Tender at the Bone: Growing Up at the Table
by Ruth Reichl
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Read in November, 2007
recommends it for:
gourmands, children of the mentally-ill
Wow. Did I seriously read this book in four days? I totally didn't mean to, but looky-there; I am already done!
This one is not quite as good as Garlic and Sapphires, but let's be fair: what is? I especially like the early stuff; the magic sort of wears off when she meets Doug. Still, I love Reichl's personal history playing off of the middle of the 20th century in middle-class America.
It was so weird reading about Berke...more
This one is not quite as good as Garlic and Sapphires, but let's be fair: what is? I especially like the early stuff; the magic sort of wears off when she meets Doug. Still, I love Reichl's personal history playing off of the middle of the 20th century in middle-class America.
It was so weird reading about Berke...more
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Read in March, 2008
I'm not sure how it happened, but i read this book in just two days...working weekdays i might add. It's been awhile since I had something I could easily just flip thru without straining to decipher the several layers bound into each sentence and so I found myself enjoying her easy but intelligent and unpretentious writing, loving her (sometimes curiously brief?) descriptions of food and cooking, and slowly but surely finding myself understanding her story as a bit more than just another paperba...more
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Read in July, 2007
recommends it for:
memoir-lovers
The somewhat disorienting nature of Reichl's writing in the first two chapters (she'll be describing how things were in general, and then throw in something like, "Then I saw the goat in the fridge" as if she had been writing about a specific time all along) smoothes out neatly for the rest of this honest and interesting memoir. The stories are told in small vignettes that knit together, rather than in the structure of a novel. Reichl does a great job of showing, without telling, the s...more
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Read in February, 2008
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Colleen Clarkrecommends it for: People that like to eat
I was hesitant to pick this book because I thought it might be overindulgent. I imagined an "Eat, Pray, Love" type of healing through food or even an over-indulgent memoir of why it's so great to be the foremost food critic, Ruth Reichl. But I had forgotten what a great writer she is. Reichl takes the reader through her quirky childhood during which her obsession with food begins as a method of controlling the chaotic environment created by her bipolar mother. The book follows her thro...more
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Read in December, 2003
I found the authors travels more interesting than her descriptions of eating or cooking. Much of her cooking tales personally turned my stomach. I suppose I'm glad that I'm not familar with her New York Times reviews. The recipes included in the book were either bizarre sounding or rather simplistic. Save for the soufflet recipe, I'm really not tempted to try any of them.
It took until page 54 for me to really get into the book. I had five abortive attempts at starting the book before I final...more
It took until page 54 for me to really get into the book. I had five abortive attempts at starting the book before I final...more
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Read in September, 2007
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I read the book because I wanted to learn more about how one goes about learning to appreciate the intricacies of food. If the only way one goes about it is by having a mother who cooks badly and with questionable ingredients, then I’m doomed to eat plainly. Reichl’s experiences of trying new foods are one-liners rather than an expression of growth and development of tastes. She comes closer to that in her writing about wine in France.
While Reichl definitely has amusing stories to t...more
While Reichl definitely has amusing stories to t...more
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Read in August, 2007
Reichl is the editor-in-chief of Gourmet magazine, and this is her memoir about "Growing up at the table." As she tells the stories of her life, growing up with a manic depressive mother, going to boarding school in Montreal, and surviving in a commune in Berkeley, she includes recipes she loves and describes her unique and constant connection with food. Reichl is a good story-teller, and I look forward to trying some of her recipes. I was, however, deeply disturbed by the portrayal of...more
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Read in February, 2008
Having thoroughly enjoyed Garlic and Sapphires, I was thrilled to find this first of Reichl's memoirs on the 2-for-3 table at Barnes & Noble.
In the preface, Reichl admits to modifying certain stories for dramatic effect. But unless she's made entire years out of whole cloth, she's lived one hell of an interesting life. Throughout it all, the power of a meal -- sometimes spectacular, sometimes spectacularly bad -- has been a constant.
And to be honest, I don't care if the tale's...more
In the preface, Reichl admits to modifying certain stories for dramatic effect. But unless she's made entire years out of whole cloth, she's lived one hell of an interesting life. Throughout it all, the power of a meal -- sometimes spectacular, sometimes spectacularly bad -- has been a constant.
And to be honest, I don't care if the tale's...more
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Read in June, 2007
recommends it for:
Foodies
I've been stewing over Ruth Reichl's Tender at the Bone for months now, and I finally decided to gnaw through the last several chapters. Ruth Reichl fascinates me--food critic for the New York Times, editor-in-chief of Gourmet magazine, great cook. But Tender was a disappointment. Reichl's story, a memoir laced with recipes, lacks a satisfying narrative arc. She begins, logically enough, in childhood, introducing the cast of characters that formed her love of food and cookin...more
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Read in October, 2007
If I had to give the movie pitch for Tender at the Bone, it would be “The Glass Castle meets the Julie / Julia Project”. Ruth Reichl became famous as the food critic for the New York Times, is now is Editor-in-Chief of Gourmet, and has written a few books about herself. This book is about her younger days, up to the point she started are a food critic. The Glass Castle reference’s the relationship with the mentally ill mother, and the ability to build your own successful life while sti...more
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Read in January, 2007
Read her third book Saphire and Garlic at the beach two years ago, and finally got around to reading her first book. This is basically her autobiography. She grew up with a crazy mother and was raised by the cook. She also learned from the cook of her Grandmother-in-law (i.e. the mother of her father’s exwife). Her mother sent her to Catholic school in Montreal to learn French – she learned more about food. She spent her teenage years as an awkward girl who cooked to please. She ...more
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Read in September, 2007
Where to start with this one?
First off, it is at turns stomach churning (oh God, the chicken legs that sat outside the fridge for days before her mom served them to a crowd...) and drool inspiring (I am now desperate for some olives.) I found myself wanting so badly for her to find her true calling as a food writer. Even though I knew she would in the end.
Second, the mother. My mom isn't exactly manic-depressive, but there was something there that was so familiar. My mom is a terr...more
First off, it is at turns stomach churning (oh God, the chicken legs that sat outside the fridge for days before her mom served them to a crowd...) and drool inspiring (I am now desperate for some olives.) I found myself wanting so badly for her to find her true calling as a food writer. Even though I knew she would in the end.
Second, the mother. My mom isn't exactly manic-depressive, but there was something there that was so familiar. My mom is a terr...more
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Read in February, 2008
Memoirs of Ruth Reichl time from when she was a small child until the she became a food critic.
She grew up with a mentally ill mother who served spoiled food to family and guests, she didn't see anything wrong with it. Just scrape away the mold! Ruth spent a few years in a French school in Canada because she told her mother she wished she knew French. She went to a college in MI since her mother wanted her to attend an ivy league school and lived in apartments in dangerous neighborhoods m...more
She grew up with a mentally ill mother who served spoiled food to family and guests, she didn't see anything wrong with it. Just scrape away the mold! Ruth spent a few years in a French school in Canada because she told her mother she wished she knew French. She went to a college in MI since her mother wanted her to attend an ivy league school and lived in apartments in dangerous neighborhoods m...more
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Read in September, 2006
Ms. Reichl isn't really a bad writer. She has some nice descriptions in her book, and she is easy enough to read. But this book seems to mostly be a kind of brag fest about how she learned to cook, and about all the wonderful things that happened to her as she grew up. Obviously a memoir is not the same as a piece of fiction, but there isn't really any conflict or tension in the book. The worst problems she describes are her mother's eccentricity with serving half-spoiled food, even at major soc...more
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Read in March, 2008
recommended to Camille by:
Callie Canlas
There is an entire world that I had no idea existed! FOOD inspires lots of people's lives, including Ruth Reichl. It was entertaining to read about her life in relation to the food that she eats, avoids, smells, cooks, and thinks about each day.
This book opened my eyes to the world of food and I'm glad to be here. I can't wait to read her next two books and then Alice Waters' book.
This book came to me at the perfect time. I'm starting a recipe blog with my friend. I just gave my sister...more
This book opened my eyes to the world of food and I'm glad to be here. I can't wait to read her next two books and then Alice Waters' book.
This book came to me at the perfect time. I'm starting a recipe blog with my friend. I just gave my sister...more
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I enjoyed Ruth Reichl's three memoirs much more than I'd expected to. She'd always gotten on my nerves as the Times food critic -- I found her prose both purple and utterly solipsistic. However, in memoir format talking about herself and her personal experience of making and eating food is entirely appropriate, and her lifelong relationship with food and cooking is pretty interesting. This volume covers her early life, including a rather remarkable long section on her childhood during which her ...more
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Read in December, 2007
A few months ago, I became interested in the food-writing genre, and Ruth Reichl is perhaps the most famous and well-received author of this specific sort of fiction, so I opted for "Tender at the Bone." The book felt uneven -- some anecdotes were thrilling and satisfying, while others felt uncomfortably depressing. On par, the novel left me feeling like I had just sat with an old acquaintance that had hoisted her life's sorrows/trials upon me without so much as a silver lining. Wor...more
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Read in June, 2008
Ruth Reichl, the former restaurant critic at the Times, wrote this “mostly true” memoir about her life, through the lens of food: eating it, cooking it, and creating relationships around it. Her mother, later diagnosed as bipolar, looms large as an unstoppable and not very stable force, and the early sections about her as the Queen of Mold are very funny and give a strong underpinning to the rest of the memoir. It is with her grandmothers that Reichl first learns to cook and appreciate go...more
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Read in April, 2008
I had to give this book 5 stars. It is a book I never, ever thought would appeal to me. At all. Joiner that I am, it is this month's selection for my new book club, and I even thought "Maybe I will join next month instead" just to not read this book. However, I could not have been more wrong. This book was absolutely captivating. Told through a series of vignettes, Reichl traces her love of food from early childhood in New York City, through high school, college, Africa, Greece, Italy,...more
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Read in September, 2007
As a memoir junkie, I enjoyed reading this tale. I got into the food descriptions, but mostly I was interested in Ruth's life - her relationships and her constant pursuit of food and foodies. Perhaps it was being raised in a wealthy family that allowed her to abandon all job security, live in a commune, bake all day and eventually become famous. I hope that that isn't true, but it does seem that those who come from a priviledged background have an easier time living happily in the ghetto and dum...more
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