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  <title><![CDATA[Punished by Rewards: The Trouble With Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A'S, Praise, and Other Bribes]]></title>
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  <default_description>The basic strategy we use for raising children, teaching students, and managing workers can be summarized in six words: do this and you'll get that. We dangle goodies (from candy bars to sales commissions) in front of people in much the same way that we train a family pet. The quick fix of rewards may seem to be effective, but manipulating people with external incentives actually kills their interest in what they are doing and lowers the quality of their work. Indeed, Kohn shows that the decline in our workplaces and classrooms may be related to our acceptance of a theory of motivation derived from lab animals. Drawing on a wealth of psychological research, he points the way to a more successful strategy based on working with people instead of doing things to them. &quot;Do rewards motivate people?&quot; asks Kohn. &quot;Yes. They motivate people to get rewards.&quot; Seasoned with humor and familiar examples, Punished By Rewards presents an argument unsettling to hear but impossible to dismiss.</default_description>
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      <name><![CDATA[Alfie Kohn]]></name>
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  <read_at>Wed Aug 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[A lot of what the author says - that the use of rewards as motivators (for children, students, employees, etc.) is not only ineffective, but often detrimental to morale and motivation - makes a lot of sense, and certainly represents a fresh perspective.  Despite this, however, I couldn't shake a lin...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/4456709">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[The title and length of this book may throw off most people, but this is one of those books which has transformed my thinking of society and the world.  This is a book about how humans are motivated, and I think it is relevant to explain and understand world issues from the mistakes the Americans ma...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/45427719">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri May 08 17:10:06 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I love parenting books, and I love exploring different ideas on how to parent , but this one was more difficult for me. The first few chapters are based on the assumption that no one human has the right to control another person. The idea is abhorrent to Kohn. This may be true in the workplace, but ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/53296840">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Nov 08 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I like books that challenge long held beliefs and this one does a very good job at challenging the motivational strategy of &quot;do this and I'll give you that,&quot; which is used everywhere from teaching in schools to managing employees. He makes a very persuasive argument, backed by lots of data...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/76138925">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[It has been a while since I read Alfie Kohn's book.  I heard him speak at a teachers' convention and was intrigued by his assertion that teachers and parents kill children's motivation by offering rewards/bribes.  So, candy, stickers, certificates, cash and other incentives really don't motivate!  I...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/52168535">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[Everyone who would like a better approach for children to learn]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Thu Jun 12 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is an excellent book.  If only there was a way that public education and parenting would work together to teach our children in the way this book presents.  WOW!!! Imagine the world we would live in and the people that would be in our government if we were able to follow the guidance of this bo...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/21072621">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[As a college student, I had been very interested in Alfie Kohn's philosophies. After graduating and getting a job much sooner than expected, I decided to read this book. I am amazed by how much we control other people with rewards. I've never been a fan of behaviorism...in any form. Which doesn't ma...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/17682025">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="75321395">
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    <body><![CDATA[This was the first Alfie Kohn book that I read, and I quickly became a fan.  (While I was reading this book, I'm sure I drove people crazy, constantly quoting from it, and telling my husband &quot;listen to this!&quot;, and saying &quot;Alfie says ...&quot;)  His writing style is not for everybody, ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/75321395">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="54305207">
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  <read_at>Mon Apr 01 00:00:00 -0800 2002</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[While I do not agree with all of Kohn's conclusions and he is too idealistic for the real world, this book rates among the most influential of my life. It made me rethink rewards and motivation, and I have continued to ponder it repeatedly over the years since I first read it. It may be time for a r...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/54305207">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[As a self-motivated person who takes pride in a job well done, I've always felt that incentives at school and in the workplace served to undermine the value of my personal achievements.  Due to this perspective, Alfie Kohn's book resonated well with me; however there are some who feel that nothing i...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/13595153">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[<a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://bookshelved.org/cgi-bin/wiki.pl?PunishedByRewards"><img src="http://www.satirworkshops.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/BookShelvedDiscussion.gif" alt="Discussion on BookShelved" width="122" height="20" class="escapedImg"/></a>]]></body>
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    <review id="21816371">
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    <body><![CDATA[&quot;Schools that reward kids with Pizza Hut coupons for reading  will give us a generation of fat kids who don't like to read&quot;<br/><br/>That quote summarizes this interesting book that will change the way you value rewards.  It shows the unintended consequences the reward process can have at ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/21816371">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[A compelling argument against the status quo.  It really manages to convince you that rewards don't do what we want them to.  A MUST read for parents and educators.]]></body>
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    <review id="19492574">
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    <body><![CDATA[There is nothing in this book that I have found to be incompletely developed or investigated, but it is quite unsettling and should be read closely if at all.  It's not easy to feel comfortable when you see yourself and your participation in the &quot;hidden curriculum&quot; of control in your socie...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/19492574">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[As a teacher I have been so disturbed by my students need to 'get something' for everything that they do. Well know I know why! We've TRAINED them to believe that they deserve something for everything. I have taken much of Kohn's advice to heart and have employed much of this with my own kids as wel...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/23956001">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="20550585">
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    <body><![CDATA[I highly recommend this book for every educator and parent. Alfie Kohn makes a strong case for supporting children in becoming intrinsically motivated (NOT a small feat!). Kids continue to be constantly bribed to illicit good behavior and that &quot;carrot&quot; never seems to leave their sight. One...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/20550585">more...</a>]]></body>
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