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From the television to the Internet, print media to videos, men are constantly faced with the assault of sensual images. It is impossible to avoid such temptations…but, thankfully, not impossible to rise above them.

Shattering the perception that men are unable to control their thought lives and roving eyes, Every Man’s Battle shares the stories of dozens who have escaped t
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Published April 15th 2003 by WaterBrook (first published July 18th 2000)
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J.G. Keely
Oct 29, 2007 J.G. Keely rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
When I was a kid I used to sleep over at my best friend's house, and since he and his family were practicing Christians, I ended up going to a lot of Sunday services with them. We'd sit and listen to the pastor and sing some songs, and often, we'd go back to his house and talk about what we'd heard.

I remember going with him and his brother to Bible study a few times, where I was always shocked to find that I knew more about the Bible than the kids who were there, who could quote a hundred verses
Oct 15, 2007 Amy rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I read this on the reccomendation of a friend, and have since reccomended it to many of my friends. It opened my eyes to ways that I might have unknowingly hindered my brothers in Christ. I appreciated the honest approach on the subject of sexual sin, of the way that God created men, and the frank advice given to men as well as women. I used the book to create a discussion, which I gave to the youth with whom I was working at the time. One of the questions I asked of the young ladies was: "Do yo ...more
Jul 25, 2014 Charles rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
This book was disappointing. I've heard people speak of this book as if it's "the book" on defeating sexual temptation. Unfortunately, that's not what I found on the pages.
First of all, the authors are far too graphic, and may in fact evoke some of the very thoughts that they are telling you not to have. Big problem.
Second, while the authors provide some practical advice - it is all quite basic and really never touches on the real problem of lust - the heart. Bigger problem.
Lastly, the authors a
Joshua Walden
Apr 19, 2009 Joshua Walden rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
This book was shenanigans. Super conservative, non-denominational shenanigans. Sexual purity is a great concept. However, this book is so hetero-sexist, and full of masogyny. I stopped reading it halfway through because of the offensive content.
May 07, 2010 Beckie rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Beckie by: my boyfriend
I'd actually give this book 2.5 stars but that's not an option.

I don't have anything against the book, it just covered a lot of things I either already knew or mostly, I was outside their target audience.

Now before you say "duh, this is a book for men," I'm referring to the sections for women. While the book is good at shedding light on men's struggles, I seem to fall into a narrow 1% of "understanding and merciful women" who were not exactly represented in this book.

My boyfriend lent it to m
Jun 13, 2010 Devin rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
This book is an excellent overview of the sexual struggles that most (if not all) men face in their lifetimes. The book was very accurate, explicit, and helpful in describing men's sexual wiring and how temptations often overcome men and can be conquered in light of this wiring.

I will say that this book is definitely helpful. Arterburn and Stoeker offer great advice on taking practical steps to fighting what they call "fractional" sexual addiction. Their solution starts with giving men helpful a
Jul 25, 2012 Duane rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I thought this was an eye-opening book and gave me pause about what our culture teaches men (young AND old). I thought it was helpful to hear it articulated by someone else those things which every man seems to deal with on a daily basis.

I especially liked the observation that every interaction with a woman that provided even the smallest bit of gratification was stealing what is rightfully your wife's. That is a great way of looking at this from the male side of things.

I realize that 98% of wo
Frikkie Bruwer
Oct 11, 2015 Frikkie Bruwer rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
First of all, I applaud the authors' courage to discuss a subject that most Christians are extremely shy and reluctant to even mention. It isn't discussed in church, and if your parents don't guide you through it, you can potentially become quite lost and misled by the modern standards for acceptable sexual thoughts and behavior.
I wouldn't say I agree with every word, but the ample references to Bible Verses keeps the authors on track, what else do we have to live by, if not what we read in the
Jan 08, 2009 Dana rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: marriage
I really enjoyed reading this book...not in the sense that it made me feel great, but that it was eye opening and challenging. I think it helped me to be a better wife and understand my husband in a new and honoring way. I would encourage all husbands and wives (well, really everyone...married or single) to pick up a copy of this book. It is raw and insightful and doesn't dance around the issue of sexual temptation.

It also has a great study guide at the back of the book...
Timothy Stone
Feb 02, 2014 Timothy Stone rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
There are certain subjects that many people do not want to discuss due to the discomfort associated with discussing them. One of those subjects is that of sexual purity. No one wants to go anywhere near it. That is taboo, it seems. No one wants to even think about it. The conversation that might get started will invariably end up discussing our personal darkest thoughts and secrets, as well as biological concepts that we would rather not deal with, or even know about, really. On top of all of th ...more
Oct 20, 2008 Mike rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Taken from a discussion about the book.

Behavioral intervention is a good first step but, I agree, it is limited. The bouncing the eyes thing is a good tip in that regard, but eventually it will have to move beyond that kind of intervention. This is the only strength of the book and that isn't saying much.

I agree that the interaction between the husband and wife isn't dealt with well. The whole topic is very skewed toward validating the man's experience. I vaguely remember a concept in the book r
Dec 17, 2012 Matthew rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Most men who struggle with sexual temptations feel that they are alone in their battle. The believe that other men don't struggle with the same issues and if anyone finds out about there will be a lot of shame involved. The authors of this book help to debunk these myths and offer practical methods for overcoming sexual temptations. This book is written from a Christian perspective and assumes that you believe in and will apply the scripture to this problem.

I found the book to be very encouragin
Apr 25, 2012 Mark rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: christian
In the last few years I have had the misfortune to watch several families devastated by the husband engaging in multiple, simultaneous affairs. These affairs were not something that came from no where, but a series of smaller decisions, some that seemed innocent, that led to amazing destruction. Everyman's Struggle is a book that has been written to encourage men to live honorably, to protect their hearts and marriages. There are a number of cautionary tales paired with practical suggestion that ...more
Josh Czinger
Its a short read and is fairly no-nonsense in its approach. The goodreads description is fairly apt. The discussion around Job 31:1 is the best portion of the book. It assumes basic items have been taken care of such as salvation. This book provides a good framework for counseling and a good place to start some difficult conversations. Due to its content, I would be particular in who I recommend this book to.
Jul 15, 2015 Ally rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
the greatest lessons i've learned about purity came from this book; though it's meant for men to read, it's also a gem for women in this never-ending pursuit of holiness. this wonderful book sheds light in this generation of immorality and deviance towards God.
Carlo Zebedee
Oct 14, 2015 Carlo Zebedee rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: game-changer
A great book from the combination of a well-acclaimed author in Christian Marriage, Stephen Arterburn, and a person who learned from the experience, Fred Stoeker that will change your perspective about women, men that will tell you on how to be a real men by facing the battle every man: the battle of lust by including and citing Biblical principles to strengthen our foundations. Guarding our eyes, mind and also our heart are the heart of the message. Included also are the perspective and comment ...more
Sep 18, 2015 Rob rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Right, firstly there is detail in this book about how lust works, that will be offensive and probably a bit unhelpful for some.
Secondly, I am trained to look for the theological foundation, which in this case isn't there. And furthermore many, many people will not relate to the style of writing. Yet I still say 4 stars, why?
Because this subject is so taboo and personal that it requires the straight-talking, no nonsense approach used by the authors.I have read books that give the theological fou
This is a very frank and brutal look at how to fight sexual impurity in the eyes, mind and heart.
The authors talk about "bouncing the eyes" away from arousing images and starving the mind of any images that will feed sexual fantasies.

One disappointment with the book I had was that whilst they talk of starving the mind, their anecdotes sometimes went into too much detail and did not help in starving the mind of sexual thoughts.

Also, although the book is called "Every Man's Battle", single men
Feb 21, 2014 Tim rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Before reading this book I only knew one way to "see" a woman and that was to immediately assess her for potential sexual contact. Now I've learned to see every young woman as my Daughter, peer as my Sister and older woman as my Mother. They are members of my family in Christ to be protected and respected. It has many, many tools every man should have in his belt for prevention, assessment and goal setting. My relationships today are so much more authentic. And when it was time to see a woman as ...more
Jan 14, 2016 Terrance rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: borrowed
This book gets an extra star for hitting beyond its topic, namely a religiously-based approach to addressing sexuality in our culture today. Yes, it's very preachy, but nobody is reading this expecting a secular discussion of sex.
What impressed me was the comments more generally about the institution of marriage as a whole, and particularly what was said about mens' obligations to love their wives. Sure, there's patronizing comments that, taken out of context, will make secular progressive peop
Patrick Chester
Jan 11, 2016 Patrick Chester rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This book gave me the tools I needed to face down the challenges that every man faces. The author does not mince words when describing his struggles and does not compromise on what needs to be said. The workbook included on the back is a great addition for personal meditation or group study. Since I was going through the workbook by myself, I went at a faster pace than the schedule. The only thing I would have to say on the negative side is that the book is much more geared towards married men t ...more
Samuel Thrasher
Overall, this is a good book and I would recommend it to any mature Christian trying to beat the ever present temptation of lust. The sections of the book where it talks about setting up parameters around your mind and making a covenant with your eyes are where this book really shines. That being said, those chunks are, together maybe thirty or forty pages. However, things such as depicting lust of the eyes as almost exclusively male problem, promoting the idea of original sin, teaching that Son ...more
Jan 27, 2015 Nathanbsmith rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book is a very honest look at how to fight sexual impurity in the eyes, mind and heart. Marriages are failing all around me and the common denominator begins with men not being faithful to their wives. Men must be intentional about fighting for and protecting our marriages and we must solely pursue our wives. All of this begins by protecting what is put before our eyes.

But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. (Matthew 5
Jul 05, 2014 Aaron rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
While I feel like the advice in this book is solid in general, I sometimes got the impression that the importance of community in the healing/recovery process was minimized (not saying it was completely excluded, just felt like it wasn't stressed enough). "I can do it." Well, yeah you can. But I disagree that you can run a one or two man show with this kind of battle. You need all the help you can get. You need to be reaching out to other people. Isolation is deadly. So while this book provides ...more
Clay Leonard
The first half of this book was two stars; the second half was four - leading to my three star rating.

The imagery used in the first half was probably more graphic than necessary, even to the point of being counterproductive. Also, there was some doctrinal material with which I disagreed.

The second half was almost entirely practical and quite on-target. For those who are striving to overcome sexual temptations, a simple set of ground rules is necessary. The latter chapters provide a solid examp
Kim Voss
Sep 09, 2007 Kim Voss rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Guys are such sluts.
Aug 01, 2014 Elizabeth rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
As a woman, I read this book for a better understanding of what men go through daily when faced with temptation. What I learned from this book is that, while I thought I had an idea, I had NO CLUE! I didn't know what to expect when I began reading, but the book answered all possible questions; I appreciated the "heart of a woman" section, which shared feedback from various women who expressed many of the feelings I had while reading it. I'm thankful that the authors were willing to address the p ...more
This book is written for men with sexual addictions- not a typical read for me. I picked this up from a recommendation of a friend who is a pastors wife. She read it and thought it was good to know this info as a woman in the church. I know a lot of woman would say- well, if they don't want to see my cleavage/side boob/butt or whatever then they can just look away. The thing is, men struggle to look away and while they may want to sometimes they just can't. Like the car wreck we can't turn our h ...more
Harold Cameron
Sep 17, 2012 Harold Cameron rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Every Man's Battle - Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time

"The challenge every man faces...the fight every man can win!"

From movies and television, to print media and the Internet, men are constantly faced with the assault of sensual images. It is impossible to avoid such temptations... but, thankfully, not impossible to confront them and gain victory over them!

Millions have found Every Man's Battle the single greatest resource for overcoming the struggle and remaining stron
Josh Kraus
I borrowed this book from a friend. Initially I had high hopes that this book would have an explicit guide or step by step instructions on how to curb sexual desires and thoughts, but to my disappointment the book mostly contained anecdotal and impractical advice (in my opinion). The book also had a condemning nature to it, at least that's how I felt while reading it. Also reading some of the actual quotations by some of the men's wives who were interviewed regarding their husband's struggles wi ...more
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Stephen Arterburn is the founder and chairman of New Life Ministries — the nation’s largest faith-based broadcast, counseling and treatment ministry — and is the host of the nationally syndicated “New Life Live!” daily radio program heard on over 180 radio stations nationwide. Steve is also the founder of the Women of Faith conferences attended by over 3,000,000 women.
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