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  <title><![CDATA[For Men Only: A Straightforward Guide to the Inner Lives of  Women]]></title>
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  <default_description>&lt;b&gt;Finally&#8212;You &lt;/b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Can &lt;/i&gt;&lt;b&gt;Understand Her! &lt;/b&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Women: complicated and impossible to understand? Do you love and want to please the woman in your life, but just can&amp;rsquo;t seem to figure her out? That was before &lt;i&gt;For Men Only&lt;/i&gt;. Now at your fingertips is the tool that will unlock the secret to her mysterious ways. Through hundreds of interviews and the results of a scientific national survey of women, this book demonstrates that women are actually not random and that they really can be systematized and &#8220;mapped.&#8221; In fact, much to men&amp;rsquo;s delight, this book shows that women are actually quite easy to understand and please&#8212;as long as you know what it is they need. This simple map will guide you to loving your wife or girlfriend in the way she needs to be loved. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Finally. &lt;/b&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;You &lt;/b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Can &lt;/i&gt;&lt;b&gt;Understand Her! &lt;/b&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Women: complicated and impossible to understand? Have you given up trying to &#8220;get&#8221; the woman in your life? If so, you are in for a pleasant eye-opener: She &lt;i&gt;can&lt;/i&gt; be understood. Even better&#8212;&lt;i&gt;you&lt;/i&gt; can&lt;i&gt; &lt;/i&gt;make her happy. Which will make you happy.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The bestselling author of &lt;i&gt;For Women Only&lt;/i&gt; teams with her husband to offer men the key to unlocking the mysterious ways of women. Through Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn &amp;rsquo;s national scientific survey and hundreds of interviews, &lt;i&gt;For Men Only&lt;/i&gt; reveals what you can do today to improve your relationship. And believe it or not, as Jeff assures men, &#8220;It&amp;rsquo;s not splitting the atom.&#8221;  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;What makes her tick? What is she really asking (but not actually saying)? Take the guesswork out of trying to please your wife or girlfriend and begin loving her in the way she needs. Easily. &lt;i&gt;For Men Only&lt;/i&gt; is a straightforward map that will lead you straight into her heart.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And for every guy who rarely reads a manual:  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Quick-Start Guide Included! &lt;/b&gt; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8220;When we featured Shaunti&amp;rsquo;s book &lt;i&gt;For Women Only&lt;/i&gt; on &lt;i&gt;FamilyLife Today&lt;/i&gt; ,&lt;i&gt; &lt;/i&gt;the phone rang off the hook! When Shaunti and Jeff come back on our broadcast, I&amp;rsquo;m buying some more phones. This is fresh and relevant&#8212;good stuff for every marriage. Read it!&#8221;  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Dennis Rainey  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;President, FamilyLife  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;b&gt;Story Behind the Book&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8220;As I was writing &lt;i&gt;For Women Only &lt;/i&gt;to help women understand the inner lives of men, over and over I heard that men wished there was a way to understand their wives, but they felt it was probably impossible. I heard from them, &#8216;You are writing this little slim volume about men, but if it was about understanding women, it would have to be the size of an encyclopedia! Women are random and complicated!&amp;rsquo; These men were surprised and encouraged when I assured them that women are neither random nor complicated, and we can be understood. Men just want to love their wives well, and &lt;i&gt;For Men Only &lt;/i&gt;will help them do that.&#8221;  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&#8212;Shaunti Feldhahn</default_description>
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  <read_at>Thu Mar 12 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[It's Ok (ish). Has a few interesting insights, and the statistics seem useful. You have to get over the writing though, it feels like it's written to the lowest common denominator among men. As if their working assumption is men are not capable of reading beyond the 3rd grade level. Meanwhile, the a...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/49115165">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed Jan 28 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is helpful to understanding women.  There are two clear ideas that I earned from this book that I haven't gained elsewhere.<br/><br/>1. Women's preoccupations can't just be laid to rest by arguing out their merit.  They are like programs open on a computer.  You can minimize them but the...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/45244383">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="38885907">
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  <read_at>Thu Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2006</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm a woman, and I read &quot;For Women Only&quot; first. In fact, I read that book several times, started to apply it, told my boyfriend about it, and then asked him if he'd like to read &quot;For Men Only.&quot; He happily agreed. I first read the book (constantly thinking, &quot;You mean, men don...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/38885907">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Jul 07 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Let me start by saying that I think it is funny that the reviews of these two books show that men rate &quot;For Women Only&quot; consistently higher than its companion, and women rate this book higher.<br/><br/>I believe this phenomena can be explained by the fact that the books provide a better ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/62582561">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I know it's for men, but I had to get the other side of the story - totally worth it.  Very interesting to hear about women from a man's perspective.  Not a psychologist's perspective, but just a guy who's wife writes books.  It was eye opening for me, and helped me understand myself better.  It's a...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/802647">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="77695755">
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  <read_at>Sun Nov 22 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Since I went by the rules and read the first book by this author, for the women only and wasn't exactly too keen on the book, I decided the opposite read was necessary to see how accurate/inaccurate I felt it was.<br/><br/>Structured in the same way, this book also contains a large survey of women...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/77695755">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Feb 20 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Since I'm a woman, I already knew what this book said... because it is talking about women.  But it was interesting to read a book written by a man (mainly) to men and see what was said about their thought processes.  I also wanted to see the topics that were discussed and the advice that the author...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/46548275">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Feb 06 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Fri Feb 06 17:01:53 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[02.06.2009: This book is geared for *married* men, or at least men in a committed relationship. I didn't know that when I bought the book, but I decided to read it as if I were in one. <br/><br/>... I'm not really sure how I feel about it right now. On one hand, I'm thinking to myself, these women...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/45600193">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Apr 17 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this just to make sure my husband was getting reliable information when he read it...with very few exceptions, I definitely think he did get good information. I think any young Christian couple who gets married should be given a copy of these For Men Only / For Women Only books in premarital ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/53037402">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="12045009">
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    <body><![CDATA[This is one of the two best books on the opposite sex I have ever read, with the other best book being its companion.]]></body>
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    <review id="60455261">
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this book because a friend of mine was reading it to gain insight into &quot;why girls are crazy,&quot; and I wanted to make sure he was getting good information.  I found this book more insightful than the one written for women.  The only analogy I could think of to explain this preference w...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/60455261">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="71855158">
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  <read_at>Tue Sep 22 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a pretty elementary book to help guys navigate everyday interaction with their wives. It's not going to provide groundbreaking secrets, but it will provide concrete emphasis for a lot of things that you already know and provide a bunch of helpful and sensible rules of thumb that probably had...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/71855158">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="17907756">
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    <name><![CDATA[Erin]]></name>
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    <body><![CDATA[husbands: read this outloud with your wives if at all possible, so you can talk it out.]]></body>
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    <review id="40982883">
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    <body><![CDATA[A great book, based on interviews with hundreds of women and written by a husband/wife team. While what it says will not apply to everyone, I found it very useful in helping to understand why certain behaviors can have unintended consequences. Also gives great suggestions on how to improve communica...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40982883">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="17476996">
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this to my husband over his Ipod so he could listen to it on his way to work. It has the words I could never put with what the deal was in my life..and to what makes me a oh my gosh to female even for me sometimes! but I really liked how these two wrote.and explained to the other WHAT the hel...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/58990080">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Read this book after 10 years of marriage and there were definitely some 'ahas!' in there.  It probably helped that I had been married 10 years to really notice some of the things brought up in the book, but probably anyone in a relationship or getting married would benefit.  Definitely a book you c...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/48252336">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I kinda read Cesar's book just to see how this book complements the women one. It is GOOD! It also deals with the &quot;looking&quot; issues and explains how deeply it affects most women. And how we are part of a society that challenges us to look flawless. I think these books should be read as a co...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/58577183">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Generalized information, similar to For Women Only. Chapter 2 was frustrating only because I'm familiar with the behavior it describes. Thankfully, if noted the observations and suggestions given in the rest of the book should keep that behavior at bay.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Yes!  I did read this book even though I am not a guy.  I was very surprised as to how much about women that men truly didn't know.  This book gives me another insight as to the inner workings of men.  Every male out there should read this book!!!!]]></body>
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