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My Abandonment

3.54  ·  Rating Details ·  3,198 Ratings  ·  648 Reviews
A thirteen-year-old girl and her father live in Forest Park, the enormous nature preserve in Portland, Oregon. There they inhabit an elaborate cave shelter, bathe in a nearby creek, store perishables at the water’s edge, use a makeshift septic system, tend a garden, even keep a library of sorts. Once a week, they go to the city to buy groceries and otherwise merge with the ...more
Hardcover, 240 pages
Published March 12th 2009 by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt (first published March 1st 2009)
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Jonathan Ashleigh
I like this book in a similar way to how I enjoyed Room, they are both innocent perspectives. Coincidentally, I didn’t realize My Abandonment was based on actual events or that it was meant to be YA (it was recommended to me by a goodreads page that is definitely adult). I figured out it was actual events pretty fast because it states that some things actually did happen at the beginning of the book. The story is of a man and his daughter who were discovered living in a park and as I read I coul ...more
Mar 29, 2009 Nicoal rated it really liked it
Shelves: fiction, 2009
As a Portland resident, it was fun to hear descriptions of the city and Forest Park. I enjoyed the writing style from 13-year-old Caroline's perspective.

After reading some news stories about the true story behind this novel, it's even more intriguing to me!
Apr 16, 2009 Carol rated it liked it
I have mixed feelings about this book. It was a fast, thought-provoking read; but it left me with many unanswered questions, particulary since it was based on a true case. The beginning of the book seemed to include many facts that had been published in news articles, but the ending was Peter Rock's fictional version. I found some of this not to fit the characters. The reference to Elizabeth Smart in the Acknowledgments was disturbing to me.
Dec 26, 2009 Robin rated it really liked it
Even though I have alredy sent this, I am updating for my Best of 2009 list, and this review goes along with Jennie Shortridge's WHEN SHE FLEW:

Both of these are based on the true story of the father and pre-teen daughter who lived off the grid in Portland’s Forest Park for four years but each author treats the story a little differently. Rock’s story is told in an almost surreal and disassociated manner and Shortridge delivers more of an emotional punch. Both are interesting and would be great f
Jul 26, 2012 Geralynn rated it did not like it
Let me start with the following: I am so freaking confused by this book.

When I read the back of the book, I knew it was about a father and his 13 year old kid and they're trucking around all of Portland and living in the woods and all that. That much is true. And before I attempted to really get into the book I did some research on here and found that mostly it was well liked, and the ones that weren't well liked, well, didn't give enough reason for me to be completely turned off.

My issues aren'
Mar 12, 2009 Betsy rated it it was amazing
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A compelling and thought-provoking book. I live in Portland so I was familiar with the setting in Forest Park & the city. I was also familiar with the true story behind this novel. A father & daughter spent four years living in Forest Park in a shelter the father built. He home-schooled the daughter using his own knowledge & a set of encyclopedias. The father was a veteran & had a small military pension, so they were able to go into the city & buy groceries, clothing as ...more
May 08, 2013 Sesana rated it liked it
Shelves: young-adult
I had forgotten that My Abandonment was largely based on a true story. (The author's website has .pdf copies of the articles he was drawing from.) Somebody from Oregon, and maybe the Pacific Northwest in general, might remember when this was in the news, but I wasn't familiar with it. The second half of the book is Rock's imagined version of what might have happened to Frank and Ruthie (in this book, the girl is called Caroline, and her father goes by several names) after they vanished.

Jan 05, 2014 Andrea rated it it was amazing
Shelves: fiction
4.5 stars
Lots to love in this novel, starting with the cover. That ghost-like white horse is Randy, 13-year-old Caroline’s little plastic companion and familiar daily presence. If she were a suburban kid living a mainstream life, she would have probably had a cell phone to fondle by now, but she lives in a hidden camp in the woods with her father and Randy accompanies her as she tells the story of her marginal existence.

Written entirely from Caroline’s perspective, the sentence structure is at
Feb 27, 2012 Ian rated it liked it
This was an interesting and absorbing book and made for a quick read. I was somewhat familiar with one of the real life stories this book is based on, that of the girl and her father living in Forest Park. After reading My Abandonment, I was left with more questions than answers -- there is no obvious line of distinction between reality and fiction here, and in some ways this seems a shame as the real life story is what brought me to this book. I got the impression reading this that it started ...more
Jul 24, 2013 Leah rated it it was amazing
Once in a while, I'll read something so compelling, so fascinating, that I find myself consumed by the characters, wanting to know more than what is revealed by the author. I notice that I'm actively reading, rather than passively letting the words slip in and out of my consciousness. My eyebrows are raised, I'm leaning in as if to hear a little better, and even once in a while whispering out loud, as if the characters could hear my sympathetic murmers as they struggle against whatever obstacles ...more
Mar 30, 2011 Tara rated it it was amazing
When I read the blurb for this book, I couldn't wait to read it. Totally my kind of story, mixing human relationships against the backdrop of nature. And it didn't disappoint; in fact, it exceeded expectations. I didn't expect it to be so well written. Why? I admit I'd never heard of writer Peter Rock before. But based on this book, I hope he has some awards waiting for him down the road. He's another one of those writers who flies under the radar because they don't get the big promo deals. But ...more
Jan 07, 2011 Judith rated it it was amazing
Based on a true story, this book tells the tale of a young girl and her father who live in the woods on the fringes of society outside of Portland, Oregon. The girl is heartbreakingly sweet and naive and the father appears to have raised her with loving kindness. They want nothing more than to be left alone by the world, but you know that's not going to happen. You may think you know where this story is going, but you have no idea. It combines the best aspects of crime story with psychological ...more
May 22, 2012 Heidi rated it liked it
Despite its rather unappealing title, the book offers an original and interesting insight into homelessness and mental illness, inspired (in part) by a true story. Narrated in the voice of 13-year old Caroline, the story follows the unconventional life of a man and his young daughter in a cave in Forest Park just outside Portland, Oregon. A Vietnam veteran still in the grips of PTSD, Caroline’s father is constantly on the run from authorities, which is partly due to his paranoia and to a secret ...more
Deborah Stack
Jul 25, 2013 Deborah Stack rated it liked it
I found this book to be intriguing- the story was fascinating, and upon discovering that it was based in truth, I found myself scrounging up every article I could find which detailed the story of the 'forest family.' The first half or so of the book pulled me in entirely, and I really enjoyed it. It was only after the author began to speculate about what might have happened to the family after their ultimate disappearance that I found myself struggling with the way he handled the story. I simply ...more
Oswego Public Library District
This is an adult book of psychological fiction for young adults. The story sheds light on the lifestyles of the homeless. A father kidnapped his daughter out of foster care; they have lived for four years now in the forest, close to civilization and camps of homeless people, yet out of sight. In spite of the rugged setting, Caroline gets a decent education from her father and this section of the story is enchanting and appealing. Once they are discovered, separated, and then reunited by state ...more
Jun 03, 2012 Lisa rated it liked it
I'm ultimately undecided about this book. I picked it up because I remembered the true story the first part of the book is drawn from, and because it was "recommended" at Powell's and I was looking for a few impulse buys. The story is engaging, though the writing is far from masterful. As the story moves beyond its basis in what is known about the family who lived in Forest Park, after their actual disappearance (not that the early part of the story seems like anything but ...more
Hope Baugh
May 12, 2009 Hope Baugh rated it it was amazing
Wow, what a book. I mean seriously, wow. I can not remember the last time a book so thoroughly grabbed and disturbed me that I literally could not get to sleep after finishing it. (And I _HAD_ to finish it, even if I had not had to finish it for my job!)

This suspenseful contemporary novel about a homeless teen and her father living and hiding in a nature preserve in Oregon was published for adults. I think the topic will interest many of the people that liked the YA novels LIVING DEAD GIRL, by E
Apr 30, 2016 Laura rated it really liked it
Shelves: adult, fiction
I'm not entirely sure I would have reached for this one on the basis of title alone had I not already been a fan of Peter Rock's work. Please don't let the dire-sounding title scare you off -- My Abandonment is one of the finest books I've read this year. Publisher's Weekly wrote that this is "a bow to Thoreau and a nod to the detective story" and I think that's a fantastic short assessment of the book. Based on a true story, it's the tale of a thirteen year-old girl who secretly lives in ...more
Milena Severa
Nov 22, 2015 Milena Severa rated it liked it
This book had an interesting story, and the fact that it was a true story made it more intriguing. I thought the author could have done a better job of developing characters. And I felt there were some details given at the begining of the story that were still unresolved by the end of the book. The few errors I found in grammer and puncuation were distacting and made the book not seem as serious as I felt it should have been. Overall the story kept me interested and it was mostly enjoyable to ...more
Heidi Potenza
May 15, 2016 Heidi Potenza rated it really liked it
I dove right into this book and finished it in a few hours. I didn't read any reviews beforehand as I wanted to keep an open mind. What a fascinating story about a girl and her "father" living in the wilderness. Now that I see it was based on a true story, the book is even more compelling. I was amazed that a man wrote this book from the perspective of a young girl, as the writing was so personal and deeply intimate. It left me with quite a few "what if's" and unanswered questions, but I am glad ...more
Oct 12, 2011 Amy rated it really liked it
Shelves: read-2011
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Jun 11, 2010 jeremy rated it liked it
Shelves: oregon-pnw, fiction
inspired by the true story of a man and his 12-year-old daughter found living together in portland, oregon's 5,100 acre forest park (after nearly four years), my abandonment is an interesting, however imperfect, work of fiction. while much of the book's first half is faithful to the actual events, the remainder is a work of imagination. the case's nearly unbelievable details certainly make great fodder for a compelling story, and author peter rock deftly tells the tale.

the novel is written from
Dominic Hamer
Apr 12, 2014 Dominic Hamer rated it it was ok
Two stars. It was okay.

The beginning, I really didn't like. I didn't like it because, for me, it was rather boring. The main character felt attenuated and unconscious. The controlling/strict father offered no pattern or rhythm, and the text felt like it was largely made up as it went along, drifting from here to there. The characters were unimpacted by the events they caused and suffered, as if everyone was either stoned or on lithium.

A missed opportunity, I think, and the dialogue sounded quite
Apr 21, 2016 Tessa rated it liked it
Shelves: novels
This book is a really solid read while you're in the process of reading it. Strong voice, beautiful writing, compelling storyline. Once you surface and start to survey it as a whole, though, it starts to fall apart.

**Spoilers on minor plot points follow**

Rock was basing his novel on real life events. For the first hundred pages or so, he follows the story almost exactly as he first encountered it in the news: a thirteen-year-old girl and her father have lived off the grid in Portland's Forest Pa
Feb 12, 2012 Eden rated it liked it
*spoiler alert*
I found this retelling of an actual event where a girl was found living with her dad in Forest Park in Portland really compelling until the last 50 pages or so, when the main character, a young girl who was explained with such compassion throughout the first 3/4 of the books, starts acting completely out of character. Throughout the book, we're reminded that she's a self-sufficient, highly intelligent 13 year old. Then there's a scene where she runs into a fellow homeless peer, wh
May 18, 2012 Linda rated it really liked it
Shelves: woodland-reads

My Abandonment by Peter Rock tells the story of Caroline, a 13 year old girl and her father, living in self made camps in Forest Park, a large nature preserve near Portland, Oregon. There was a true case, documented in the newspapers in Portland of a father and his young daughter in very similar circumstance. This story was part of the key idea this for Rock’s book and has many key ideas that are similar to the true event that took place in Oregon. Caroline was the narrator of the book and the s
Jennifer Wardrip
Mar 29, 2009 Jennifer Wardrip rated it it was amazing
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Caroline and her father live in a forest park just outside Portland, Oregon. Her father has taught Caroline how to survive without technology or man-made things. She does not go to school - instead she learns from reading an old set of encyclopedias. Caroline plants a garden, observes wildlife from the tops of tall trees, and accompanies her father into the city when they run low on supplies.

They are usually ignored, and are careful not to draw attention.
Oct 15, 2010 Laura rated it liked it
Junot Diaz's quote on the front of this book describes it perfectly: "Mesmerizing and disturbing." It's a quick and easy read, and it definitely kept me interested, but I admit that I was tired of it by the end. There is so much in here that feels off... it's like talking to someone who's slipping in and out of a coma -- their reality is so far from your own. The story revolves around a 13 year old girl, Caroline, who lives with her father in Portland's forest park. They live in a cave and run ...more
This is a fictionalized (I hope) version of a true story. The true story is that for four years a father and young daughter lived in a lean to that they built in Forest Park in Portland, Ore. until one day some extreme joggers saw them and worried because the child was young. They called the police which resulted in a lot of attention which the father and child did not want. The child was well cared for, very well educated and showed no sign of abuse or neglect whatsoever. Her father was a ...more
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A Utah-native, Peter Rock attended Deep Springs College in California's High Desert. He earned his BA in English from Yale University and held a Wallace Stegner Fellowship at Stanford University.He has taught fiction at the University of Pennsylvania, Yale, Deep Springs College, and in the MFA program at San Francisco State University. His stories and freelance writing have both appeared widely. ...more
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