Couldn't Keep It to Myself: Wally Lamb and the Women of York Correctional Institution (Testimonies from our Imprisoned Sisters)

by Wally Lamb
Couldn't Keep It to Myself:  Wally Lamb and the Women of York Correctional Institution (Testimonies from our Imprisoned Sisters)  
published February 2004 by Regan Books
first published 2003
binding Paperback
isbn 006059537X   (isbn13: 9780060595371)
pages 368
description Any book that can give voice to the voiceless should be celebrated. No one feels this more strongly than Wally Lamb, editor of Couldn't Keep It to Myself...more
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12-07-06



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Catherine
Catherine rated it: 4 of 5 stars4 of 5 stars4 of 5 stars4 of 5 stars4 of 5 stars
01/28/08

Read in January, 2008
So, I'm a big fan of Wally Lamb's book, "I Know This Much is True", and when I read somewhere that he volunteered twice a month to teach writing at a women's prison in Connecticut and a book of their essays had been published, I was definitely curious. And a little jealous. I would LOVE to be given an opportunity to practice writing with the help of an author such as Lamb! Not that I'm willing to get myself locked up to do so, but you get the drift. :)

Anyway, the result of his w...more
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Amanda
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05/13/08

Has a copy to sell/swap — Read in May, 2008
recommended to Amanda by: Vicki Tinsley
recommends it for: every woman
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Jonna
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08/14/07

bookshelves: mostrecentreads
Read in October, 2007
recommends it for: Those who think we need more prisons, not more social services
This is the August selection of the women's book club I attend in Jersey City. It contains compelling, though not surprising, personal memoirs from women Lamb taught to write in a course he offered at a prison in CT. I'm about halfway through. The stories remind me of my work during the late 90's at The Fortune Society and the people I encountered there. They also offer fresh evidence to my belief that people don't become criminal offenders because they are bad and selfish and need to be punishe...more
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Beth
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01/26/08

Read in April, 2005
Wally Lamb is sensitive enough to women's issues that he taught creative writing at a correctional facility. This book is a compilation of stories, written by the women themselves, about their lives. It was amazing, and heart-breaking. And made me want to scream from my rooftop "Fight the power!" because so often these women were framed and/or protecting their children from being abused and they were jailed for it. But, because it is Wally Lamb, it is true to "Wally Lamb" sty...more
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Sue
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11/08/07

Read in September, 2007
Wally Lamb hasn't come out with his next terrific novel because he has been working with woman convicts in York,CT. He has been helping them "find their voice" thus helping them find themselves in the most dismal of circumstances. What amazes me the most about these stories, is the similarities between the women. Poverty, abuse, and mental illness and drug abuse. is in each woman's past. The stories are real, and so are the women in them. Some have gone on to great things, others are ...more
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Sarah
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07/05/07

Read in January, 2004
wally Lamb conceived this book when he began teaching a writing class at a women's prison. The book contains short stories written by each of the inmates with whom Wally works. Each story starts with the picture of a woman, her crime and her sentence, followed by an autobiographical short story. The prisoner's stories are touching and compelling and often provide insight into some of the societal and personal issues that lead women to incarceration. The stories are thoughtful and well-writte...more
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Michele
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05/17/08

Read in March, 2008
This book was an interesting look at the lives of women in the York Correctional Institution. At times it was uncomfortable to read the stories of these women and learn what lead them to become prisoners. A common theme throughout with these women prisoners was sexual abuse, as well as physical and emotional abuse. This book is also a tribute to these women who have endured so much and have learned to survive emotionally. I am always amazed by how much human beings can compensate and adapt to su...more
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Leslie
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05/25/08

Read in May, 2008
recommended to Leslie by: Erin
recommends it for: Social workers, jail guards, anyone working with people
This one gets 5 stars, not because the writing is so astounding, but because the real stories are truly touching. This book is an eye-opener. When you read the histories of these women who are incarcerated for a variety of crimes, you begin to understand that there are reasons behind people's "bad" behavior or their inability to manage life's stresses. The truly sad thing is that instead of being a place of rehabilitation and restoration, prison/jail tends to be a place of humiliation ...more
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Katie
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02/13/08

Read in February, 2008
I read this in my book club, and I thought it was extremely interesting. I was worried that I would find that these were just stories of women trying to place blame on someone or something else...that they were trying to rationalize their actions. That wasn't the case at all. These are very real stories of prison life and the lives that were led before ending up in prison. It makes one realize that people in prison cannot be generalized into any stereotypes.

The book will bring you down...more
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Irishcoda
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07/11/07

Read in June, 2006
For another bookring, I read Couldn't Keep It to Myself: Wally Lamb and the Women of York Correctional Institution (Testimonies from our Imprisoned Sisters) by Wally Lamb and inmates at the York Correctional Institution. Wow! This was a heart-breaking, inspiring book made up of the stories of women who were in desperate circumstances growing up (many sexually abused) and overcame some of the ugliness to write some powerful stories about their lives. I was very moved by the book and I ...more
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Typhanie316
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06/03/08

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What an amazing compilation of works.

The lives that these women have led and the paths that they have chosen that have ultimately directed them to this point is amazing and touching.

I think that most people never realize that living this life takes work and finding the way to make it work for you, whether through an artistic outlet, a career or with some other kind of commitment is the the only difference between me and some of these women.

An amazing way to connect women across class...more
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Miranda
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06/02/08

recommends it for: Everyone
The horrifying truth from the women who have been written off by society, locked up behind bars with only themselves and their stories to keep them company. Their stories are not for you to think they're innocent, just for you to have a brief insight on the women that they are. Not the women you think they are. These women are strong, weak, brave, cowardly, they are simply human beings dealt with a life of hardships. All your misgivings of inmates is thrown out the window with this heartfelt col...more
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Jen
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03/11/08

bookshelves: must-read-fav-s
Read in September, 2007
recommends it for: women & open minded men
Great book filled with short stories written by women in prison. The underlying factor in most of the stories dealt with molestation as children. I'd like to research this further as far as the connection with molestation and crime in women.
Amazing as well as extremely sad stories fill the pages of this book. The book made me feel depressed and frustrated. It's almost as if one poor choice creates a domino effect for the rest of your life..very sad, it's like most of these women were doomed fr...more
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Lauren
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04/02/08

Read in March, 2008
Intense and emotional, but really enlightening. These are personal stories from women in what used to a be progressive prison, and it gives a good insight into their lives before prison (a sort of window into the often similar paths that lead to incarceration[child abuse/sexual abuse/domestic violence]). I had hoped to learn more about the prison experience itself, but these stories were incredibly moving and made me even more convinced that the work advocates (of all kinds) do is important an...more
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Pam
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07/01/07

Very sad book - my view of imprisoned women has changed. I used to have no compassion for people in prison, considering they must have done something bad enough to get there, but these women's stories show that most of their problems stem from horribly abusive childhoods and if they had a healthier upbringing, most wouldn't be in jail now. Some were raped before they were even old enough to spell the word rape. The book doesn't focus much on their crimes, but their lives before and after thei...more
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Lisa
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01/13/08

bookshelves: highly-recommended
Read in January, 2004
AMAZING book of short (biographical) stories written by female penitentiary inmates. Wally Lamb went into the prison to give a one time lecture on writing. Interestingly the women begged him to come back and he agreed under the caveat that they would have to write a short story that he would assist them with. The end product is an amazing heartbreaking collection of stories that give you a much greater (and humane) understanding of how these women ended up the way they did.
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Cheryl
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01/25/08

Read in January, 2007
recommends it for: women...all women.
This foray into the writings of prison inmates in the York Correctional Institute was a little scary. I never knew when I started a story whether it was going to be a "good" story or a "gut-punching" one.
There was a lot of loneliness, heartache and abuse interwoven in most of these stories. I really FELT for these women...I never realized how little self-esteem someone can have.
It was a mind-opening experience to read these stories, and that doesn't happen often.

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Kristina
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06/12/08

Read in June, 2008
reading the stories of female prison inmates isn't terribly cheerful, but the stories really bring the humanity of the inmates into focus. the stories are sobering and heartfelt, and they force you to see the individuals behind the statistics in a way that everyone should be forced to see. definitely worth the read; it didn't make me want to set all these women free, but it made me more grateful for my blessings and more determined to give more freely of myself.
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Katy
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12/17/07

This is fascinating collection of heart-breaking first-person stories from a women's prison. The common thread of abuse and/or neglect in their stories is compelling. It serves as a strong reminder to me to be more compassionate and less judgmental of others, and to be grateful for the life I've been given. I read it because I am a huge fan of Wally Lamb. Although his hand is obvious in the recounting of these stories, he lets the women have their own voices.
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Brianne
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12/22/07

Read in January, 2007
recommends it for: bleeding heart liberals...like me
Usually, I am not a huge fan of Wally Lamb. But after reading this and how he worked with the women of the York Correctional Institution, I will now re-evaluate his own work. I love this book. The women each have their own unique voice and it really makes you realize that even criminals - violent and non-violent alike - do not deserve to be thrown away from society. Everyone has something to contribute and this book is a wonderful example of that.
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