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The Pretend Wife

3.36  ·  Rating Details ·  1,451 Ratings  ·  252 Reviews
What would life be like with the one who got away?

For Gwen Merchant, love has always been doled out in little packets—from her father, a marine biologist who buried himself in work after her mother’s death; and from her husband, Peter, who’s always been respectable and safe. But when an old college boyfriend, the irrepressible Elliot Hull, invites himself back into Gwen’s
Hardcover, 288 pages
Published June 9th 2009 by Bantam (first published 2009)
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Dec 04, 2009 Michelle rated it it was ok
This book was kind of entertaining, but I agree with other reviewers who asked, "What about the main character could you fall in love with?" She was kind of lost, and didn't have many defining characteristics, if any. Also, the author seemed to be a believer in the sort of nebulous, squishy "working through issues" view of things. I have lost a parent, and I still wanted to yell at the main character, "Ok, you lost your mom over 20 years ago! Do you have to mention it on every single page?" I fo ...more
Dec 24, 2013 Mo rated it it was ok
Recommends it for: No one
I started reading this book before the holidays, and put it aside so that I could read something a little more "Christmas-y". I should have just left it on the shelf - where it belonged.

Jul 29, 2010 Meredith rated it really liked it
Some books are black and white: you either love them or you hate them. Others are gray, bringing on feelings of indifference or tepidness. Then there are the books that surprise you, the books you thought you would adore, but ended up disliking or the book that started out dull and dry, but became a favorite.

Bridget Asher’s The Pretend Wife falls into the last category. When I first started reading it, I simply couldn’t connect. Perhaps it was because I had the television on in the background. P
May 13, 2009 Helen rated it it was amazing
When Gwen Merchant unexpectedly bumps into Elliot Hull, a man whom she had dated furiously for three weeks during college, her seemingly perfect life and perfect marriage are dragged under a microscope for examination. It isn’t until what could have been presents itself that Gwen begins to question the difference between love and marriage. At the encouragement of her husband, Gwen poses as Elliot’s wife in order to appease his mother Vivian on her deathbed. At the dying woman’s insistence, Gwen ...more
Mar 31, 2011 Ramona rated it it was amazing
This was by far the best book I have read in a long time. The book starts off with 2 men rolling around on the lawn fighting. Then we get the back story of how that came to be. Gwen Merchant is standing in line at an ice cream shop when a man behind her orders 2 scoops of Gwen Merchant. When she turns around it is a guy she knew had dated in college, Elliot Hull. She introduces him to her husband Peter and he ends up going to a party with them.

During the party Gwen chokes on some food and Ellio
May 24, 2013 Christi rated it it was ok
I just never got this book. Maybe because I didn't care for the main character?

Basically, she's never really happy. But she's happy settling. Because she just doesn't really do anything about it except change jobs often.

Until one day a guy she dated for 2 weeks (2 weeks!!) in college shows up behind her at an ice cream parlor. And her husband invites this guy to a party. And then this guy tells everyone at the party how he is pretending to be married to make his dying mother happy. So of course
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Married woman Gwen Merchant agrees to pretend to be the newlywed of former beau Elliott Hull to appease his dying mom. Gwen, smothering in a marriage to Peter, jumps at the chance for a redo at an abruptly ended college romance, and it's a slippery slope that Gwen slides down with passion and verve, falling in love with Elliott and becoming attached to his sister and her precocious kids and the imperious and uncannily perceptive matriarch, Vivian. But while weaving one faux relationship, Gwe
Jul 05, 2009 Natalie rated it really liked it
Here's a good summer fluff by the pool read. People magazine recommended it for summer reading and it totally does it justice. If you ran into the guy that got away and he asked you to be his pretend wife for a weekend to fulfill his dying mom's wish- would you? Would you if you were already married to a good guy who said it was ok? This is a fun, sweet look into life and love and discovering what's important in life and relationships.
Aug 27, 2009 Sam rated it really liked it
What a sweet book, really enjoyable. And in addition to being sweet, the writing was smart with none of that awkward diction or overwrought flourishes I associate with chick lit. And I liked how the central plot--a woman who poses as a former boyfriend's wife for the weekend because his mother is dying of cancer--actually foregrounds much larger issues of loss, history, regret, passion and "two paths that diverged in a yellow wood."
Nov 07, 2011 Sue rated it it was ok
(Spoiler alert) I was liking this book until the end and trying to figure out how I wanted it to end. I was torn, because I wanted Gwen and Elliot to have their grand love affair, but I felt bad because she was more or less happily married. But, I lost a lost of respect for the author by wrapping it up neatly by making us hate the husband at the end. Should have kept the depth and not taken the cheap way out.
Aug 25, 2015 Marieke rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Vanaf de eerste bladzijde was ik dol op dit boek. De personage vond ik geweldig, ze waren zo levendig. Ik kon het boek niet meer wegleggen, zodra ik eenmaal begonnen was. Zeker een aanrader!
Jun 14, 2015 Shelley rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
One star seems pretty harsh, so I made it a two, but it's just barely a "it was okay" rating.

It sounded like it was going to be a pretty interesting story plot that is until I started working myself through it. Then my brain basically went dead. It's a light read, but with a pretty depressing cast of characters.

The main character, Gwen wasn't even likable, and the only one even more unlikable was her husband, Peter. Their marriage was a "safe" and "respectable" marriage, in other words they wer
Jul 12, 2011 Wendy rated it really liked it
Shelves: 2011
Was it just the right book, at the right time? I don't know, but I loved this book. I almost gave it five stars, but I'll have to read it again before I give it that honor.

I thoroughly enjoyed the characters, and the style of writing. I loved the metaphors she used, such as, standing in a field holding a rake over your head to ward off the eagles that might carry you off, to represent facing your fears. This book was such a good description of living an examined, thoughtful life.

All in all, I w
Jun 05, 2011 Kristy rated it really liked it
Maybe even five starts, not sure. But I really liked this book. At first I wasn't so sure, seemed like it might be about infidelity, and I really don't like reading about that, or I thought maybe it would be a silly romantic comedy, but it turned out to be about love and grief and being truly happy. A really sweet, engaging story with characters you could really understand.
Oct 09, 2011 Anna rated it really liked it
Chick lit with depth. I'll probably look for more of her books. She does a far better job with dialogue than most people. Actually sound like real conversations! And I like that she didn't give the main character an easy way out.
Jul 01, 2009 Amy rated it really liked it
I thought at first that I would dislike this book - it seemed kind of "fluffy" - but turned out to be a good read - a married woman agrees to pretend to be the wife of an old boyfriend - has to confront issues from her past and present life.
May 30, 2017 Tony rated it it was ok
I imagine this book was aimed at certain demographics which I wasn't part of and as a result I did not enjoy it that much. The story line itself was not too bad but it was very corny in parts, so much so that it became irritating. In my opinion the relationships between the characters were not developed enough, from one moment meeting someone for the first time and the next day they are the mother they never had. It raised some questions about marriage/relationships but did not provide any real ...more
Feb 24, 2017 Sofie rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: ebook, chick-lit
Een verhaal over een vrouw dat nog altijd rouwt om haar mama. Haar mama was gestorven toen ze 5 jaar was. Het verhaal had me in de ban vooral omdat het over rouwen ging. Over een ouder verliezen. Gwen heeft een huwelijk met Peter waar ze niet volledig zichzelf is. Het huwelijk is goed maar het gaat niet diep genoeg. Ze doet maar alsof. Ze heeft vriendinnen waar ze af en toe mee uitgaat. Haar papa is ook heel erg aan het rouwen om zijn verloren vrouw. Hij toonde niet veel liefde voor Gwen, niet o ...more
May 12, 2017 Dav rated it liked it
Ok for sap & sentiment. Does make a case for faithfulness.

Gwen Merchant & Elliot were college lovers. Now years later Elliot shows up wanting Gwen to be his pretend wife for the weekend, to fulfill his dying mother's last wish. Her hubby Peter doesn't mind. Elliot still holds a torch & Gwen realizes she has feelings for him.

Then as luck would have it, Peter is caught sleeping with Gwen's best friend. So now she has a good reason to leave her marriage, hook up with her true love &
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Mar 27, 2010 Patti K rated it really liked it
When you start a book in the morning and finish it before bed without focusing solely on the book all day, you know you've read something you really liked. Well, that's true for me, anyway; I read reasonably fast but I'm not a speed reader. This book was one of those reads, and I thoroughly enjoyed it. My review from here will contain spoilers, so if you don't want them, stop here.

**********SPOILER ALERT****************

First, I liked the pacing of the book and that she mixed in the bits of the p
Dec 28, 2011 Veronica rated it really liked it
For Gwen Merchant, love has always been doled out in little packets—from her father, who lost himself in work after her mother’s death, and from her husband, Peter, who’s always been respectable and safe. But when an old college boyfriend, the irrepressible Elliot Hull, invites himself back into Gwen’s life with a surprising proposition, she suddenly starts questioning everything she’s ever expected from love. Elliot, it turns out, is in need of a pretend wife, just for the weekend, in order to ...more
Jun 12, 2009 Michelle rated it it was ok
From AP: ¶ "The Pretend Wife" (Bantam Books Hardcover, 273 pages, $22), by Bridget Asher: Gwen Merchant believes she has the perfect marriage. She's even a bit smug about it until her college sweetheart walks up behind her in an ice-cream shop and orders two scoops of her.
¶ Suddenly, Gwen is wondering what her life would have been like if she hadn't refused to answer Elliot Hull's calls after a fight over something she can't even remember.
¶ She finds out when her husband, Peter, volunteers her t
Bridget Asher seems to truly understand the depths of sorrow, regret, memory, and loss. I have only read this novel and her more recent 'The Provence Cure for the Broken-Hearted.' In both books, she attaches detailed, relatable memories to significant moments of the story- and she weaves this net with flawless compassion for her characters. And although 'Provence Cure' had me reaching for tissues, that's not the case at all with the more light-hearted 'Pretend Wife.'

Many have already commented o
Jun 03, 2016 Diane rated it did not like it
Ugh, this book was the worst. The main character is horrible, dull, lifeless, unintelligent, and basically pretty much a non-entity with no defining characteristics other than her inability to stick to anything or make anything of herself and her endless and unrealistic daily mentions of her dead mother.

This is not a woman someone (and a handsome, brooding, all-around-perfect someone to boot) falls endlessly in love with. In love with after three weeks of dating, years of long-term relationships
Nov 16, 2010 Noelle rated it really liked it
The main character of the book, Gwen Merchant, meets up with an old boyfriend from college, Elliott Hull. Gwen’s husband, Peter, invites Elliott to a party where Gwen chokes on some food and Elliott gives her the Heimlich. Peter is grateful and tells Elliott that they owe him. Elliott brings up the fact that his mother is deathly ill and he told her he got married to make her happy, when, in fact, he didn’t. This sets into motion Gwen pretending to be Elliott’s wife for the sake of his mother. W ...more
Mar 16, 2013 Emilie rated it really liked it
Best lines:

A marriage is a conversation that's supposed to last a lifetime, We didn't have enough to say to each other. A lifetime's worth of material is a lot of material. What's wrong with just being quiet together.

What is marriage? How does it operate in private, in public? What's its role for the individuals involved and in society at large? And, of course, what I really want to know was what marriage had to do with me, personally, what did it want from me, what did I owe it, and what did it
Sep 30, 2010 Bridget rated it it was ok
I picked this one up because the author's name is Bridget...or at least her pen name is Bridget. Also, I couldn't remember the last chick lit book I had read and decided August was the perfect time to give one a go.

Basically, if you've ever read chick lit or if you've ever seen a rom-com, you'll smell this silly plot coming a mile away. I could have told you exactly what would happen and when within the first twenty pages of the book. Nay, I might have even been able to tell you what happened h
Dec 13, 2010 rated it liked it
Gwen is eraan gewend weinig aandacht en liefde te krijgen. Haar vader, een zeebioloog, stortte zich na de dood van haar moeder volledig op zijn werk. En haar man, de altijd even beheerste en brave Peter brengt ook weinig opwinding in haar leven. Als ze plotseling haar ex-vriendje van vroeger, de uitbundige Alex tegenkomt, herinnert ze zich hun intense liefde als de dag van gisteren. Als Alex haar vraagt om te doen alsof ze zijn verloofde is zodat hij de laatste wens van zijn stervende moeder kan ...more
"Gwen stumbles into an old boyfriend, Elliot, at an ice cream shop and it changes her life forever. Events lead Gwen to pretend to be Elliot's wife for a weekend. Elliot's mother, Vivian, is dying and one of her wishes is that Elliot settle down and get married. [return][return]During a weekend stay at a lake house, Gwen falls in love with Elliot's family and begins to question the relationship she has with her husband, Peter, and father. She also seeks more information about the death of her mo ...more
Jul 10, 2012 Amber rated it really liked it
Shelves: fiction
I liked this book and read it in two sittings. The author has startling insightfulness into a relationship that is "good enough" but not "great". What I didn't like was how easy she made it for Gwen. What started out as a really tough question of honoring your commitments in a relationship that has nothing wrong with it to take a better offer became a non-question, a no-brainer. **** SPOILER**** The Peter/Helen affair was just to convenient, it gave her the perfect out she was looking for to pur ...more
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