">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[You can read any one of the Five Love Languages and get the just of the books.  It teaches you how to identify your love language and those around you.  What the author states is that everyone has a major love language (love cup to be filled) as well as a minor love language.  You really begin to un...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/44102936">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="18010279">
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  <read_at>Mon Oct 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I had heard a lot about this book &amp; decided to give it a go.  It made A LOT of sense!  It is all about improving your relationship with your spouse by showing your love to them in a way that resonates with them - which may be totally different than what would be meaningful to you.  It was a very fas...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/18010279">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="13975303">
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  <read_at>Mon Feb 11 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[A coworker lent this to me (my coworkers are pretty aware I need all the relationship help I can get).  I'd actually heard about the theories behind this one a couple years ago from a woman I was dating, though at the time it was more of a lecture. . .I digress. . .<br/><br/>Anyway, this was anoth...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/13975303">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is an entertaining, well-written book from the perspective of a therapist who shares interesting stories about his patients and thier love problems and solutions.<br/><br/>This book has potential to help people better understand those they love and to show love to them in ways they can feel/u...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/13316538">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was a gift from friends who as grandparents, have taken on the primary role of raising 2 grandsons. It is important because it points out that the way others perceive being loved may be different than the way we are trying to express our love for them ... and this creates a communication b...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/18025600">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2003</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Thu Feb 28 11:32:19 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[We were given this book as a wedding gift but I didn't get around to reading it for almost 9 years. And when I finished it, I wished I hadn't waited so long. <br/>This is another book that can help you identify more effective ways of relating to loved ones. It gives suggestions for using it's tips ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/16618330">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="42387585">
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    <body><![CDATA[I really love this book!  I had to read it as part of a Marriage and Relationships class that I took in college, am I'm so glad! I think it does such great job explaining the different &quot;love languages&quot; that we all communicate with.  It helped me view my own relationships in a new way.  Tru...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42387585">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="39084445">
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    <body><![CDATA[Interesting concept, but I don't like how he writes. Very simple and repetitive. But I feel like I did learn something. I liked what I learned, but I wish I didn't have to read this book to have learned it.<br/>Whats my love language, you all ask? I don't know. So maybe I didn't learn that much. :)]]></body>
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    <review id="48945857">
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    <body><![CDATA[I don't do self help books most especially ones that involve the word 'love'. Had it not been for a book group discussion assignment I guarantee I never would have picked up this book.<br/><br/>I'm so glad I did! It's really fun to read. The concept is very simple and makes loads of sense. The wri...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/48945857">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a practical book for improving one’s marriage. It points out that different things are more meaningful than others when it comes to expressing love. Loving acts can fall into the following five basic categories: words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, gifts, physical touch. On...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/48853328">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I was tempted to not give this book a high rating because I do not like self-help books and especially marriage advice type things. So many people recommended this book to me that I wanted to read it just so I could have an opinion on it and I have to say that I think it is pretty useful. It is defi...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/46764074">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I would never have read this book on my own but was urged to read it after a debate with a friend of my roommate.  It's written by a marriage counselor and directed towards couples, but it can be applied to all relationships, both romantic and platonic.  The author's theory is that there are five ma...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/46278055">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Feb 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I found this book incredibly fascinating.  I first came across this book in college when some friends of mine who were engaged recommended it very excitedly.  I spot read various parts and did not quite share their excitement.  Now years I was led to the book again through a different set of circums...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/43353614">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Dec 28 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[In THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES, Gary Chapman explores what he believes is the cause of all marital dysfunction and breakdown: the different languages in which love can be expressed. According to Chapman, we each respond to one of the five “love languages”–affirmation, time, gifts, service, and tou...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/41067950">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Nov 29 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[eh. See, here's the thing... it's an ok book on bringing ideas about how to pamper your spouse to light but I can't say that it was Biblically sound or inspired. I would have liked to read more about the sanctity of marriage and where it comes in to play with my relationship with God. I also think t...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/39821052">more...</a>]]></body>
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