Parrotfish

Parrotfish

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Last week I cut my hair, bought some boys' clothes and shoes, wrapped a large ACE bandage around my chest to flatten my fortunately-not-large breasts, and began looking for a new name.

Angela Katz-McNair has never felt quite right as a girl. Her whole life is leading up to the day she decides to become Grady, a guy. While coming out as transgendered feels right to Grady,

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Hardcover, 294 pages
Published July 10th 2007 by Simon & Schuster Books for Young Readers
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Kira
Jun 07, 2012 Kira rated it 3 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Sharks and preteens
Recommended to Kira by: A shark who eats preteens
So a few months ago while I was still living in my last house, which I shared with a formerly-estranged family member, I was rooting through the kitchen cupboard looking for a snack when I came across a packet of Twizzlers.

I'd never tasted Twizzlers before, because duh, I'm British and whenever I wanted candy in the UK, I'd go to the nearest Post Office and buy it in grams, over the counter, from a lady who'd been working there since she was twenty-five, and now had glasses on a chain. She'd we...more
Evan
Oct 03, 2007 Evan rated it 3 of 5 stars Recommends it for: anyone who is trans or knows someone or is just interested
I think this book as far as I know is the first YA book that deals with a female to male transperson as it's main character. Another YA book, named Luna by Julie Ann Peters has a male to female transperson as it's main character. This book takes place in about a month's time. From the weekend after Thanksgiving till Christmas time. The week before the book starts, Grady has cut his hair in the style of a boy and bought boy clothes. He tells his family and the people in his life that his new name...more
Colin
This book is Friendly and Educational. The author was clearly trying to write a book that encourages trans kids, and because of that it was totally unrealistic, with well-informed and sympathetic allies coming out of the woodwork, the school bullies conveniently dispatched and made to look like ignorant fools, an accepting family and even a kiss from the most popular girl in school. Because of all these happy things, it's pretty adorable, though. It's way better than its transgirl counterpart, L...more
PVPA Library
Dec 11, 2007 PVPA Library rated it 3 of 5 stars Recommends it for: people wanting to know more about transgendered teens
i'm tired of coming out books. sure, it's necessary to explain to folks through fiction what the life of a tranny can be like, but i'd prefer to have tranny people living real lives with other struggles who are totally okay with being tranny. same goes for other kinds of queer. let's have some good love stories or coming of age stories or fantasy stories where the characters just happen to be queer or tranny. so, this book is a good intro for beginners or teens desperate to see themselves (f2m)...more
Coffeeboss
At the start of Parrotfish, teenage Angela has just announced to her family and the world that she would like to be addressed as he, and his new name is Grady. As the narrator, Grady is totally believable as a teenage boy that just happens to be stuck in the wrong body. He can't see why others have such a problem with it, while at the same time encounters acceptance in surprising places. His old best friend (a girl) has a hard time with the whole thing, but he finds a new pal in the geeky Sebast...more
Anina Ertel
This book is about a transgendered teen exploring his identity.

I really liked it because it did not skirt any aspects of his experience. This is the only YA book I know that discusses these issues that way. (If you know of any others, please recommednd them to me though).

The one critique I have is that the 14 year old protaganist was so calm and knowledgeable about his situtaion that to me it was not believable. He was able to calmly respond to every teacher, parent, and mean kid's comments with...more
Jack
am i allowed to be critical of a book of such monumental importance?

if i am, i have to say that i've read about three hundred books by better writers. but i've never read one about a teenaged ftm who is transitioning with pride and courage.

so, i'm conflicted.

issue driven books. morals. badly written dialogue. woefully pedestrian metaphors about christmas, babies, and napoleon dynamite.

then, pride and courage and sadness and confusion and good friends and family coming around.

what to say?
Tara Lynn
I think I've already said in other reviews for LGBT books, that it used to be extremely hard to find books for LGBT teenagers. Many of the books available to teenagers when I was younger were books meant for adults. From what I've seen, only in the past ten years or so have books dealing with gender and sexual orientation issues really been available to teenagers looking for a voice that represented their own ages. This story, about a girl's life changing decision to become male, is sweet, and c...more
Lyndsey Rushby
Parrotfish is told from protagonist Grady’s point of view. However, Grady was actually born a girl although has never felt like one. Set in modern day America, Grady comes out to his family as transgendered and expresses his wishes to be called Grady, instead of Angela. Grady was a cute character, knowing exactly who he was and what he wanted out of life. It was refreshing to see someone so confident in themselves, especially someone going through the struggles of people understanding him. Grady...more
Courtney
"Sometimes I wish we didn't have to be one thing or the other. You know, male or female. I wish there wasn't that big division between the two. Does that make any sense?" So asks Grady, the narrator of Parrotfish, which derives the title from a species that changes gender when they need to and become aptly, the alpha males of a brilliant green with a yellow stripe. Grady, unfortuantely, does not have such an easy transition. When he decides to come out to the world as a boy between Thanksgiving...more
Samantha Boyette
This is the sort of book that I love. It only took me a day to read it because I almost couldn't put it down. Great story, great writing, great characters.

Angela has just decided she is going to be Grady. Though the decision seems abrupt to her friends and family, he's always known that inside the girl body, he was a boy. So he cuts his hair, buys some guys clothes, and starts living life as a boy.

Grady is perfectly written, even before you know what is happening, it sounds like a boy. Usually I...more
Erik Garrity
What do you do when you come to the realization that you are a boy trapped in a girl’s body? Why, you tell everyone of course! This is exactly what Angela did in this novel. She first announced her decision to her family that she was no longer a girl but a boy and no longer wished to be called Angela but “Grady”. She then told her teachers the same thing, including the principal. As you can imagine, the reaction was mixed.

What follows is an account of Grady’s life at at school, life at home and...more
Christine
I believe that parrotfish is an excellent read for young adults. This book focuses on the main character, Angela; also known as Grady, and his courage to admit to himself and his family that he is transgendered; from female to male. He has the courage to be himself in front of his family and friends at the same time as he is revealing it to himself. Although as to be expected, there are hardships and difficulty with this process, Grady remains true to himself and doing so, forces those around hi...more
Michele Varela
Parrotfish, by Ellen Wittlinger,is a story about a teenage girl who decides to finally become a boy because she has always felt that she wasn't meant to be a girl. The title of the book is very creative because a parrotfish is a species of fish which also changes genders. Parrotfish are generally female in the initial development process and change to males. The protaganist, formerly known as Angela, then Grady, seems secure in his decision, but has issues with those around him who have a hard...more
Meghan
Angela, who was born a female, had always felt like a boy trapped in a girl’s body. When he finally decides to live his life as a male and change his name to Grady during his sophomore year of high school, his school and home life begin to dramatically change. His fellow peers, who at first ignored his existence, begin to cruelly mock his transformation.

Throughout the book, the readers watch Grady’s family mourn the loss of their daughter and sister and gain a son and brother. Although Grady’s f...more
Megan Mann
"Sometimes it's hard to remember that by tomorrow or next week or at least next year, the stuff that seems awful today might actually be funny. That what makes you miserable today will later on in life be a good story to tell your friends."



Angela is who Grady used to be. That is, when he was living his life as a girl. When he discovered that he had Gender Dysphoria and decided to live his life as a male, he chose a name that sounded like a gray area, which is sort of what he felt like he was li...more
April
"And why was changing gender such a big honking deal anyway? People changed lots of other personal things all the time. They dyed their hair and dieted themselves to near death. They took steroids to build muscles and got breast implants and nose jobs so they'd resemble their favorite movie stars. They changed names and majors and jobs and husbands and wives. They changed religions and political parties. They moved across the country or the world-even changed nationalities. Why was gender the on...more
Christina
By: Ellen Wittlinger pages:294

Parrotfish by Ellen Wittlinger is a story about a girl named Angela who is uncomfortable in her body because she feels like she wasnt meant to be a girl. Angela is in high school and when she figured out she wasnt meant to be a girl she changed her name to Grady and began wearing men's clothes and she told her friends and family about how she felt and she wanted them to refer to her as Grady. Grady went to school and was teased and rediculed by the people at school...more
Evelyn
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Travis
Jan 06, 2011 Travis rated it 4 of 5 stars
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I wanted to like this book more, because it's the only YA book I know with a transgender protagonist (Julie Ann Peters' Luna was great, but it's more about being the sister of someone who is trans), hell, one of the few books with a transgender protaginist, period. But the writing isn't that great. First-person narration is used as a way to do massive info dumping, and the dialogue is often unnatural-sounding. But I liked the story a lot and I do think it's worth reading for that.[return][return...more
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Nora's Review: Parrotfish is the tale of Grady McNair – formerly known as Angela McNair. All of his life, Grady felt out of place as a girl. So once he enters high school, he decides to transition into being a boy. He bravely informs his schoolmates and teachers of his change, and is greeted with various reactions. His gym teacher is surprisingly sympathetic, but his best friend is not.

Along the way, Grady makes new friends, and begins to figure out who he really is. Grady is almost too good of...more
Carol
PARROTFISH is an excellent book to introduce the topic of transgendered people. Grady lived life as a girl until high school when he finally decided he couldn't pretend anymore. He had always felt like a boy. He deals with his family; his father and younger brother accept his decision to transition more easily than his mother and sister. Older sister Laura feels traumatized by all the gossip about her brother at school. Grady loses for a time his best friend Eve who is trying to become friends w...more
Alex
While I did enjoy this novel, I think I either had my expectations set too high or something, because it kind of let me down. The main character didn't particularly pull me or make me feel incredibly involved in the story--but the side characters did. It's interesting that the main character chooses the name Grady ("Because it has 'gray' in it") because he is just that, gray, especially when compared to colorful characters like Sebastian.

I suppose the dullness of the character works to make him...more
Steve Duong
Parrotfish have the unique ability to change between genders whenever an imbalance of male female ratio spawn. What does this have to do with a people that suddenly feel they are of a different sex? This book is among other things educational. I can't say I fully understood/understand transformations or "gender dysphoria" but I try. I could understand if I'll be shunned or granted title "Universal Idiot" but my thing used to be, "You can say your a car till the sun explode, but you'll never be a...more
Bunker
Angela Katz-McNair has already come out to her family, her only friend, and her entire high school as a lesbian. When that identity still does not feel right, Angela finds that she not only does not identify with heterosexual females, she also does not identify with females in general. Angela is meant to be Grady, and with this fulfilling discovery, Grady begins a courageous battle to be understood and accepted on the outside for the person he has always known himself to be inside.

The transgend...more
Alexander
This book is about a girl named Angela, who concludes that she is really a boy trapped in a girl's body. Angela knows what society expects of her, a girl; However, she does not agree with it. She wants to be known as Grady, an individual of the opposite sex. This book talks about his desire to grow up and find his own identity and the obstacles he faces along the way. He does not only struggle physically, like with the changes to his feminine pubescent body, but also mentally and physically beca...more
Kristin
Parrotfish gets its name from the Caribbean fish that can change its gender from female to male as the fish population requires it. This is something Angela Katz-McNair can relate to. When the book begins, it's the day after Thanksgiving and in the midst of putting up Christmas decorations, Angela tells his family that he's not Angela anymore- he's Grady ("because it's gray, like me"), and he's a boy.
You might expect a book about such a topic to be sad, even tragic as the teenaged Grady faces o...more
Sonia
I really enjoyed this one- more than her other GLBT-themed A Hard Love. I've read a lot of complaints that it's too much like an afterschool special but I don't see why every YA coming out story has to be so horrible. Grady (formerly Angela) does lose friends, struggles with his family's acceptance and has a hard time at school. Just because it has a happy ending doesn't make it unrealistic- it just makes it another possibility- maybe not everyone gets thrown out of their house, loses all their...more
Robin
Wittlinger does an interesting and useful thing here. She has written a "safe" book about the spectrum of gender and sex and what it might be like to be born into one category but always feel you are another. It's honest but not graphic.

What I like the most about this is that Grady is just a regular kid navigating all the usual high school pathways: shifting friendships, discovering his ambitions, having a first crush, arguing with siblings, and negotiating for new family roles with parents. Th...more
Lorettajo Kapinos
Jun 07, 2011 Lorettajo Kapinos rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Anyone struggling with self identity
Recommended to Lorettajo by: My niece
My complete writer's review can be found at; http://lorettajokapinos.blogspot.com/...

Here's an excerpt:

Parrotfish is the type of book I'd recommend to anyone person trying to break free from labels and stereotypes. There's a lot of discussion involving that topic. Yes, the main character has changed gender, but the book is really about MORE than that. It's about individuality, self-acceptance and well, let's face it, helping others accept who YOU really are. I'm not gay or in confusion about my...more
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Ellen Wittlinger is the critically acclaimed author of the teen novels Heart on My Sleeve, The Long Night of Leo and Bree, Razzle, What's in a Name, and Hard Love (an American Library Association Michael L. Printz Honor Book, a Lambda Literary Award winner, and a Booklist Editors' Choice). She has a bachelor's degree from Millikin University in Decatur, Illinois, and an M.F.A. from the University...more
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“People changed lots of other personal things all the time. They dyed their hair and dieted themselves to near death. They took steroids to build muscles and got breast implants and nose jobs so they'd resemble their favorite movie stars. They changed names and majors and jobs and husbands and wives. They changed religions and political parties. They moved across the country or the world -- even changed nationalities. Why was gender the one sacred thing we weren’t supposed to change? Who made that rule?” 41 people liked it
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