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  <title><![CDATA[Bad Mother: A Chronicle of Maternal Crimes, Minor Calamities, and Occasional Moments of Grace]]></title>
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  <default-description>In the tradition of recent hits like &lt;i&gt;The Bitch in the House&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;Perfect Madness &lt;/i&gt;comes a hilarious and controversial book that every woman will have an opinion about, written by America&#8217;s most outrageous writer. &lt;br&gt;In our mothers&#8217; day there were good mothers, neglectful mothers, and occasionally great mothers.&lt;br&gt;&#160;&lt;br&gt;Today we have only Bad Mothers.&lt;br&gt;&#160;&lt;br&gt;If you work, you&#8217;re neglectful;&#160;if you stay home, you&#8217;re smothering. If you discipline, you&#8217;re buying them a spot on the shrink&#8217;s couch; if you let them run wild, they will be into drugs by seventh grade. If you buy organic, you&#8217;re spending their college fund; if you don&#8217;t, you&#8217;re risking all sorts of allergies and illnesses.&lt;br&gt;&#160;&lt;br&gt;Is it any wonder so many women refer to themselves at one time or another as &#8220;a bad mother&#8221;? Ayelet Waldman says it&#8217;s time for women to get over it and get on with it, in a book that is sure to spark the same level of controversy as her now legendary &#8220;Modern Love&#8221; piece, in which she confessed to loving her husband more than her children.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Covering topics as diverse as the hysteria of competitive parenting (Whose toddler can recite the planets in order from the sun?), the relentless pursuits of the Bad Mother police, balancing the work-family dynamic, and the bane of every mother&#8217;s existence (homework, that is), &lt;i&gt;Bad Mother&lt;/i&gt; illuminates the anxieties that riddle motherhood today, while providing women with the encouragement they need to give themselves a break.</default-description>
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    <body><![CDATA[I seriously doubt that any woman who gives birth to a baby goes into it aspiring to be a bad mother. But within days, hours, and honestly probably before the baby is even born, we all have moments where we're sure we're not going to be as good at this motherhood thing as we want to be. One of my fir...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/76212489">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Oct 11 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[From the book jacket: Today we have only Bad Mothers. If you work, you're neglectful; if you stay home, you're smothering. If you discipline, you're buying them a spot on the shrink's couch; if you let them run wild, they will be into drugs by seventh grade. If you buy organic, you're spending their...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/74244155">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Aug 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This gritty, sometimes heart-wrenching memoir struck a chord. Waldman's vignettes illustrate an aspect of misogyny that is pervasive, specifically among women. Could it be that the self-deprecation so many mothers take part in cannot be contained and thus ends up spilling out onto other mothers? May...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/65930968">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Jul 20 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Wow.  Well, once again, a book where the author shares personal experiences and feelings to a degree that I find at once brave and shocking.  I do not agree with some (most?) of her parenting style/approach, or even the over-sharing that I admittedly took advantage of by reading this book.  However,...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/64510048">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri May 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Very worth reading--provocative. It features, at its best, original perspectives on issues you've thought about a million times--but never quite thought about in the way Ayelet does. <br/><br/>Two things annoyed me: The if-only-men-did-more-household-chores-they'd-get-more-sex argument (yawn!). An...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/64283395">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I really liked this book of autobiographical essays.  It’s about womanhood as much as parenting, and of a sort that rang very true to me.  She is funny and wry throughout, when possible; and serious in a non preachy way when called for.  The chapter &quot;Sexy Witches and Cereal Boxes&quot; is typ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/58982903">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri May 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[According to an informal Gawker poll, Ayelet Waldman and Michael Chabon have received the second-most votes for literary power couple that make Gawker readers wish they had never learned to read. As of today, they are quite a few percentage points behind Jonathan Safran Foer and Nicole Krauss, but t...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/57581505">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue May 05 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I wanted to hate this book -- hate it in a delicious, thrilling, heart-pounding way (the only cardio I get anymore is emotional).  I wanted to read it and walk around rebutting all her arguments in my head for days. I wanted to have long, loud, dismissive conversations with friends about how wrong s...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/57190691">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I don't have any of my own children - but I have &quot;aquired&quot; two little boys when I married my husband. Having never been around children I was in for a rude awakening when I discovered that mothering was not at ALL what it appeared to be. <br/><br/>&quot;Bad Mother&quot; is not a book I w...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/54644760">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[A library pickup after Lori's CampCreek site discussed the new &quot;bad mom&quot; trend, where women decide to embrace the title because meeting the standards for the mythical &quot;good mom&quot; are so unreachable today.<br/><br/>After listening to Michael Lewis promoting his new book Home Game...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/61896973">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed Nov 04 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I didn't know much about the author before reading this. My son actually picked this book for me off the new releases shelf at the library. I laughed when he handed it to me but decided it was worth checking out. Really glad I did. While I can't give it 5 stars - the author's voice did grate on me a...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/76509430">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[An amusing, honest, occasionally touching, and ultimately hopeful account of raising children.  Waldman reflects on her own experiences growing up and in adulthood while covering territory ranging from her early stay-at-home mother days to becoming the woman who rarely shows up to school events, fro...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/75594616">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I heard Ayelet Waldman <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=103794433">yakking with Terri Gross</a> about this book in the spring and had to have it.  I loved so much about this book--the Berkeley references, her recollection of the wry comments of her (and my!) gynecologist, the sex-positivity, the rejection of super-mommy stereotypes, the soul-sear...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/72451214">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I had heard of Ayelet Waldman but had never read her work until this book. Ironically, I've read her husband's (Michael Chabon, Pulitzer-prize winning author). <br/><br/>In this book of essays, she is honest and personal, often at her expense. She doesn't shy away from controversy. She hints at es...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/61122575">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri May 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I have mixed feelings about this book. Intelligently written and brutally honest, I delved into the book, reading with gusto as the author attacked the ridiculous and impossible ideal of motherhood that we modern, western mothers inflict upon ourselves and each other. I almost felt like I was being ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56207827">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Apr 07 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is the first time I have ever read a book by Ayelet Waldman.  I was inspired by Ayelet's honesty and the huge helping of self that she squeezes into every sentence.  The love that she has for her children is so raw, so honest that at times you almost feel that you are invading their privacy but...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/52061671">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Sep 05 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I liked this book, a series of 18 chapters, each depicting an aspect of motherhood.  Waldman's publicized comment that she loved her husband more than her children spurned the book.  Some of the stories were truly heart-breaking, like the one about Rocketship.  Although I did not always agree with o...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/68505590">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Jul 21 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Okay, here it is: I don't think Waldman sounds like a bad mother. And my main fault with the book is that she seems like a normal, decent person. Yes, let's face it; I read the book to feel superior and better about my own mothering. But Waldman actually spends a great deal of time trying to show us...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/63209274">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[About two or three essays into Ayelet Waldman's book, I started to wonder if I might have been one of those offending mothers who have actually criticized her in print. I did write a letter to <a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://Salon.com">Salon.com</a> a number of years ago when she was writing for them in response to a column by yet another whiney...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56514533">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Jul 14 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Bad Mother was the wild ride that I anticipated from the reviews I read ahead of time.  Reading Ayelet Waldman's writing is a bit like dragging your finger across the blade of the knife to see how sharp it is. Her insight is dead on and I loved that the fact that she lives an authentic life.  She ma...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/61706535">more...</a>]]></body>
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