Couldn't Keep It to Myself: Wally Lamb and the Women of York Correctional Institution (Testimonies from our Imprisoned Sisters)
by Wally Lambpublished
February 22nd 2004
(first published 2003)
by Regan Books
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Paperback, 368 pages
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006059537X
(isbn13: 9780060595371)
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Any book that can give voice to the voiceless should be celebrated. No one feels this more strongly than Wally Lamb, editor of Couldn't Keep It to Myself,...more
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Read in September, 2007
Wally Lamb hasn't come out with his next terrific novel because he has been working with woman convicts in York,CT. He has been helping them "find their voice" thus helping them find themselves in the most dismal of circumstances. What amazes me the most about these stories, is the similarities between the women. Poverty, abuse, and mental illness and drug abuse. is in each woman's past. The stories are real, and so are the women in them. Some have gone on to great things, others are ...more
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Read in November, 2008
I was amazed at how well these women wrote. Since each short story was written by a woman incarcerated (either currently or in the past) at York Prison in Connecticut, I expected the writing to be weak, but the stories to be compelling. I was right about the compelling part, but happy to be proven wrong about the weak writing.
These stories were heart-breaking and thought-provoking. I didn't realize it, but I carried around a judgement that all people in prison are uneducated, cruel, dru...more
These stories were heart-breaking and thought-provoking. I didn't realize it, but I carried around a judgement that all people in prison are uneducated, cruel, dru...more
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Read in July, 2003
Wally Lamb volunteers frequently at the women's prison in his state. He teaches a creative writing class for the inmates. This is the product of those classes, written by female inmates. Most of the stories are about the abuse, abandonment, and tragic times they have experienced as children and as a dults. They don't make excuses for their actions, most don't even talk about the crimes they have committed, they just tell stories from their varied experiences. I read this book before I became a s...more
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I spent years dying for a follow up to I Know This Much Is True. When I read it was going to be a non-fiction book, I was all "maaaaaan! bummer." Yeah, I was stupid. This is one of the most amazing books I've ever read. If you don't read it, you are stupid!
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Read in April, 2008
Wow! I loved this book. The fact that these women were able to tell their stories is a testament of Wally Lamb's ability to reach and teach them. Awesome book.I could not put it down, and I couldn't keep it to myself!!!
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Read in July, 2008
I genuinely feel bad that I couldn't get more into this book, and I am going to hope it is their writing, rather than my lack of empathy for the characters and their stories. Perhaps the greatest tragedy that this book expressed was how powerfully the deck is stacked against you.
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Read in May, 2008
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Vicki Tinsleyrecommends it for: every woman
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Read in January, 2008
So, I'm a big fan of Wally Lamb's book, "I Know This Much is True", and when I read somewhere that he volunteered twice a month to teach writing at a women's prison in Connecticut and a book of their essays had been published, I was definitely curious. And a little jealous. I would LOVE to be given an opportunity to practice writing with the help of an author such as Lamb! Not that I'm willing to get myself locked up to do so, but you get the drift. :)
Anyway, the result of his w...more
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Wow, I guess I've been on a criminal reading binge lately. I think it's incredible how often women are abused and no one does anything to help, and surprise surprise, it leads up to crime. This was a very good book that showed us the 'humanity' of female prisoners. Some of the stories were just sad, some horrific but each one worthy of the reading. I really am sick of hearing that 'so and so butchered this stranger or this pregnant wife because he had a bad childhood', but I do see how some peop...more
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Read in October, 2007
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Those who think we need more prisons, not more social services
This is the August selection of the women's book club I attend in Jersey City. It contains compelling, though not surprising, personal memoirs from women Lamb taught to write in a course he offered at a prison in CT. I'm about halfway through. The stories remind me of my work during the late 90's at The Fortune Society and the people I encountered there. They also offer fresh evidence to my belief that people don't become criminal offenders because they are bad and selfish and need to be punishe...more
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Read in April, 2005
Wally Lamb is sensitive enough to women's issues that he taught creative writing at a correctional facility. This book is a compilation of stories, written by the women themselves, about their lives. It was amazing, and heart-breaking. And made me want to scream from my rooftop "Fight the power!" because so often these women were framed and/or protecting their children from being abused and they were jailed for it. But, because it is Wally Lamb, it is true to "Wally Lamb" sty...more
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This book is the result of a workshop facilitated by Wally Lamb at the York Correctional Institution. All of the authors are women and the works are short stories. In this book the extreme sorrows and dehumanizing tales of abuse befalling many of the incarcerated women are revealed to the reader and in that sense it can a bit of a downer. However, an interesting bitter-sweet juxtapostion is presented in this book, because as the reader takes in hardships that have challenged the authors it also ...more
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Read in September, 2008
An anthology of autobiographical short fiction from women incarcerated in York County, CT. The stories really humanize the "criminals", which I appreciate. Their crimes ranged from credit card fraud to homicide in the first degree. The one underlying theme for all of them seemed to be really miserable childhoods. This got old for me. I can only read about so many molestations and beatings before I start to block it out and itch to be done with the book. I didn't end up reading the last...more
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This was an eye-opener. The stories in this book are so sad. The stories are written by women in prison at York Correctional. It seems like the same theme appears over and over. Abuse, sexual abuse, abandonment, etc. These women have had tough lives. It’s no wonder they are in prison. Some of it doesn’t seem fair. But, there are women out there who have had the same rough life and have stayed on the right track. I always have to keep that in mind. The other thing I got from this b...more
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This book was wholly compelling. It is a book of short stories written by participants in Wally Lamb's writing workshop at York Correctional Institution. I was so impressed by the level of the writing and the honesty of the authors. Most of the stories were written in first person, making them even more personal. This book really serves to humanize these women. The teacher says at end of the book that these women have done bad things but they aren't bad people, which I think is such an impo...more
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Read in January, 2004
wally Lamb conceived this book when he began teaching a writing class at a women's prison. The book contains short stories written by each of the inmates with whom Wally works. Each story starts with the picture of a woman, her crime and her sentence, followed by an autobiographical short story. The prisoner's stories are touching and compelling and often provide insight into some of the societal and personal issues that lead women to incarceration. The stories are thoughtful and well-writte...more
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Read in March, 2008
This book was an interesting look at the lives of women in the York Correctional Institution. At times it was uncomfortable to read the stories of these women and learn what lead them to become prisoners. A common theme throughout with these women prisoners was sexual abuse, as well as physical and emotional abuse. This book is also a tribute to these women who have endured so much and have learned to survive emotionally. I am always amazed by how much human beings can compensate and adapt to su...more
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Read in November, 2008
Writings from the members of a writing class at a women's prison. There is a follow-up collection I have not yet read.
On How Life Is
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Read in May, 2008
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Erinrecommends it for: Social workers, jail guards, anyone working with people
This one gets 5 stars, not because the writing is so astounding, but because the real stories are truly touching. This book is an eye-opener. When you read the histories of these women who are incarcerated for a variety of crimes, you begin to understand that there are reasons behind people's "bad" behavior or their inability to manage life's stresses. The truly sad thing is that instead of being a place of rehabilitation and restoration, prison/jail tends to be a place of humiliation ...more
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Read in February, 2008
I read this in my book club, and I thought it was extremely interesting. I was worried that I would find that these were just stories of women trying to place blame on someone or something else...that they were trying to rationalize their actions. That wasn't the case at all. These are very real stories of prison life and the lives that were led before ending up in prison. It makes one realize that people in prison cannot be generalized into any stereotypes.
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""I started writing because of a terrible feeling of powerlessness," the novelist Anita Brookner has said. The National Book Award winner Alice McDermott noted that the most difficult thing about becoming a writer was convincing herself that she had anything to say that people would want to read. "There's nothing to writing," the columnist Red Smith once commented. "All you do is sit down at a typewriter and open a vein.""
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