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    <body><![CDATA[reality therapy....for teens...good examples to frame it for applicablity]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Very intriguing, I learned a lot from this book!]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Rec'd by Eva]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Well this one was mostly for work and I learned that I already tell parents of teenagers the right way to do things so it only gets a 3. Could be good training for the book I am getting ready to write...]]></body>
    
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